Atypical Adoptee

Q&A's allow me to provide actual insight/information/perspective on things people, like you, are actually curious about. Today's episode is exactly that; 8 chosen questions that hopefully cover a nice range of topics that are interesting to everyone :) 

I say this in every episode but THANK YOUso much for still listening to my little passion project. The conversations I've had in response to some of these episodes have been super wholesome and deeply appreciated. If you're new here, I'm adopted LOL. Make sure to follow the socials etc too! @atypicalyadoptee

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What exactly does it mean to be enough? Is there one definition?  I grappled with this idea/question for so long and I realised that this active pursuit of feeling enough, the collective generational struggle of seeking affirmation and achieving goals, media-centric influences... all these thoughts showed me how ambiguous this idea/question really is.
The earlier topics within this episode will hopefully be relatable to many listeners, especially those of us who grew up in an age where the pursuit of happiness is engrained in our daily intake of media. Later in the episode I take a deeper turn (no surprise..) where I also talk about my internal struggle with feeling whole and wanted as an adoptee, and burden of fulfilling the expectations of breaking stereotypes as an adopted person of colour.  Enjoy the episode and let me know your thoughts :) @atypicaladoptee

Are my parents saviours for adopting me? 

Today's episode unpacks the idea of White Saviour Complex/Syndrome in the context of adoption. The idea of adoptive parents as saviours/messianic figures is sad misconception that tends to be reinforced by warped representations of adoption. Perhaps it's the social and cultural climate we are living in that perpetuate these misconceptions, or maybe it's just a lack of education on the topic of adoption. That's why I'm here :)

This episode will be covering topics such as the pros/cons of interracial adoption, the fear of being 'returned', and what an ideal adoptive parents should look like (in my opinion of course).  @atypicaladoptee

Today, I dive deep into the emotional stuff; anger, confusion, hurt and shame.

It may be expected of an adoptee to feel these things! But, what happens when you desire healing, but don’t know how to ask for help? What happens when you’re physically a person-of-colour, but socialised in a ‘white’ household?

In this episode you’ll hear of my adoption story, how I ran away from home and the emotional implications of what adoption meant to me as a child and as a teenager. Grab a cuppa... this'll be a whopper. 

Expect revelations, unexpected emotions, and the hope that things DO get better ♡

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