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Welcome to The Self Love Fix Podcast. I’m your host, Beatrice -an embodiment coach, teacher, and mentor, and founder of The Self Love Over Codependency Program. Are you ready to finally step into your worthiness and magnetism? Are you tired of your limiting beliefs and self-doubt affecting every aspect of your life? You deserve to live an abundant life, you deserve to desire and achieve all of your dreams, and most importantly, you deserve to embody unshakable self-confidence. Believe it or not, I didn’t always embody self-trust. Most of my life, I lived at the mercy of what other people thought of me. It was only during a very low point I experienced during grad school where I asked myself, “Where does your need for perfectionism come from?” This was a game-changing moment for me. For the first time in my life, I asked myself about the origins of my behavior instead of blaming myself for them. From then on, I promised to live out my passion and mission for embodying my true essence and to teach others to do the same. That’s exactly why I created this podcast. This podcast is all about helping you shift from shame, people-pleasing, codependency, low self-esteem, and self-doubt and into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic self-trust through spirituality and healing the inner-child. For more information about the podcast, or other ways you can work with me, visit: www.beatricekamau.com I would love to connect with you more on social media! You can find me at: IG: @theselflovefix Website: beatricekamau.com
- 287 - 261 Get in Habibti, We're Upping Your Standards!
In this episode we chat:
The TWO things you SHOULD be considering when it comes to raising your standards STICKING to your standards and why so many fail at this Debunking falsities and presenting truths on what it actually means when a man is a providerWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...
to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
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Thu, 24 Oct 2024 - 16min - 286 - 260. Addressing Hopelessness and Frustration in Dating
In this episode we chat:
Hopelessness and Frustration in dating Waiting for the "shoe to drop" in dating and how to step into the expectation that God's best for you is OUT THERE Dealing with the frustration of continuously attracting men that do not match what you're looking forWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...
to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 17 Oct 2024 - 25min - 285 - 259. De-Centering Men- Tapping into your Feminine Expression + Creativity
In this episode we chat:
Romanticizing your daily routines-- a continued conversation from last week How you might be misplacing your precious nurturing aspect of your feminine with the WRONG men How tapping into your feminine creativity + expression can help you de-center menWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...
to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 10 Oct 2024 - 33min - 284 - 258. De-centering Men- The Foundations
In this episode we chat:
Taking men off the pedestal for both the single girlies + relationship girlies Ways women pedestal men- which is actually a form of idolatry!! My #1 way to de-center menWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...
to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 03 Oct 2024 - 21min - 283 - "Your Truth, My Truth, Spirituality, Personal Development, and... Christianity, a much needed conversation"
In this episode we chat:
The Personal Development to Spirituality to "My Truth" Pipeline Manifestation and what they DON'T tell you about the spiritual world God, the Truth, + the Spiritual RealmWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...
to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 26 Sep 2024 - 28min - 282 - 256. Is dating becoming an idol for you?.
In this episode we chat....
Why it's VERY HARMFUL to "see" how things are going and "wait it out" when you KNOW he is a walking dealbreaker How to STOP undermining your dealbreakers when you come across the "nice guy" the guy that seems like "the one" What it looks like to have dating/the marriage thing/the man thing be an IDOL in your life The dangers of IDOLIZING a man and therefore putting him in God's placeWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join Valued the masterclass at $77 where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you...
to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 12 Sep 2024 - 32min - 281 - 255. Part 2 Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence.
In this episode we chat....
Letting go of OVER-EXPLAINING or JUSTIFYING yourself + your decisions How talking TOO MUCH can actually be a sign of a LACK of confidence Why confident people say LESSWORK WITH BEATRICE:
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The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
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Thu, 05 Sep 2024 - 18min - 280 - 254. Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence (Part 1???)
In this episode we chat....
Confidence vs. FAKE confidence and how to tell the difference Ways insecurity masks itself through FAKE confidence How walking in FAKE confidence is actually incredibly manipulativeWORK WITH BEATRICE:
CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS
The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 29 Aug 2024 - 17min - 279 - 253. Can't get over him? Listen to this.
In this episode we chat....
That feeling of OBSESSION with him wanting you back and what to do about it The surprising reason behind the OBSESSION that I guarantee you are not aware of Leaning on God during this time for strength and the ability to LET GOWORK WITH BEATRICE:
CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS
The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 22 Aug 2024 - 14min - 278 - 252. Are You Dating a Man or a Project?
In this episode we chat....
The ONE wounded feminine trait you have that keeps causing you to get FRUSTRATED and EXHAUSTED by dating The dangers of being unequally yoked mentally and emotionally with a man Why dating a man who is operating on a mental and emotional level that is underdeveloped is a destiny KILLER for YOU.... AND HIM.WORK WITH BEATRICE:
CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS
The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 15 Aug 2024 - 19min - 277 - 251. Is he a REAL man or a pretend man?.
In this episode we chat....
The difference between a BOY and a MAN that most women MISS How to begin activating the GODLY wisdom to be able to tell the difference between a BOY and a MAN HONORING your RELAXED feminine stateWORK WITH BEATRICE:
CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE SCHOOL OF RELAXED DATING™: THE FOUNDATIONS PRE-SALE
The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 08 Aug 2024 - 18min - 275 - 250. If You're Doubting the Connection or Relationship, Listen to This
In this episode we chat....
How to navigate doubting the romantic connection you're in whether you're single or in a relationship The two types of doubt that exist in dating and relationships Walking in God's best for youWORK WITH BEATRICE:
I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship
Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 25 Jul 2024 - 17min - 274 - 249. Why being single is a position of PRIVILEGE
In this episode we chat....
How the patriarchy has distorted your view on your relationship status + what it means about you The privilege in being single that most do not SEE How to THRIVE in your singlenessWORK WITH BEATRICE:
I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship
Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 18 Jul 2024 - 23min - 273 - 248. If You've Went Through a Break Up or Feel Jaded in dating + love, listen to this!
In this episode we chat....
How I was able to bounce back after my break up SO QUICKLY How to RESTORE your belief in love and ability to love after a break up or after someone betrayed your trust Forgiveness after a relationship or betrayalWORK WITH BEATRICE:
I am running a FREE love + dating masterclass event called The Dating Confidential. This is for you if you... can barely get a text back or you don't experience the PROTECTIVE, provisional, I'm-gonna-treat-you-soft vibes from men or in your relationship
Click here to sign up to the Dating Confidential for FREE
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 11 Jul 2024 - 15min - 272 - 247. The Wrong Men will Waste Your Time and... They Don't Care
In this episode we chat....
Why it is that the wrong men will waste your time for months, years even and think nothing of it. How boys-- NOT masculine men!-- will waste your time if you're not careful and how masculine men will approach you much MUCH differently. The case for celibacy, why I'm such an advocate for it-- and why I VERY MUCH BELIEVE masculine men will gladly WAIT!WORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 27 Jun 2024 - 21min - 271 - 246 Don't let ANYONE mess with your PEACE
In this episode we chat....
Why your STATE of peace + rest should be HIGHLY REGARDED and why the RIGHT MAN would do anything in his power to MAINTAIN your state of rest/peace The consequences of being around people who CONTINUALLY disturb your state of rest How to become someone that LISTENS TO ACTIONS more than wordsWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 20 Jun 2024 - 32min - 270 - 245. Vision, Your Assignment, Identity, + Your Destiny
In this episode we chat....
Why every single person on this planet has VISION + an ASSIGNMENT from God The importance of keeping the RIGHT COMPANY and knowing when to zip it when it comes to the vision you have for yourself for MORE out of life How God has a plan + a vision for you and why you should know it!WORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 13 Jun 2024 - 24min - 269 - 244. Are you Dating a Boy or a Man?
In this episode we chat....
Why MEN are providers and BOYS are not The difference between BOYS and MEN and spotting it in dating How the RIGHT man actually will invite EASE + make you 100x the woman you already AREWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 06 Jun 2024 - 20min - 268 - 243. The Case for Spirituality... An Unexpected Conversation
In this episode we chat....
The influence of spirituality in the online and personal development space Naiveté around spirituality and my relationship to it The spirituality that WORKSWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
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CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 23 May 2024 - 23min - 267 - 242 Your Purpose, Being on Assignment, and... Dating?!
In this episode we chat....
A life update! What does it mean to be ON ASSIGNMENT/in your purpose and the impact of it on your dating life What happens to your assignment/purpose when you deal with WOUNDED masculine energyWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 16 May 2024 - 20min - 266 - 241 My Top 4 Controversial Beliefs About Dating
In this episode we chat....
The 4 controversial dating beliefs I have including ONE I used to be FULLY AGAINST-- Tune in to find out what it is!WORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to join the FREE 6 day email challenge In Your Feminine Era
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 09 May 2024 - 19min - 265 - 240. Talk is Cheap, Attention is a Dime a Dozen, and Value is QUEEN!
In this episode we chat....
Wounded feminine vs. Balanced feminine when it comes to what she's LOOKING FOR in dating Why his ATTENTION shouldn't be impressive The difference between ATTENTION and being VALUEDWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!
Thu, 02 May 2024 - 15min - 264 - 239. RELAXED dating (in your feminine) 101
In this episode we chat....
The difference between the WOUNDED feminine and BALANCED feminine and how BOTH impact your dating life How to shift from SCARCITY to ABUNDANCE in dating What IS relaxed dating and why dating was NEVER meant to be frantic or have you anxious and on TEN checking your phone every couple of minutesWORK WITH BEATRICE:
Click here to purchase dating apps 101
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Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!
Thu, 25 Apr 2024 - 33min - 263 - 238 If You Feel Like He Doesn't VALUE You, Listen to This
Listen to this to....
REMEMBER who God designed you to be and to understand the VALUE of a woman To STOP holding on for dear life for someone who doesn't put in any EFFORT TO EARN YOU To understand WHY the feminine is meant to be in a position of CHOOSING who is worthy of her heart not for her to be GIVING it to any old anybodyWORK WITH BEATRICE:
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Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!
Thu, 18 Apr 2024 - 28min - 262 - 236 Value vs. Worthiness (I'm Back!)
It's... been a while hasn't it bestie?!
Well I have an AMAZING episode for you ALL about why it's been so hard for you to "know your worth" and why you should focus on knowing your VALUE instead.
Your VALUE in general AND your VALUE in dating, relationships, marriage, work, your business etc,
Tell a friend to tell a friend that i'm back!!
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Click here to apply for 1:1 coaching on dating/relationships
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Thu, 11 Apr 2024 - 26min - 261 - 235 Expectations vs. Standards and the impact of BOTH on your love life
There's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating.
Listen in to this week's episode to find out more!
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Thu, 25 Jan 2024 - 12min - 260 - 234 if things never go PAST a situationship but you want an actual relationship, listen to this
If you've found yourself landing in situationship after situationship...
Or if you've felt the need to SPEED the dating process up or have felt anxious about "where things are going" this episode is FOR YOU!
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Thu, 18 Jan 2024 - 12min - 259 - 233 5 Things I Would Do if I were Single + Dating in 2024
Dating is NOT supposed to be hard.
It gets to be EASY.
Tune in to find out what 5 things I would be doing if I were single in 2024 and looking for a SERIOUS, committed relationship.
CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence
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Thu, 11 Jan 2024 - 21min - 258 - 232 Why You Don't Need to Be "Fully Healed" to be in a Relationship
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Thu, 21 Dec 2023 - 15min - 257 - 231 An Unexpected Chat on Dating and Unworthiness
What if feelings of unworthiness aren't really your problem when it comes to actually experiencing the kind of relationship you desire?
What if there's something TOTALLY different to consider instead?
Tune into this week's episode to find out what exactly that is...
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Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching
Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship and how we handle arguments, disagreements, the masculine + feminine dynamic in our relationship and MORE: https://beatricekamau.com/otr
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau
Thu, 14 Dec 2023 - 12min - 256 - 230 We decided to be celibate.... 2 years INTO our relationship
Yup, you read correctly! My boyfriend and I decided to be celibate until marriage 2 years into our relationship. Why you may ask? Tune into the episode to find out!
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Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching
Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship and how we handle arguments, disagreements, the masculine + feminine dynamic in our relationship and MORE: https://beatricekamau.com/otr
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau
Thu, 07 Dec 2023 - 23min - 255 - 229. You're dating life isn't changing because of THIS
If you've ever felt like something is wrong with YOU because you keep attracting the SAME types of men over and over again...
Men who are emotionally unavailable...
Men who are not interested in commitment...
Men who are unfaithful...
etc.
There's actually something DEEPER to the story. It's not that you're doomed. Or that something is wrong with you. It's that you may have an UNCONSCIOUS dating pattern running the show and you don't even know it. Tune into this episode to learn more.
WORK WITH BEATRICE:
Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching
Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship and how we handle arguments, disagreements, the masculine + feminine dynamic in our relationship and MORE: https://beatricekamau.com/otr
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau
Thu, 30 Nov 2023 - 18min - 254 - 226. "Red flags" + Infusing Maturity in Dating + Relationships
There is... a lot of immaturity in dating that shows up in the form of thinking EVERYTHING is a red flag.
Not everything is a red flag.
MATURITY in dating is understanding 1. That not everything is a red flag and 2. HOW to discern what IS from what ISN'T a red flag. 3. You'll have to listen to the rest of the episode to find out! ;)
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Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching
Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship and how we handle arguments, disagreements, the masculine + feminine dynamic in our relationship and MORE: https://beatricekamau.com/otr
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.
Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau
Thu, 16 Nov 2023 - 20min - 253 - 225. A Conversation About When You're "Confused" About How "He Feels"
If you’re hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you’re “talking to” wants to be in a relationship with you…
He doesn’t.
I say this with so much love: if you have to do this, you aren’t actually confused at all about how he feels. You know he isn’t interested in having a relationship…you just don’t like that answer.
Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is CLEAR. Desire is BOLD. Desire doesn’t dither in the background waiting its turn.
When a man desires you, you’ll know. So let’s talk about what it actually means when you’re “confused” about what “he wants.”
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Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship: https://beatricekamau.com/otr
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Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau
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Thu, 02 Nov 2023 - 23min - 252 - 224. Don't Give Up On Dating! A Relationship IS Meant For You
If you’ve given up on dating…this episode is for you.
I’m not talking about the people who truly do not desire a relationship. I’m talking to the people who have a soul-deep desire for a relationship, but have gotten so discouraged that they’re ready to throw in the towel entirely.
Listen to me–I don’t care what your situation is.
I don’t care if you’re in your late 20s, 30s, 40s, etc.
I don’t care if you’ve been divorced four times and can’t imagine a relationship ever working out.
I don’t care if you’ve never been in a healthy relationship and are struggling to believe they even exist.
A relationship IS possible for you–yes, YOU. And if you’re walking around with your head down, living in defeat, certain it’s never going to happen for you…let me give you some hope today.
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Thu, 26 Oct 2023 - 30min - 251 - 223. Our Dating Story and How We Knew We Wanted to Be Together
Ooooh, do I have a TREAT for you all today. I am absolutely giddy to welcome my boyfriend of two years, Osa, onto the podcast!
Osa’s more of a behind-the-scenes type of guy. But today, we’re sitting down for a conversation about how we met, our first impressions of each other, what we think about online dating, how we transitioned from dating to a long-term relationship, and so much more!
Not only that, but we’ve also slipped in a little teaser for something that we’re VERY excited about…something the two of us will be doing together!
Ready for a behind-the-scenes tour of how we started out? Grab your favorite tea, settle in, and enjoy the ride!
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Thu, 19 Oct 2023 - 42min - 250 - 222. Why Finding a Partner that Leads, Plans, + is Ambitious Has Been Difficult for You
If you believe it’s IMPOSSIBLE to attract the type of man that has ambition, makes plans, and takes charge in your relationship…I may have an idea why that is.
And you’re probably not going to like hearing it.
Once upon a time, I was in the same shoes as you: fed up with attracting men who wouldn’t so much as initiate a phone call, sick of having to do ALL the work in every relationship, and wondering where all the ambitious men were.
But you know what else I believed?
That men were dumb as rocks.
No, really. I genuinely, wholeheartedly believed that men were inferior to me, that they couldn’t do anything right, and they needed my guidance in everything…
But if that was true, well…why on earth would I want to have one of them leading me?
It doesn’t matter what you consciously say you want. If your unconscious mind believes men are inferior, the unconscious will win over the conscious every time. Let’s talk about why this superiority is actually sabotaging our dating lives.
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Thu, 12 Oct 2023 - 25min - 249 - 221. The DOUBTING Phase of Relationships No One Talks About
There’s one stage of new relationships that no one talks about.
We try to pretend it doesn’t happen. In fact, we do one better (or worse): we usually dip out of the relationship the second we enter this phase.
The first phase of any new relationship is the honeymoon phase…and it is POWERFUL.
That cocktail of hormones hits HARD. We’re floating on cloud nine. All we see in front of us is our perfect, amazing partner. Everything they do is so cute and sweet and amazing…
Until it isn’t.
Until one day, we wake up and notice every little thing about them that actually annoys us.
Welcome to the DOUBTING PHASE: the phase of relationships where we suddenly see the reality of our partner, not our hormone hopped-up perception of them.
The comedown hits even harder than the high. And unfortunately, this is where most people decide it’s time to end the relationship, because “the magic” is gone.
This phase is normal. Everyone has it. But we need to change the way we approach the doubting phase…because if we bide our time and make it to the other side, what’s waiting for us is a phase of love unlike any other.
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Thu, 05 Oct 2023 - 19min - 248 - 220. Dating Requires Your Effort (Contrary to Popular Belief)
If you’re walking around telling yourself “I DESERVE a relationship…”
Sit down for a second. Let’s talk.
I say this because I love you: you do not “deserve” a relationship.
You don’t deserve anything from another individual just because you want it.
Imagine if you walked into a job interview. You did no prep. You did no research. You wore your sweats. And when they start asking you questions, you just go, “What do you mean? Why are you asking me this? I deserve this job. Just give it to me.”
They would look at you like you were FUCKING DELUSIONAL…because you’d have to be in order to act that way.
We all know we can’t act like that in most areas of our lives. But when it comes to dating…all that goes flying out the window, and suddenly we’re deep in our entitled princess energy, believing we deserve something we didn’t put in the work for.
If dating feels like it’s too hard, it’s probably because you’re approaching it with a heavy vibe of entitlement and need. But I promise you this: if you just shift this perspective, your dating life will be completely transformed.
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Thu, 28 Sep 2023 - 39min - 247 - 219. Why You're Not "Doomed" to "Being Single Forever" + Why God is Not Out to Get You
“God must be out to get me.”
“This must be some kind of cosmic joke.”
“You know what? Fine. I don’t want a relationship anyway.”
“I’m focusing on my career. I don’t need a man.”
If any of these sound familiar, then this episode is for you.
If you’re the kind of person who truly enjoys being single…good for you! But if you’re saying you’re fine with being single, then absolutely SEETHING with anger and bitterness every time you see a happy couple…
I don’t think you’re being honest with yourself.
If you say you don’t want a relationship when you actually do, you become the thing that’s sabotaging you. Because when you decide you don’t want something…God’s going to listen. And pretending you don’t care isn’t going to trick him into giving you what you want.
This might be a confronting episode for you, but as someone who’s been where you are…trust me. Once you come face to face with the truth of your desires, your dating life will NEVER be the same.
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Thu, 21 Sep 2023 - 20min - 246 - 218. Transcending Comparison in Business, Relationships, + Dating
I love delving into the shadowy parts of ourselves that no one likes to talk about…comparison being one of them.
We all compare ourselves to others. We all feel envious of someone else’s successes, both in business and in relationships…especially when they’re in the same industry as us. And I don’t think these experiences are wrong…but when we lie about it to ourselves and refuse to OWN what we’re thinking and feeling, that’s when it becomes a problem.
When we try to pretend we aren’t playing the comparison game, we actually end up unconsciously letting it steal it the driver’s seat…and before we know it, our businesses are being run by our perceptions of what others have achieved and what we think we’re doing “wrong.”
There are ways to quit the comparison game…and it starts with looking for places where we might be acting a liiittle entitled. Let’s examine this together.
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Thu, 14 Sep 2023 - 32min - 245 - 217. Business vs. Brand: Why You Need BOTH, Even on Day ONE of Business
Let me ask you a question…
What is BRAND?
If you answered, “Colors, fonts, and logos”...no judgment here. There was a hot minute when I believed the very same.
In actuality, these things are brandING, not BRAND. But when so many people start out in entrepreneurship, they come in business-minded, not brand-minded…and when they look for steps to skip, brandING can take the place of actual brand.
If you’re just now learning you were wrong about brand, don’t panic–that’s why I’m having this conversation today. It’s not too late for you to go back to the basics…and once you know what brand really is, trust me, you’ll want to.
If you’re committed to LEGACY VIBES with your business, brand is your new best friend. Allow me to introduce you.
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Thu, 07 Sep 2023 - 29min - 244 - 216. Strong Business Mindset, Foundations, + Legacy with Tayla Bubeck
Please join me in welcoming Tayla Bubeck, an INCREDIBLE business coach + mentor…in fact, she’s so incredible that she’s MY business coach + mentor!
Tayla specializes in the human behind the business, the execution of strategy for a scalable business, and leveraging personal brands to maximize opportunities and evolution. She helps powerful players in the online world unleash their unique gifts and full potential in business and helps them create a business space where money and success aren't their limits; instead, they become the makers of your limitless business legacy.
If you’re struggling to get your VISION straight, build a strong business foundation, and understand what you want your legacy to be…Tayla’s your girl. I can’t wait for you to hear what she has to share today.
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Instagram: @taylbubeck_
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6S7mzVSmbfzXaDuLN8H2Nv
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Website: https://www.taylabubeck.com/
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Thu, 31 Aug 2023 - 55min - 242 - 215. Transcending Perfectionism, Imposter Syndrome, + the Confidence to put your POWERFUL work in the online space with STA Alum Taccarra Davenport
This week's episode we have an amazing guest and Self Trust Alchemy Alum, Taccarra Davenport. In this episode, we chat about how she transcended PERFECTIONISM, fear of using her voice, + imposter syndrome during Self Trust Alchemy and published her new book, A Letter To My Sister.
This is an incredible and INSPIRING episode you DON'T want to miss!
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Fri, 25 Aug 2023 - 38min - 239 - 214. You're Not "Repeating Old Patterns", You're Seeing Yourself More Clearly
So many people see themselves repeating a pattern they’ve already observed, and they believe it means that there is something they are doing “wrong.”
I don’t believe that’s true.
I’ve experienced myself repeating patterns after I’ve become aware of them, but I’ve never made myself wrong for it.
Instead, I got CURIOUS. I got EXCITED. Because I believe that awareness means I’m simply seeing myself more clearly, and I believe it for you, too.
If you’re sinking into shame over repeating old patterns, this is the episode for you.
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Thu, 17 Aug 2023 - 19min - 237 - 213. Building Solid Confidence in Business, Coaching, + Boundaries with Self Trust Alchemy Alum, Chelsi Reina
Today, I have a very special guest joining me on the podcast: Chelsi Reina, a former student in the Self Trust Alchemy program!
Chelsi is a fellow podcaster and self-love coach who is all about helping women stop waiting for the perfect moment to create a life that they actually enjoy living.
She has come so far since her time in Self Trust Alchemy and I’m so proud of the way she has let go of shame, started protecting her energy by setting boundaries, and shaken off the imposter syndrome keeping her from being her authentic self!
Chelsi has such great wisdom to share, and I can’t wait for you all to hear it. Let’s dive right in, shall we?
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Instagram: @maintainingmyhappy
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Thu, 10 Aug 2023 - 38min - 236 - 212. Here's why you ALWAYS feel something "bad" is about to happen when things are going "TOO GOOD"
Tell me if this sounds familiar…
You’ve hit a high in your life, whether that’s a business high, a relationship high, a money high, or something else. It feels great…
Except that it doesn’t.
You can’t stop looking over your shoulder, checking both ways before you move, waiting for the other shoe to drop at any moment. Things have been going too good, so something bad has to be coming next, right?
I've heard almost every single student and client experience this in one form or another. They’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop when things start getting good.
“But Beatrice, it’s true! Every time things get good, something bad comes along.”
Does it? Or do you think you might be playing into a bit of self-fulling prophecy?
Let’s explore where this sense of impending doom comes from…and how we unconsciously do everything we can to prove that sense right.
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Thu, 03 Aug 2023 - 39min - 235 - 211. THIS is how you become POWERFUL + CONFIDENT in using your VOICE to set boundaries
I believe that SHORT + SWEET messages still have the ability to be POWERFUL + TRANSFORMATIVE. So today, here’s a bite-sized lesson in setting boundaries:
It’s time to get reconnected to your VOICE.
When you use your voice to set boundaries with confidence, people FEEL that frequency. It inspires a response of respect. It calls people to listen.
But if you’re DISCONNECTED from your voice…if you don’t speak up because you think other people can pick up on your boundaries on their own, or if you feel the need to explain yourself over and over because you don’t believe you’ll be heard…
That’s a different frequency. And it doesn’t inspire others to listen and respect at all. Here’s how to set boundaries CONFIDENTLY.
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Thu, 27 Jul 2023 - 14min - 234 - 210. Confidence, Self-love, Motherhood, + Boundaries with Self Trust Alchemy Alum Brittany Simmons
This week, I am thrilled to welcome Brittany Simmons, Self Trust Alchemy alumni and overall incredible woman, onto the podcast to chat about her experience in the program!
Brittany is here to share about the BEFORE and AFTER of Self Trust Alchemy, how different her approach to motherhood has been, all the ways she’s been able to break generational trauma, how she’s begun setting boundaries, and soooo much more.
This work is TRANSFORMATIVE. This work is POWERFUL. Not only can it change everything for you individually…but it can transform the people around you, as well.
Brittany’s an amazing example of the trickle-down effect of self-development work, and her story is wildly inspirational. Get ready to have your minds completely blown.
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Thu, 20 Jul 2023 - 40min - 233 - 209. An HONEST conversation about how my views around food, body image, + working out have changed
I have waited a long, long time to have this conversation.
Not because it hasn’t been requested—it has. Not because I didn’t know how I felt about it—I do.
I held off for two reasons. One, because I wanted to talk about it when I felt led to do so, and two…
Honestly, I was nervous about how I would be received. But I’m not nervous anymore. So, let’s talk about body positivity.
My relationship with food and my body has been a bit of a rollercoaster—I was lucky enough to be raised in a home where I had a healthy view of food, and I’m also a registered dietician, so I “get” food. But when I was in college, things took a bit of a turn…and since then, I’ve learned a LOT about holding duality when it comes to body image, food restriction, and wanting to look a certain way.
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Thu, 13 Jul 2023 - 32min - 232 - 208. Is your APPROACH to personal development ENHANCING or WORSENING your quality of life?
It's time to let go of the heavy energy surrounding personal development and embrace a new paradigm of growth. Discover how to infuse personal development with a sense of lightness, joy, and expansion. Join me today as we delve into practical strategies and insights that will empower you to shift your perspective and reclaim the true essence of personal development.
If you've been feeling weighed down by the personal development journey, this episode is a must-listen. Together, we will challenge the notion that personal growth must be a struggle, and instead, we will embrace personal development as a powerful catalyst for a more fulfilling and joyful life.
Get ready to embark on a transformative journey as we explore a new, enlightened approach to personal development. It's time to release the misery vibe and step into a realm of empowerment, growth, and limitless possibilities.
Mind Mastery Masterclass- https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/mind-mastery/
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Thu, 06 Jul 2023 - 36min - 231 - 207. Working WITH Your Energy + Dropping the Struggle Using Human Design with Cynthia Davidson
I am so, so thrilled to announce that today, we have a very special guest rejoining us: Cynthia Davidson!
If you aren't already familiar with her, Cynthia is founder of Intuitive Essentials. She is your human design strategist and energy alchemist with a wealth of empowering tools to support you in realigning your life personally and professionally.
I’ve worked with Cynthia myself, and I will continue working with her for the foreseeable future, because her work is without compare. You have no idea of the transformation that’s waiting for you on the other side of doing human design work with Cynthia.
If you aren’t familiar with human design, consider it your Fast Pass to more ease + alignment in every area of your life. I’m so excited for you to hear what Cynthia has to share about it!
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(Disclaimer: Please note, I am an affiliate for Cynthia Davidson's services, meaning I do receive a commission if you book services with her through this link. However, I personally have paid for and continue to pay for Cynthia's services because they have been absolutely transformational for my life, and I would only ever recommend services I have vetted and 100% believe in.)
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Thu, 29 Jun 2023 - 45min - 226 - 205. Why Having or Wanting More Money ISN'T Selfish or Greedy
Too many people associate MONEY with GREED.
To be wealthy is to be selfish. To want more resources is to be greedy. You can’t desire more than what you already have without it meaning something terrible about yourself…
And I believe that’s absolutely false.
To be wealthy is to have INFLUENCE. To have more resources is to create IMPACT. And whether that’s a positive or negative impact…
That is completely up to you.
If you believe having more money makes you bad or wrong–even if that belief is unconscious–you will never be able to have more than you have right now. Let’s explore the way we tend to project negative qualities and beliefs onto money.
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Thu, 15 Jun 2023 - 45min - 225 - 204. A DEEP Conversation Around Money Manifestation and the Unconscious Mind
If manifestation doesn’t seem to be working for you…manifestation isn’t the problem. It’s the frequency behind it.
If you CONSCIOUSLY want to manifest more money, but your UNCONSCIOUS self says it’s not safe to have more…guess which one is going to win?
If your frequency is that of doubt and uneasiness around the idea of having more money, you won’t be able to manifest more. But if your frequency is that of confidence and ease…oh, honey, get ready. You’ll be manifesting money in no time.
There are some twisted views out there around manifestation, but we’re going to untwist them today.
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Thu, 08 Jun 2023 - 45min - 224 - 203. 3 Things People Normalize With Money That I Do NOT Normalize
When it comes to money, there are three things people normalize that I absolutely REFUSE to accept…
Firstly, that money is a limited resource, and there isn’t enough to go around…
Secondly, feeling shame and regret every time they spend money, even if they have the money to spend—and even if it purchased something that they greatly desired…
And thirdly, that we are limited from experiencing more by our circumstances.
I choose to live differently. I choose to experience a different reality. And today, I want to tell you why YOU should stop normalizing these frequencies around money, too.
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Thu, 01 Jun 2023 - 32min - 223 - 202. The TRUTH About Having An ABUNDANCE Mindset
Here’s the truth about abundance mindset:
You can say all the right things as much as you want…but it’s the action you take alongside your mindset that proves the truth of how you feel about money and abundance.
Money is an unlimited resource. I deeply believe that. But if you act as though it’s a limited resource…don’t be surprised when it functions as one.
If you’re saying all the right things and committing to an abundance mindset, but you’re still having a panic attack when you spend your money on something other than the cheapest thing available…that tells you everything you need to know. Let’s dig deeper into the truth behind changing your mindset around money.
WORK WITH BEATRICE:
If you wanna tap into the limitless flow of money, you can join the BEYOND THE MATRIX masterclass, a matrix-shattering conversation on tapping into the LIMITLESS flow + abundance of money by becoming ONE with the frequency of money: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/money-beyond-the-matrix-masterclass/
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Thu, 25 May 2023 - 19min - 222 - 201. Manifesting a Life of MORE with Group Coaching Client Sheena Katz
I am so, soooo excited to introduce a longtime coaching client of mine to you all…please welcome fashion consultant and avid traveler, Sheena Katz!
Sheena has been in my world for quite a long time–she’s been listening to the podcast since right around when I started, and she’s been in various programs of mine since 2020!
Today, I asked Sheena come on to discuss the impact of group coaching on her life, what she’s been able to accomplish since, and how manifestation has allowed her to realize the dreams and goals that once seemed completely impossible.
Get ready to hear the story of this incredible journey. I can’t wait for you all to meet Sheena!
WORK WITH BEATRICE:
If you know you’ve been thinking, playing, and talking small when it comes to business, career, money and/or dating, and you’re ready to step into BIGGER conversations and a more EXPANSIVE way of living…you need to join EXPANDED group coaching with Beatrice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/expanded-group-coaching-with-beatrice/
If you wanna tap into the limitless flow of money, you can join the BEYOND THE MATRIX masterclass, a matrix-shattering conversation on tapping into the LIMITLESS flow + abundance of money by becoming ONE with the frequency of money: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/money-beyond-the-matrix-masterclass/
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
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Thu, 18 May 2023 - 54min - 221 - 200. Normalizing What Isn't "Normal"
When you’re surrounded by an environment filled with victim mindset and the normalization of limitation…good luck having a life that can transcend that environment.
When you live beside limitation, you will end up living in limitation. But when you plug into an environment where people prioritize expansion, firm standard-setting, and a life of limitlessness…
Your own potential to live without limits skyrockets.
I don’t believe in limitation. I simply don’t. I believe we can all shatter the limits we’ve placed on ourselves and our ability to live a different reality than we’re currently in…
But some things need to change before we can get there. And we’re the only ones who can DECIDE to make it happen.
WORK WITH BEATRICE:
If you know you’ve been thinking, playing, and talking small when it comes to business, career, money and/or dating, and you’re ready to step into BIGGER conversations and a more EXPANSIVE way of living…you need to join EXPANDED group coaching with Beatrice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/expanded-group-coaching-with-beatrice/
If you wanna tap into the limitless flow of money, you can join the BEYOND THE MATRIX masterclass, a matrix-shattering conversation on tapping into the LIMITLESS flow + abundance of money by becoming ONE with the frequency of money: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/money-beyond-the-matrix-masterclass/
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Thu, 11 May 2023 - 28min - 220 - 199. How Coaching + Mentorship Got Me To Where I Am Today
You’ve all heard plenty about my relationship with coaching and mentorship insofar as it applies to my own business…
But today, I want to talk about how coaching and mentorship has supported me throughout my own self-development journey!
If you’re anything like I was, you probably believe that coaching and mentorship is something you have to NEED before you seek it out. You probably believe that since things aren’t falling apart (yet) and you don’t have anything crisis-level to work through, you haven’t yet “earned” the right to support…
But this is absolutely untrue.
I no longer believe support is something you have to wait to invest in until you’re falling apart. I believe support is something you need and deserve at every point in your journey…and if you have it, that journey will actually get a thousand times easier. Let’s talk about it.
WORK WITH BEATRICE:
If you know you’ve been thinking, playing, and talking small when it comes to business, career, money and/or dating, and you’re ready to step into BIGGER conversations and a more EXPANSIVE way of living…you need to join EXPANDED group coaching with Beatrice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/expanded-group-coaching-with-beatrice/
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Thu, 04 May 2023 - 27min - 219 - 198. Holding Your Standards in Dating
Did you miss the Hold the Standard masterclass? Good news—welcome to the replay!
When people talk about standards, I tend to notice one of three patterns: either someone is copying someone else’s standards because they sound good, without stopping to actually consider whether those standards match with what they’re looking for; someone doesn’t set ANY standards because they don’t know what they want, they just want SOMEONE; or they set conditional standards, which they drop the second someone who doesn’t meet those standards pays them any attention.
I don’t believe we ever drop standards; I believe we never had a hold of them in the first place. Let’s talk about how we can finally hold the standards we claim to have set.
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Join Magnetic Woman, a five-week group program on how to ELEVATE and UPGRADE your dating life through getting CLEAR, SOLID, and GROUNDED in your standards and deal breakers for a relationship: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/
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Thu, 27 Apr 2023 - 1h 03min - 218 - 197. Don't Let Your Environment Decide How You MOVE
Too many people allow their EXTERNAL circumstances to determine their INTERNAL reality.
The way you feel is going to be one of the most important things you will ever tend to in your life, because your feelings influence every area of your life. It’s a powerful, powerful thing. So if you allow anything other than yourself to influence the way you feel…
You’re giving up your power. And that is NOT the vibe.
It’s time to take power back. It’s time that you put YOURSELF in charge of your feelings, the way you move throughout the world, and the beliefs you hold about yourself.
WORK WITH BEATRICE:
Join Magnetic Woman, a five-week group program on how to ELEVATE and UPGRADE your dating life through getting CLEAR, SOLID, and GROUNDED in your standards and deal breakers for a relationship: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/
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Thu, 20 Apr 2023 - 18min - 217 - 196. Are You EMBODYING Your Standards in Dating?
When you walk into a designer store, you do it differently than you would walk into a Walmart.
You enter with a different price tag in mind. You probably already know what you want—or at least know that you’re there to make a purchase, not browse. You’re not wasting your own time or anyone else’s.
Because of the way Louis Vuitton conducts itself through marketing, atmosphere, and treatment of their products, it calls you to a higher standard yourself, because the energy is different.
The same principle applies to dating. When you embody your standards and uplevel your frequency, people feel that and respond to it—you don’t even have to say it to them. They just know.
It’s time to dive past the surface level of standard-setting and start embodying the standards we’ve supposedly set for ourselves.
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Join Magnetic Woman, a five-week group program on how to ELEVATE and UPGRADE your dating life through getting CLEAR, SOLID, and GROUNDED in your standards and deal breakers for a relationship: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/
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Thu, 13 Apr 2023 - 23min - 216 - 195. Visibility, Vulnerability, Attention, and Being Seen
How often have you immediately blurted out “You too!” when somebody compliments you?
“You have such pretty hair!” “You too!”
“You’re so smart!” “You too!”
“You’re so beautiful.” “You too!”
It’s like we can’t stand to just sit and HOLD attention when it’s given to us…we have to throw it back as fast as we can. Why?
Because we’ve trained ourselves to be uncomfortable holding it.
Because we don’t think of ourselves as “attention-seekers.”
Here’s the thing: attention-seeking is not the same as receiving attention. And until we learn that lesson, we’re never going to be comfortable holding attention from others…and we’re never going to be able to have the supportive relationship we dream about where we are known, loved, and seen for exactly who we are.
Let’s talk about VISIBILITY, VULNERABILITY, ATTENTION, and BEING SEEN…without feeling the need to get everyone’s eyes off of us as fast as possible.
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Join Magnetic Woman, a five-week group program on how to ELEVATE and UPGRADE your dating life through getting CLEAR, SOLID, and GROUNDED in your standards and deal breakers for a relationship: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/
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Thu, 06 Apr 2023 - 52min - 215 - 194. "Are My Standards TOO High?" - A Much-Needed Conversation on Standards
Last week, we had a chat about what it looks like when your standards are actually conditions, and you’re too wishy-washy about standing firm in the standards you’ve set…
This week, I want to talk about what happens when you’re TOO strict with your standard-setting, and it actually ends up narrowing your dating pool unnecessarily.
I’ve heard a lot of people asking whether their standards are “too high,” and honestly? I don’t believe this is even a thing. Standards aren’t high or low; they just are. They’re something that you’ve decided to set and stand behind…
But sometimes, we set them in places that aren’t actually aligned with what we’re truly seeking in a relationship.
Let’s talk about what happens when you set standards from a place of entitlement or outside pressure rather than what will ACTUALLY make you feel safe and secure in a relationship. Because I’m betting that your ego has started an unconscious game of peek-a-boo within your standards…and it’s actually starting to sabotage your dating life.
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Thu, 30 Mar 2023 - 20min - 214 - 193. Did You "Lower" Your Standards, Or Did You Just Have CONDITIONAL Standards?
I don’t actually believe in the idea of “lowering” your standards.
I don’t believe that STANDARDS can be lowered. A standard is something that just IS. It is the way things are, no unless, ifs, ands, or buts…
And if you disagree, I’m willing to bet you haven’t been setting standards. I think you’ve been setting conditions.
If your “standards” rely on outside factors and are constantly lowering and raising depending on what you’re experiencing, guess what? That’s not a standard.
And if you want to actually attract what you SAY you truly want, we need to sit down and get solid about what your standards truly are…
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Thu, 23 Mar 2023 - 21min - 213 - 192. My Top 5 Dating App Tips For Finding Commitment-Ready People
If you get a bad taste in your mouth when you hear the words “dating apps”...this is the episode for you.
Dating apps are NOT the problem. Odds are, it’s not the apps that need to be ditched…it’s likely your approach that needs some rethinking.
Luckily for you, I have gathered up my top five tips for navigating dating apps in a way that’s going to help you actually ENJOY the process of dating through your favorite dating app, instead of dreading the entire process.
Before you push that DELETE button on the app, hit the PAUSE button instead…then hit PLAY on this episode. I’m going to help you rework your mindset surrounding the dating app dance.
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Thu, 16 Mar 2023 - 24min - 212 - 191. What Business Owners + Influencers Have To Be Able To HOLD To Last In Entrepreneurship
I have a question for the entrepreneurs in the audience…
How do you react when someone misunderstands your meaning, your intentions, etcetera?
If you get panicky, feel the impulse to COMPLETELY overhaul your approach + personality, or get defensive in the comments of your IG post…you’re not gonna make it as an entrepreneur.
A lot of people in the entrepreneurial space think that if somebody misunderstands them, that's a sign that they need to change how they do things. They think they should never do that thing again, say that thing again, talk about that thing again for fear of someone else getting upset about it.
This. Isn’t. True.
If you can't hold that space between how you see yourself and how others see you, I'm telling you right now, you will crumble. Let’s talk about why.
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Thu, 09 Mar 2023 - 27min - 211 - 190. 5 Powerful Things I Learned in My Relationship
There are soooo many lessons that I’ve learned from being in a relationship for just over a year now.
Firstly: if you think that once you get in a relationship, your triggers all pack up and head out the door…that’s just not it. It is NOT IT, friend.
Secondly: If you want trust at the core of your relationship, you want to consider getting REALLY honest with yourself and your partner.
Thirdly…well, you’ll just have to listen to the episode to find out the rest!
The work doesn’t stop when you get into a relationship…in fact, it’s only just beginning. Let’s go over the five biggest lessons I’ve learned from being in a year-long relationship.
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Thu, 02 Mar 2023 - 27min - 210 - 189. This Is Why People Get Frustrated With "iNneR WOrK"
Let me know if this sounds familiar at all:
“Why am I STILL getting triggered by this? Why am I still responding this way? I DID this work already.”
Mmm…did you, though? Or did you just listen to a podcast episode about it and call it a day?
Inner work takes TIME and PATIENCE…and as uncomfortable as it can get, true elevation requires you to sit and hold yourself when things come up for you…even if it’s something you’d rather pretend isn’t there at all.
It’s time to get curious. It’s time to get patient. And it’s time to set the ego aside, because the truth is, we all have sides of us we’d rather ignore. It’s the people who can sit with those sides of themselves that actually hit that next level.
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Thu, 23 Feb 2023 - 19min - 209 - 188. Finding Confidence, Self love, + Self Trust with Sara SLOC (now called Self Trust Alchemy) Alum
Tune in to find out how Self Love Over Codependency (now called Self Trust Alchemy) alum Sara DEEPENED her connection to her intuition, built her confidence, and found self-love Self Trust Alchemy, my 16-week shadow work group program on how to step into your sovereignty as a POWERFUL leader over your life who makes decisions with clarity and DEEP levels of self-trust (formerly known as SLOC), begins THIS Wednesday, Feb 15!
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Tue, 14 Feb 2023 - 47min - 208 - 187. Finding DEEP levels of Self Trust in Career, Money, + Beyond with Self Love Over Codependency (Now called Self Trust Alchemy) alum, Jordyn
Tune in to find out how Self Love Over Codependency (now called Self Trust Alchemy) alum Jordyn went from OVERTHINKING, fear of the unknown, and doubt to deep levels of self-trust in being provided for money wise AND job wise as well as manifesting a contract position right after a job loss. Self Trust Alchemy, my 16-week shadow work group program on how to step into your sovereignty as a POWERFUL leader over your life who makes decisions with clarity and DEEP levels of self-trust (formerly known as SLOC), begins NEXT Wednesday, Feb 15!
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Mon, 13 Feb 2023 - 49min - 207 - 186. Quitting A Job, Finding A Much More ALIGNED One, + The Self Trust It Took with SLOC (now called Self Trust Alchemy) Alum, Krystal
Tune in to find out how Self Love Over Codependency (now called Self Trust Alchemy) alum Krystal went from feeling trapped, stuck, and unhappy at her job to gaining the courage to LEAVE and ultimately finding a position that was a 360 turn around with MUCH better management + a schedule that aligns with her lifestyle. Self Trust Alchemy, my 16-week shadow work group program on how to step into your sovereignty as a POWERFUL leader over your life who makes decisions with clarity and DEEP levels of self-trust (formerly known as SLOC), begins NEXT Wednesday, Feb 15! Click here to join self-trust alchemy https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/self-trust-alchemy IG: @theselflovefix Website: beatricekamau.com
Fri, 10 Feb 2023 - 50min - 205 - 185. 3 Things You NEED To Know About The Ego
You may think you know the ego…but if there’s one thing I’ve learned over my journey through the self-development world, it’s this:
Just when I THINK I know everything, something I’ve never heard before comes along and turns my whole world upside down.
You’re never done learning. And if you can get into that mindset now, I promise you that you will experience expansion in a way you never thought possible.
Today, I’m going to tell you three things you absolutely NEED to know about the ego. And if you think you’re too advanced for this topic…well, hello to your ego.
I promise you, this discussion is like NOTHING you’ve ever heard before. Because even I, the Ego Whisperer, am always discovering new things about the ego…and I’m excited to share them with you today.
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Thu, 02 Feb 2023 - 24min - 204 - 184. Avoidant Attachment Styles + Vulnerability
The biggest lie avoidant attachment will tell you?
That you’re safer never showing anyone the REAL you.
People with avoidant attachment get squeamish AF when someone starts to open up to them. They can’t stand the idea of being vulnerable in front of someone else. Their avoidant attachment tells them that the only reason anyone would want to get to know them on a deeper level is so they can have something on them…so they can use that weakness to manipulate and hurt you.
Here’s the truth: most people who are romantically interested in you don’t have it out for you. And if that’s a mindblowing revelation, just wait until you hear what else I have to say…
This one’s short and sweet, but boy does it pack a PUNCH. Get ready to have those avoidantly attached lies turned on their head.
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Thu, 26 Jan 2023 - 12min - 203 - 183. Here's Why You Secretly ENJOY People Pleasing
Where are my people-pleasers at?
Buckle up and get ready to sit with some hard truths today. I’m here to talk about all things people-pleasing…why we do it, why we can’t STOP doing it, and why…stay with me, here…we actually really enjoy it.
You heard me right. I said we actually ENJOY people-pleasing, no matter what we might say about wanting to stop.
The Ego Whisperer is in top form today, and I’m not afraid to raise my voice. Let’s talk about what’s keeping you trapped in your people-pleasing habits…and how we can shift this to start being a supportive habit instead of a sabotaging one.
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Thu, 19 Jan 2023 - 15min - 202 - 182. How Your Attachment Style Impacts How You Make Friends
Brace yourself: this concept may just blow your minds.
Attachment styles aren’t just for romantic relationships.
OMG. WHAT?
This was a HUGE epiphany for me, and it definitely didn’t dawn on me until I started trying to figure out why making friends—something that used to be sooo easy as a kid—suddenly felt IMPOSSIBLE as an adult. It took shadow work, breaking down some limiting beliefs, and really delving into my mindset surrounding friendship to realize that it actually had everything to do with my attachment style.
Curious about how your attachment style—whether that’s anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant, or secure—affects the way you make friends in adulthood? Let me lay it all out for you.
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Thu, 12 Jan 2023 - 23min - 201 - 181. It's 2023, It's Okay To Admit You Want A Relationship
PAUSE. Before you go any further, let me start by saying this:
If you truly, deeply, in your heart of hearts, DO NOT WANT a relationship? That’s great. That is absolutely great for you.
But more often than not, when I come across people in my coaching and personal life who claim they don’t want anything to do with relationships…the truth is something very different.
If you’ve had to convince yourself of all the reasons why you don’t actually want a relationship, why they’re too much trouble, why it’s not worth it…guess what? It’s not that you don’t want a relationship…it’s that your ego can’t take another minute of wanting what it THINKS it can’t have.
Even if this feels better in the moment, this kind of denial and suppression…it’s not serving you, friends. Not even a little bit. Let me tell you why it’s actually okay to admit you want a relationship.
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Thu, 05 Jan 2023 - 27min - 200 - 180. 2 Powerful Ways That My Investments In Personal Development + Entrepreneurship Have Evolved
WE MADE IT!
Can you believe it’s already the end of 2022? This will be the last episode of the year, and believe me, this Self Love Fix Finale does NOT disappoint!
While many other creators are doing a year-end wrap-up, I want to do something a little bit different. I want to share one particular part of my self-development journey where I have grown leaps and bounds this year: my mindset surrounding investing in myself.
Investing in yourself can FEEL like a scary, scary thing. It stretches you in ways you don’t always expect. But it’s never NOT paid off for me, and I’m here today to tell you why it’s so important to practice the right mindset around investing in yourself…not from a place of need, but from a place of desire.
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Thu, 22 Dec 2022 - 24min - 199 - 179. Redefining Self Love + The Self Love Fix 2.0 Brand Revision
Here we gooo…
It’s time for an exciting episode I have been looking forward to for QUITE some time now.
New cover photo. New intro. New focus. New Instagram bio. New EVERYTHING.
Welcome to the new Self Love Fix. I’m your host, Beatrice Kamau, and you can call me the Ego Whisperer.
In this episode, I’m going to spill the tea on all things EVOLUTION—because just like my brand, just like me, YOU also get to evolve. I’m also going to give you a behind-the-scenes look at what’s changing, what’s staying the same, and who the person behind the mic REALLY is. Let’s dive right in.
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Thu, 15 Dec 2022 - 24min - 198 - 178. Imposter Syndrome, Confidence, and Boundary Setting with SLOC alum (now called Self Trust Alchemy) Natalie Ashton
There are so, so many facets to developing self-love, self-confidence, and self-trust, and we’re going to talk about quite a few of them today…
That’s right, I said WE. I am so, so pleased to be able to welcome another SLOC alum, Natalie Ashton, onto the podcast to chat about her experience in the program!
Natalie is such an incredible person. I could talk about her for hours. She’s come so far since I first met her, and today she’s coming on to talk about building self-trust, learning how to set boundaries (even when it’s scary!), and all of the incredible new endeavors she’s taken on since graduating from the program. I can’t wait for you all to hear what she has to say!
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions involving sexual abuse. Please listen safely.
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Thu, 08 Dec 2022 - 40min - 197 - 177. Confidence, Boundaries, + Motherhood with SLOC alum (now called Self Trust Alchemy) Essi Wognakou
Sometimes setting boundaries can take more energy than it’s worth…or at least, that’s what it feels like. But in actuality, it’s one of the most important things you can do to PROTECT your energy.
That’s a lesson, my wonderful guest this week, Essi Wognakou, learned in my program, SLC—Self-Love Over Codependency, now called Self-Trust Alchemy!
Essi’s here today to talk about her experience inside the program and all the things she learned about building her confidence, setting boundaries, and tackling motherhood. I can’t wait for you to hear all the wisdom coming from this amazing woman.
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Thu, 01 Dec 2022 - 47min - 196 - Expanded in Love Black Friday Sale!
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Thu, 24 Nov 2022 - 09min - 195 - 176. If YOU Get to Evolve, Other People Do Too
Okay, friends. Take a moment and brace yourselves. Take a moment and check in with yourself about whether you’re in a good place to hear this, because it’s not an easy pill to swallow:
Today, I want to talk about accepting change. Not just in yourself, but in others.
If you get to change, other people do, too. And you’ll only be able to hold space for yourself to evolve inasmuch as you are able to hold space for others to do the same.
I’m going deep, difficult, and personal in this episode, so get ready to hear some hard things. I’m not holding back. But I firmly believe that this is going to land for many of you, so I’m excited to share. Let’s jump in.
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Thu, 17 Nov 2022 - 17min - 194 - 175. A Conversation on Cultivating + Creating DEEP Adult Friendships with 2 Bad Bitch Friends
Does making friendships as an adult feel so impossibly out of reach, especially as a woman? Guess what: it’s not only possible, but I can tell you how to make it happen.
I can’t do it alone, though…so I’ve invited Michelle Panning, host of the Unfuck Your Relationships podcast and expert on all things shadow work and embodiment—and my amazing friend—to hop on and talk with me about what you need to know in order to cultivate deep adult friendships!
Talk about an example of a bad bitch friendship! I’m so thrilled to have Michelle on for the third time, and I hope her insight inspires you in your pursuit of building deep connections and fulfilling, thriving friendships.
This one is going to be gooood, friends. Don’t wait—listen now if you’re ready to transform your friendships, not just your relationships!
EPISODE RESOURCES:
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Website: http://www.michellepanning.com
Thu, 10 Nov 2022 - 1h 04min - 193 - 174. Does Dating Really Take "Too Much Time" Or Are YOU Wasting Your OWN Time?
“Dating is a waste of time.”
Have you ever said this before? I’ve been there too, but here’s the thing: it’s just not true.
You know why I know that? Because it’s a lesson I had to learn myself.
The truth is, dating is not the thing wasting your time. Because if you claim to not want to waste your time, but then make yourself available for situationships, emotionally unavailable partners, or any other thing that’s going absolutely nowhere…guess what?
Dating isn’t wasting your time. YOU are.
The tea is hot today, friends, and I’m spilling it just for you. Listen now if you’re ready to clear the air of all these dating delusions and leave “Amazon Prime” relationship energy behind.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this post and what your major takeaways were.
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Thu, 03 Nov 2022 - 12min - 192 - 173. The 2 Ways to Create BETTER Time Management in Your Life
“We all have the same 24 hours in a day.”
The WORST, right? Nobody likes being told this when it comes to the discussion around time management. Here’s the thing: while this (admittedly annoying) statement is absolutely true, the conversation around time management isn’t actually about time…it’s about attention.
We all have the same amount of time, but we DON’T have the same amount of attention, and that’s where this “Same 24 Hours” theory breaks down.
I firmly believe that not being able to get things done—or burning yourself out from piling too much on your plate—is not actually a TIME management problem. The truth? This is actually a DISTRACTION and ATTENTION management problem. Here are my two best tips for utilizing attention and distraction management!
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Thu, 27 Oct 2022 - 18min - 191 - 172. Here's How to ACTUALLY Attract an Emotionally Available and Commitment-Ready Partner
Does it feel like you’ve become a magnet to every emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobic person in the dating pool? Have you been blaming it on this generation’s idea of dating, the fickleness of dating apps, or just about any other excuse you can come up with?
Bad news: it’s none of those things. It’s you.
Ultimately, it’s not that we’re attracting emotionally unavailable partners…it’s that we’re making ourselves available to them. We’re looking for the first thing that crosses our path, whether that person is truly in alignment with what we consciously desire or not, because our unconscious desires are actually the ones running the show.
How do you escape this cycle? Good news: as always, I’m here to tell you what you need to hear, even if it’s not what you want to hear. Listen now to find out how to find the partnership you truly want.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this post and what your major takeaways were.
Head over to my website to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life.
EPISODE RESOURCES:
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Thu, 20 Oct 2022 - 23min - 190 - 171. What is Shadow Work + What It Has To Do With Your "Bad Habits" You Can't Seem To Shake
Shadow work: it’s a term you’ve probably heard before. But what is it, and why does everyone seem to be talking about it?
Take out your flashlight, friends, because today I’m taking you on a journey into all the shadowy, invisible parts of your personality. Shadow work is all about turning the unconscious conscious, which means taking a look at some things you might’ve shoved so far down that you’ve forgotten they even existed…or maybe you’re hoping they’ll disappear if you don’t look too closely at them.
Shadow work isn’t scary; in fact, it’s an amazing, AMAZING tool for improving your self-image, your relationships, and your patience with yourself. But it can be emotional…and it can actually be harmful if done without the right guidance. Let me tell you what shadow work actually is, and what you need to do to get started.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this post and what your major takeaways were.
Head over to my website to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life.
EPISODE RESOURCES:
If you’re ready to start your shadow work journey with the guidance of someone who knows her stuff, sign up for my masterclass, THE OTHER YOU: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/UuJEETZf/checkout
Thu, 13 Oct 2022 - 15min - 189 - 170. 4 Powerful Money Tips to Manifest More Money, Honey!
I could talk about money all day long, and let me tell you—you’re getting a masterclass about money manifestation all packed into one episode today.
Manifesting abundance in your life isn’t complicated…in fact, half of it is about recognizing the abundance already present in your life. We experience abundance in a hundred beautiful ways every single day, but without a shift in perspective, we might miss it altogether.
Today, I have four powerful tips for how you can manifest more abundance in your life. Be warned—a couple of them aren’t easy to swallow, but discomfort can be necessary in order to help us grow.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
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Thu, 06 Oct 2022 - 29min - 188 - 169. 4 Signs You Have a Yo-Yo Relationship With Money (And What To Do About It!)
Last week, I talked about managing your energy and your other resources. This week, I want to talk about the management of one of those resources, and what can happen when you don't manage it: money.
There are four signs that you might have a yo-yo relationship with money:
Lack of control around money Speaking poorly about money Only speaking positively about money when you have it in excess Making more, but not keeping moreA yo-yo relationship means there's no real consistency and balance in your relationship with money, and when you're going through this type of scarcity surrounding money, it's impossible to manage it properly. Let me tell you how to start turning this relationship around for the better.
CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:
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Head over to my website to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life.
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Thu, 29 Sep 2022 - 19min - 187 - 168. 4 Signs You Might Be Mismanaging Your Energy
Last week, I talked about how mismanagement of your energy and resources can lead to severe burnout. This week, I want to talk about four signs you can watch out for to identify whether you're struggling with energy mismanagement:
- Struggles with self-control around money Struggles with energy management Struggles with time management Struggles with self-control around food
Thu, 22 Sep 2022 - 26min - 186 - 167. When Burnout Gets Out of Control: My Story on Burnout, Anxiety, and Depression
Quick trigger warning, friends: this episode involves discussions about suicidal thoughts, depression, and anxiety. If these topics are triggering to you, I suggest skipping this episode. This isn't an easy topic for me to talk about. It's still very fresh in my mind, and I get really emotional trying to talk about it, but I'm doing it anyway. I'm doing it because I know someone needs to hear it—someone needs to know that they're not alone and they don't have to be ashamed. Or someone needs to realize that they're heading toward a bad situation, and they can still stop it before it's too late. I'm coming on today to talk about my experience with severe burnout, and how it led to anxiety, depression, lost sleep, and ultimately a hospitalization. Now, rest assured, I'm fine now—I got through it, and I want you to know that you can, too. But I'm hoping that by sharing my story, I can help you all avoid falling into the same situation I found myself in. Just because it isn't easy doesn't mean it doesn't need to be done. I'm ready to share this story with you. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Get access to the Attention Please! EXCLUSIVE Private podcast by yours truly on ENERGY and MONEY MANAGEMENT by clicking here to listen in!
Thu, 15 Sep 2022 - 53min - 185 - 166. Are You Exercising Leadership Over Your Life?
These days, it's easier to follow, isn't it? Follow your coach's example. Follow your partner's lead. Follow the way you've always done things. Why is this? Because if you follow someone else's instructions or example, you get to blame them when things go wrong. If you never change anything about how you're pursuing whatever it is you want—a relationship, a job, a friendship—then you never have to acknowledge the ways that you've been responsible for your "failures." It's time to learn what it takes to become a leader in your own life, ladies. Because the only way you're ever going to finally accomplish your beautiful vision for your life is by taking responsibility and leading yourself toward the culmination of that vision. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix DM WOD to get access to enrollment for Woman of Desire. This premium 4-month live group program is designed to help you manifest the relationship that matches your standards. Or go here: https://beatricekamau.com/wodpre Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcW Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101
Thu, 08 Sep 2022 - 18min - 184 - 165. Are You Open to Receiving Love?
We've been talking a lot about vulnerability lately...but what happens if you avoid that kind of intimacy with your partner? For those who lean avoidant in their dating life, it's usually because you're trying to protect yourself. But when you hide behind walls to try and make yourself look better, you cut off the beating heart of connection and love: emotional vulnerability. When you refuse to let someone see the softer parts of you, the messier parts, the "What if they can't handle this?" parts...it doesn't make you safer. It actually closes you off from receiving love, and closes your partner off from trusting you with their more intimate parts, too! But how do you solve this as an avoidant or anxious-avoidant dater? If you have no idea where to begin, don't worry—I'm here today to help you get started. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix DM WOD to get access to enrollment for Woman of Desire. This premium 4-month live group program is designed to help you manifest the relationship that matches your standards. Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcW Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101
Thu, 01 Sep 2022 - 19min - 183 - 164. Scarce or Spoiled? When Scarcity Mindset Becomes Entitlement
Let's talk entitlement and scarcity...and how the two actually go together. Entitlement says, "I deserve a relationship, because I am a wonderful person. I am a catch. I'm amazing." Scarcity says, "I can't have what I want (or deserve) because there isn't enough to go around, so I'm going to turn whatever I have into the thing that I feel I deserve." When both of these mindsets show up to a party together, only trouble can come out of it, right? No matter what you might think, these attitudes aren't going to get you the relationship you're looking for. You know why? The universe doesn't owe you a relationship just because you're a nice or fun or cool person. You can't just show up and expect it to fall into your lap. You have to do the work...and there is work to do. There is a way to get what you want. But you have to learn how to get rid of that entitlement mindset first. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcW Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101
Thu, 25 Aug 2022 - 49min - 182 - 163. Do You ACTUALLY Want a Relationship Like You Say You Do?
So it's happened again. You've been seeing someone for a while now, but you're eternally caught in the "talking" stage, with no official label in sight. The person you're seeing seems perfectly content to continue on in your "situationship," enjoying the lack of pressure (and lack of commitment) and you're once again getting fed up. You don't understand why everyone you come across is happy to go with the flow while you want a relationship... ...Or do you? Today, I'm going to help you figure out why you keep getting caught in this cycle, why you keep attracting unsure partners, and why you might not actually want what you say you want. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/theselflovefix Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com EPISODE RESOURCES Sign up for the Game of Attraction: https://beatricekamau.mykajabi.com/offers/ueSEVcWR?coupon_code=LETSPLAY Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101
Thu, 18 Aug 2022 - 24min - 181 - An Update + Fears of Being Seen + How to Work with Me
Hey hey!
It has been a MINUTE since I have been on the podcast. Tune in to hear:
-Where I've been
-A convo on the New Moon in Leo tonight 7/28/2022 + Fears of Being Seen
- How to work with me (join the waitlist for high level coaching on how to go from single + frustrated---> Attracting the relationship of your desire)
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Thu, 28 Jul 2022 - 12min - 180 - 161. Navigating Anxiousness in Dating
Anxious attachment is tricky, and it can definitely get you into some relationship trouble if you don’t know how to deal with it. It can leave you scared of true intimacy even though it’s also what you want above all else.
Talk about a hell of your own anxious making. That’s why in this episode of the Self Love Fix Podcast we’ll talk more about:
The pitfalls of anxious attachment How to navigate dating in a healthier wayWhen you feel complete and whole and loved by yourself, you know that a partner isn’t the end all be all. You can see things clearly, and accept what’s for you…and what isn’t with grace and dignity that you’ve had inside you all along.
Get clear before you start dating, remember that dating is a process of gathering information and that as long as you give the relationship time to evolve, even if it doesn’t work out in the end, at least you were brave enough to try and grow.
If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.
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Episode Resources
Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101
Thu, 23 Jun 2022 - 18min - 179 - 160. Why You Desire A Relationship but Attract Situationships
There you are, hoping, wishing, praying for real and lasting love- an honest-to-goodness relationship…so why the heck are you continually settling for a situationship? You know what I’m talking about, right?
The situationship- the kind of dating when the guy says stuff like “seeing where it’s going, keeping it casual, just hanging out” and you pretend to be cool with it as your soul dies a little more and your doubt climbs, because can you actually change his mind? No, probably not. So on this episode, let’s figure out:
Why we keep repeating this pattern How to break itYou might feel powerless right now- after all how much control do you have over all the terrible men out there just waiting to screw you over…but the thing is, most of them aren’t. And you have a lot more control than you think you do because a lot of this work needs to come from you. Let me help you get started.
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Website: http://www.beatricekamau.com
Thu, 16 Jun 2022 - 21min - 178 - 159. You Hold the Power to Attract the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted
For most of us love is (or at least was) an elusive mystery we could only dream of. That’s why today I’m so excited to welcome my guest Crystal Irom, a Love Coach specifically for successful women. As if women didn’t have it hard enough these days, amiright?
Why is it that especially women who are successful in every other aspect of their lives struggle to find someone to love? Is it because men are intimidated? Are these women (possibly you) doomed to roam the world biding your time in between horrible dates and dead-end relationships? We examine all of this and more in the latest episode of The Self-Love Fix Podcast along with:
How to adjust how you present yourself What settling really means How to love yourself before you love someone elseMen and women are different, and that includes what’s important to men in terms of a relationship. The key is knowing the parts of yourself that pave the way for connection, and understanding that to be in love means to be vulnerable. It also means appreciating yourself for who you are, and being unapologetically you.
If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories, and tag me, @theselflovefix.
If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.
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CONNECT WITH CRYSTAL:
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Episode Resources
Escape the situationship cycle and become available for an actual relationship. Take accountability for what you really want with my free, transformative 5-day resource. Receive daily tips to help you attract the right kind of men. https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page/2ee1aa3101
Thu, 09 Jun 2022 - 42min
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