Sex Upgraded

If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️‍🔥 This interview is part 1 of a 2-part series to teach you a new model of sexual polarity, that you can start using today to build sexual charge in your relationship. Part 2 will come out in a couple of weeks. 🔴 🎥 You can watch the video version of this episode here on Youtube.EPISODE CHAPTER LIST:00:00 Intro & Welcome02:46 Justin's Backstory (in the Pick U...

Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc...🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS****(Add 2 minutes to each of these times because of the added intro clip describing my upcoming workshop...

This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode. ⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be sc...

Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives.🔴🎥 You can watch the Youtube version here.And if you resonate with this episode...Check out our upcoming hybrid online & in-person training & retreat ...

These could use some refinement:00:00 - Intro01:29 - Opening02:08 - Ricky’s Background02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness 09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Generations27:00 - Social Media and It’s Negative Effect on Relationships31:12 - The Illusion of Social ...

My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid com...

Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid dynamics of dominance and submission, the role of 'brat energy' in BDSM, and how these practices ...

Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll show you how.🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.MICROCOSMIC ORBIT VIDEOS:💫 Microcosmic Orbit Diagram ...

Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels.Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental clarity, and conquering life's challenges. Check out my personal testosterone journey in this vid...

This episode is a look into my personal life - because I want to be transparent with you around my professional & life development as a teacher. You'll hear about the 3 big trainings I'm personally enrolled in for 2024 (and why)... and you'll also hear my 3 main personal growth areas I want to work on too.🔴🎥 You can watch this episode on Youtube here. The best way to ask me anything about this episode would be to comment on the youtube version I linked to above. And if you have BDSM recom...

Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men?In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'll hear how we both got to be where we are today.You'll also learn about his new sex coach certification training (wit...

If you're a Christian, or if you've ever been impacted by Christianity in any way, this episode should be next on your list. Dr. Kevin Jenson believes that it's possible for Christians to have amazing, sacred sex - and that these experiences are also supported by the bible. Kind of mind blowing stuff...🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.Some topics we cover:Is sex sinful?Is masturbation sinful?What about sex before marriage? Is that a sin?Can sex be sacred as a Christian?What do...

This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves.There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to.EPISODE TIMES &amp...

What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives? In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions. Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societa...

Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life.Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejacu...

Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn.Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it!🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro03:31 Wo...

If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this epis...

Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.IN THIS EPISODE00:00 Welcome02:07 Yuval Introduced04:04 Traditional Sexual Polarity Questioned07:46 Embracing Authenticity09:11 Living a Life of Authenticity11:30 Societal Myths & Masculinity / Femininity19:53 The Hu...

"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why?What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships.🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on...

What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people?These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human.We can't become our best selves just by learning techniques... we also have to look at the systems and contexts we're part of, and how we relate to and interact with those ...

Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective). In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time if you ever want to have a monogamous relationship. 🔸 You can also watch this episode on youtube.One of my favori...

Few men have realized the true power of masturbation, and this episode will help you become one of those men. If you DO want to learn the best masturbation techniques possible, and how to masturbate in a way that will blow your mind, improve your sex life AND improve your entire life, this episode is for you. 🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.When most guys masturbate, they just sit still, without breathing deeply, with their hand moving up and down, usually staring at porn on a sc...

Words are powerful, and the right words during SEX can massively improve the experience. In this episode you'll hear how YOU can use the power of words during sex to exponentially increase pleasure and connection for all.We also talk about porn, and whether or not friends should watch each other have sex (instead of watching porn). IF YOU HAVE EVER WATCHED PORN, you should listen to this episode!*The youtube version of this episode will be released this week.---------------🔱 CONNECT WITH RAMB...

After 3.5 years of NoFap, without porn, masturbation, sex or ejaculation, a man reached out to me last week after he realized NoFap was hurting him. He had been experiencing what is called the NoFap Flatline for years... 🔶 You can also watch this episode on Youtube here.Nofap flatline is a term used to describe when a man is feeling low, dull, lackluster, lethargic, bored and unmotivated - INSTEAD of experiencing all of the benefits that are supposed to happen while practicing NoFap. In this ...

Most men limit their sex lives without knowing it... I've done this too... But the good news is that it IS possible to change, and if you change the 5 things mentioned in today's episode, your sex life will improve in massive ways. 🔱 SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkj...

Andre recently taught a BDSM 101 class in Asheville (where I live), and I wanted to attend but couldn't because I was out of town. Some of my friends went though, and their feedback was great, so bringing Andre on the podcast seemed like the next best thing.🔸 You can watch this episode on Youtube too.IN THIS EPISODE:An introduction to BDSM (Bondage, Dominance & Discipline, Submission & Sadism, and Masochism) How to practice BDSM in a safe and highly pleasurable wayHow to create a...

In this episode you'll hear Juno's personal story of going from monogamy into polyamory. We talk about the very real struggles of doing this (jealousy and lack of societal support), AND the benefits of this kind of relationship structure too.This episode is unique because Juno isn't a sex or relationship coach. She's not trying to "sell" you a concept or lifestyle. She just wants to share her authentic experience so others can benefit. THANK YOU Juno! You'll even hear some personal stor...

Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma.You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help heal trauma too. We even talk about circumcision trauma. You can find the topics & times below:🔸 You can also wa...

This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you...🔸 Watch this episode on Youtube here.🔸 Watch the FIRST Sex Party episode here.🎙️ View All Podcast Episodes Here👇 (Free guides & resources below)THOUGHTS ON MDMA:Just to be clear - I'm not saying that everyone should go out and take MDMA to have a therapeutic experience. There are lots of ris...

This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for.🔺 Watch the episode on Youtube here.People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a big lesson or takeaway from this episode other than pure fascination and entertainment... which is definitely a worthy r...

This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't...I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic and sexual relationships (and even my business, friendship and family relationships too).Almost all of my close fr...

I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up.Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can find links to his work below.And on the note of pivoting the conversation, if you're part of the organi...

I just got back from an awesome workshop that changed my perspective on how to practice semen retention as a lifestyle. And in this video I'll first share some important key points about semen retention, and then you'll hear my own personal transformation story from the workshop.*My personal story begins at 13:12 in this episode.The workshop I went to was called Embodied Transformation, and it was put on by the Strozzi Institute - out in Petaluma, California, USA. The workshop itself was not ...

Today we're going to hear how semen retention helped Jeremy create a multi-million dollar business, and how this practice helps him get closer to the magic of life too.We explore:Semen retention as an integrative lifestyleThe magic and beauty of intentional ejaculationsCreating other forms of life besides human babiesHow sexual choices impact business successThe practice of building sexual energy, transmuting it and using it as fuel to power our creative projectsHow to tune into the magic of ...

This episode is for ANYONE who wants a successful relationship (monogamous or polyamorous). I've personally hired Kenya as a coach back when I was experiencing growth pains in a non-monogamous relationship. She's an expert in helping with that, AND she also helps anyone in any relationship style too...Kenya has multiple husbands, and her husbands have multiple partners too. They live together, and they're all staring in a new TV show called "Seeking Brother Husband" that just premiered last n...

If you've ever looked into Semen Retention, you've probably come across videos from both Johnathan and I. We both teach semen retention as a lifestyle, we both teach sexual mastery for men, and now we both even live in the same city! (Asheville, NC, USA).So when we decided to make this episode, we wanted to make something unique for you. Not just another "how-to" guide... But something fresh. Something personal.And I think you'll really enjoy it.We explore:Non-ejaculatory orgasmsProstate orga...

One of the most important and underrated aspects of sexual mastery is COMMUNICATION. This is something you should focus on IF you want a thriving sex life and relationship.So in today's episode we're going to explore some very practical and powerful communication skills you can start using TODAY, to create the intimate reality you want.We're joined by David Chambers, who's an intimacy, communication and relationship coach for men. Multiple people requested that I interview him for this podcas...

Do you believe it's possible to keep sexual charge alive in long term relationships? Do you believe that sex gets better with age? Turns out both things are possible, and in this episode with Laurie Handlers, you'll learn some great ways to do this.Laurie is an international sex educator, retreat leader, and overall badass woman who helps couples create and sustain thriving romantic & sexual relationships over the long term. She's in her 70s, and she says her sex life keeps getting b...

ANNOUNCEMENT: The name of this podcast will change next week. It started off as "Eros Rising," and I do like that name because it's representative of my intentions for this podcast... But the problem is most people have no idea what "Eros Rising" actually means. From a marketing perspective, that's no good.The new name will be simple and clear, so whenever anyone sees it in the podcast directory, they'll know exactly what the podcast is about. For the name change I decided to upgrade my wardr...

Today we're going to talk about sex and money! Specifically, how semen retention helped me make more money in my previous business (before I started teaching about sex and retention).In this episode you'll hear how I went from:struggling to start a businessfinancial scarcityporn addictionpremature ejaculationerectile dysfunctionand sexual anxiety...To creating success in my business, and experiencing financial abundance for the first time in my life. Sexual energy transmutation and semen rete...

My girlfriend and I have successfully prevented pregnancy using the Fertility Awareness Method and Semen Retention for almost three years now. We're both fertile (just confirmed with my own sperm analysis test), and I do occasionally ejaculate inside her. 🔱 IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:Why women are NOT fertile all the time (unlike men)How Naema and I practice natural birth control in our relationshipHow the Fertility Awareness Method can be 99.4% effective at preventing pregnancy (that...

This is a followup conversation to episode 16, where Banks and I got real about his struggle with premature ejaculation - BEFORE he took my Orgasmic Mastery Course.Today you'll hear what his life is like now, after taking my course and after being in sex therapy too. If you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation, this episode should give you some hope and inspiration.It may feel hopeless for you right now, but I promise you it isn't. I used to feel that way too, and so have ma...

About 5 years ago, I went to an anal sex party in Asheville. It was a wild experience that broke my brain, left me speechless and opened my eyes to things that I had never seen before.I think you'll like this story. :D After listening, check out my new anal sex course that'll give you everything you need to master the art of anal sex (both giving and receiving), including:anal anatomypain-free penetration techniquesanal energeticsprostate pleasureanal orgasmsrituals to open the rootand more.....

Millions of women want to receive anal sex from a man, but most men make substantial mistakes with anal that result in pain, disconnection and a complete lack of pleasure. There's good news though. With the help of this episode, you can easily learn how to avoid these mistakes so you can have amazing, orgasmic, pain-free and deeply pleasurable anal sex with your lover.Check out my new anal sex course called Unlocking the Root - IF you want to master the art of anal. It'll give you everything ...

Millions of men struggle with premature ejaculation, but we RARELY talk about the reality of the struggle, and that's a problem. The impact on our lives and relationships can be massive and debilitating...For example, men who regularly struggle with premature ejaculation might also experience:Low self-worthLow self-confidenceHigh sexual shameHigh sexual anxietyIsolationHopelessnessDepressionPorn addictionOther addictions as coping mechanisms...IN THIS EPISODE...I'm joined by my friend Banks, ...

It takes 66 days to form a habit... and you'll need strong self-discipline and willpower to do it. The problem is most of us are killing our ability to have strong willpower. How? Willpower is a FINITE resource, and if we don't take good care of our physical, emotional and spiritual health, our willpower reserves disappear.Crappy lifestyle = low willpower.Low willpower = bad habits.Bad habits = low success.Low success in life = you can imagine.*Your life right now is the result of the t...

What is semen retention and is it healthy? In today’s episode I’m joined by Jah Sun, founder of the 30-day Tantra Challenge, and we have a really down to earth conversation about semen retention, sex, and men’s sexual health in general.We talk about the benefits of semen retention, the dangers of semen retention, the power of intentional ejaculation, non-ejaculatory orgasms and prostate pleasure too. For a quick read about semen retention, check out my benefits of not ejaculating for 7 days a...

How do pornstars last so long? Just how fake is porn? What happens behind the scenes? Join male pornstar Erik Everhard and I in a fascinating discussion about all things porn vs reality.Erik Everhard is a male porn star turned men’s coach, who has over 20 years of professional experience in the porn industry. He estimates that he has had sex with over 5000 women, which is absolutely mind-blowing to me. He brings a super unique perspective to sex and life that we can all learn something ...

If you’re curious about Conscious Kink & BDSM, and you want a simple set of tools to help you explore this with your partner, this episode is for you. Kimi Inch is a somatic therapist, professional Kink & BDSM expert, and professional dominatrix, who loves helping people explore and heal their sexuality. I first met Kimi at a Tantra festival last year where she taught a workshop on Conscious Kink. I went, and had my mind blown by some of the exercises we did. Thanks for that Kimi. :)I...

Mushrooms and plants can be our allies to help us thrive in a society that doesn’t support optimal health. The philosophy and magic of Daoist tonic herbalism is here to help - with herbs for better sex, and herbs for a better life in general. This conversation is more of a casual hang out and discussion of life and sex, and I want to give you that heads up in case you’re coming here in search of a clearly outlined educational lecture on the topic of herbs for better sex. It’s not that… e...

If you want to understand male pelvic floor health, you’ll get a LOT out of this interview. It’s deeply informative and thought provoking, and I learned a lot during the interview too. Dr. Susie Gronski is a pelvic floor physical therapist who specializes in helping men overcome pelvic pain and other pelvic problems like erectile dysfunction, pelvic tightness, prostate inflammation, premature ejaculation and more. (Episode times & topics below).So if you’ve ever wondered if you can break ...

This episode is a truly wild personal story that’s still hard to believe it actually happened. I chose sexual abundance over scarcity/anger, and it changed the entire outcome of my night. This story really is one of the wildest dating experiences I’ve had. One night in Asheville, I had to decide how I would respond to a stimulus that was potentially very challenging/triggering. Part of my system wanted to get angry, but I took a breath, paused, centered myself, and chose a different opti...

This is the story of how I had my first amazing threesome. (I had many bad ones before this). In this episode you’ll learn how to have a threesome, how to avoid bad threesomes, how to talk about threesomes, AND you’ll get an awesome technique to actually begin a threesome too.YOU CAN HAVE AN AMAZING THREESOME TOO!You might think that because I’m a sex coach, I’ve had the most amazing sex life for many years. A sex life full of all kinds of threesomes, while getting all of my fantasies met. No...

In this episode we’ll explore how to start, structure and maintain a successful men’s group (even if you’ve never been in one before). I’ve personally been in men’s groups for over 10 years, and they’ve improved literally every area of my life.In addition to learning how to start a group of your own, you'll also hear personal stories from my experiences in men's groups, and you'll hear from a good friend of mine named Nathan who’s actually in my personal men’s group too. Nathan just started a...

Have you ever thought someone was hot, and then realized there was zero chemistry between you? In this episode we’ll explore the difference between sexual attraction and energetic attraction, how to notice energetic attraction, and why it’s important to pay attention to it. Energetic attraction can be your “radar” that you can use to improve all areas of your life, including business, family, romantic, etc…There is a huge difference between sexual attraction and energetic attraction, and it's...

In this episode, Lion and I explore how to be fully embodied, and why this is THE key to unlocking your wild, primal, sexual self. Unlocking this part of yourself allows you to create the kinds of relationships and sexual experiences you truly desire, in a safe way that builds connection and trust. You can’t just think your way into sexual and relationship success though, and this is where most people get stuck. You have to practice embodying it, and understand what that actually means.IN THI...

This episode will give you an in-depth understanding of what causes premature ejaculation, plus how to fix it. We'll explore: The most common causes of premature ejaculationHow to cure premature ejaculation naturallyEvolutionary reasons most men struggle with premature ejaculationHow porn, stress, fear of intimacy, shallow breathing and more can all contribute to premature ejaculationHow to last longer in bed (with concrete strategies)--- TIMES & TOPICS ---3:33: Quick Overview: 13 Ca...

In this episode we'll explore:What is grief?How does grief affect relationships and our sex lives?What happens if we don’t integrate our grief?How to grieve in a healthy way, and why doing this can be beautifulWhat is a grief ceremony, and where can you find one?TOPICS & TIMES:3:44 - What is grief?9:08 - What happens if you don't deal with grief?15:39 - How does grief affect relationships and sex?28:13 - How can you tell if you have unresolved grief?32:07 - Unresolved grief lives in your ...

IN THIS EPISODE…The story of my first “Tantric Orgasm” (extended non-ejaculatory orgasm)Tools and techniques to help you have these experiencesHow non-ejaculatory orgasms can be psychedelicThe importance of emotional vulnerability in unlocking men’s abilities to experience non-ejaculatory orgasmsHow ejaculatory orgasms can actually be less pleasurable than a full-body, extended non-ejaculatory orgasmWHAT IS A TANTRIC ORGASM?There is no universally agreed-upon meaning for this term, but in the...

This podcast will explore everything from non-ejaculatory orgasms and semen retention to threesomes, anal sex, breath work, energetic sex, play parties, sexual energy transmutation and more. You can sign up here to be notified when new episodes come out. --------------------THERE WILL BE THREE KINDS OF EPISODES:Interviews with guest sex experts from around the world"How-To" Episodes like "What Causes Premature Ejaculation" and "Intro to Semen Retention"Personal Stories from my journey ex...