Tings and Things

Drinkcember is the season to drink, eat, party, be merry, let your hair down, dance like you just don’t care…you get the gist. For so many people in our audience, they get to travel home and see some old familiar faces and it is an incredible time to reconnect and bond with our close family and friends. Obviously, this year is quite different, and depending on where you live, you might not be able to travel. This is our 6th Drinkcember as the Tings and Things fam and definitely one to embrace...

There’s something to be said for resilience and intestinal fortitude. Many of the people we admire have shown up for sustained periods and truly excelled. Win or lose, the mandate is to keep going. In this episode, we’ll celebrate the funny and inspiring moments of resilience. Through personal stories and comedic insights, we’ll show you why persistence pays off. Whether you’re winning or losing, join us for a laugh and a boost of motivation to keep going.

As hosts, we are the biggest proponents of naps. But sometimes, we need to do the shadow work because no matter how many naps we take, the restlessness will grow day by day. In this episode, we’ll explore the comedic and profound truth that naps alone can’t fix everything. Through funny storis and introspective moments, we’ll help you understand why sometimes deeper work is needed to truly rest. Join us for laughs and a journey to soul-deep rest.

Yes, we’re all guilty of it—judging people from afar (or sometimes not so afar). In this episode, we take a comedic look at the art of judgment, from silently critiquing strangers' outfit choices to making snap decisions about people's life choices. We’ll laugh through the awkward moments of being caught mid-judgment and explore why we judge in the first place. Just remember: if you’re listening, we’re probably judging you, too! Just remember: if you’re listening, we’re probably judging you, ...

Drama is everywhere, but sometimes we need to have an honest conversation with ourselves and determine if that drama is ours. Sometimes it’s not your monkey, not your circus, and it’s time to keep it pushing. In this episode, we’ll explore the comedic relief of stepping away from unnecessary drama. Through funny anecdotes and relatable experiences, we’ll help you identify when to walk away and when to take a front-row seat. Expect laughs and wisdom as we navigate the circus of life.

Not everyone’s going to get you, and that’s perfectly fine. In this episode, we celebrate the hilarious freedom of being misunderstood. Whether it’s your quirky sense of humor, strange hobbies, or just the way you live your life, we’ll explore the comedy of letting people get it wrong. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the laughs as we embrace the beauty of not being everyone’s cup of tea. Let them misunderstand you—life’s funnier that way

Steve Irwin was a father to many of us. He was truly a pioneer and a great conduit to wildlife in conservation for many of us. He was taken away from us stingray, his death was never avenged. my question is, would you slide for Steve? In this life to know, what have you ba­­ck into what extent they have you back and will they write the wrongs of the things to you?

Sometimes you’re not in the spotlight, and that’s okay. In this episode, we talk about the comedy of playing in the shadows, making moves behind the scenes, and staying ready even when no one’s watching. Through funny stories of unsung heroes and background players, we’ll inspire you to keep making plays, because the light might not be on you now, but that doesn’t mean it won’t be soon. Get ready for laughs and a reminder to keep grinding!

Your boys have been so deep in the grind we hadn't noticed we hit out 300th episode a few week ago. Grateful to be on this journey with all of you, here are some of our thoughts regarding this milestone

Disclaimer - This episode is going to offend a couple of people but it has to be had. We aren’t sending shots for anybody but if the shoe fits it fits. We can’t be resting on our laurels, and we can’t keep talking about the things we did in high school, time to update the résumé and get out there again.

If you've ever felt like everything has already been done you know it's miserable to be blocked creatively. It doesn't have to be this way. We know what it is like to wrestle with our creative output and to even piece things together, but you can overcome this and get back to being the creative machine that you are.

So many of the homies have embarked on ventures that require support. In this episode we discuss the politics involved with supporting friends, what is expected of you in supporting your people. This is something relevant to us all whether it is listening to this podcast, supporting a friend’s clothing line or their catering business. We think you will love this episode as people that support our creative venture, or as people that have embarked on their own.

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Fizzling does not take place between two people in a committed, loving relationship. It takes place between two people who are together under unclear terms. They can't properly break up, because they don't have anything to break. Instead, one person in the fling begins to fade out of the relationship as casually as he or she stumbled into it.

Working with the homies can be a sticky one. We all like different things, we all have the aptitude for different things so how do we ensure that the whole team is winning, or is this just a Hollywood fantasy? We believe it is an interesting thought but in this episode, we investigate the practical application

Bruh we are in this thing for real aren’t we? This adulting is such a trip and your boys have been going through it. It has actually been really good we aren’t complaining or ranting per se just sharing a lot of our analysis of what has been going on. Feel free to laugh at our misfortunes.

Thriving is a beautiful thing, as a person you gotta flourish.. let's unpack what that looks like

We'll be discussing the significance of taking that initial step in various aspects of life. It's fascinating to see how starting can have a transformative effect on our lives. Starting is often the first step towards progress, but what makes it such a crucial aspect of our lives? Today, we'll explore this question and unravel the intricacies behind the power of starting.

In a perfect world, friendships and romantic relationships have a natural give-and-take. One week, you might call someone and make plans to meet up, while the following week, they’ll reach out to you first instead. However, relationships can sometimes slip out of balance and become what’s known as a one-sided relationship. These can cause mental anguish and be physically and emotionally draining. During the conversation, you may find some of these familiar.

We all love being recognized and celebrated, but have you ever wondered about the deeper implications of applause? t's fascinating to explore how something as seemingly simple as clapping can hold such complex significance in our lives. Remember, applause can be a wonderful source of motivation and connection, but it's equally important to find validation within ourselves and pursue intrinsic fulfillment.

Every friendship has a beginning, a middle and an end. When you realize that the purpose the relationship is serving is outweighed by the discomfort of what is lacking, you will be more secure in your decision to not engage in that relationship."It might take some strength, but saying goodbye to the toxic friends in your life can do you some good. Let’s unpack what it looks like when you have to make a substitution, Sir Alex tings.

As two muppets that struggle with communication, we have been working on ourselves. In this journey of self-discovery we realized that while we needed to work on our communication, our comprehension was lacking too. This new dimension threw us for a loop.

You know that line for lethal weapon when Detective Roger Murtaugh is like “I’m sick of this sh*t”do you ever feel that way? It’s something that has come up a lot in our chats and we think you might relate. It’s somewhere between we are too old, and the body won’t allow it. This should be a fun one!

We all love being recognized and celebrated, but have you ever wondered about the deeper implications of applause? t's fascinating to explore how something as seemingly simple as clapping can hold such complex significance in our lives. Remember, applause can be a wonderful source of motivation and connection, but it's equally important to find validation within ourselves and pursue intrinsic fulfillment.

This episode explores the concept of facing our fears head-on and taking action, even when it's difficult. We discuss how "biting the bullet" and pushing through our comfort zones can lead to personal growth and new opportunities.

Are we battling internal demons, or are we simply facing the repercussions of our choices? In this episode, we explore personal responsibility and how our decisions shape our life experiences.

This episode is a reflection on how we spend our time and the importance of making the most of every moment. We'll share our own experiences and discuss how we can better invest our time to achieve our goals.

Loyaladjective - giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.

The boy came back from Cape Town looking so good, before we got back into the regular flow of our content we had to cover this chocolate decadence traffic

Protecting yourself from activity that drains your energy and makes you feel tired can be key to improving your productivity, happiness, and success. However, more than anything else, our habits are what mostly zap our energy, and make us less productive, and unhappy.

This is your boys in peak form.. enjoy having a laugh

If Not Now, Then When?" is a powerful question that can push us to examine our choices, ambitions, and the barriers we face. It encourages us to consider whether we're truly living life to the fullest. Remember, life is short, and it's up to us to make the most of it. Let’s get into it

First dates are always a mix of fun and nervous energy. The anticipation, the awkwardness, the slowly building attraction. Let's get into it..

We are huge advocates of mental health here on this podcast. Therapy is something we have both explored in our personal lives and it has been so beneficial to our growth and development. Today we are going to unpack therapy, and potential reasons for who you should consider it.

The people you surround yourself with can have a big impact on your life. From friends and family to co-workers and acquaintances, the people you spend time with can influence your mindset, behavior, and ultimately your success. We dive into the concept of changing your circle, how to identify toxic relationships and the benefits of surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people. Remember, the people you surround yourself with can have a big impact on your life, so it's important to...

The awkwardness of dating in the digital age. With the rise of dating apps and social media, finding love or even just a casual fling has become easier and more complicated than ever before. It's made it easier to meet people, but harder to form real connections. With so many options available, people often treat each other like commodities rather than human beings. here's also the issue of people presenting themselves in a certain way on dating apps or social media, which may not be entirely...

Your dreams have no limits, you are the creator of your dreams, big or small. When this is understood, you are able to design a way to favour you plan and accomplish your end goal. Whether it's a career path, a creative pursuit, or a personal goal, we all have dreams that we hold close to our hearts. But what happens when those dreams clash with societal expectations or our own self-doubt?

Being a sponge is so important, the ability to soak up and learn information is such an underrated skill? How do get your sponge game going, let us help you.

We all know that life can be unpredictable and chaotic at times, but how can we navigate these situations and still achieve our goals? Sometimes it’s so important to embrace the BS and double down in the midst of the nonsense

Today, we're going to talk about a serious topic that many young adults face: loneliness and isolation. With the ongoing pandemic and social distancing measures, it's become even more challenging to connect with others. But don't worry, we've got you covered. Today, we'll be discussing some helpful ways to cope with loneliness and isolation.

The truth is, as I’m sure you know, the older we get, the more our bodies change. But sometimes we forget that this also means we need to adjust our self-care habits. We’ve spoken about it before *insert episode* but life is a linear journey and we have been learning more about ourselves and we decided to come back to this.

Today we're diving headfirst into the world of guilty pleasures. Prepare for a laughter-filled exploration of those secret indulgences that bring us joy, even if they raise a few eyebrows. Remember, life is too short to be ashamed of the things that bring us joy. Embrace your quirks and celebrate your guilty pleasures.

ishė is an artist...a special musical soul. He hails from Zimbabwe where his journey began and his heart permanently resides, no matter how far he may go. His unique voice and innate gifts propelled him to hone his craft from a young age. This process entailed a deep and intense practice of songwriting, music production, and most importantly performing. The stage is the platform on which he shines the brightest and where he is able to truly exude the gifts he has been blessed with by his crea...

There is a wise urban philosopher named “Simba Tsumba” who once said People should know their weight class.” Be prepared for some elite level banter here, your boys are about to be in prime form.

Social media keeps us connected, but there's a different quality to interactions now. We've gone from neighborhood gatherings to WhatsApp groups. It's convenient, but we miss the face-to-face catch-ups.

Can your ex come back? Let's talk about it

Digital nomadism has gained significant popularity among young adults in recent years. The ability to work remotely while exploring different parts of the world sounds like a dream come true. However, it also comes with its own set of joys and challenges.

“People see better than they hear” is one of our favorite sayings here at Tings and Things. What does this mean though? Sometimes instead of waiting for a lovely soliloquy, just watch how an individual behaves and that’s your answer. We'll be discussing how people's actions and behavior can provide insight into their true intentions and beliefs. Buckle up.

Oh we are about to dive head first into the concept of playing small and explore the ways in which young adults can inadvertently hold themselves back from achieving their full potential. From imposter syndrome to fear of failure, we examine the various reasons why individuals may choose to play small and offer strategies to help overcome these limitations. Are you going to choose to keep playing small or come over here and play with the big dawgs?

Most of all, remember that in every moment of our lives, it’s the journey that counts. We learn from the things we do and the people we meet, not just the ones we love or those who love us back. We learn from every encounter we have. We hope this inspires you to reflect on the lessons you've learned from the people in your life and how they've shaped you into the person you are today. Remember, every person you meet has something to teach you, so keep an open mind and embrace the lessons that...

We're diving deep into the murky waters of being ghosted by a friend or romantic partner. We'll explore the intricacies of this modern-day phenomenon and discuss how to cope with the aftermath. Each ghosting experience is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. We hope that by exploring these questions, we can shed some light on this often perplexing and painful phenomenon, and offer solace to those who have experienced it.

Your mind allows you to create all kinds of justifications without any danger of contradictions. Reality has this irritating habit of bursting our bubbles and putting a crack into our wall of justifications. The mind is a great shelter from this threat. Sometimes it’s not even worth it to burst their bubble and let people just live in their reality., We often have our own opinions and beliefs that we impose on others, but what if we allowed people to live their own lives, make their own choic...

Drinkcember is the season to drink, eat, party, be merry, let your hair down, dance like you just don’t care…you get the gist. For so many people in our audience, they get to travel home and see some old familiar faces and it is an incredible time to reconnect and bond with our close family and friends.Here is the link to the playlist

Life is full of challenges and uncertainties, and sometimes we find ourselves stuck in a rut, repeating the same patterns over and over again. But what if we told you that change is the key to progress and growth? In today's episode, we're going to explore the concept that nothing changes if nothing changes. Change may be challenging, but it's often the catalyst for personal and societal progress.

Whether it's due to work, school, or other circumstances, long-distance relationships can be both a source of happiness and a challenge. Long-distance relationships can be tough, but they can also be incredibly rewarding. By staying committed, communicating effectively, and making the most of the time you do have together, you can build a strong and lasting relationship even when you're far apart.

This success thing has been quite the the journey for us not to say that was successful but we we boarded a bus a couple years ago, and we just never got off. This is been a time of clarity and revelation because now you understand exactly what it takes to get to where we want to be and we definitely had to make some mindset shifts for this to happen.

Your boys were at home for a couple of weeks and it was a sunny and delightful affair. Recap the shenanigans with us of being at home and enjoying the splendor of what the Republic has to

Brooke Bruk-Jackson is a Zimbabwean model and beauty pageant titleholder who was crowned Miss Universe Zimbabwe 2023. She will represent Zimbabwe at Miss Universe 2023. Catch up with all her escapades here

Who has either had an idea they wanted to execute or wanted to be a part of someone else’s idea and for whatever reason things just work out for you? Has this been an overarching theme in your creative endeavors? Nobody is going to pull out a seat for you and just invite you to the table

Talking stages are a real thing. We bet a couple of you are probably going through them as we speak. These joints are so abstract and undefined we thought we would come here and clear up a couple of things.

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There's a lot of talk and a lot to be said, for the power of Yes. Yes, it supports courage and an open-hearted approach to life whose grace cannot be minimized. But Noa metal grate that slams shut the window between one's self and the influence of others—is rarely celebrated. It's a hidden power because it is both easily misunderstood and difficult to engage.

Remember, life is full of ups and downs, and it's okay to stumble along the way. Embrace imperfections, overcome fear, embrace vulnerability, adapt to change, find joy in uncertainty, maintain a positive mindset, and practice self-compassion.

As two individuals that are rather familiar with rock bottom, the art of a bounce-back is one that we have had to learn. Stumbling isn’t falling, and we want to share a couple of gems with you.

Today we're diving headfirst into the world of guilty pleasures. Prepare for a laughter-filled exploration of those secret indulgences that bring us joy, even if they raise a few eyebrows. Remember, life is too short to be ashamed of the things that bring us joy. Embrace your quirks and celebrate your guilty pleasures.

Cultural differences can play a significant role in relationships, and sometimes they can lead to unique challenges.

Your mind allows you to create all kinds of justifications without any danger of contradictions.Reality has this irritating habit of bursting our bubbles and putting a crack into our wall of justifications. The mind is a great shelter from this threat. Sometimes it’s not even worth it to burst their bubble and let people just live in their reality., We often have our own opinions and beliefs that we impose on others, but what if we allowed people to live their own lives, make their own choice...

Your dreams have no limits, you are the creator of your dreams, big or small. When this is understood, you are able to design a way to favour you plan and accomplish your end goal. Whether it's a career path, a creative pursuit, or a personal goal, we all have dreams that we hold close to our hearts. But what happens when those dreams clash with societal expectations or our own self-doubt?

Making and maintaining friendships in adulthood can be a complex journey, filled with both rewards and challenges. We definitely hope to provide some valuable insights and spark some self-reflection. Remember, adult friendships are a journey worth investing in.

Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, and we often find ourselves stuck or paralyzed by fear of failure or uncertainty. But what if taking small steps forward, even at a slow pace, is actually better than standing still? Why do we often associate progress and success with speed and quick results? Is it realistic to expect everything to happen rapidly, or do we sometimes need to embrace a slower approach to achieve long-term goals?

Passion is not just a feeling, but an action. Passion is something we actively pursue and work towards, rather than just a fleeting emotion. So let’s explore what it actively means to go out there and chase your dreams!

Whether it's the opinions of others, societal pressure, or unexpected events, external factors can often derail our best-laid plans. We dive deep into this topic and offer practical tips on how to stay focused and maintain your drive, even when the world around you seems to be working against you. It's clear that outside energy can be a powerful force that can either help or hinder our progress towards our goals. But by staying mindful, having a support system, and being prepared for un...

We have truly been on an amazing journey, if you are not familiar Simba is truly attracts weirdos. Jokes aside we have met some amazing movers and shakers and were truly captivated by their aura and the ability to draw us in without saying anything at all.

Over the past few months we’ve managed to conduct a scouting report on the dating market because some of you don’t want to use your eyes and there’s people that love you we can just let you walk into things without a fair assessment of exactly what’s out there for you.

One of the critical components frequently discussed on this podcast is the “pillars of peace.” We have always talked about it but today we are going to discuss the things we are leaning into and what is currently giving us peace.

Do you know what yeah, we have made some errors in this journey we call life. We think some of these errors are believing some of these so-called myths that are perpetuated around us.

You’re awesome but you’re single. What are you doing wrong?? Absolutely nothing. Single life isn't a bad thing at all, today we will unpack some of the reasons we hear most when people are asked why they are single.

We don’t know what it is, there is just something about certain behavior that we aren’t tolerating right now. We’ve had to look within ourselves and ask some hard questions and honestly it was fun at all but that journey has lead us here and we just aren’t having it anymore.

As experts in the field of toxicity, we find that many of our friends entertain nonsense that they shouldn’t be and ultimately we want people to be around the best people. That being said toxicity is a word that is thrown around a lot and we find that it’s starting to lose some of its meaning kind of like the boy that cried wolf so we might not be able to determine what toxicity is but by the end of this episode you’ll have a great guide what to look for and what to avoid

We’re not gonna pull any punches on this one pleasing people is a first-class ticket to rock bottom no if’s and’s or butts. It’s part of human nature to want to be liked and to be positively affirmed but to what end?

You might not like it very much after this episode but listen somebody needs to have the hard conversations. This may be like Nostradamus a premonition of sorts, but this is exactly why are you not going to achieve your goals this year don’t be upset this is just the facts and we’re telling you ahead of time so that later on you don’t have egg on your face because we told you.

Relationships are our favorite topic over here. There’s been a very common theme in some of our conversations and it’s been the one-sidedness that people experience in relationships it’s tough when the person you care for isn’t reciprocating and your feelings and you feel out in the cold. Let's unpack exactly what it looks like because you might be in a situation and not even know it.

At some point, you have to start living for yourself. Our families and significant others play a huge role in our development and give us a greater sense of belonging and community. Individualism is something that isn’t always culturally encouraged, let’s explore this.

Choices have such an incredible impact on the quality of our lives. Sometimes we truly know better but still do the wrong thing. We have been in a place where we have had to make a couple of big decisions recently and we want to unpack it all.

Cycling from Cape Town to Vienna is a remarkable journey, covering thousands of kilometers through vastly different landscapes and cultures. This is a challenge that few individuals would even consider, but for some, it's an adventure of a lifetime. In this podcast, we'll take a closer look at the intricacies and challenges of this escapade. This is a remarkable journey that requires physical and mental strength, endurance, and resilience. It's a challenge that offers numerous rewards, includ...

Family can be a sensitive subject for many people, some relationships we have with the ones we are closest with can be the most difficult. Why is that? Let’s unpack this.

As people we’ve had multiple parking tickets running a red light is not something we should be proud of. In the context of this episode running a red light can lead to a lot of days in therapy. We see the red flags in front of us and just keep going and usually, the outcome is never a good thing. This could have yes totally been avoided.

Your boys are starting to age like fine wine and through this maturation, our minds have become illuminated. We didn’t just get here, it has been an active process and this is how we got here

“Intentional” is another one of the buzzwords that we have been hearing and are we being intentional by talking about being intentional? Okay we need to chill but you get the vibes

Your boys have been galavanting around Southern Africa recently and decided to catch you up on our adventures, here is our post-mortem report from all the shenanigans

Devon is a creative director and a music manager who is currently taking over the scene right now. He is currently working with such an amazing roster of artists. We pick his brain on his creative process, some of his favorites, and his general assessment of what he sees in the game right now.

We sit in a really weird intersection between having friends that can bar you to death and friends that can’t count a bar. However this raises the subject of having honest conversations with your friends and giving honest and genuine feedback. A slippery slope for sure, this should be a fun one.

How do you actual make tangible process in this thing we call life? It is really simple, take "small bites." Start your day by going smaller. Even smaller than that. Begin with the thing you hate the most. Say you hate stretching. Stretch just one joint. Just one. There — at least you started. Tomorrow, maybe add a tiny bit more.

Ladies and Gentlemen, clout is one hell of a drug. We see it a lot in some of the spaces that we frequent. It is time for an open and honest conversation about the clout and how the pursuit of it can lead you astray.

This is about to be some foolishness. Going through the journey of feeling out a new person and understanding your compatibility or lack thereof is an interesting process. It may take a week may take a month we come to the realization that we’re not complementing each other and it’s best to go our separate ways.

Sometimes you leave your lights on and boom rushing out for that 8 am meeting and your battery is dead. Life can be like too and a handy pair of jumper cables is exactly what the mechanic ordered to get you going again. P.S. Can we start scheduling meetings at decent times?

As avid comic book readers in our youth, one of the worst parts about growing up is understanding that superheroes aren’t real. Elon Musk could be Iron Man if he wanted, but that is a different story for another day. Ultimately there is no knight in shining armor coming to rescue you from your situation, however, the person you see in the mirror every day has the power to change it.

Yo, we all have that one friend that is perpetually single and the funny thing is they always have the solution to your domestics. In this episode, we unpack some of the advice the “coaches” gave us and how that turned out.

Big man tings, we blinked and Skype vanished. Literally, it happened overnight, but this is a story that we have seen one too many times before. Nokia, Yahoo, Blockbuster, and Skype to name a few. Adapt, improvise and overcome, or will you become the next casualty of war?