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Topics: Sexual Addiction, Emotional Abuse, Church Life, Divorce, Fear, Adult Children, Enabling, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc shares a lesson from nature in nurture. 2. My husband has a sex addiction and is emotionally abusive; how can we overcome the epidemic of churches believing divorce is only permissible on grounds of adultery and physical abuse? 3. How do I move forward if I’m in the process of getting a divorce, and I’ve been calling the suicide hotline because I am afraid of falling asleep? 4. Am I enabling my daughter? She was married to a woman who was a witch, has schizoaffective disorder, and all she does is lay in bed and listen to spirits talking to her. 5. My daughter’s husband is addicted to sex, has brainwashed her, and she has left several times only to return. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, Alcohol, Enabling, Adult Children, Finances, Boundaries Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. JJ shares how we are called to rejoice always and give thanks, even after a hurricane, whether your house was spared or not. God’s goodness doesn’t depend on our circumstances. 2. What do you think of a Christian working at a brewery? Would I be facilitating harm to others? 3. My daughter, husband and kids have moved in; they want money from me, but they don’t manage money well. 4. What do I do if my sister sold everything and moved in with us, but my husband wants her out today? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Betrayal, Sexual Addiction, Affairs, Pornography, Self Worth Hosts: Becky Brown and presenters at Restore Workshop Intensive, Stacey Sadler Smith and Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. I attended Restore Workshop, and Stacey and Laura have been such an encouragement to me! My issues were not the same as everyone else, but the pain of betrayal is the same. 2. I found out I was betrayed most of my married life. He went to Every Man’s Battle, but I didn’t think anyone could understand what I was going through until I went to a New Life workshop. 3. My husband had an affair, went to strip clubs, and was into porn. Restore was the most valuable thing I ever did because I knew nothing about sexual addiction. My wounded heart has begun to heal. 4. After attending Restore, I have a renewed vision of who I am. I am enough! Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Rescued Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Fear, Holidays, Affairs, Incarceration, Adult Children, Sexual Abuse, Dating, Alcohol Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri discusses how the upcoming holidays can produce fear of intimacy, fear of vulnerability, and fear of being re-injured. 2. What do I do to help my 32yo son who is having a baby with a married woman, and my 30yo son who is a 4-time felon? 3. I was physically and sexually abused as a child, raped when I was a teen, then I became a perpetrator myself; if people have had trauma, can they have a good dating relationship? 4. Can you help me understand Scriptures that say two different things about alcohol? Suggested Resources: How People Grow Healing Is a Choice Life Recovery Journey To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, Parenting, Unemployment, Self Worth Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill shares the concept of bookending and how God provided direction and confirmation. 2. My 12yo son needs reminders about everything; how can I help him do stuff on his own? 3. What are your thoughts on why I feel like my prayers don’t go anywhere? After being unemployed for over a year, I started questioning myself. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Relationships, Intimacy, Divorce, Social Media, Pornography, Transgender, Grandparenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc discusses how it’s hard for people to know what a secure healthy attachment looks like in healthy relationships if they’ve never been exposed to one. 2. My husband had prostate cancer and we are affectionate but not intimate; will your Intimacy in Marriage Weekend help with that? 3. What should I do after my ex-wife went to a guardian angel website, and they sent her a picture of her soulmate that looks like me? 4. Whenever I use social media, there are ads that pop up to draw you into porn; are there any practical ways to get rid of them? 5. My son is transitioning into a woman, and we validate our 7yo grandson who says boys should be boys. My son is threatening to withdraw our grandson from us. Suggested Resources: How We Love Intimate Deception Every Man’s Battle Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Dating, Affairs, Childhood Trauma, Hoarding, Self Worth, Christian Walk, Counseling, Addictions, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Stacey Sadler Smith Caller Questions More: 1. Becky and Dr. Alice discuss natural disasters and anxiety. 2. I’m afraid if I tell the wonderful woman I just started dating about my cheating in the past, she’ll run away. 3. I was burned over 75 percent of my body as a child; I now hoard and am unhappy in my marriage. Which way do I turn? 4. How can you help me if I base my worth on how well I do in my business and feel worthless now? 5. Do you believe the Holy Spirit can break someone completely free from emotional bondage, or do some people need counseling? 6. After stopping his addictions, my husband won’t go to therapy to deal with his angry outbursts. The stress of it is hurting me physically. Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust How People Grow Changes That Heal Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Stress, Counseling, Pornography, Adult Children, Addictions, Incarceration, Fear, Finances, Divorce Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses mounting stress. 2. Thank you! My husband and I provide counseling at our church from the resources you provide. 3. I just discovered soft porn on my husband’s phone; what is my next step after I confronted him? 4. How do I handle my son being in jail? After he meet his bio dad when he was 17yo, he got into drugs and alcohol. 5. I am in financial fear of my soon-to-be ex-husband getting out of prison and suing me. I put him in prison 15yrs ago for molesting a family member. Suggested Resources: How We Love Every Man’s Battle Life Recovery Bible People Fuel To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Reframe, Affairs, Intimacy, Father Issues, Estrangement, Caregiving, Eating Disorders, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares tools for how to re-regulate yourself when you are having a hard day. 2. I’ve been married 27yrs, was unfaithful, and am not attracted physically to my wife. 3. This Saturday, I’m meeting my biological father for the first time; how can I protect myself from feeling hurt but make the most of it? 4. What can my wife and I do to remain connected as a couple if she struggles with an eating disorder, PTSD, anxiety, insomnia, chronic fatigue, and I take care of her? Suggested Resources: How We Love Making Peace with Your Father Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Alcohol, Addictions, Adult Children, Estrangement, Motivation, Boundaries, Disclosure, Affairs Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice shares addiction insights from an AA recovery leader. 2. What are your thoughts on a counselor encouraging my 19yo daughter to distance herself from me? She told me she won’t come home until I stop yelling. 3. My 19yo grandson works a part-time job but then sleeps and plays video games for the rest of the day; do you have any advice? 4. I disclosed to my wife that I had multiple affairs 25yrs ago, but I don’t remember details. Now she wants me to take a polygraph. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Life Recovery Bible Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: OCD, Adult Children, Affairs, Custody, Finances, Caregiving, Grief, Sexual Integrity, Social Media Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Becky shares about infobesity and infoxication, current terms to describe information overload, and how the trail of needing to know more can lead to OCD. 2. How do I navigate the relationship with my son, late 40s, who divorced because of his adultery and continues to see the other woman who is still married? 3. Do I try to force my child’s father to take responsibility and pay child support through the courts, or do I try to work with him outside of court? 4. I took care of my elderly mother-in-law until I had to put her in a nursing home, haven’t grieved the death of my husband, and now my daughter won’t talk to me. 5. What do I do if my husband has hundreds of friends on Facebook, mostly female? I am almost 88yo and feel concerned. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Victims, Dating, Narcissists, Disabilities, Gender Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses what it looks like to fall into victimhood mentality that keeps us stuck. 2. On a previous show you talked about why a 43yo man should not date a 19yo; if a man can have a brand-new car off the lot, why would he choose an old car? 3. I’m blind, just moved to a new apartment, but I don’t have transportation and am very frustrated. 4. Is my good friend transitioning to a woman because he’s depressed? Any studies? His counselor is affirming him. 5. Over 30yrs ago I became a Club New Life member and never looked back! Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Bible How People Grow To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, Divorce, Grief, Siblings, Anger, Grandparenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim shares the pain of discipline vs. the pain of regret during our tougher times. 2. Is there redemption and hope if I’ve committed the unpardonable sin? I lashed out in anger and called the Holy Spirit by the name of Satan. 3. Since calling you a few weeks ago, my wife has unfortunately filed for a divorce. 4. Do you have any insight for me? After my 41yo son died, my brother wrote a horrible letter to us that said we let our son die. 5. My grandson always makes his wife or in-laws a priority; what can I do? Suggested Resources: Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Sexual Addiction, Divorce, Mother Issues, Affairs, Betrayal, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares about the big gap between what we desire and where we are. 2. My husband has a sex addiction and wants a divorce; is it a good thing for me to try to stay with him? 3. How do I deal with my mom resenting me and never being able to please her? She just had a stroke, and she’s very ugly to me. 4. For two-thirds of my life my husband sexually betrayed me; what is the best way to navigate my grief in this season? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Making Peace with Your Father Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Intimacy, Adult Children, Dating, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity. 2. My wife thinks I’ve rejected her because we haven’t consummated our 4yr marriage due to me having prostate cancer; what do I do? 3. Our 19yo daughter is dating a 43yo and we’re concerned; are there any red flags to look for? 4. How do we go about reconciling with estranged family members over our decision to sell our vacation home? Our grandkids won’t speak to us. Suggested Resources: How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Attitude, Fear, Medication, Narcissists, Sexual Integrity, Emotional Affairs, Nightmares, Trauma Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron discusses the importance of attitude and Holocaust survivors. 2. I’m 62yo and in fear all the time. I’m scared of the side effects of Prozac; can I get off it eventually? 3. In your Intimacy in Marriage Weekend, have you ever had success with narcissistic spouses? 4. Do I stay with my husband after finding messages from other women on his phone? He won’t end it with them. 5. How do I stop having nightmares about traumatic events in my past? I wake up crying. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal How We Love Worthy of Her Trust Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, Boundaries, Teens, Alcohol, Finances, Elder Abuse Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui discusses the burdens we carry and taking them to the Lord. 2. When my ex-husband wanted me to bail him out of jail, I turned him down. How should I treat him now? 3. My soon-to-be 18yo daughter has always been challenging to me, and she has narcissistic tendencies. 4. My 30yo nephew is struggling with alcohol; he was sober for 3mos but has recently relapsed. 5. I found out that a couple I know charged thousands on my credit card after I gave them the card for their doctor copays. In the Bible it says Christians are not to go to court, so what do I do? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love Our Kids Life Recovery Bible Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Bipolar, Parenting, Identity, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Difficult Conversations, Healing Journey, Parenting, Aging Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses how to recognize symptoms of bipolar disorder. 2. What do you think about my 11yo granddaughter wanting to identify as an animal? She wants to belong to a group at school who identify as therians. 3. My 48yo single son spends 25hrs over a weekend playing pool at a strip club; should I talk to him about it or just pray? 4. My life was a hot mess. New Life gave me so many tools and decision-making advice that I can now pass on to my kids to give them what I never got from my parents. Thank you! 5. A 90yo attendee at the Emotional Freedom Intensive taught us that it is never too late and don’t think you have ever arrived! Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Reactions, Comparisons, Childhood Trauma, Passive-Aggressive, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Siblings, Verbal Abuse, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares her parable on how a pot of boiling water can describe what’s happening in a relationship. 2. There are so many comparisons for couples out there on social media; how can we have healthy conversations with our spouse and not hurtful? 3. My husband can’t follow through on things he agreed to do; should he be digging deeper into a childhood trauma? 4. Thank you for the advice you gave my husband and I to practice tough love with my heroin-addicted daughter who is now sober! 5. My siblings have been distant until one brother died. Any advice after I blew up at my sister and brother for pressing me about our brother’s estate? Suggested Resources: How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children Life Recovery Journey Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Affairs, Sexual Addiction, Depression, Polyamorous, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns is interviewed about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity. 2. My husband has had affairs, and I recently walked in on him doing something inappropriate; is he a sex addict? 3. What are your thoughts on anhedonia and nihilism? I think I have these because I have been struggling with depression and was at a very low point. 4. My stepdaughter is in a polyamorous marriage and has kids; how do my husband and I navigate this? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Worthy of Her Trust Emotional Freedom Workbook Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Gambling, Sexual Addiction, Friendship, Reconnection Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares what can help decrease anxiety and depression is to experience awe, especially in nature. 2. What direction can I go if my husband has a gambling problem and goes to massage parlors? 3. Do I leave my husband of 40yrs who has a sex addiction and thinks he can handle it on his own? 4. My friend says he’s afraid of developing feelings for me and doesn’t have to repair the relationship since we’re not married. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Trust Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Loneliness, Separation, Intimacy, Blended Families, Adult Children, Resentment, Estrangement, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares the surprising results of new loneliness research. 2. My wife separated because I created fake accounts online and introduced sexual fantasies into the marriage; she wants me to meet with her and her dad today. 3. My 32yo daughter had a stroke, was diagnosed with schizophrenia, and moved in with us for 2yrs. How do I deal with the anger and resentment that I feel toward my husband? I felt like he was making me choose between her and him. 4. Why can’t I do something about my daughter-in-law not letting us see the grandkids for years? 5. Should I be concerned that my 34yo gay son is no longer working after moving in with a controlling man? Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust How We Love Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Trust, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Bipolar, Father Issues, Intimacy, Grief, Blended Families Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares how love is free, but trust is earned. 2. How do I navigate my 31yo son’s drug abuse and mental health struggles? Is it right for him to go on an amphetamine like Adderall? 3. How can my daughter honor her bipolar father when he continues to be hurtful? 4. My husband is my best friend, but I am not in love with him. 5. Would there be a benefit for my husband of 3yrs to grieve the loss of the childhood he thinks his kids should’ve had? They lost their mother to brain cancer. Suggested Resources: Trust Life Recovery Journey Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Hope, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Sexting, False Accusations, Narcissists, Intimacy Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares from Nahum that God is in the whirlwind and the storm, so hold on. 2. How do we talk to our homeschooled teens and 5yo child about sex from a Christian point of view? 3. My wife of 24yrs has been accusing me of being with other women, but I haven’t been unfaithful. 4. After 30yrs of marriage, how do I know if I’m married to a narcissist? 5. My wife is a teacher and when the school year starts, we only have sex about once a month. Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World How We Love Emotional Destruction Relationship To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Endurance, OCD, Divorce, Parenting, Narcissists, Getting Unstuck Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West talks about fighting the good fight and finishing the race. 2. I have been compulsively recording conversations with other people on my phone for 20yrs. 3. How can I remain close to my children after getting out of a 36yr abusive marriage? 4. My wife is narcissistic and I’m miserable. If I leave I’ll lose everything; what do I do? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Emotionally Destructive Relationship Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Bipolar, Siblings, Childhood Trauma, Estrangement, Dating, Grief, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron explains core conflict patterns. 2. My 54yo daughter is bipolar and has a personality disorder; how do I help her after she was in the psychiatric hospital for 2wks? 3. Is there any way for me to reach out to my brother who was emotionally abused as a child and has a hard time keeping a job? 4. How do I handle a breakup with the girl I thought I was going to marry? Her bio mom told her to break up with me. 5. What’s in the best interest of my children? I am divorced and my 11yo and 13yo want to spend more time with their mom. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Healing Is a Choice Life Recovery Workbook for Grief How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Sexual Addiction, Sexual Integrity, Sexual Abuse, Communication, Estrangement, Affairs, Adult Children, Grief, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares that the DSM-5 does not have a diagnosis for sexual addiction and it is not mentioned in the Bible; how do we recognize it? 2. I’m battling with lustful thoughts around attractive men. 3. How do I make sure what I say doesn’t hurt my husband’s feelings? He says he wants me to be honest, but I’m afraid it might hurt him. 4. I’ve been estranged from my son for 33yrs and am writing a letter to him; is it my place to tell them about his deceased mother’s affair that destroyed our marriage? 5. I’ve lost my dad, mom, godmother, and stepsister; is something wrong with me if I really want to be in heaven today? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Self Worth, Enabling, Adult Children, Boundaries, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown asks, Who do you think you are? 2. My friends accuse me of enabling my son in the music industry because I gave him rent money for his birthday; how do I help him without enabling? 3. Would it be horrible for me to put in writing that it’s time for my 47yo son to leave my home? He doesn’t pay rent and has lived here for 10yrs. 4. My husband of 20yrs refuses to maintain or fix anything in our home, and he won’t let me hire someone. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Grief, False Accusations, Anxiety, ADD, Making Decisions, Teens, Parenting Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown and Laura Mangin-McDonald discuss unresolved grief on Patriot Day, and the power of naming our pain with another person. 2. Thank you for what you do! Listening to the show helped me after we lost our fourth child at birth. 3. I called you before and wanted to give you a follow up; I praise God for vindicating my son! 4. My friend’s child died from a drunk driver a few years ago, and her other child passed away last weekend from an illness; how can I walk alongside her and her family? 5. What should I do for my anxiety, ADD, and feeling overwhelmed with decision-making? I have been on suboxone for 8yrs and I think it’s adding to my struggles. 6. We took in a 14yo foster child 2mos ago, and I’m not handling it well. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Emotional Freedom Workbook How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Suicide, Grief, Schizophrenia, Childhood Trauma, Father Issues, Estrangement, Abandonment, Dating Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about political prowess and posture; how should a Christian respond? 2. Becky Brown interviews Tracy Hoover, author and pastor’s wife, about a low point in Tracy’s life when she wanted to give up. 3. It’s been 9mos since separating from my wife with schizophrenia; is it okay for me to be away if she wants me to hit myself to suffer pain along with her? 4. I just reconnected with my dad for the first time in 30yrs, and when I asked him why he wasn’t in my life, he responded by asking me the same question. 5. I’ve been dating a man for 6mos who came to know the Lord when he was in prison, and he hasn’t introduced me to his adult children. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Take Your Life Back Devotional To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Dating, Triggers, Church Life, Parenting, Anxiety, Medications Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Marc Cameron shares about authenticity and how stress brings out our true self. 2. How can I help my pastor’s daughter change her behavior? 3. My 13yo daughter is introverted and has one friend who usually leaches onto her and then drops hershould I be concerned for her? 4. I quit drinking 2yrs ago but now I battle anxiety; is there a way to deal with anxiety without medication? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Boundaries with Teens Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Screens, Bipolar, Incarceration, Marijuana, Boundaries, Verbal Abuse, Affairs, Forgiveness, Adult Children, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how to create a media-safe home. 2. Where do I go with my relationship with my 23yo son after he set a fire in our house? 3. My ex-husband was verbally abusive, and I cheated on him to get out of it; how do I work on forgiving myself? 4. What should I do while my married 31yo daughter, who lives out of state, decides she wants to reconnect? How can I fix an issue when I don’t know what it is? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Emotionally Destructive Relationship Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Siblings, Triggers, Childhood Trauma, Negative Thoughts, Adult Children, Depression, Emotional Abuse, People Pleasers, Anxiety Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about sibling significance and snares. 2. I grew up on the streets and violent intrusive thoughts are increasing. 3. My adult daughter has been in a deep depression for years and came out of it for a while when she was in a manic state; what do I do if she won’t leave her room? 4. My husband loves God but abandons me emotionally; what do I do if I don’t want a divorce but can’t continue? 5. I am in a good place with my mental health; how do I keep that going and not overcommit to helping others? 6. How can I calm myself when I get anxious? I think of all the bad things that could happen. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Understanding and Loving a Person with ADD Life Recovery Bible How We Love Take Your Life Back Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Parenting, In-laws, Controllers, Teens, Screens, Grandparenting, Marijuana, Boundaries, Narcissists Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how presence mattered to Jesus when He blessed the children that were brought to Him after the disciples had rebuked the parents. 2. My sister-in-law is bossy; she demanded that when we go back East, we have to call her. 3. My friend’s 14yo daughter has screen time without any filters; what are the detrimental effects of screen time for teens and kids? 4. My 19yo grandson started his own business but now is depressed and addicted to marijuana; his parents have told him he has a week to finish his business or he’ll have to move out. What is my role? 5. I believe my 18yo son is a narcissist and have been told it is a phase; how do I get him to respect others? Suggested Resources: Boundaries Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Understanding Your Child Who Smokes Pot How People Grow To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Enabling, Mother Issues, Divorce, Reconciliation, Bipolar Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares that wives with good intentions can unintentionally enable angry mistreating husbands to continue in their abusive patterns. 2. I feel like I’m not man enough to be the husband my wife needs me to be. 3. I’m in my late 30’s and married with my own family, but the clingy and anxious behaviors from my mom continue; what should I do? 4. I regret getting a divorce 10yrs ago, and we still love each other; is there a program you have to help divorced couples get back together? 5. What are the characteristics of someone who is bipolar? Suggested Resources: How We Love Take Your Life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about the small, annoying changes of life and how they affect us. 2. My husband is a people pleaser, and his toxic mom blocked me on Facebook. Now he wants to cut ties with her; is it the right thing to do? 3. I’ve been separated from my emotionally abusive husband since May; do I try to save the relationship because he set up a counseling appointment for us? 4. Should I approach the young woman my 51yo divorced son is dating about her being into witchcraft? 5. Is it okay to quit sending birthday gifts in the mail to my adult nieces? I never get an acknowledgment. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Self Worth, Sexual Integrity, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, Grief, Anxiety, Alcohol, Marijuana, Boundaries Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Restore presenter Stacey Sadler-Smith Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares about the dangers of comparing your appearance to others. 2. My husband had a mental breakdown, and I found out he is soliciting other women for sex; do I confront him by myself? 3. My daughter is at college and is in a domestic violence situation. Her boyfriend was arrested but she is still together with him. 4. Do you have any tips on how to be anxious for nothing after many losses and traumatic events in my family? 5. After the death of his father, my youngest adult son lives at home, smokes pot, and is a functioning alcoholic. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Understanding and Loving Your Child As a Single Parent Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Life Recovery Journey To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, Lying, Laziness, Separation, Finances, Alcohol, Christian Walk, Evangelizing Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares how to help toddlers and teens develop independence. 2. My wife had a hidden opioid addiction for 10yrs and quit, but the bad habit of lying still lingers. 3. What do I do if my husband is lazy? He’s been working for 2mos, but I do all the work at home. 4. I’ve been separated from my husband because of his verbal and emotional abuse, but now I don’t have money to pay my bills; should I move back in with him? He may have dementia. 5. Now that I am sober from alcohol, how do I fit myself to be of maximum service to God in the End Times? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible How We Love Boundaries What Happens Next? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Communication, Mother Issues, Adult Children, Parenting, Estrangement, Divorce Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and Restore presenter Stacey Sadler-Smith Caller Questions More: 1. Stacey Sadler-Smith shares about attachment and explicit and implicit communication. 2. My mom had me when she was young and has become an overly involved grandparent; do I salvage the relationship or separate from her? 3. How do I not walk on eggshells around my 24yo son and get him to sit down and talk? He holds a lot of grudges. 4. I don’t want to become a helicopter parent to my 4yo; how do I prevent it? I was abused when I was younger and might be overextending the love and care. 5. My 41yo daughter really connects with Drew Barrymore because of my divorce, has lived with her dad for 15yrs, and has decided not to talk to me. Suggested Resources: Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Our Kids To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Adult Children, Parenting, Teens, Self Worth, Sexual Abuse, Incarceration Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns asks, Do you want a good relationship with your adult children or do you want to be right? 2. I’m divorced and frustrated with my 16yo son who talks back to me; how do I stop being resentful and work on myself? 3. Most of my life I’ve felt like I am a giant failure; how do I shake this feeling? 4. My son is in jail, and I just found out that he was sexually abused by my brother; do I share this with the family even though it will rip them apart? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Legal Issues, Siblings, Adult Children, End of Life, Grief, Boundaries, Marijuana, Mother Issues, False Accusations Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown shares about asking ourselves, What’s it like to be on the other side of me? Is that who I want to be? 2. How do I defend myself after filing a civil suit against my sister and her daughter who vandalized my property? 3. We found out last week that our 45yo son has 2mos to live; how do I deal with this emotionally if I can’t even get out of bed because of my fibromyalgia? 4. My 31yo son moved to L.A. to work in music but lost his job and is coming home; how do I set boundaries with him and smoking marijuana? 5. My mom had us as a teen, is emotionally there for my brothers but not me, and accuses me of flirting with her boyfriend; is distancing myself from her the right thing? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Communication, Trauma, Grandparenting, Teens, Retirement, Finances, Christian Walk Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares how we retraumatize people with the feedback we give them. 2. How can I help my 17yo grandson feel like I’m not his enemy? He gets high, skips school, and is in the juvenile system. 3. I’m going to be 70yo in a few months and thinking of retiring from being a nurse, but my husband doesn’t want me to until our credit cards are paid off; what do I do? 4. Interview with the Kendrick brothers about their newest movie The Forge, in theaters today. Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Communication, Drug Addiction, Parenting, Teens, Narcissists Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares the importance of productive talking with another person. 2. My adult daughter has been in and out of rehab four times; is there another program to help her when she’s out of rehab instead of coming home? 3. There were years I didn’t have contact with my 17yo daughter because of her mother; what can I do now? 4. For 39ys I have been married to a narcissistic wife; how do I deal with it and stay married? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Shame, Grandparenting, Discipline, Divorce, Dating, Engagement, Adult Children, Sexual Abuse Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares about external shame and what betrayed partners are saying. 2. My 13yo entitled granddaughter acted like a 2yo on a recent flight and demanded to sit in my aisle seat; where do we go from here? 3. What should I do when my wife says she’ll file for a divorce if I go on a trip to the Philippines where I’m from? I’m a Christian, but she isn’t. 4. Our son has been dating a woman for 2wks he met online; she is 8yrs older and they’re talking about marriage. What advice would you give them if they called you? 5. My adult daughter said she was sexually abused by my husband’s uncle; what can I do to continue to be strong for her? Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids How We Love How People Grow Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, College, Childhood Trauma, Christian Walk, Estrangement, Necessary Endings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares the importance of talking with your kids in healthy ways about sex. 2. I tried to go back to school a few years ago but relapsed and had to quit; how do I approach my wife about going back to school this year? 3. Yesterday you took a call from a woman who suffered from childhood abuse, and I just wanted to encourage her to put all of her heart and soul into the Lord. 4. I am estranged from my 37yo daughter despite trying to connect with her; how do I move forward? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Mold Issues, Physical Abuse, College, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: 1. Becky Brown shares the Seven Keys of Spiritual Renewal. 2. My wife believes our house has mold, but we’ve had experts out to our house that haven’t found mold. Now my wife thinks I don’t care about my family. 3. I was physically abused by my parents and have always been suicidal; was the abuse real if I was knocked around by my parents, and they banged my head? 4. I have an opportunity to get my master’s degree, but my husband doesn’t want me to because I would have to relocate; what do I do now? 5. I recorded my adult children and came clean to them, but they’re not speaking to me now; where do I go from here? Suggested Resources: How We Love 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Trust Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Parenting, Adult Children, Boundaries, Narcissists, Divorce, Difficult Conversations, Blended Families Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares why women are mama bears and have the strongest love on the planet for their children. 2. My husband has Parkinson’s; our 21yo son always asks us for money and now wants to move back home; should we put boundaries in writing? 3. My husband passed away 3yrs ago, then I got married last year to a narcissist; do I need to proceed with getting a divorce? 4. Should I ask my friend about a conversation she had with my 15yo stepson? She comes to help in our home, and my stepson complained about me to her. Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Siblings, Homeless, Intimacy, Highly Sensitive Person Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares whatever you feed yourself, you will increase your appetite for. 2. My 73yo brother is homeless, has delusional disorders, and is diabetic; how do we encourage him to get the treatment he needs if he thinks he’s fine? 3. Two guys at work are struggling in their marriage; what choice do they have if their wives won’t have sex with them? 4. I had very little social interaction as a child, and now I feel deeply for others; is it possible to be an introvert and extrovert at the same time? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back How We Love Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Same-Sex Attraction, Gender Identity, Grandparenting, Dating, Finances, Engagement Hosts: Becky Brown and Special Guest author, speaker, and pastor Max Lucado Caller Questions More: 1. Max Lucado talks about End Times in his latest book What Happens Next: A Traveler’s Guide through the End of This Age. 2. What can a grandmother do when the public schools have introduced homosexual education and gender transitioning for 2nd and 3rd graders and even younger? 3. My ex-boyfriend is still in control of my finances; is that okay with the Lord, or does God want me to have financial breakthrough in my life? 4. I have been with my girlfriend for 3yrs, and friends and family are telling me to propose. At 21yo, how can I know if God is telling me yes or no? 5. Thank you, Mr. Lucado, for your years of ministry and wisdom! You helped me understand the humanity of Jesus. Suggested Resources: What Happens Next Healing Is a Choice How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Counseling, Controller, Separation, Caregiving, Resentment, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares about the need to guard your heart by checking little cracks and crevices so they don’t bust wide open. 2. How do I approach my wife of 28yrs about counseling instead of separation or divorce? I control through giving advice, and our intimacy is non-existent. 3. Being a caregiver for our 86yo grandmother is causing a lot of resentment in our family because other family members don’t help. 4. I lost my youngest son to a fentanyl overdose, and I picture my four remaining children brawling at my funeral. How do I make everyone get along? 5. My 29yo daughter quit her job and moved home during Covid and now she is depressed and not working. She is a college graduate and says she had a nervous breakdown. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Feelings, Separation, Intimacy, Divorce, Finances, Tithing, Adult Children, Siblings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares why talking about our feelings works. 2. Should I divorce or separate? My controlling husband and I don’t communicate and are only living as roommates. 3. I divorced my husband of 25yrs who was a pastor and committed adultery, but he is at all of the family functions. How do I stop having these awful feelings about him? 4. Where is my stinginess coming from? I had a workaholic father, am a pleaser, and my husband had a work injury. 5. My two adult sons don’t get along with each other and haven’t talked in more than 5yrs; how can they reconcile and get together again? Suggested Resources: How We Love Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Disassociation, Incarceration, Forgiveness, False Accusations, Alcohol, Marijuana, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about checking out through disassociation to escape from hard things, and the downside. 2. How do I help and support my bitter husband who spent over 3yrs in prison after being falsely accused of aggravated sexual assault? 3. My husband comes home from work each day and drinks shots of whiskey and smokes marijuana. 4. What’s the appropriate response after my 21yo daughter felt violated when I checked her car for a spare tire? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget How We Love Life Recovery Bible Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Humility, Estrangement, Adult Children, Fear, Anxiety, Affairs, Secrets, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares about having the right clothes for the job; are you clothing yourself in humility or pride? 2. My wonderful son met a beautiful girl, but her family brainwashed my son. Now they are estranged from me and I’ve never met my grandson. 3. I have an MRI scheduled for tomorrow, and it gave me anxiety just thinking about it; is claustrophobia a result of trauma? 4. A coworker came up to me and told me another coworker has a crush on me; how do I handle this? I’m in recovery for being unfaithful 4yrs ago. 5. My husband gets mad when I bring up his unfaithfulness in the past and refuses to let me see his phone. Everyone is telling me to leave. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Take Your Life Back Devotional How We Love Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Parenting, Mother Issues, Childhood Trauma, Divorce, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, False Accusations Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui-Mack Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares that when children are allowed to take risks and stay with their frustration, their frustration tolerance will lead to courage. Parents are too quick to rescue their kids. 2. My mom never hugged me, but I feel calm when I see women with big breasts like my mom. Why is that? 3. How do I help my hurting kids who live with my ex-husband after I left? I had to take out a protective order against him for threatening my life. 4. My ex-wife told my current wife I had affairs which is not true; how do I handle this when it comes to my estranged adult children? Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Intimate Deception Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Coaching, Finances, Incarceration, Separation, Father Issues, Betrayal, Adoption, Adult Children, Weddings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Gwen Burno, a New Life network coach, shares how mindset and money coaching can help clients move forward. 2. My husband of 5yrs is a non-believer and is incarcerated for life. His family has priority over me during visitation; how much abuse does one take? 3. How do I move forward with the information I received from my parents that my dad who raised me is not my bio dad? DNA testing showed my mom had an affair. 4. My 23yo son is getting married this weekend and he uncovered in pre-marital therapy that he wasn’t raised in a loving family; can you give me quick therapy for a positive weekend? Suggested Resources: How We Love Trust Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Grandparenting, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Divorce, Narcissists, Anger Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares how we are tempted in our heart, body and mind, as Jesus was. 2. I have a follow up question to my son and daughter-in-law not wanting me to talk to their kids about God. How do I respond if my grandkids come to me and ask a question about my faith? 3. My son’s ex-wife called CPS and his kids have been taken away, but she wants me to still see the grandkids. Do I spend time with my grandkids or respect my son who doesn’t want me to? 4. What’s the difference between someone who is narcissistic and someone who is sensitive? I feel arguments with my adult son are driven by a lack of empathy. 5. Would you talk more about what you mentioned last week about underneath aggression is fear, defense mode, and abandonment? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible How We Love Our Kids How We Love Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Affairs, Forgiveness, Difficult Conversations, Adult Children, Physical Abuse, Self Worth Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West shares about uncharitable thoughts and not giving others the benefit of the doubt. 2. My husband confessed to multiple affairs and keeps putting himself down; how can I convince him that I forgive him and that sin is sin? 3. It’s been 3yrs since a heated conversation with a family member, and now she tells me if I don’t apologize, she doesn’t have any use for me. 4. How do I reconcile with my 49yo daughter who canceled me after a counselor told her to? 5. My ex-husband tried to murder me twice and his behavior is trickling down to my kids! 6. How do I move forward in a one-sided relationship so I don’t get hurt? 7. I called in a few years ago when I was in a crisis and wanted to thank you for the advice you gave me! Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How We Love Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your Life Back Boundaries To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, Childhood Trauma, Father Issues, Bipolar, In-laws, Mother Issues, Anger, Forgiveness Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard asks us to look back at our answered prayers. 2. I have felt unheard and invalidated my whole life because of my abusive dad. 3. How can I handle and help my girlfriend who has bipolar disorder? It has been a struggle for us both. 4. Am I doing the right thing in ignoring my sister-in-law when she preaches at me? She backs me into a corner and tells me what a heathen I am. 5. How do I get over the pain of my mom getting angry because I chose not to get vaccinated and remained a conservative voter? Suggested Resources: Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers Understanding and Loving a Person with Bipolar Disorder Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Purpose, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Dating, Divorce, Grief, Connection Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris discusses whatever we do, do in the name of the Lord, and we will be living in our purpose. 2. My son and his wife don’t want me to say anything about Christianity to my young grandchildren; how do I respond? 3. I’ve been single for 17yrs and recently broke off a relationship because I am concerned about being someone’s emotional pillow. 4. Is there any way for me to get connected to the callers? I have listened for years and have some of the same issues as they do. 5. What advice can you give me for my daughter? Her older children are against her, her ex-husband is abusive, and he has custody of her younger ones. 6. Six years ago I lost my wife of 50yrs and can’t replace her; now that I am a hermit, I am losing connection with people. What can I do? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Take Your Life Back Soul of a Hero To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Sexual Addiction, Living Together, Lying, Pornography, Affairs, Insomnia, Negative Thoughts Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about crazy-making conversations and wound of judgment triggers. 2. Can you give me tips and tricks on how to stay in sobriety for sexual addiction? I go to therapy and a men’s group but I still struggle. 3. I’ve been in a toxic relationship for 8yrs with a man who lies and hides from me; how can I get out of it? 4. I think my husband of 35yrs cheated on me; is seeking an attorney the right route for me to take? 5. Did working a double shift for several months cause my chronic insomnia and anxiety? Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Boundaries Changes That Heal To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Depression, Sexual Addiction, Scams, Betrayal, Intimacy, Adoption, Alcohol, Affairs Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton explains why the foods we eat affect our mood. 2. How should I deal with my husband of 43yrs contacting women online? He has given lots of money to a woman from Ghana. 3. I’ve been married for 17yrs and have no feelings for my husband; how do I love him after I found women’s underwear on him years ago? 4. My friend’s biological 16yo daughter is being abused by her adopted family and says she’s going to kill herself if she’s forced to go back. 5. I’ve been in the hospital four times for drinking and my husband is with a younger woman now; how can I get him back? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Intimate Deception How We Love Our Kids Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Feelings, Divorce, Finances, Single Parenting, Adult Children, Video Games, Affairs Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the importance of emotional regulation. 2. My heart went out to a previous caller, and I wanted to share creative ways that kept our family going after I divorced my abusive husband to protect my kids from him. 3. Our son is graduating college but will still live with us; how do we set boundaries with him when he spends a lot of time gaming? 4. I’ve been married 18yrs, my wife has developed a relationship with a neighbor, and she told me she is done with me. Suggested Resources: Why I Believe Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Estrangement, Drug Addiction, Boundaries, Infertility, Grief, Adult Children, Affairs, Secrets Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about the silent epidemic of parent and family estrangement. 2. Is my response to my drug-addicted sister wrong? I told her not to call me unless she calls me from a treatment center. 3. I’ve been trying to get pregnant for 16yrs. How can I cope after my doctor told me 2wks ago that I will never get pregnant? 4. I’ve been estranged from my adult daughters for over 20yrs after my nasty divorce. 5. Should we let our son know that his wife was having an affair? We have been estranged from our son for 6yrs because of her. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Workbook Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Depression, Adult Children, Addiction, Boundaries, In-laws, Sexual Abuse, Parenting, Grief Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares different types of depression. 2. I’m in addiction recovery and battle with depression; now that I’m pregnant with twins, do any foods enhance your mood? 3. I just want my adult daughter who is struggling with addiction and health issues out of my house; what do I do? 4. Your show helped me to resolve a conflict with my father-in-law! 5. My 11yo son told me last December he had been sexually abused by his father and grandfather; how can I function in life when I have a breakdown every day? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Take Your Life Back Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Thankful, Feelings, Getting Unstuck, Affairs, Trust, PTSD, Living Together Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how to do thank therapy by giving thanks in everything. 2. I was molested as a child, my marriage ended in divorce, and I feel shut down; how do I kickstart my emotional life? 3. I’m 62yo, have PTSD from abuse, and can’t trust anyone; how do I reverse that? 4. Should I stay or go from the woman I’m living with? I pay half of her mortgage and raise her kids. Suggested Resources: Changes That Heal Trust Life Recovery Bible Life Recovery Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Brain Issues, Drug Addiction, Siblings, Childhood Trauma, Adult Children, Same-Sex Attraction, Forgiveness Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Becky Brown shares the four happiness chemicals: dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin and endorphins. 2. What is the best way to support my brother who is recovering from a brain injury and heroin addiction? 3. What is causing my relative to have seizures? He was molested as a child and is using alcohol and vaping to cope. 4. I was abusive to my five kids in the past and my daughter is gay; how do I love them through Jesus Christ and what does that look like? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Journey Take Your Life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Self-Awareness, Getting Unstuck, Connection, Feelings, Betrayal, Finances, Anger, Grief, Weight Issues, Depression Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares the life-changing importance of naming our negative core patterns. 2. I feel stuck in my sixties after my divorce 12yrs ago; how do I get motivated? 3. How can I better understand the importance of my wife’s emotions when I have a lack of emotions? 4. I recently lost my abusive husband and found out he had canceled his life insurance and built up massive credit card debt. 5. My son’s wife died 2yrs ago and his stepsons were taken from him. He is distraught; how can we help? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Trust How We Love Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Christian Walk, Teens, Adoption, Divorce, Remarriage, Anxiety, Adult Children, Intervention Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares how to practice a posture of praise before prayers have been answered. 2. My adopted daughter, who is a high school senior, is vomiting since I told her I’m moving across the country. What should I do? 3. I used to be a pastor, got divorced, and have stopped serving God; did I betray God when I remarried? 4. I grew up in an abusive home, and my anxiety has become debilitating; where does anxiety come from? 5. My 42yo daughter has lived with me for 2yrs; I gave her a deadline to move out but she won’t. Suggested Resources: How We Love Our Kids How We Love Changes That Heal Conquer Worry and Anxiety Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Anxiety, Getting Unstuck, Triggers, Betrayal, Alcohol, Mother Issues, Addictions, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the many causes of anxiety. 2. What would you suggest to get unstuck after 17yrs of marriage? We’re both believers and don’t want to get divorced, but I don’t want to be miserable anymore. 3. I had a great experience at Restore this past weekend! It truly restored my faith and gave me strength to move forward. 4. How do we show my alcoholic mom she’s living in sin, and how do I help my dad deal with her without enabling? 5. I’m working through betrayal trauma and you guys helped me begin the journey to recovery at the Restore intensive. How can I help my adult children with their addictions? 6. I learn best by re-listening to my conversations, but my adult children don’t feel comfortable with me recording them. What else can I do? Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Life Recovery Workbook Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, Enabling, Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Bipolar, Church Life, Adult Children, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how our job as a parent is to disciple our kids. 2. Our 40yo son has had a drug addiction and pulled knives on me; what should we do if he wants to move back after he gets out of jail? 3. I just learned that my husband was unfaithful with a man; am I unreasonable to not want him to take a new job which may be tempting for him? 4. Should I meet with the church elders about problems with my pastor’s wife who has bipolar disorder and my pastor who enables her? 5. My 50yo son stopped talking to me for a year with no explanation; how do I go about finding out why? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Intimate Deception Boundaries Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Relationships, Borderline, Boundaries, Adult Children, Difficult Conversations, Narcissists, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares the difference between the price of something vs. the cost. 2. How can my husband and I set clear boundaries with my 25yo daughter who lives with us and has BPD? 3. A Christian friend blindsided me when he said he was crossing me off the list of people to invite to his home. His wife said he was just kidding; what do you think? 4. What do I do with my narcissistic 51yo daughter who is on kidney dialysis and is a drug addict? Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder How We Love Understanding and Loving a Person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Perfectionism, Aging Parents, Adult Children, Trauma, Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Dating, Affairs, Sexual Abuse, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about perfectionism, attitude, and judging others. 2. What should I say to my elderly dad who is verbally abusive and falsely accusing me, my mom, and my sister? 3. My 49yo son has a demanding wife who has convinced him that he has dementia and tries to keep us out of his life; how do we approach her? 4. I lost my dad and sister, and my youngest daughter was kidnapped; why do I keep going back to my physically and emotionally abusive husband? 5. I just ended a month-long relationship, and it seems like every time he hugged or talked to a woman, I felt a crippling pain in my heart; what is causing it, and how do I get rid of it? 6. My 19yo granddaughter is afraid of her father and suicidal, and I my older granddaughter told me she was sexually and physically abused by him. Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Doing Life with Your Adult Children How We Love Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Screens, In-laws, Boundaries, Suicide, End of Life, Siblings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares how to increase self-control with screen use. 2. How do I get my wife to understand that she and I are the primary relationship and not her and her mom? How can I set appropriate boundaries with my in-laws? 3. When I talk to my dear Christian friend about my mom who has dementia, my friend talks about physician’s assisted suicide; how do I address this? 4. Should I disengage from my brother who’s a strong believer and very opinionated? I put him on speaker while I do the dishes, and I don’t even get a chance to talk. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Living Strong, Finishing Well Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Shame, Guilt, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Medication, Spiritual Warfare, Autism, Brain Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares some shame and guilt ideas. 2. My 42yo daughter is living on the property she’s renting from us, and a man is staying with her most of the time. Do we have a right to say he can’t live with her? 3. I was on painkillers for sciatica and stopped taking them but have gone through an overwhelmingly dark withdrawal; what can I do, or who do I need to see? 4. What can I do to help my 29yo autistic son who works hard and owns his own home, but he gives money to his girlfriend with two kids? 5. Why am I going through so much physically? I had a brain injury in the fall last year, and it seems like God keeps letting me go through things. Suggested Resources: Boundaries Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Adult Children, Finances, Estrangement, Childhood Trauma, Physical Abuse, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares why one of the key traits of a healthy family is play. 2. How do you emotionally disconnect from an adult son who makes egregious financial decisions and asks us for help? He just had his 7th child. 3. I’m a single mom and asked my 22yo daughter for financial help; she stopped talking to me. 4. I was beat as a child; how do I let go of the past now that I am a parent? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Take Your life Back Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Boundaries, Finances, Fraud, Affairs, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares how boundaries are not about standing up to others, rather standing up for ourselves. 2. I was sex trafficked 18yrs ago and was coerced into receiving fraudulent unemployment checks. I am unemployed now; should I file for unemployment? 3. I’ve been married 16yrs and there’s been infidelity on both sides. I’ve been faithful for 12yrs now but recently looked at my wife’s phone and discovered she was unfaithful. 4. My son has his PhD and no longer calls me because he wants to set boundaries; how do I continue my relationship with him? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Intimate Deception Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Forgiveness, Verbal Abuse, Caregiving, Autism, Video Games, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Isolation, Gender Identity Hosts: Becky Brown, and presenters at Intimacy in Marriage Intensive, Laura Mangin-McDonald and JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares how forgiving is not forgetting. 2. At what point do I step in to help my mom? She cares for my dad with Parkinson's and he is verbally abusive. 3. My son is almost 16yo and has high-functioning autism; he is aggressive and rude when I ask him to stop playing video games. 4. Where do I find help for my 12yo grandson who has been looking at inappropriate pictures of girls online since he was 8yo? 5. What is wrong with me and how do I fit in? I relocated 15yrs ago and believe God has called me to teach His Word, but I don’t feel a part of any women’s group. 6. A friend of mine I’ve known for years just told me he’s transexual and is starting hormone replacement therapy. How can I best relate to them? To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Change, Finances, Secrets, Anger, Adult Children, Teens Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares how troubles can be a precursor to change. 2. I just lost my husband 2mos ago to liver failure because of his alcohol, and he had secretly taken out thousands of dollars of credit card debt in my name. I feel guilty and ashamed for being angry at him. 3. What should my husband and I do if my son got angry at us after we let his wife serve him legal papers at our house? 4. Are personality disorders and sociopaths hereditary? I wonder if that's why my 15yo grandson gets into trouble. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Feelings, Counseling, Alcohol, Adult Children, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Marc Cameron shares about taking ownership for your emotions (others aren’t responsible.) 2. How important is it to look back when you’re trying to get some traction for today? My therapist focuses on tools for the present instead of looking back at my historical trauma. 3. My son’s wife asked him to leave after he started drinking and lied to her; how do I help him? 4. While going through chemo for my cancer, a friend told me no one cares about my husband dying last year. Suggested Resources: How We Love Life Recovery Journey Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Sexual Addiction, Borderline, Adult Children, Feelings, Alcohol, Boundaries Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: 1. JJ West requests that every listener help get men to the Every Man’s Battle Intensive by telling their pastor about it. 2. I want to try to have a relationship with my borderline adult daughter; would it help for me to write her and tell her I’m sorry for the things I did wrong as a parent? 3. I just went to Every Man’s Battle and it was wonderful! My wife wants me to show her love by having empathy, compassion, and thoughtfulness; how do I do that? 4. Should I let my alcoholic cousin come over to my place to sober up? My mom was an alcoholic, and it brings up bad memories. 5. Our daughter-in-law only wants to communicate with my husband and not me; am I being unreasonable to feel reluctant to jump back into a relationship without my husband setting boundaries? Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving a Person with Borderline Personality Disorder Life Recovery Journey Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Self Worth, Sexual Addiction, Pornography, Depression, Autism Hosts: Becky Brown, and presenters at Intimacy in Marriage Intensive, Laura Mangin-McDonald and JJ West Caller Questions: 1. JJ West shares about feeling inferior and that comparison is the thief of joy. 2. My husband struggles with porn, strip clubs, and flirting with his ex-girlfriend in front of me. 3. I’ve been married to an avoider and addict, and my depression has gotten so bad that I can’t even get out of bed. When is an appropriate time for us to separate? 4. Do you have any help for people who are high-functioning autistic adults? I think I am autistic because I am unable to connect with others and adhere to routines. Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Changes That Heal How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Communication, Finances, Boundaries, Pornography, Blended Families, Engagement, Adult Children, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about communication differences; be more interested in understanding rather than correcting. 2. Is my husband a wolf in sheep’s clothing? Is he taking advantage of me financially? 3. I discovered my husband has been viewing internet pornography. 4. I am apprehensive to meet my future stepson today; do you have any suggestions? He is a disabled vet. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Worthy of Her Trust How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Screens, Remarriage, Christian Walk, Alcohol, Finances, Connection Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the three parenting styles used to regulate their child’s screen time. 2. My wife and I can’t come to a consensus about anything because she blames me for everything; how do I deal with it? 3. My first husband says God is requiring us to remarry or I will go to hell; is this true? 4. What do I do if my husband didn’t work for 3yrs and might be laid off from the job he just got? He is an alcoholic, and it ruins everything. 5. As an introvert, what might be biblically important? I seek time alone but want to know about the importance of connection. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child In a Screen-Saturated World How We Love How We Love Our Kids Emotional Freedom Workbook To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Shame, Guilt, Parenting, Communication, Teens, Brain Issues, Adult Children, Separation Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares about unhealthy shame and unhealthy guilt. 2. We have been fostering a 15yo for a month and are not able to communicate with her; how do we break through to her? 3. I believe I incurred brain trauma and potentially CTE from my time playing football. Can you give me some guidance for what I need to do? 4. My son-in-law suffered from trauma in his past and no longer wants to be married to my daughter. What questions should I ask when we meet next week? Suggested Resources: Presence Matters How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Leadership, Adult Children, Weddings, Miscarriage, Grief, Church Life, Teens, Bipolar Disorder Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions More: 1. Chris Williams shares how we are all leaders, and it starts with leading our own internal world. 2. My 27yo son is getting married and told me what not to wear to his wedding after I told him I wouldn’t pay for the wedding because he lives with his fiance. 3. My stepson and his wife miscarried twins and it hurt me that my elderly mom didn’t reach out to them. 4. The Lord took my wife home 19mos ago, and my pastor called and asked me if I’ve met someone yet. How do I tell him he doesn’t know how I feel? 5. What resources are available for our 15yo adopted granddaughter who threatened to kill her mother? She has bipolar disorder. Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice 7 Ways to Choose Healing Life Recovery Workbook for Grief To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Self Worth, Anxiety, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Drug Addiction, Adoption, Weddings Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Marc Cameron shares the ways we cover up our insecurities with emotional masks. 2. I went to see my daughter and her kids in Europe at Christmas, but she suddenly made me leave and won’t talk to me; what do my grandkids think of her making me leave? 3. I’m a strong Christian, but I’m losing my faith because I’m addicted to Oxycontin. How do I get off of it? 4. Should I try to pursue a relationship with my adult son whom I placed for adoption? His birthday is coming up, and his adoptive parents got upset that I put my email address in his last card. 5. My son doesn’t want me to invite my cousin to his daughter’s wedding, and it really hurt me; should I ask my son again? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Doing Life with Your Adult Children To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Trauma, Addictions, Halloween, Adult Children, Anger, Marijuana, Teens, Sexual Abuse Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about trauma and how addictions and acting out come into play. 2. I like to hand out Gospel tracts to kids on Halloween; what draws people to this holiday? 3. How can I help my husband and 22yo daughter grow closer? My daughter gets quiet when she perceives someone is angry with her, and her father can sometimes come across as angry. 4. My 14yo son is smoking pot and hanging out with kids who are a bad influence at school. His mom and I are divorced; what do we do? 5. My teen stepson is a peeping tom and has walked in on me changing. My husband won’t do anything. Suggested Resources: Living Strong, Finishing Well How We Love Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot Intimate Deception To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Compassion, Adult Children, Connection, Depression, Anxiety, Blended Families, Boundaries, Estrangement Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Chris Williams describes what a benevolent witness is and compares it to hosting. 2. My 28yo son wants to lie about his address to get a job; how can I connect with him so he won’t pull back when I give him advice? 3. I have depression and my 52yo daughter with MS lives with us; she has memory loss and isn’t taking care of herself. I don’t know what to do. 4. What kind of boundaries should my husband put in place if he works with his son, but his son refuses to let us see the grandchildren? Suggested Resources: Doing Life with Your Adult Children Changes That Heal Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Perseverance, Counseling, Adult Children, Blended Families, Childhood Trauma, Abandonment Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: 1. Marc Cameron shares a story about a marathon runner, Cliff Young, and his example of perseverance. 2. How do I know if I have the right counselor for what I need? My husband is verbally abusive, and my counselor told me he won’t change. 3. My adult son moved home, and it triggers my husband who compares himself to my son; how do I help them? 4. My dad walked out before I was 1yo and my stepdad did a lot of bad things to me; how do love others if I don’t know how to love myself? 5. We are grieving the loss of five family members, and we all hurt each other; do you have any suggestions? Suggested Resources: How We Love Healing Is a Choice Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Habits, Anxiety, Christian Walk, Teens, Pornography, Aging Parents, Blended Families, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares how unfished tasks cause the Zeigarnik effect, and how that affects our brain. 2. I’m almost 50yo, don’t know why I serve God, and wonder if God even loves me. 3. What are some resources for my 16yo son who’s addicted to porn? 4. My 88yo mom is being scammed in a romance scam; how do I get to her? 5. My new wife said she’d take our whole family on a cruise except for my 31yo son and his girlfriend because she thinks he has ulterior motives. Suggested Resources: Take Your Life Back Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen Saturated World Every Young Man’s Battle Living Strong, Finishing Well How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Screens, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Singles, Pleasers, Physical Abuse, Dating, Intimacy, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares a few tips on screen use by modeling parental behavior. 2. Should I think I might as well have sex even though I’m not married? 3. I’m a pleaser and I’ve been verbally and physically abused by my husband; how can I trust and lean into my husband when he says I am the reason for his name-calling? 4. What do I do if I’m 55yo, never married, and I don’t want to go to bars? 5. My wife and I are like roommates, and I got angry at her after I had surgery; where do I go from here? Suggested Resources: How We Love Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Teens, Sexual Integrity, Adult Children, Alcohol, Intervention, Marijuana, ADD Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. JJ West asks, What does the soil of my life look like? Would I survive a dry season? 2. My niece is asking what to do about her 14yo son who masturbates loudly. 3. My 53yo married son thinks because he doesn’t drink, he’s not affected by his father’s alcoholism. What can I do? 4. Am I out of bounds suggesting a family intervention to confront my brother-in-law and nephew about their drinking and marijuana? 5. How do I get my married adult son to get help for his undiagnosed ADD? Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Every Young Man’s Battle Doing Life with Your Adult Children Understanding and Loving a Person with ADD To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Suicide, Emotional Abuse, Isolation, Communication, Intimacy, Counseling Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions More: 1. You partnered with God to pull Glen from death last week; I’ll find a way to support you! 2. Is there a connection between the trauma from my abusive marriage of 20yrs and me shunning people? 3. All my husband does is play sports and I feel like I’m his mom because all I do is clean his clothes. 4. What’s the difference between emotionally focused therapy vs. the Gottman method for married couples? Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How We Love Worthy of Her Trust To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Caregiving, Betrayal, Fear, Failure, Drug Addiction, Grief, Life Change Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about the struggles of being a caregiver for a spouse or family member. 2. I went to Restore and am still struggling; how do I process this without looking at every guy as a pervert? 3. Why does trying to overcome the fear of people and failure bring about physical pain in my body? 4. How can I help my 20yo daughter and my husband who are still using drugs? 5. My husband had a brain injury and I was his caregiver until he passed 4yrs ago. Then I experienced a huge void from his loss. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception 100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety Take Your Life Back 100 Days of Prayer To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Alcohol, Sex Addiction, Adult Children, Trust, Schizophrenia, Bipolar, Making Decisions, Aging Parents, Suicide Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares insights from Dr. Dave Stoop. 2. I’m a functioning alcoholic and a sexual addict, and I’m starting a Celebrate Recovery 12-step group. What other resources can help? 3. My adult son has been accused by his ex-wife of abusing their kids, and he could end up in jail for 10yrs. How do we help him trust people again? 4. I was diagnosed with schizoaffective and bipolar disorders. Is it realistic for me to get a commercial driver’s license so I can drive a truck? Where do I go from here? 5. My elderly mom has terminal cancer, lives alone, and has requested End of Life euthanasia; is it biblical for her to take her own life? Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Workbook Healing Is a Choice Take Your Life Back Living Strong, Finishing Well To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Social Media, Parenting, Church Life, Betrayal, Father Issues, Grief, Same-Sex Attraction Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton asks, Do we allow our children enough physical freedom and too much digital freedom? 2. Is it wrong to leave my church and go to another church that feels more comfortable? 3. Why did I marry two men who betrayed me even though I loved them deeply and thought they would be loving? My father was abusive and neglectful. 4. My friend’s 21yo son died from blood cancer and now my friend is going onto social media and saying mean things about his son’s ex-girlfriend. 5. Are gay pride events supporting people who are exercising their right to be rebellious? I have good friends in the lifestyle. Suggested Resources: Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World Intimate Deception Life Recovery Workbook for Grief Every Believer’s Thought Life To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Suicide, Hope, Emotional Affairs, Adult Children, Boundaries, Estrangement, Blended Families Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer reflected on the powerful suicidal call on June 5. 2. My husband had an emotional affair but doesn’t seem to be getting any better; what caused my husband to sneak around with a woman for 10yrs? 3. My daughter lives with me and has brought a 45yo man to squat in my house; what should I do? My granddaughter also lives here. 4. I’ve been married 40yrs, and my husband hasn’t talked to my son for years; should I reach out to my son and ask him to make amends? 5. I wanted to thank New Life for the Emotional Freedom Intensive last weekend. Suggested Resources: Intimate Deception Take Your Life Back How We Love Healing Is a Choice To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Neighbors, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Affairs, Verbal Abuse, Newlyweds, Anxiety Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Loving Your Neighbor as Yourself. 2. I stopped using drugs 28yrs ago but still struggle with feeling unworthy. 3. My son is a recovering addict and has left his wife and children to be with a woman who is an addict; how do I deal with this woman? 4. I struggle with loving and respecting my husband who is verbally abusive. 5. I’ve been married 2mos to a man in recovery 5mos, but I have a lot of anxiety over his tobacco and caffeine habits; how do I navigate my marriage? Suggested Resources: Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget Boundaries Worthy of Her Trust How We Love To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29

Topics: Habits, Caregiving, Making Decisions, Self Worth, Dating, Friendship, Depression, Suicide Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares What To Do To Change a Habit. 2. After caregiving for my mom until she passed, how do I determine where I want to live? 3. Why do I keep attracting unsafe people if I’m a safe person? Why do opposites attract? 4. I’ve set up an appointment to be euthanized because I can’t handle life and don’t know how to tell my 29yo daughter or fiance. Suggested Resources: Emotional Freedom Workbook Changes That Heal Take Your Life Back To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29