F the Nice Guy

Spotting a manipulative "Nice Guy" in the early days isn't easy, but it's not impossible. We've brought back covert abuse expert Eleni Sagredos to talk about some of the red flags to look out for with a covert "nice guy" narcissist. And yes... we do talk about the "Jonah Hill" manipulation tactic.    Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense  Eleni's AMAZING book!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

This week is an extra long episode, but what would you expect when Kate and Regan are breaking down this season of Love is Blind?!? And might we just say... this season may be the worst yet. The damage isn't being done by blatant assholes. It's being done by "nice", "feminist", "god-loving" gentlemen". Grab a drink, grab a snack, and buckle up because we're taking you through this season and all it's jaw dropping twists and turns.    Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men". When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

This week Regan's joined by the amazing Jamila aka Tiktok's Bright Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men". When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)   JAMILA'S LINKS Tiktok MAIN Tiktok #2 Jamila's Arbitrator Video

We're back baby! On this week's episode, we're appealing Reddit's verdict on whether or not a mom who was disappointed in her 40th birthday is the asshole. We've got the facts, the anecdotal evidence, and all the opinions. In the end, you get to be the judge!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Recently a woman online did the unthinkable... she asked men on Tiktok "Why are you all seemingly resistant to evolving the definition of manhood you simultaneously hate to live by?"  Of course, many men had many things to say. But one man in particular caught our attention. He presents himself as a "nice guy", a "reasonable guy", and seemingly a "guy who gets it". But when you break down his argument you see... what he really is... is WRONG.  Kate and Regan are dissecting this "nice guy" argument to hopefully help you all be able to defend yourselves against similar men with similar tactics and talking points. Buckle up because it's a doozy and quite honestly a RANT.    IMPORTANT NOTE: Regan is going out of town so this week we did an extra-long episode. Instead of cutting it into two episodes, we left it as is and will be skipping posting next week. Then back to our regular schedule.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

We're back with Part 2 of our discussion about the "nice guys" that did us dirtier than we remembered. And this week we're talking about two stories that we unpacked recently - meaning our conversation is a little more raw than normal.    Oh and ... Fun Fact - Regan has some horrible virus this week so apologies for the scary intro.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Have you ever had the unfortunate displeasure of realizing that the "Nice Guy" from your past was even worse than you remember? This week Kate and Regan are taking a journey down memory lane to unpack the "nice guy" situations that they now realized they were seeing through rose-colored glasses. In part one, we talk about the guy who stalked Regan for 2 years in college and the school's administration that excused, ignored, and frankly facilitated his abuse. And yes, we are bringing receipts.    EPISODES MENTIONED:  "Nice Guys", Mean Girls, Stalkers, OH MY! (Date: March 25, 2023)    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

We're back with Eleni to finish off our conversation on narcissism. Picking up right where we left off, we're talking about the discard, hoovering, reverse hoovering, and our final thoughts on the narcissism cycle and red flags.  Oh and lucky for you... the audio is better!  Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense  Eleni's AMAZING book!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

We talk a lot about Narcissism on this podcast, but this week we're taking it back to basics. So I've brought back my favorite "Nice Guy" Narcissist expert Eleni Sagredos. We're breaking down the basics, sharing stories, and giving you some red flags to look out for.    And shocker... we had a lot to say so this will be a two part episode.    Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense  Eleni's AMAZING book!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love?  It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an inspirational tale of a woman who stood by her man for the Lord. This is about HER strength (not HIS transgressions). And believe me, transgressions is PLURAL. And not only does this couple think they are the picture of true love, they think they are qualified to be both relationship and faith coaches for other couples. Listen to the episode and let me know if you think they're qualified.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

When it comes to Trad Wives, we can all agree that they're looking to take us back to olden times. Little did they know, the Times would be the one to deliver the biggest blow to the facade they attempt to project.  And by Times, we mean the New York Times.  On today's episode we are talking about Ballerina Farms and more specifically Hannah Neeleman. And while it may be hard to find sympathy for someone pushing this lifestyle, in this episode we break down how this life may not be all that it seems... and not at all what Hannah had in mind. I wonder whose idea it was....    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Buckle up friends, this one is the dooziest of doozies. Our guest today is Lisa aka Tiktok's _Stronger_than_before. She's a relationship coach who specializes in abusive relationships... and the perfect co-host to talk about an extremely popular "nice guy" Tiktok therapist that has some truly terrible takes.  Oh you want an example? How about him making MULTIPLE videos about how people pleasers can be just as toxic as narcissists. And that's not even the half of it...    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page) LISA'S LINKS https://strongerthanbefore.ca/ Lisa's Tiktok

Did anyone have tightening jar lids on their manipulation bingo card? Us either. But this week we're talking about a man who tightened jar lids right into a divorce. At first this story seems silly, but as we dig deeper into the details we realized it was never about the lids and always about control.    And we wan't to hear from you! What do you think of this Jar Lid Debacle? And what's the simple thing your toxic ex did to drive you "crazy"?    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Buckle up friends because this is one of the craziest stories yet. We're talking about the absolutely insane story of Brooke Schofield, Clinton Kane, and one of the most unhinged PR strategies of all time - using a woman you traumatized for Tiktok clout to market your new song. And that's not even the craziest part...    This episode has everything... mentions of handsome squidward, 14 part Tiktok tell alls, one fake accents, multiple fake deaths, and so much for.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE. If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the real pain women suffer when they realized the "friend" they thought they had was just a man manipulating them to get in their pants.    So... we're going to talk about it.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned.    We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you'll have to hear to believe.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   CHERI'S BOOK Baby Bear In The Chair

When you're a woman making content on the internet, one thing is certain. Men are going to say some CRAZY shit to you. And we're not talking your average mean troll comments, we're talking absolutely unhinged. On this week's episode, we're breaking down some of our craziest comments and as always my friends... BUCKLE UP! This episode has. everything toxic men talking about diapers, toxic men talking about trees, and above all else, toxic men doing what they do best... being absolute hypocrites.   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites. Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY where just when you think it can't get any worse, it does.  If you want to listen to the full episode and see our lovely faces at the same time, watch this episode on the The F the Nice Guy Youtube page!  Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy

You all are in for a special treat this week. We're brought Payton back on to tell one of our family's favorite "nice guy" stories. It is truly a classic and something that could only ever happen to Payton - the queen of the 90's rom-com shenanigans. This episode has everything... brocollini, bunk beds, break up marathons, and so much more!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging.  This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese Lee to breakdown one such man. Buckle up my friends, this one's a doozy.    THERESE'S LINKS Youtube Tiktok   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem. But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fumble.    Go Fund Me's of The Families Kate's Family: Nada Alaraj & Her 3 Little Girls Regan's Family: Yousra Saving Her Sick Dad   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one.    On this week's episode, Kate is back and we're breaking down some of Hollywood's worst creeps who somehow have gotten away with it, what they did, and why we think they've been getting away with it. Believe me when I say, buckle up.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy listen, but it may be our most important episode yet.    TW: Mentions of grooming and hints at abuse (no specific details)    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us.  TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls that you love them, and so much more!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep dive to prove that this seemingly misguided guy is much more harmful than he appears...    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Abby Rosmarin's Links Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree  Insta: abbyrosmarin And make sure to search for her books online!

When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"! Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder.    Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense  Eleni's AMAZING book!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER. We're breaking down what led up to this, all the bizarre and horrifying details, and how Catherine has chosen the highroad of healing.    Catherine's Tiktok - KATenacious   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up.    We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater! On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day.  We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get to the heart (or lack their of) of why these men feel the need to destroy, demean, and degrade on supposedly the "happiest day" of their lives.    And make sure to listen to the outro because we have a SPECIAL announcement!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode. But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more!  MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications Mel's Tiktok Mel's Youtube   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Today's  title sounds like the start of a bad joke... but this experience was anything but funny for our guest Katie aka @im.that.lesbian.    This story blew up  when a straight women complained about a bad experience she had when bringing a straight man to a lesbian bar. She tells us an unprovoked and seemingly angry lesbian asked "what are you doing here" to her "nice guy" friend. The video ends with her asking for feedback and boy...did queertok deliver.    That's when Katie (that "angry" lesbian) entered the chat to tell us what REALLY happened. Not only was the man acting out of line and entitled, but the whole experience was just one of many bad experiences queer women face when straight men come to lesbian bars.   HUNGRYROOT LINKS Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift   Katie's Tiktok   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

You all asked for it.... and it's finally here. This week's episode we are joined by Mel Hamlett. As a self-proclaimed recovering "cool girl" Mel has some unbelievable stories about what the "cool girl" goes through, what made her say f*** that, and how she began the journey of decentering men. Believe me when I say... buckle up.    HUNGRYROOT LINKS Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift   MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications Mel's Tiktok Mel's Youtube   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When a "Nice Guy" 'feminist" Tiktoker is told his take on a topic needs some adjustment... what is he to do? Be accountable like he demands of other men? Of course not! He does the one thing he can to strike back without looking "mean", he weaponizes the women who love him.    Abby Rosmarin is back to share a recent run in with a "nice guy" "feminist" Tiktoker and what happens when a "Nice Guy" wants to strike back so women become his weapon. We're breaking down what happened, why we think it happened, and how to spot this very predictable "Nice Guy" Tiktoker pattern.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Abby Rosmarin's Links Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree  Insta: abbyrosmarin

We're back with Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls Podcast to bring you perhaps the most terrifying tale of all... A "Nice Guy" origin story. We're swapping stories about the "Nice Guys" of Improv, Comedy, and yes... we do mention Matt Rife. DUH!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Rat Girls Links Rat Girls Podcast  Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok

We're tired of being civilized.... it's time to get feral and release our inner rat. And we've found just the ladies to help us out. This week we're joined by Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls podcast and we're swapping stories about some seriously... sneaky.... snakey "Nice Guys".  Sss...ee what I did there?     F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Rat Girls Links Rat Girls Podcast  Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok

It's time to tackle a "Nice Guy" topic that's long overdue - the "Nice Guy" in the arts. And you know that means we had to bring on Tiktok's very own Seema! We're pulling no punches this week as we do a deep dive on these "sensitive souls".  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page Seema's Links The ArtLust Podcast Seema's Tiktok The ArtLust Podcast Tiktok

Happy New Year and welcome back to the new season of the F the Nice Guy Podcast! We've got a new theme song and a shocking couple of stories for you. The lovely ladies behind our new song are sharing they're Nice Guy tales of men in the music industry. When I tell you jaws were on the floor multiple times while recording.... I mean it. So buckle up and set the rage dial to max because this episode is uncensored and unhinged.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   TERA LYNNE FISTER All socials: @Iamfister  Website: iamfister.com/links  Spotify: Tera's Spotify   SARA SPICER LINKS Insta/FB: Saraspicermusic Youtube: Sara Spicer  Spotify: Sara's Spotify

It's time for the F the Nice Guy Holiday Episode! Because this Christmas, Santa brought Kate an unexpected gift... the word of God and the urge to call the police. But we're just getting started, because after we chat about a certain Naughty St. Nick, we're diving into Love Actually. We've found out information that makes this movie WORSE ACTUALLY and proves this movie is nothing more than the "Nice Guy" Fantasy gift wrapped as a Holiday Rom Com.  (This episode will be the last episode of the year so stay tuned for our next episode - January 6th)

We're back and we've saved the best... or maybe worst... for last. Regan and the Speech Prof have clips from some of the worst men to have microphones -- Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, and of course... Matt Rife. You literally will not believe your ears.    This episode is BLEEP free... so buckle up.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   The Speech Prof Links The Speech Prof TikTok The Speech Prof YouTube Page (Just search The Speech Prof)

If you're looking for a toxic man to tell on himself... get him in a room for a couple hours with other toxic men, a few microphones, and give them the topic of dating advice. And since we're talking about podcasting men... who better to bring back then The Speech Prof himself. And yes... this is a multi parter... DUH!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   The Speech Prof Links The Speech Prof TikTok The Speech Prof YouTube Page (Just search The Speech Prof)

Part 2 is here with a vengeance becaue we're not done with Matty yet. And we think we've cracked the code as to why this man came so hard for women. We're also taking red flags to look out for from men in your every day life. And surprisingly -- we end on a little hope?    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Come on... you know we had to do it.  We're bringing you this episode early because we NEED to talk about Matt Rife's fall from grace. And we're giving you the deets so you don't have to waste any time watching the man who made his special... mediocre. And since this man loves to punch down on women, victims of DV, people with disabilities, the elderly, etc.... we're not pulling any punches either. Hope those chiclet veneers are insured.    TW: We talk about Matt's quotes that include: jokes about DV, talking about the well endowed high school boy with Down syndrome, degrading conversations about women's genitalia, etc.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

If you've dealt with a "nice guy", you've probably found yourself asking the question... why me? Well, on this week's episode we've brought back Abby Rosmarin give you some answers. While we are NEVER here for "victim blaming", we have noticed that "nice guys" are attracted to certain traits. So we're breaking down what traits they love, how they manipulate these should be wonderful traits, and what we've learned through our experience.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Abby Rosmarin's Links Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree  Insta: abbyrosmarin

We're back to end the Whedon "Nice Guy" Fantasy Filmmaker Saga. Make sure to check out Part 1 because we're starting right where we left off. And if you thought last episode was bad... buckle up. This episode has everything - Whedon Vs. WONDER WOMAN, punishing actresses via their characters, zero accountability, ALL THE AUDACITY, and so much more!  TW: Fictional S/A scenes are mentioned (respectfully), abuse of power, men forcing women to be "method" in abuse on camera, racism    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

We're keeping this episode in the family - but this time we've got Payton! And she is bringing ALL the receipts about the Fantasy Filmmakers who force us to watch their violent, sexual fantasies under the guise of content. We're touching on Tarentino, the Gonads behind Game of Thrones, and landing on the King Baby "Nice Guy" Joss Whedon. This episode has it all - Directors forcing multiple women to be "method" when being choked, LITERAL waterboarding, cis het white men being the voice of women, ex-wife takedowns, and so much more!    TW: Fictional S/A scenes are mentioned (respectfully), abuse of power, men forcing women to be "method" in abuse on camera    Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Buckle up my friends, it's about to get spooky, scary, and downright antagonist. On this week's Halloween episode, we've brought on Kitti from Tiktok. She's uncovered a tactic that is as repulsive to the "Nice Guy" as garlic is to a vampire. And that is - TO DISTURB THE LIVING HELL OUT OF THEM! Haunt their dreams. Make them wish they never asked for your number. And she's here to teach you some of her tricks! NO TREATS FOR THE "NICE GUY"   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   KITTI'S SOCIALS Tiktok: caffinatedkitti

Megan's back to finish her episode and if you think it can't get weirder, you're wrong. This episode as it all - the ole drunk dial from a dude from highschool, husbands hitting on you with horse sounds, snakes getting called out, lesbians cosplaying as heteros, calling out snakes, and so much more!  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page MEGAN'S SOCIALS Tiktok: _odriewdlocenots_ Instagram: _stonecoldweirdo_

For these weeks episode, we're bringing on one of my Tiktok favorites - Megan Rose. Little did I know, Megan and I share more than just 85% of our names. We've have a lot of shared experiences. This episode has it all - partners being nothing but problems in the delivery room, horrific ex husbands, retaliation reputations in high school, "pick me" teachers, James Bond marathons that are scarier than any horror movie, and so much more!  TW: Mentions of S/A (Nonconsensual sexual contact) F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page MEGAN'S SOCIALS Tiktok: _odriewdlocenots_ Instagram: _stonecoldweirdo_

Make sure to check out last week's episode because we're starting right where we left off... with Kate's story. Buckle up because this is a cautionary tale about what spiritual men can get away with under the guise of "helping you heal".    TW: Sexual Contact Without Constent/Groping    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Inspired by a ton of viral stories about "spiritual" men, Kate and Regan are bringing out some true tales from their personal vaults. This episode has it all -  repeated requests for Regan to go into the woods, men talking to trees, video voice note evidence, criss cross applesauce confessions, and so much more! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

This week we're bring you an extra long episode about what happens when a "Nice Guy" comes to Booktok. And of course, if we're talking Booktok, there's not better lady to bring on then Amber aka Sensible_amber from Tiktok. This episode has it all - incel authors, elaborate fake book reviews, performative wokeness, joker references, and so much more...  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Amber's Links Website: Amberwardell.com Tiktok: Sensible_amber Instagram: Sensible_amber

Abby Rosmarin is back to finish her "Nice Guy" Tiktoker story, and you better buckle up. Just when you think it can't get ANY worse, it does. This man isn't just a "nice guy", he is truly a monster... a monster with a huge following. And Abby's story is a perfect reminder to be skeptical, be cautious, and be-ware of the "Nice Guy" Tiktoker.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Abby Rosmarin's Links Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree  Insta: abbyrosmarin

If we've said it once, we'll say it a million times... Don't trust "Nice Guy" Tiktokers. You know, the men who build a platform as defenders of women but use said platform for fame, validation, and to slip into vulnerable women's DMs.    Well this week, we have Abby Rosmarin telling their cautionary tale of dating a very popular "nice guy" tiktoker. Listen to her story to know how these men function, the red flags to look for, the subtle ways they lie and manipulate, and the power we have when we band together against these men to say enough is enough.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Abby Rosmarin's Links Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree  Insta: abbyrosmarin

We're back with Allison to finish up this "Nice Guy" tale. And it's about to get ROUGH. This episode has everything ... trying to boost your EP stats at a funeral, boyfriends wanting a treat for doing far below the bare minimum, weaponizing therapy talk, and the true shocker -- a surprising amount of optimism.  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   ALLISON LINKS! Insta: Donutroyalty Substack: Allison's Substack

This week we have Allison who has an epic "Nice Guy" story - and yes it does include an acoustic guitar. It also includes a whole lot of tangents to buckle up! This episode has everything forced serenades, American Eagle make outs, Mommy Issues, weaponizing fights in the form of song lyrics, and so much more!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   ALLISON LINKS! Insta: Donutroyalty Substack: Allison's Substack

This week we've brought back Kate to talk about a truly disturbing incident that happened on Below Deck Down Under. It's been all over social media, but we've decided to do a dive deep. We're talking not only about the details of what happened but also the aftermath and the red flags that were missed/blatantly ignored.    TW: This episode contains boundary pushing, unsafe situations, kissing without consent, and details about an undressed man getting into bed with a sleeping woman.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

We're back to finish our conversation with Kristín from Tiktok (@Thriving_Imperfectly). We're giving our final thoughts and some wise words to keep women away from "Nice Guys" or empower them to leave. This episode has it all - the dark center of the "Nice guy" Tootsie Pop, "sharking", grown man tantrums, long distance relationships with reality, and so much more!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

On today's episode... we're going rogue! We've got Kristín from Tiktok (@Thriving_Imperfectly) and she's telling us her "Nice Guy" story... of course she has a different name from them. It rhymes with... sasstole. This episode has all the "Nice Guy" classics, grown men acting like toddlers, the dreaded age gap, men cosplaying as Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hide my bad behaviors from everyone but my partner, and so much more!    And remember if you have a "Nice Guy" story, send it to Ftheniceguy@gmail.com  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

We're back with The Speech Prof to bring this "Nice Guy" Voice Note Nightmare saga to an end. And if you thought the last half was bad, buckle up and prepare your puke bucket. This episode has too much -- dad jokes to hint at being well-endowed, weaponized therapy talk, the definitely imaginary Plumfette swan couple, sexualizing with saltines, and unfortunately so much more.    And make sure to check out The Speech Prof's podcast - Bad Advice Wednesdays!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

What's worse than a "nice guy" (that is a stranger) sending you unsolicited facebook messages trying to date you? Answer: The 10 Minutes of voice notes that follow. And buckle up friends, it only gets worse.  The Speech Prof is back to comment on this absolute Nice Guy Nightmare. This story has everything -  a delusion man believing he invented being a musician, multiple Gilmore Girl references, inventing old butt-grabbing women to brag about being in shape, misogyny sandwiches, and so much more!   You can find the Speech Prof's socials with a quick google search and make sure to check out his new podcast - Bad Advice Wednesdays!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

On this truly spooky episode, Kate and Regan are in the woods, ACTUALLY in person, and in for a nightmarish experience - listening to Toxic Dating Coaches. Because if you want to know what women want, you don't turn to women. You turn to random men on the internet who dish out misinformation with a heavy dose of misogyny. This episode has it all - self proclaimed alphas, aggressive tickling, insane marker board break downs, and so much more!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page DISCLAIMER:  Apparently recording in a large room with a running washing machine, an air conditioning system, and several cats running around is not good for audio? So a lot of noise had to be removed and the audio sounds a little off. Apologies all around.

This episode's another family affair but it's our co-host isn't Kate... it's Regan's sister Payton. And if you think Regan's stories are bad... buckle up for a truly bizarre "nice guy" tale. This episode has everything - nefarious wedding plans, early morning attempted abandonment,  twilight zone car conversations, and so much more!    NOTE: This was the first time we recorded in the same room so apologies for any audio issues.

On this week's episode the trauma is heavier so the length is longer. Inspired by an unheard tangent from last week's episode, Kate is back to talk about the very serious and real dangers of the "nice guy". So while this episode may have less laughs, it's probably the most important episode we've posted so far. Prepare to be shocked, validated, and have your eyes opened to just how bad a "nice guy" can be.   WARNING: This episode includes women (including your hosts) in dangerous situations but no physical harm occurs.

WARNING: This episode may make you want to throw up    We're back with Part 2 of the "I've Had It" special and this may be our funniest/grossest episode yet. This special has everything... "nice guys" who "see you", acoustic playing man-scapers, ALL THE RECEIPTS, and possibly the grossest woodland creature imagery.

This week's episode is inspired by the "I've Had It Podcast". Cousin Kate is back and ready to dish about all the "Nice Guy" go-to moves that we've had it with. This episode really has it all - gross misinterpretations of the word nice,  misogynist magician pick up artists, "dumps" in golden toilets, cheap drinks with high expectations, and so much more!

It's finally happened. A man has entered the chat. On this week's episode we are chatting with the man, the myth, the ACTUAL nice guy The Speech Prof. This episode has everything - 6'5 short kings, hot wife email apologies, toxic dating coaches, saying "bye bye" to "nice guy" besties, and tips for being a nice guy and not a "nice guy".

The "Nice Guy" Science is back with a vengeance! We've got Part 2 of my conversation with the amazing Nai'a. This episode really has it all - hot takes on hetero men, toxic men wanting to return imaginary keys, not so fun fungibility, mansplaining "womansplaining", and so much more!

If you couldn't guess by the title, Nai'a is BACK! We're talking about the "Nice Guy" common traits that keep coming up. This conversation has everything F*** the Patriarchy merch, multiple Taylor Swift references, "Nice Guys" in your DMs, old dudes fighting for their life to justify dating young women, oblivious proposals, and so much more!   And make sure to check out Nai'a's socials:  IG: Roxanne_naia Tiktok: naia_papaia

We're adding more guys to the "Nice Guy" Boy Band! Man Band? Either way, we've got Lachey and we've got Puth. This episode has it all rock bottom standards for reality show men, punching at paparazzi, attention seeking asshole cupcakes, coat tail clinging, and so much more!   And make sure to check out Part 1!

We're taking a trip way way back to look at a very specific type of "Nice Guy" - the boy banders! And we'll start with one of the worst offenders - Justin Timberlake himself. This episode has it all - repeated ramen noodle references, casual breaking and entering, dirtbag tv interviews, white boy beat boxing, and so much more!

We're taking this podcast to places it's never been before.... Reddit. That's right! Our favorite cousin/co-host Kate joins us as we share some stories from "Nice Guy" Reddit threads. This episode has everything - disgustingly detailed "Nice Guy" descriptions, stalker-loving schools, older but not wiser "nice guys", devastating post reddit post reveals, and so much more!

This week we're talking reality show "nice guys" and for that we've brought back our resident reality show expert and frequent co-host Kate. This episode has it all - uncomfortable acapella, promise breaking bachelors, too many mouths on mouths, performative personalities, and so much more!    And make sure to send your "Nice Guy" stories to ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com

Who's ready for a casual shredding? Mollie joins us for this week's episode that will baffle even the most seasoned "Nice Guy" expert. This episode has it all - bumble brags, out of pocket birthday requests, shirtless strangers, a word so grotesque it ended a relationship, and so much more!    And make sure to check out the Casually Mollie Podcast available pretty much everywhere!

Today our co-host is someone who we briefly mentioned before but now has her very own episode - Abby! And if you want to know what happens when you have two hosts with ADHD, it's this episode. We've got it all - grown men throwing tantrums, heart attacks on a kid show, bodega bathrooms, and ALL THE TANGENTS!    Make sure to check out Abby's socials:  Instagram @ vibeslut Tiktok @ abigailjensen_

It's time for the grand finale and you better BUCKLE UP because we saved the best, or maybe the worst, for last. This episode has it all oil covered mesh tops, threatening playing cards, mimes, and so much more!

It's time for part two where we're talking about a terrible two-some. That's right, this episode we're diving deep into the absolute worst duo - The "Nice Guy" and the Mean Girl. This episode has it all - bad birthdays, friend group implosions, unicycle meet-cutes, and so much more!

Cousin Kate is BACK and she's bringing some "Nice Guy" horror stories. We'll start this start this three part series with one of my craziest stories - the guy who invented our entire relationship. Buckle up because this story has everything kidnap dates, mint chocolate chip ice cream, Starbucks interrogations, and so much more!

Cece is back for Part 2 and we're diving deep into the "Nice Guy" narcissist. This episode has everything long career cons, dog social stalkers, love bombing, and so much more.    Make sure to check out Cece's instagram @Brickhousstl for information on her styling services!

We're back for another episode with our latest guest host Cece to talk about the gnarliest of "Nice Guys" - the liars and the narcissists. This episode has everything cheater-friendly Chinese restaurants, littering, imaginary jail overnights, adult men doing backflips of trees, and so much more. Follow Cece’s instagram page Brickhousstl to see the styling service she’s launching this spring. And make sure to tune in next week for Part 2!

It's here! It's finally here! The first of many listener submitted episodes! We've got it all - forceful soup bringers, nepo baby bosses, love bombing man babies, and the ultimate "nice guy" nightmare - a "nice guy" with a podcast.    If you want your story shared, make sure it's "trauma lite" and send it to ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com

We're back for part 2 of my episode with Jenna. If you thought Part 1 was bad, this episode includes girl on girl straight men created storylines, middle aged men movie make outs, horrific viral videos, and so much more!    And don't forget, share your thoughts and "nice guy" stories at ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com

This week we're joined by Jenna to talk about all the "Nice Guys" we've met on set. And believe us when we say, the true horror stories are often happening behind the camera. This episode includes disgusting power dynamics, fake "allies", middle aged men in halloween costumes, and so much more.    And if you think these stories are bad, make sure to come back next week for Part 2.

We've talked about relationships & friendships, but now it's time to talk about the "nice guy" bosses. That's right, you can't escape them even at work. This episode includes mystery meetings, charismatic con men, and vulture villains.

We've all wondered it at some point. What made the "Nice Guys" this way? Well, today we are getting some answers. Social Psychology PhD Candidate and all around bada** Nai'a joins us for this extra long, extra enlightening episode to discuss where "Nice Guys" come from, where they are headed, what they're thinking, and what we can do about it.   Warning: Listening to this episode may induce laughter, eye rolls, gasps, and deeper understanding.    Make sure to follow this queen on her on her socials - Tiktok @naia_papaia & Instagram @roxanne_naia

Kate is back with another nice guy story and this one's a doozy. It has coupons, forced barbecue consumption, cat tainted carrot cake, rain walk induced injuries, and a "nice guy" who won't let a roomate's melt down get in the way of his make out sesh.

On this episode of F the ”Nice Guy”, our guest host Kate shares her ”nice guy” experience. This episode has everything -- disgracing meat, unprompted acoustic guitar serenading, gaslighting, and of course a 10 page text ”nice guy” manifesto.

It turns out the Grinch isn't the biggest baddie of the holiday season. Come along for our hosts completely true Christmas "Nice Guy" Tale that ends in the classic Holiday tagline - Merry F***ing Christmas!

Come along for this Holiday Episode where we talk about my least favorite Holiday "Nice Guy" - Mark from Love Actually. We'll do a deep dive into the movie, talk about why he is THE LITERAL WORST, and tear apart the new Buzzfeed article trying to say he's not so bad.  Well, he is bad and this podcast is here to tell you why.