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What if at the end of your life, you were able to look back and have NO regrets? A life in which, despite all the challenges, you felt satisfied and content with how you showed up and who you were. In a world where anxiety, depression, and generational trauma abound, this podcast strives to make navigating these and living with yourself as easy (meaningful and enjoyable) as possible. Join co-hosts Rose Rivera and Mira Rao as we guide you to explore the depths of who you are and how to create a life that’s authentic, unique, and actually worth living. Drawing inspiration from everywhere including ancient wisdom traditions, somatic practices, spiritual teachings, and cutting-edge psychological research, we’re offering you the opportunity to explore and find your own Truth, adopt what works for you, and toss out the rest. Because it’s not about what you “should do” but what you feel most called to do, what you want to do, and learning to live in a way that’s aligned with your deepest values. Turns out crafting a life that allows you to be Just The Way You Are is both the goal and the path that gets you there. (As far as we can tell, that’s the real secret to having the “no regrets” part at the end.) *** Why listen to us at all? Here are some details so you can decide. Mira Rao Creds: - Master of Counselling - Master of Business Administration - Coach & Therapist, Yoga & Applied PolyVagal Instructor, Entrepreneur - Areas of expertise include resilience, trauma recovery, embodiment Rose Rivera Creds: - Master of Business Administration specializing in Global Business - Master of Medicine, Family & Sexuality Studies - Coach, Educator, Entrepreneur, Futurist for over 15 years - Areas of expertise include emerging technologies, business, human dynamics, personal psychology
- 18 - Power of SURRENDER
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the need to control everything around you? What would happen if you just let go...? There is incredible liberation in surrender when done right. Being able to release control of things that aren't within your personal agency is a powerful form of self-empowerment that is almost always overlooked. In this episode we’re linking surrender to radical responsibility, living according to your values, and setting healthy boundaries. You'll start to understand why yielding is a strength, not a weakness, and how it can open up new pathways to success. By nurturing self-trust, you can learn to release the grip of fear under your need for control and embrace life's unpredictability with confidence. Episode at a Glance: 01:23 - The Illusion of Control 02:21 - Shifting the Conversation: Letting Go of Control 03:58 - The Power of Surrender 05:17 - Embodiment and the Cycle of Empowerment 06:57 - Surrender as a Path to Inner Peace 08:16 - Trusting Yourself and the Universe 09:33 - Relational Dynamics and Sovereignty 11:11 - The Metaphor of the Stream: Flow and Surrender 13:03 - Radical Responsibility and Surrender 14:40 - The Duality of Action and Letting Go 16:00 - Rituals of Resilience: Practical Applications 17:02 - Living with Peace and Fulfillment *** Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/ Curious about leaning into surrender as a path of empowerment? Visit Secrets of Sacred Surrender to work with Rose and learn more about this unique journey.
Next Up in Episode 7:
What do you do when you take authentic action and receive pushback from your friends, work, partner? To ensure sustained change, you need a plan of how to deal with your own elevated nervous system. This is where Rituals of Manifestation come in! Next episode we’re walking you step-by-step through how to create a series of “Rituals” that you can rely on to get you through the most challenging criticisms. See you then!
Mon, 11 Nov 2024 - 33min - 17 - The ANATOMY of a Boundary
Are you ready to transform your relationships by mastering the art of boundary-setting?
In this episode, we’re taking you step-by-step through the essential process of establishing and maintaining personal boundaries - a crucial skill for emotional and relational well-being.
We start with learning how to recognize your emotional triggers and understand the messages your emotions are sending you.
Then guide you through the steps of preparing for boundary conversations, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self-compassion. Discover how to communicate your needs with love and vulnerability, and prepare for potential challenges like boundary backlash.
Join us on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment, as you learn to navigate the complexities of maintaining your authentic self in relationships.
Episode at a Glance:
01:50 - Introduction to Boundaries 03:02 - Identifying Boundary Violations 04:14 – Setting and Reinforcing Boundaries 04:49 - Practical Tools for Boundary Setting 06:11 – Understanding Emotions Linked to Boundaries 07:48 – The Role of Anger in Boundary Setting 11:11 – Cultural Perspectives on Emotions 12:28 – Emotional Literacy and Self-Validation 17:17 - The Process of Internal Reflection 18:39 - Taking Action on Boundaries 20:32 – Finding Courage to Set Boundaries 21:36 – Rehearsing Boundary Conversations 22:60 - Leading with Love and Need 29:07 – Communicating Needs Effectively 34:43 – Negotiating Boundaries in Relationships 41:43 - Dealing with Boundary Backlash 45:49 – Self-Regulation and Emotional Management 51:18 - The Cycle of Self-Trust and Authenticity 54:54 - The Importance of Self-Compassion
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Learn more about Rose: Coaching & Free Lessons
Next Up in Episode 6:
What does surrender have to do with living your most empowered life? Turns out – a lot! Next episode we’re exploring the counterintuitive links between self-confidence, trust, and your ability let go of what’s not in your control. See you then!
Mon, 04 Nov 2024 - 39min - 16 - Loving BOUNDARIES
Have you ever thought of boundaries as more than just barriers?
What if boundaries could be collaborative spaces that foster more respect, empathy...even love?
There’s SO much more beauty to boundaries than just saying “no”.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to set boundaries that enhance your personal agency and create meaningful connections with others that are aligned with your values.
We dive into the difference between boundaries and ultimatums, emphasizing the nuanced importance of expressing boundaries without demanding things.
Join us as we talk about the role vulnerability and internal boundaries play in nurturing healthy relationships – hopefully inspiring you to reflect on your own boundaries and equip you with insights that hold the power to transform the way you relate to your friends, co-workers, children, and beloveds.
Episode at a Glance:
01:48 - Introduction to Boundaries 02:37 - The Power of Aligned Boundaries 03:10 - Boundaries as Collaborative Spaces 03:54 - Boundaries in Different Aspects of Life 06:16 - Boundaries and Regulation 06:43 - The Wall Concept of Boundaries 07:15 - Defining Good Boundaries 09:11 - Boundaries in Close Relationships 10:11 - Personal Rules and Sovereignty 11:10 - Ultimatums vs. Boundaries 13:14 - Negotiation and Internal Boundaries 18:17 - Strength in Softness 25:48 - Practical Strategies for Navigating Boundaries 29:09 - Internal Boundaries in Romantic Relationships 32:13 - Anger and Boundary Setting 34:40 - Vulnerability and Boundaries
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
For Private Coaching and Media Inquiries Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Episode 5:
With this shift in perspective, it’s time to walk you through the step-by-step process of boundary setting. In our next episode, The ANATOMY of a Boundary, we’re detailing it from beginning to end: knowing when a boundary is needed, how to approach boundary-setting with vulnerability, setting the boundary with love, and how to handle the consequences of your boundary. It’s a BIG episode with the potential to shift how you relate to every single person in your life – especially you. Get ready!
Mon, 28 Oct 2024 - 56min - 15 - Making CONFIDENT Decisions
What does the game of pool have to do with taking charge of your life and making decisions with confidence?
In this episode, we explore the concept of agency and how it influences personal confidence and decision-making. We discuss the importance of recognizing your power to shape your life and the choices available to you, even when faced with uncertainty.
Confidence is the self-trust that empowers action, and while you can’t control the outcome, you can control how you respond to it.
We also share practical strategies for cultivating self-confidence, such as grounding and breathwork, which help you stay connected to your body and navigate chaotic or uncertain situations.
Touching on emotional regulation, self-awareness, and the difference between influence and control in decision-making, we share personal stories that illustrate how aligning your actions with your values leads to greater integrity and self-acceptance.
Get ready to start making decisions with genuine confidence!
Episode at a Glance:
01:29 - Introduction to Agency and Confidence
01:56 - Defining Self-Confidence
02:45 - The Role of Consequences in Confidence
06:40 - Embodiment Practices for Confidence
08:29 - Handling Emotional Reactions
16:30 - Influence vs. Control
26:48 - Aligning Actions with Values
25:18 - Managing Fear and Emotions
28:44 - Building a Confident Relationship with Feelings
32:58 - Preview of Next Episode on Boundaries
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
For Private Coaching and Media Inquiries Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Episode 4: We often hear about the importance of having “good boundaries” and “saying no” - but how? And is saying “no” the only type of boundary we should be enforcing? In our next episode, we’re shifting the perception of a boundary from something that keeps others out, to something that allows others in with more love and vulnerability than ever before.
Mon, 21 Oct 2024 - 36min - 14 - Finding FREEDOM in Responsibility
How can taking radical responsibility transform your sense of personal freedom?
You might have heard the phrase, "With great freedom comes great responsibility," and today we're unpacking the very real, practical wisdom in it.
We're exploring how taking responsibility can lead to a profoundly meaningful life, even if it feels a bit daunting at first.
We'll chat about the tricky balance between feeling like a victim and reclaiming your personal agency, including insights on how traditional coaching often misses the mark for those of us with trauma backgrounds.
Get ready to hear inspiring stories of individuals who found inner strength and agency in the most challenging circumstances. By the end of this episode, you'll have a better grasp of how to take ownership of your life and decisions, and hopefully, feel a lot more empowered.
So, grab a cup of coffee, get comfy, and let's see what Spiderman’s uncle was talking about all along.
Episode at a Glance:
01:24 - Introduction to Radical Responsibility
02:16 - The Path to Freedom Through Responsibility
03:26 - Moving from Victimhood to Empowerment
06:50 - Childhood Experiences and Adult Agency
10:27 - Understanding Radical Responsibility
14:51 - Realms of Agency and Control
18:26 - Inner Freedom in Extreme Circumstances
26:14 - The Power of Personal Agency
31:42 - Expanding Your Sphere of Control
33:45 - Conclusion and Next Episode Preview
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
For Private Coaching and Media Inquiries Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Episode 3: Now that you're convinced Radical Responsibility is the way to go...how do you muster the courage necessary to take radical action? The answer: Self-confidence. In our next episode we're taking this lofty concept and grounding it into something you can actually use. You'll walk away being able to quickly answer yes or no to - "Am I making a confident decision right now?" - and adjust your actions accordingly. Powerful stuff. See you then!
Mon, 14 Oct 2024 - 35min - 13 - Unleashing Radical SELF-WORTH
What would your life look like if you truly embraced your self-worth?
To kick off Season 2, we're getting practical with the idea of self-worth, building on the journey of self-discovery we started in Season 1.
We explore how understanding the different parts of your identity can help you navigate life’s complexities with a cohesive sense of self, and walk you through ways to nurture your self-worth so you can turn what you know into real, lived experiences.
We’re also tackling the challenges of aligning your actions with your authentic self and why self-compassion is, as always, key along the way.
Episode at a Glance:
00:00: Introduction to Season Two
02:27: Exploring the Cohesive Self
02:59: Activating Self-Discovery in Reality
03:31: Anchoring in Self-Worth
04:32: Understanding Self-Worth
05:06: Integration and Personal Worth
06:52: Challenges in the Integration Phase
08:52: The Journey from Knowing to Being
11:06: Concepts of Worth, Worthy, and Worthiness
15:00: Using Comparison Positively
19:01: Significance and Strengths
23:19: The Concept of Worthiness
27:19: Practical Tips for Anchoring Self-Worth
32:26: Cultural Context and Self-Worth
34:55: Recap of Self-Worth Concepts
37:16: Preview of Episode Two: Radical Responsibility
39:08: Closing Remarks
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
For Private Coaching and Media Inquiries Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Episode 2: What does it mean to take radical responsibility for your life? Why is responsibility always paradoxically connected to personal freedom? Hmm. This is going to be an incredible episode you don’t want to miss!
Mon, 07 Oct 2024 - 39min - 12 - Finding PEACE in the Pieces
The Journey to Self-Compassion and Integration
What if I told you inner peace is found when you learn to love ALL the different pieces of you?
In this episode we're unraveling the mystery of feeling peaceful through integrating your conflicted parts while embracing your day-to-day human experience. We're coming full circle on the importance of self-compassion, with lots of practical ways to foster self-love - from somatic approaches to meditative practices.
And if there's a little part of you that thinks all this self-love is a little, well, selfish...we're giving you our thoughts on that too! (Spoiler Alert: It's probably the least selfish thing you can do, but you have to listen to find out why.) 😉
Episode at a Glance:
02:10 Season Recap and Self-Compassion Deep Dive 05:30 Exploring the Higher Self and True Self-Compassion 06:58 The Journey of Healing and Warmth 22:42 Practical Steps to Cultivate Self-Love 37:15 The Bigger Picture: Universal Love and Consciousness 44:32 Wrapping Up Season One
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/ Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Season 2: Now that you have a better understanding of who you are – all the different pieces of you – it's time to embody that understanding by creating more authenticity across all segments of your life. But how do you bring ALL of yourself into the world with enough confidence to withstand the inevitable criticism and disapproval of others? How do you stay aligned to your core values when making decisions that trigger your deepest fears? In Season 2 we'll explore what inner strength really means and give you techniques that'll make navigating external pressures a whole lot easier. Transforming your reality starts here!
Mon, 03 Jun 2024 - 49min - 11 - UNFIX Yourself for Success
The Art of Adaptability: Embracing and Transforming Your Multifaceted Self
In this episode, we explore your wondrous ability to adapt and create a dynamic self capable of shape-shifting into anyone you desire to be.
Discover why having a flexible view of yourself is key to long-term happiness and why the most successful people don't have a “fixed” personality. It all comes down to deeply understanding different parts of yourself, overcoming internal and external resistance to change, and integrating all parts of you with loving attention.
You're about to learn ways to cultivate this kind of adaptability without abandoning the core of what makes you - you!
Episode at a Glance:
02:11 Exploring the Concept of Self 03:19 The Multiplicity of Self 05:56 Understanding Internal Conflicts 09:58 Practical Steps to Unravel Stuckness 14:34 Building Adaptability and Growth Mindset 21:08 Guiding Clients Through Change 24:56 The Role of Identity in Transformation 40:51 Preparing for the Season Finale
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/ Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Episode 12: Get ready for our Season One finale as we wrap up our exploration of the age-old of question - “Who am I?!”- and what it takes to create inner peace among all the different parts of your “self”.
Mon, 27 May 2024 - 42min - 10 - Are personal BLOCKS pop-psych BS?
Rethinking Blocks and Self-Sabotage: Understanding Your Protective Mechanisms
If you're into any kind of personal development, you've likely been told you have some kind of subconscious, mysterious“block” that's causing you to self-sabotage - stopping you from being the rich, sexy, successful person you want to be.
But what exactly IS a BLOCK? And if it's subconscious, how can you ever know what it is or how to get rid of it?
Ultimately, the whole concept of a block feels dismal at best. So what to do?
In this episode, we're giving an alternative perspective on personal blocks, one that's much more self-compassionate and empowering. Not only will you have a way of accessing what's been holding you back, but loving it for keeping you safe and alive all these years.
Once you understand these beautiful parts of yourself, “getting rid of your blocks” becomes a whole lot easier and a lot more fun.
Episode at a Glance:
01:53 Understanding Blocks and Misconceptions
03:25 Diving Deeper: What is a Block?
05:25 The Role of Protection Mechanisms
06:49 Self-Sabotage and Compassion
09:00 Visualizing and Addressing Blocks
26:55 Practical Approaches: Internal Family Systems and Schema
34:57 Final Thoughts and Next Episode Preview
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Episode 11: How many “selves” do you really have? Is it just ONE or is the idea of a singular, fixed self the greatest illusion of your mind? Get ready to discover why the happiest, most successful people have a flexible, adaptable sense of “self” and how you can begin playing with your own identity in ways that can truly set you free.
Mon, 20 May 2024 - 38min - 9 - Parts of YOU
Parts of YOU
Ever argue with yourself? Ever feel conflicted about how to move ahead - one part of you saying YES and another part of you saying NO? If your "self" is just one thing...who exactly are you fighting with? In this episode, we're exploring why a singular sense of self is misleading and how to tap into the wisdom each different part of you holds. We're also talking in depth about the role each "part" of you plays in your overall development, why having many inner perspectives actually makes you a better decision-maker, and how to get all those "parts" into agreement so you can move through your life in a truly aligned way. No more "one foot on the gas, one foot on the brake" feeling! When all parts of you are integrated and cohesive, life becomes a lot richer and much easier to navigate!Episode at a Glance:
02:03 Discovering Your Multifaceted Self
03:31 A Personal Story of Inner Voices
06:08 Embracing the Complexity Within
08:27 The Power of Internal Dialogue
11:13 Healing and Understanding Through Parts Work
34:27 Navigating Emotional Literacy and Self-Talk
39:36 Practical Exercises for Self-Exploration
40:17 Preview: Unraveling Inner Blocks
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@rose-rivera.com
Next Up in Episode 10: Have you heard that the reason you're not making the money you deserve or have the love of your life is because you have a "BLOCK"? Some mysterious thing you have inside you (but don't know you have) that's covertly ruining your life? And have you also heard that in order to have any success you have to "clear your blocks" - but that feels impossible to do since they are by default "hidden"? I don't know about you, but that feels very defeating and questionable to me. So, in our next episode, we're debunking these pop-psych "blocks" and explaining what's really going on under your mental hood, giving you practical ways to retrain your nervous system to go after all the things you want without reservations.
Mon, 13 May 2024 - 41min - 8 - Turning PAIN into POWER
Turning PAIN into POWER
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger....right?!
Or does it? 🤔
In this episode, we’re clarifying when, how, and why past trauma might lead to a stronger, more empowered version of you – and when it won't.
We’ve all heard incredible stories of individuals using their past pain to become great leaders and healers, but that seems to be the exception rather than the rule. So what’s the difference between people who wall themselves off to life and those who embrace it with even more passion after going through devastating experiences?
Over the next thirty minutes, we’re teasing out those differences – exploring the intricate connections between trauma, empowerment, self-compassion, empathy and what cultivating true resilience means for you.
Ready to reframe your past, curate your personal narrative, and move toward genuine freedom? Great. Let’s GO!!
Episode at a Glance:
02:08 Exploring the Truth Behind 'What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger'
04:58 Diving Deeper into Trauma and Healing
09:13 The Healing Journey: From Pain to Empowerment
13:32 Personal Stories of Trauma and the Path to Healing
20:50 Navigating Identity and Agency in the Healing Process
30:49 The Importance of Moving Beyond Chapter One in Your Healing Story
37:01 Looking Ahead: Understanding the Internal Network of Self
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@rose-rivera.com
Next Up in Episode 9: Get ready to be confused. Maybe. Next week we’re dismantling the idea of a singular “self” and opening you up to the idea that inside your mind there are actually multiple versions of “you” - each with their own – often conflicting – wisdom and points of view. That’s all I’ll say for now. I promise it’s going to be an eye-opener!
Mon, 06 May 2024 - 41min - 7 - What's your MORAL CODE?
Miniseries Part 4: Who am I? Your MORAL CODE
Do you love Superheroes? Of course, who doesn’t?!
But what do Superheroes have to do with YOUR Moral Code?
In this episode, we deep-dive into the significance of living by your authentic moral compass while unraveling our fascination with characters that exemplify clear morality...like superheroes...and how this mirrors our quest for ethical clarity and purpose.
Discover how your personal values can be used to shape your Moral Code, how to manage conflicts between what you were taught was right/wrong and what you believe now, and the psychological nuances of moral decision-making.
We're inviting you to reflect on your values, challenge societal narratives, and unearth your authentic self while drawing inspiration from admired superheroes and personal role models along the way.
Think of it this way, what do you believe in so strongly that you’d die for it as our beloved Superheroes would do? Hm. Let’s find out!
Episode at a Glance:
01:58 The Fascination with Superheroes and Moral Codes
03:05 Exploring Personal Moral Codes and External Influences
04:37 Deep Dive into Morality
04:59 Linking Personal Values to Moral Codes
07:51 The Practical Side of Morality and Decision Making
11:37 Understanding the Body's Role in Moral Decision Making
16:13 Identifying and Overcoming Internal Moral Conflicts
32:42 Finding Your Superhero Within: A Reflective Exercise
39:19 Recap and Looking Forward: Embracing Your Inner Superhero
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
Next Up in Episode 8: How do you turn your most negative experiences into empowering ones? What does it take to make the shift from pain to wisdom – and how do you do it in a way that is self-compassionate and self-loving? In our next episode, we’re giving you a roadmap to gently navigate toward greater levels of agency until your ultimate sovereignty is restored.
Mon, 29 Apr 2024 - 42min - 6 - What are your Secret STRENGTHS?
Miniseries Part 3: Who am I? Discovering your STRENGTHS.
Do you know what you're really good at? What makes you stand out from those around you? Why people come to YOU for help? In this episode, we'll show you how to recognize and embrace your strengths and cultivate the personal fulfillment that comes from understanding how you being authentically YOU positively impacts us all. Granted, finding your strengths can be tricky, so we're highlighting various methods you can try right away - from self-inquiry and past experiences to feedback you've received from those who know you best. And since strengths without passion is a pathway to apathy, we're giving you some things to look out for such as the potential misguidance by societal and internal critics. We hope this episode inspires you to think of your strengths as the easiest, most powerful way to positively contribute to the world, and why aligning what you're naturally good at with what you love leads directly to a life that feels deeply authentic and purposeful.Episode at a Glance:
01:56 Discovering Your Strengths: A Journey to Self-Understanding
02:33 The Power of Knowing Your Strengths
02:54 Personal Stories of Strength Discovery
03:24 Exploring Tools and Tests for Uncovering Strengths
06:22 The Impact of Academic Performance on Self-Perception
07:14 The Innate Nature of Our Strengths
12:51 Practical Steps to Identifying Your Strengths
18:23 The Role of Passion and Enjoyment in Recognizing Strengths
26:30 Navigating the Inner Critic During Self-Discovery
37:17 Embracing Your Unique Strengths and Identity
40:09 Looking Ahead: Moral Codes and Identity
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@rose-rivera.com
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Next Up in Episode 7: Continuing our "Who am I?" Miniseries, we're talking about the big one - personal MORAL CODES. Your morality is your right vs wrong compass, often the foundation of how you make decisions, who you get along with, and how you judge everything and everyone. Friends and foes. Black and white. We're getting into it all and how you can become crystal clear on what you stand for. See you then!
Mon, 22 Apr 2024 - 40min - 5 - What brings you PLEASURE?
Miniseries Part 2: Who am I? Discovering your PLEASURE.
What brings you deep, fulfilling, ecstatic pleasure?
(No, not the bedroom stuff...the LIFE stuff! The moment-to-moment it-feels-soooo-good-to-be-alive stuff.)
Buckle up, cuz we’re exploring the complex relationship between different types of pleasure, how our nervous system dictates what we believe is a really good time, and how all of it relates to our joy – or angst – of being alive.
Warning: what you *think* you enjoy might be a trick of your hyped-up nervous system and not what you *really* enjoy at all.
Understanding your genuine likes and dislikes is crucial for living a life in alignment with your true self. Mira’s sharing with you her personal journey from dissatisfaction in a conventional IT job to finding joy in creativity and connection.
We’re also talking about the importance of self-inquiry into what brings you genuine happiness (and how to do it), the negative impact of living in a hyper-stimulated or numb state, and how relearning to recognize subtle, healthy pleasures can guide better life choices.
You'll walk away from this episode with a framework for identifying your authentic pleasures, which can lead to more fulfilling and aligned living in the big picture, or just a better idea of what to do this Saturday night.
Episode at a Glance:
02:07 Unlocking the Secrets to True Pleasure and Self-Discovery
03:26 Mira's Journey: From IT to Adventure and Freedom
12:57 Exploring the Depths of Pleasure: From Shutdown to Subtle Joy
14:39 Navigating the Complex Landscape of Pleasure and the Nervous System
29:14 The Path to Authentic Enjoyment: Identifying Healthy Pleasures
40:08 Wrapping Up: The Journey to Authentic Self and Next Steps
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@rose-rivera.com
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Next Up in Episode 6: Continuing our "Who am I?" Miniseries, we'll be helping you discover what you're actually GREAT at - not the things you've learned or what "school" said you were good at, but the talents you were born with that can transform your life and the world. It's going to be a very uplifting, engaging one - so stay tuned!
Mon, 15 Apr 2024 - 41min - 4 - What do you VALUE?
Miniseries Part 1: Who am I? Discovering your VALUES.
You've likely heard that "living by your values" is an important part of crafting a fulfilling life, but how do you know what your values really are?
In this episode, we're exploring the concept of personal values and their significance in our lives, and how to use your values as guiding principles for decision-making and creating meaning.
Through personal stories and introspection, we encourage you to understand your unique values and make choices that align with your authentic self.
There's real power in prioritizing and embodying things that are important to the core of who you are, and finding out what those "things" are is easier than you think. Living by them is the tricky part! (Don't worry, we have some tips for that part too.)
PS: Get started by asking yourself what in your life you "have" to do or "should" do, then get ready to take your personal agency back!
Episode at a Glance:
01:38 Welcome to the World of Values: Unraveling Personal Importance
03:31 Defining Values: The Core of Who We Are
04:32 Personal Stories of Values in Action
06:13 The Journey of Discovering and Honoring Values
08:00 The Impact of Values on Daily Decisions and Actions
14:48 Embodying Values: From Theory to Practice
29:03 Navigating Conflicts and Balancing Values
35:28 The Path to Mastery: Embodying Values in Relationships
39:36 Wrapping Up: The Power of Inquiry and Anticipation for the Next Episode
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com
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Next Up in Episode 5: Continuing our "Who am I?" Miniseries, we'll be helping you discover your PLEASURE! As adults, we get so bogged down in our responsibilities that we tend to forget all about the things we enjoy doing that make us feel really, really good. When was the last time you did something you truly loved? How much time every week do you spend doing things that bring you joy? Would you even know where to start? Let’s re-discover why you want to be alive in the first place!
Mon, 08 Apr 2024 - 43min - 3 - Me, Myself, & I
Exploring the Layers of Self: Journey to the Authentic I
Did you know there are three distinct parts of your personality, each with its own important role designed to keep you connected, fulfilled, and safe?
In this episode, we're diving into the concepts of 'Me, Myself, and I,' highlighting the journey toward understanding and reconciling these aspects of self. You'll learn about "Me" - the false self created for self-protection designed to "fit in" and keep you safe, and the "Myself' - associated with the shadow part, encompassing false beliefs, traumas, and ingrained experiences that hinder genuine self-expression.
And buried within both the "Me" and the "Myself" is the 'I' - representing the authentic self striving to emerge through the layers of constructed identity and trauma.
But how do you begin undoing decades of shame and fear that keep your authentic "I" from showing up in your life?
We're sharing practical advice so you can begin exploring your unique blocks from a holistic perspective that includes working with both your cognitive understanding and bodily sensations. You'll have tools to form a deeper connection to all aspects of yourself, thereby improving your relationships and overall sense of alignment in life.
Episode at a Glance:
02:06 Welcome to Episode 3: Exploring Me, Myself, and I
02:56 Diving Deep into Our Shadows
03:18 Understanding the Layers of Self: Me, Myself, and I
04:04 The Journey Towards the Authentic Self
5:30 Shadow Work: Unveiling the Hidden
21:08 The Role of Shame in Our Lives
23:51 Transforming Shame and Embracing Authenticity
34:03 Looking Ahead: Unpacking the Authentic I
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@rose-rivera.com
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Next Up in Episode 4: We begin a four-episode miniseries called "Who am I then?" where we walk you step-by-step on a path of self-discovery. By the end, you'll have a strong foundation of self encompassing your values, what you're naturally great at, what you deeply enjoy doing, and your personal moral code. Can't wait to see what you discover!
Mon, 01 Apr 2024 - 37min - 2 - You are NOT You
Ever felt like you're living as a version of yourself that doesn't quite fit? Today we're unpacking the concept of the false self and why self-compassion is key to uncovering our true identity.
As children, we all develop this false self as a kind of protective shield when we don't feel safe being our authentic selves in order to "fit in" with our family, culture, etc. This is a brilliant adaptation strategy for survival, but as adults the more we continue to act as our false selves, the more unhappy and unfulfilled we become.
We're getting into the nitty-gritty of how our nervous system plays a role in shaping our behavior patterns and how practicing self-compassion can really shake things up in the best way possible. It's not just about thinking differently, it's about feeling differently too, paving the way for lasting transformation.
We're also sharing practical physical and mental techniques to help you cultivate that self-compassion and begin moving toward a more authentic way of expressing yourself in the world.
It's time to bid farewell to the safe-version of you and move towards a life that's aligned with who you truly are.
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@rose-rivera.com
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Next Up in Episode 3: Me, Myself, & I - Now that you understand the difference between your false and authentic self, we're taking it to the next level, talking about the THREE distinct aspects of you that often feel in conflict with each other - making it difficult to distinguish the "real" you. Hint: They're all the "real" you and they all need your love.
Mon, 25 Mar 2024 - 39min - 1 - Who am I & WTF am I doing here?
🎙️ Who are you at your most authentic core? What makes your life worth living?
In this first episode, we're sharing our personal stories of disillusionment, how those dark moments led us to do the work we do now, and why gaining an appreciation of emotional pain as a source of innate wisdom changed everything.
There's also a surprising link between a regulated nervous system and personal fulfillment that'll shift your perspective on what it means to create a loving relationship with yourself and how that relationship can help you navigate life's challenges from a place of embodied resilience.
Filled with practical tools for self-compassion and ways to appreciate your pain as an intelligent response to past experiences, we've packed a lot into these 30 minutes! 🎧
Episode at a Glance:
- The importance of self-discovery and finding your purpose. The significance of regulating the nervous system and developing resilience to navigate through the challenges of self-discovery. Embracing your pain and shadows as intelligent responses to past experiences, rather than viewing them as flaws or disorders. The need to explore your strengths and passions as a starting point for discovering your purpose. The emphasis on self-compassion and practical tools for navigating the journey of self-discovery.
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Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/
Contact Rose directly: rose@rose-rivera.com
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Next Up in Episode 2: You Are Not "You" - Did you know you have a "false self" that's usually making decisions for you? In Episode 2 we're exploring the negative impacts your culture, parents, and upbringing might be having on who you "have to be" today - and how to set your authentic self free!
Mon, 18 Mar 2024 - 30min
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