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- 494 - Is This Helping Me - or OCD?
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the challenging question: "Is this helping me or is it OCD?" If you've ever been caught in the cycle of compulsions or endless rumination, this discussion is for you. Discover why attempting to determine the reality of intrusive thoughts can sometimes worsen the situation. Join us as we explore practical tips to break free from the grip of OCD, including innovative strategies like the "thought timer technique" and turning intrusive thoughts into comical characters. These methods aim to shift focus back to meaningful actions and the present moment, helping you regain control over your life. Whether you're managing OCD or supporting someone who is, tune in for insights that can lead to long-term relief. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for more actionable advice, and visit Robert James Coaching for additional support and a free session Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 20 Nov 2024 - 11min - 493 - How to Stop an OCD Compulsion Midway: Break Free from Repetitive Behaviors
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 444 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we tackle one of the most challenging aspects of OCD: walking away from a compulsion halfway through. This episode delves into the difficulties and discomfort of stopping a compulsion in its tracks, but also highlights the immense positive impact it can have on your journey to recovery. Join us as we explore practical tips and techniques that can make this daunting task a game-changer. Learn how to embrace discomfort and make it an exposure activity, helping you to gradually take back control from OCD. We'll discuss the importance of labeling obsessions, refocusing on your values, and engaging in purposeful activities to break the compulsion loop. Whether you're struggling with OCD or looking for ways to better manage anxiety, this episode offers insights and strategies to help you step back from compulsions and live the life you choose. Don't forget to check out our YouTube channel for more tips and exclusive content. Remember, progress is a journey, and every small success counts Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 16 Nov 2024 - 11min - 492 - When OCD and Anxiety Feel Unreal: Tips for Managing Derealization
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 443 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the often unsettling feeling of derealization, a common experience for those grappling with OCD and anxiety. Derealization can make the world feel dreamlike and unfamiliar, leaving many feeling adrift and disconnected. Robert shares insightful explanations on why derealization occurs, especially in the context of anxiety disorders. He offers three practical tips to help you regain your footing when everything feels surreal, empowering you to manage this challenging experience more effectively. Through grounding techniques, deep breathing exercises, and a shift in perspective, learn how to bring yourself back to the present moment and reduce the power of derealization over your life. Tune in to discover how understanding and acceptance can transform your relationship with OCD and anxiety. If you found this episode helpful, consider sharing it with others who might benefit from these insights. For more resources and support, visit Robert's website or explore his YouTube channel for additional tips and community support Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 13 Nov 2024 - 12min - 491 - How OCD Undermines Confidence—and Steps to Reclaim It
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to the OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching, where we delve into strategies for nurturing a more positive relationship with anxiety disorders. This episode focuses on the intricate ways OCD impacts confidence and how it can make even the most self-assured individuals question their worth. Join us as we explore the vicious cycle of self-doubt perpetuated by OCD, leading to avoidance of risks and a heightened fear of making mistakes. Robert shares personal anecdotes from his own journey, revealing how OCD influenced his life decisions and confidence levels. Discover practical steps to rebuild confidence, such as letting go of perfectionism, valuing small wins over big leaps, and replacing comparison with self-acceptance. Learn how focusing on personal values can foster genuine confidence despite OCD's presence. For those seeking further support, Robert offers a free coaching session and invites listeners to join the YouTube community for daily tips and exclusive deep dives into OCD themes. Embrace the journey towards lasting self-confidence by taking proactive steps today Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 09 Nov 2024 - 11min - 490 - The Illusion of Control: How OCD Keeps You Playing a Short-Term Game
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 441 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into one of OCD's most compelling tricks—the illusion of control. For those struggling with OCD, the cycle of compulsions often offers a deceptive sense of relief. However, this short-term fix only keeps you trapped in the cycle. Discover why focusing on long-term resilience rather than short-term comfort is essential for breaking free from OCD's grip. Learn about the concept of the "choice point" from Acceptance Commitment Therapy and how choosing courage over comfort can lead to true freedom. Robert shares personal insights and introduces two powerful techniques: postponement and values check-in, designed to help you build resilience and align your actions with your values. Join us as we explore how to make choices that reflect who you want to be, ultimately reclaiming your freedom from OCD. For more tools and strategies, visit Robert's YouTube channel and website. Embrace the journey towards a life defined by your values, not your fears. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 06 Nov 2024 - 11min - 489 - Feeling Stuck by OCD Setbacks? How to Regain Momentum
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 440 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James delves into the common yet challenging experience of setbacks in OCD recovery. Setbacks, often perceived as significant roadblocks, are explored as an essential part of the healing journey. Robert explains why these moments occur, how OCD amplifies frustration, and reassures listeners that progress continues despite these challenges. The episode provides practical tips for navigating setbacks, emphasizing the importance of embracing imperfection and resisting the allure of perfectionism. Listeners are encouraged to shift their focus from immediate feelings to the broader picture of progress, using humor and self-compassion as tools to lighten the load of OCD. Robert shares personal anecdotes to illustrate the unpredictability of OCD and offers insights into maintaining momentum through tough times. The episode also highlights the value of a growth mindset, viewing setbacks as opportunities for learning and development. For those seeking additional support, Robert invites listeners to explore his YouTube channel for exclusive content and to consider booking a free coaching session through his website Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 02 Nov 2024 - 11min - 488 - When Doubt Becomes the Third Wheel: Finding Freedom from Relationship OCD
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, Robert James delves into the challenging world of Relationship OCD, sharing his personal journey of overcoming the persistent doubts that plagued his romantic life. Reflecting on his experiences before proposing to his now-wife, Robert reveals how this "third wheel" of doubt impacted his relationship and the strategies he discovered to break free from its grip. Listeners will gain insights into three effective strategies that helped Robert manage his Relationship OCD and enjoy a more fulfilling relationship. From staying present with your partner to resisting the urge for constant reassurance, these tips offer a path to overcoming anxiety-driven doubts. Whether you're grappling with endless questions about your relationship or seeking clarity amidst uncertainty, this episode provides valuable lessons and practical advice to help you find peace and connection with your loved one. Don't miss the chance to learn how curiosity, acceptance, and even humor can transform your approach to Relationship OCD. #OCD #relationshipocd Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 30 Oct 2024 - 14min - 487 - Navigating the OCD Trap: How to Break Loose
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@theocdandanxetypodcast Welcome to episode 438 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, Robert shares his personal journey of overcoming the relentless grip of OCD, a condition that once felt like a shadow lurking in his life. Discover how he broke free from this cycle of compulsions and learned to live beyond his fears. Robert offers valuable insights into observing thoughts without reacting, embracing discomfort, and refocusing on what truly matters. Through these steps, he guides listeners towards gaining more freedom and control over their minds. If you're seeking support in your own journey, Robert invites you to connect with him for a free coaching session. Don't forget to check out his YouTube channel for daily tips and exclusive deep dives into OCD themes, aimed at helping you navigate and manage anxiety more effectively Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 26 Oct 2024 - 08min - 486 - Debunking the Law of Attraction for OCD and Anxiety
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 437, we delve into the complex relationship between intrusive thoughts, obsessive thinking, and the law of attraction, especially in the context of OCD. While the law of attraction suggests that we attract what we focus on, this concept can be particularly distressing for individuals struggling with OCD and anxiety, who often experience magical thinking. We explore why this idea might be harmful and offer two evidence-based strategies to manage these thoughts effectively. Learn about thought labeling from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and discover mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) techniques to create distance from intrusive thoughts. Gain practical tools to refocus on the present and live according to your values rather than your fears. Whether you're dealing with OCD or just looking to understand it better, this episode provides valuable insights and support. Don't forget to subscribe for more episodes and reach out if you have any questions or need support Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 23 Oct 2024 - 11min - 485 - Healing OCD Holistically: Mind-Body Wellness with Denise Schonwald
Welcome to episode 436 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this engaging discussion, we delve into the intricate connection between the mind, body, and spirit in managing OCD, featuring insights from our special guest, Denise Schoenwald. Denise, a registered nurse turned mental health counselor and medical intuitive, brings over 30 years of experience in holistic healing. Based in Sarasota, Florida, she extends her influence nationwide, offering virtual sessions and combining mental health counseling with spiritual insight to promote transformative healing. Throughout the episode, Denise shares her journey from critical care nursing to mental health counseling, highlighting how emotional struggles impact physical health. She also provides practical tips on creating harmony between your mind and body, the importance of spiritual wellness, and how to manage anxiety and OCD with a fresh perspective. Join us as we explore the powerful connection between the mind and body and learn how to cultivate a positive relationship with anxiety to live the life you choose, free from the constraints of fear. Links Denise.Schonwald@gmail.com DeniseSchonwald.com Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 19 Oct 2024 - 39min - 484 - Breaking Free from the OCD Cycle: The Mosquito Bite Metaphor
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 435 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James explores the compelling metaphor of a mosquito bite to illustrate the relentless cycle of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Just like the itch from a mosquito bite, OCD can be an all-consuming obsession, driving compulsive behaviors that provide only temporary relief. Robert delves into how understanding this cycle is crucial for managing OCD. By resisting the urge to 'scratch' or engage in compulsions, we can learn to sit with discomfort and reduce the power of intrusive thoughts over time. Through techniques such as Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) and Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), listeners are encouraged to focus on long-term goals and values, creating a mental 'mosquito net' that allows them to live life fully, even when OCD thoughts buzz in the background. Join Robert in this enlightening discussion and discover strategies to break free from the OCD cycle, learning to interpret and manage intrusive thoughts in a healthier way Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 16 Oct 2024 - 13min - 483 - From OCD Sufferer to Psychology Graduate: A Journey of Self-Discovery
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 433, join us for a deeply personal story as the host shares their inspiring journey from living with OCD to achieving a psychology degree at 43. This episode delves into the challenges, setbacks, and breakthroughs experienced along the way, offering hope and motivation to those facing similar struggles. The host discusses various transformative techniques that played a crucial role in managing OCD, including mindfulness, Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and the Wim Hof method. Discover how these practices not only helped in managing OCD but also completely transformed their life. Through candid storytelling, learn about the decision to pursue a psychology degree and the rewarding journey of balancing life as a student, parent, and coach. This episode serves as a reminder that no matter where your struggles begin, it's never too late to rewrite your story and find meaning in the chaos Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 12 Oct 2024 - 13min - 482 - Debunking OCD Myths
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 433 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James delves into the misconceptions surrounding Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Many people misunderstand OCD, often reducing it to mere quirks about cleanliness or orderliness. Robert aims to dispel these myths and provide a clearer understanding of this complex mental health condition. Listeners will learn about various forms of OCD, such as Pure O, where compulsions are not physically visible, and sensory motor OCD, which can be difficult for outsiders to recognize. The episode also addresses the false notion that OCD is a personality choice or something one can easily "snap out of." Robert emphasizes that OCD exists on a spectrum and that effective strategies like Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) and Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT) can significantly aid in managing symptoms. By debunking these myths, the episode encourages listeners to challenge limiting beliefs about OCD and to explore viable treatment options. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 09 Oct 2024 - 10min - 481 - The Widescreen TV Metaphor: Overcoming OCD by Shifting Focus
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode 432 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James explores the concept of broadening our focus to better manage obsessive thoughts and anxiety. Using the metaphor of a widescreen TV, Robert illustrates how we often fixate on small imperfections—like a dead pixel—while neglecting the bigger picture. Robert discusses the importance of shifting our attention from narrow, obsession-driven focus to a wider perspective that encompasses our values and the meaningful aspects of life. By doing so, we can learn to accept imperfections and reduce the grip of OCD on our daily experiences. This episode offers insights into acceptance and commitment therapy, highlighting how embracing a more expansive view can enhance our well-being and help us live a life aligned with our values, rather than being dictated by our fears Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 05 Oct 2024 - 10min - 480 - Why Having an Intrusive Thought Does Not Mean You Wanted the Intrusive Thought
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 431 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the nature of intrusive thoughts and why having them does not mean you actually wanted to have those thoughts. We explore the psychological tricks OCD plays, how it ensnares us by making us focus on unwanted thoughts, and the research that explains this phenomenon. Learn about the importance of bringing compassion and acceptance to your cognitive and emotional experiences to regain a sense of freedom. Discover how your thoughts are just thoughts, devoid of the meaning we often attribute to them, and how understanding this can change your relationship with OCD. Tune in to learn techniques that can help you manage your anxiety and start living the life you choose Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 02 Oct 2024 - 08min - 479 - Finding Hope in the Darkness: Overcoming OCD Challenges
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 430 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! Today, we delve into how to find hope amidst the darkness of OCD and anxiety. Host Robert James discusses the importance of believing in your approach to dealing with these disorders, even when it feels daunting. Robert shares his personal journey of struggling with OCD, the frustrations of trying various therapies, and the significance of taking small steps towards improvement. He emphasizes the necessity of patience, kindness, and consistent application of therapeutic techniques like ERP and acceptance commitment therapy. If you're feeling stuck or questioning the effectiveness of your strategies, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement to keep moving forward. Tune in for a dose of hope and practical advice on managing OCD and anxiety. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, follow along on YouTube and Instagram Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 28 Sep 2024 - 12min - 478 - OCD Isn’t You: Reclaiming Your Identity
Welcome to episode 429 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching. If you're struggling with OCD or anxiety, visit robertjamescoaching.com to book a free session or send a message for support. In today's episode, we explore the critical concept that you are not defined by OCD. Learn how to reclaim your identity and understand that OCD is just a diagnosis, not a life sentence. Discover why holding on too tightly to the label can hold you back and how to shift your perspective for a more positive outlook. Join us as we discuss the importance of viewing OCD as a set of habits rather than a permanent disorder. By changing how you deal with these habits, you can start to improve your situation and live a life less burdened by OCD. If you find the podcast helpful, please subscribe and share it with others. For any questions, feel free to reach out. You can also find the podcast on YouTube in various formats. Many thanks and enjoy the episode Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 25 Sep 2024 - 11min - 477 - Technology, Social Media, and OCD: Is Your Screen Making it Worse?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 428 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! Today, we delve into the intricate relationship between OCD, anxiety, and technology. Join us as we explore how social media and screen time can influence anxiety and OCD symptoms, often without us even realizing it. We start with a thought-provoking quote by Christian Luce Lange: "Technology is a useful servant but a dangerous master." This sets the stage for a deep dive into how our daily interactions with phones and laptops might be exacerbating compulsive behaviors. From doom scrolling on TikTok to the pitfalls of cyberchondria, we examine the subtle ways technology feeds into OCD cycles. We also discuss practical strategies for managing tech use, such as setting rules and understanding the role of dopamine in our digital habits. Insights from research papers and expert opinions provide a well-rounded perspective on this pressing issue. If you find today's episode helpful, please consider subscribing to the podcast. Your support means a lot! For any questions or to arrange a free coaching session, visit www.robertjamescoaching.com. Don't forget to stay tuned for more episodes aimed at helping you take back control and live the life you choose. References https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9407245/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26429148/ https://www.theguardian.com/global/2021/aug/22/how-digital-media-turned-us-all-into-dopamine-addicts-and-what-we-can-do-to-break-the-cycle https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/how-social-media-can-trigger-ocd-and-ways-to-respond Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 21 Sep 2024 - 17min - 476 - The Hidden World of Mental Compulsions: Why You Don’t Need to Fix Every OCD Thought
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 427 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! In this episode, we delve into the hidden world of mental compulsions. Discover how to understand these thoughts better and learn to bring more compassion and acceptance to them. We explore strategies to let go of the urge to fix every unwanted thought and focus on reducing their impact on your life. By bringing awareness, observing your thoughts, and employing techniques from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), you can start living a more fulfilling life despite OCD and anxiety. Don't miss out on practical tips and insights to help you navigate your journey with more ease and empowerment. Tune in now! Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 18 Sep 2024 - 10min - 475 - Breaking the Cycle: How Change Helps Manage OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 426 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the importance of mixing things up when dealing with OCD. Often, we find ourselves stuck in a rut, applying the same techniques and getting the same results. Robert discusses how changing our approach, even in small ways, can lead to significant progress. Using personal anecdotes and insights from acceptance commitment therapy, Robert explains how to break free from the trap of compulsions and perfectionism. Learn how to let go of unhelpful thinking, focus on the present, and embrace uncertainty to improve your mental well-being. Tune in to discover practical tips for shaking things up in your routine and taking steps towards a more fulfilling life. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 14 Sep 2024 - 11min - 474 - Framing OCD as a Heroe’s Journey
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 425 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching! In this episode, we delve into the concept of framing OCD as a hero's journey, inspired by the mythologist Joseph Campbell. Discover how adopting a growth mindset and viewing your struggles as challenges to overcome can transform your experience with OCD. We'll explore how compassion, especially self-compassion, plays a crucial role in managing anxiety and OCD. Learn about the stages of the hero's journey, from the call to action and facing fears, to experiencing setbacks and ultimately achieving transformation. If you're looking for a new perspective on OCD and want to find ways to take positive steps in your journey, this episode is for you. Don't forget to subscribe and follow the podcast for more insightful discussions and support Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 11 Sep 2024 - 17min - 473 - A Chat About Overcoming Anxiety & Adversity with Brain Injury Survivor Namoi Riley
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this compelling episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James engages in a heartfelt conversation with Naomi Riley, a motivational speaker and founder of Text Pledge. Naomi shares her incredible journey of overcoming a childhood illness and a traumatic brain injury caused by a distracted driver. Despite these challenges, she has become a beacon of hope and change in mental health and education reform. The discussion delves into Naomi's strategies for building resilience and self-compassion while managing anxiety. Listeners will gain insights into the importance of focusing on what can be controlled, practicing gratitude, and finding inner strength through spirituality and self-discovery. Naomi also introduces her impactful initiative, Text Pledge, which aims to address significant social issues and improve mental health among youth. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration and practical advice on overcoming life's toughest challenges and transforming adversity into positive action Links: https://naomilriley.com/#home https://textpledge.us Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 07 Sep 2024 - 30min - 472 - Harboring Hope: Waiting for the OCD Storm to Pass
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 423 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we delve into the challenges of living with OCD and anxiety. In this episode, host Robert James draws inspiration from a stormy day and a classic children's story, "The Mousehole Cat," to explore the importance of finding hope amidst the turmoil of OCD. Robert discusses how the stormy seas of OCD can often feel overwhelming, much like the tempest faced by the fisherman in the story. He emphasizes the need to recognize when to brave the storm and when to seek shelter, advocating for self-compassion and patience during difficult times. Through the lens of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Robert explains how focusing on values and maintaining hope can empower individuals to navigate their way back to calm waters. He encourages listeners to be kind to themselves, to wait out the storm, and to have faith that better days will come. Join us as we explore practical strategies for managing OCD and anxiety, and learn how to cultivate resilience and hope in the face of life's inevitable storms. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for more insightful episodes, and visit robertjamescoaching.com for additional support and resources Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 04 Sep 2024 - 13min - 471 - The Number 1 Simple Technique to Calm Your Mind and Manage OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 422 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James introduces a straightforward yet highly effective breathwork technique designed to help manage high anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). He emphasizes the importance of focusing on the body rather than getting trapped in overthinking. Robert begins with an insightful quote from Vietnamese Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh, setting the stage for the breathwork exercise. Listeners are guided through a step-by-step breathing technique aimed at activating the parasympathetic nervous system, which helps to calm the mind and create space between thoughts. The episode concludes with encouragement to practice this technique regularly and a reminder to reach out for a free coaching session if further support is needed. Tune in to learn how to harness the power of your breath to combat anxiety and OCD Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 31 Aug 2024 - 12min - 470 - Defying OCD: Crafting Your Own Playbook
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 421 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! In this episode, we delve into the empowering concept of creating your own playbook to combat OCD, rather than adhering to its rules. Discover how embracing imperfection and uncertainty can be pivotal in managing OCD. Learn why it’s essential to face your fears directly, using strategies that allow you to take control of the situation. By challenging OCD on your terms, you can diminish its power and reclaim your life. Join us as we explore practical techniques to shift your mindset, develop a more tolerant attitude towards OCD, and implement effective approaches to regain your power. Tune in and start crafting your own rules to live the life you choose Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 28 Aug 2024 - 13min - 469 - Balancing Act: Navigating OCD with Trust and Acceptance
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 420 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the delicate balancing act of living with OCD, exploring how to manage the tightrope between fear and trust. Learn how to accept your fears while maintaining a focus on your values and goals. Using the metaphor of tightrope walking, Robert shares insights on how to navigate life’s uncertainties, drawing inspiration from the famous tightrope walker Philippe Petit. Discover strategies to keep your attention on meaningful pursuits and not let anxiety dictate your path. Join us as we discuss practical steps to build resilience, find inspiration, and keep moving forward despite discomfort. This episode is packed with motivational advice to help you live a life driven by values rather than fear Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 24 Aug 2024 - 16min - 468 - Overcoming OCD: Easing the Pressure
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 419 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. As summer draws to a close, many individuals struggling with OCD or anxiety may feel increased pressure to 'get better' quickly. In this episode, we delve into the significant impact of this pressure and how it can hinder progress. Using insightful analogies and a quote from Liverpool Football Club manager Jürgen Klopp, Robert discusses the importance of managing expectations and allowing oneself the necessary time and space to heal. Learn why rushing recovery can backfire and how embracing a bit of uncertainty can paradoxically lead to greater certainty and peace of mind. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 21 Aug 2024 - 09min - 467 - Choosing Freedom: OCD, Existentialism, and Reality Therapy
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 418 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, Robert James delves into the profound impact of choice on managing OCD. Drawing inspiration from Viktor Frankl's existential philosophy and William Glasser's reality therapy, this episode explores how recognizing and utilizing our ability to choose can empower us to live more fulfilling lives despite the challenges of OCD. James discusses the significance of Frankl's quotes on the space between stimulus and response, emphasizing the potential for personal growth and freedom. He also introduces the principles of reality therapy, highlighting the importance of meeting basic human needs through positive choices. Tune in to learn how embracing the concept of choice can help reclaim your life from the grip of OCD, fostering a sense of empowerment and resilience Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 17 Aug 2024 - 14min - 466 - Breaking Free: Beyond The OCD Looking Glass
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 417 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. In this episode, we delve into the concept of the "OCD looking glass" and how viewing ourselves strictly through the lens of OCD can limit our potential. Host Robert James explores how reframing our self-perception can lead to a more fulfilling life, even amidst the challenges of anxiety and OCD. Drawing inspiration from a quote by Joseph Campbell, the episode discusses the importance of letting go of rigid control and embracing life's uncertainties. By accepting our imperfections and difficulties, we can begin to see ourselves differently and take on challenges with a renewed sense of purpose and inner strength. Robert emphasizes the significance of small, daily actions that foster self-compassion and acceptance, helping us move forward even in the face of discomfort. Tune in to discover how you can start living the life you choose, rather than the one dictated by your fears. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 14 Aug 2024 - 11min - 465 - Embracing Change: The Power of Belief in Overcoming OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 416 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James delves into the critical topic of embracing change and recognizing that transformation is possible. Feeling stuck can make it incredibly difficult to move past OCD, but by believing in change, we can motivate ourselves to take necessary actions. Robert discusses how OCD often robs us of hope, creating cycles of doubt and powerlessness. By understanding this, we can counteract these feelings and start taking steps toward improvement. Whether it’s managing ruminations better or leaning into discomfort, the journey to overcoming OCD begins with finding that inner motivation. Join us in this insightful episode to discover how to identify and set aside limiting beliefs, build momentum through small positive changes, and ultimately, live a more hopeful and empowered life. If you have any questions or need support, visit robertjamescoaching.com for a free session Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 10 Aug 2024 - 13min - 464 - Managing Physical Symptoms of OCD-Induced Anxiety for Better Well-being
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 415 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the physical symptoms of anxiety that often accompany OCD and discuss practical strategies for managing these sensations. Understanding and addressing these physical manifestations can make dealing with OCD much easier. We explore the role of the autonomic nervous system in producing the fight-or-flight response and its impact on anxiety. Common symptoms like headaches, nausea, and shortness of breath are examined, along with the importance of our reactions to these symptoms. Learn how to shift your approach from fighting anxiety to embracing it with curiosity and acceptance. Discover actionable steps such as pausing, checking in with your body, and practicing deep, slow breathing to calm the nervous system. Finally, we highlight the value of positive distraction and engaging in activities aligned with your values to refocus your attention and reduce anxiety. Join us in this insightful episode to gain a better understanding of how to handle the physical symptoms of anxiety and improve your relationship with OCD Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 07 Aug 2024 - 15min - 463 - Embracing Joy with OCD: Tips for Finding Happiness in Everyday Life
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 414 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, host Robert James discusses the importance of embracing small, everyday moments to effectively manage OCD. Learn how focusing on the present and enjoying the little things can help break the cycle of anxiety and perfectionism. Robert shares practical strategies and mindfulness techniques to help listeners take back control and start living the life they choose. Don't miss this insightful episode filled with valuable tips for dealing with OCD Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 03 Aug 2024 - 16min - 462 - Managing OCD During Life's Challenges: Strategies and Coping Tips
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 413 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the challenges of managing OCD when life's inevitable ups and downs strike. Discover strategies to maintain control over OCD during emotional and difficult times. Learn how to recognize and navigate the OCD trap, and understand the importance of building supportive habits to help you bounce back more quickly. If you enjoy the podcast, please consider subscribing to help it grow. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 31 Jul 2024 - 13min - 461 - The Bus Driver Metaphor: Navigating Intrusive Thoughts in OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 412, join me from the serene Basque country as I escape the summer heat of Barcelona. If you're struggling with OCD or anxiety, this episode is especially for you. Today's focus is on a powerful tool from Acceptance Commitment Therapy: the bus driver metaphor. This metaphor helps in managing intrusive thoughts, a significant aspect of OCD. Drawing inspiration from sports and role models, we explore how to lean into discomfort and overcome challenges by staying committed to our values. Imagine yourself as a bus driver, dealing with noisy and annoying passengers (your intrusive thoughts). Learn how to handle these passengers without letting them disrupt your journey, and discover the importance of focusing on your goals and values. This episode offers practical insights into managing OCD and emphasizes the importance of acceptance and staying present. If you find the podcast helpful, please subscribe to support us. For any questions or further discussion, feel free to reach out. Enjoy the episode and take on the challenge of OCD with a renewed perspective Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 27 Jul 2024 - 13min - 460 - Why Your OCD Theme May Not Matter
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 411, we delve into the intricate mechanisms that sustain OCD, moving beyond just the surface-level obsessions. Our host, Robert James, discusses the importance of focusing on the underlying processes of OCD rather than getting entangled in the specific themes of obsessions. By exploring the idea that our efforts to control and seek certainty are at the core of OCD, Robert offers insights into how letting go and embracing uncertainty can be more beneficial. Drawing inspiration from a quote by Carl Jung, he uses the analogy of a stormy ocean to illustrate the importance of finding calm beneath the turbulent surface of obsessive thoughts. Join us as we learn about the practical steps and mindfulness techniques that can help manage OCD and anxiety more effectively, enabling a more fulfilling and less controlled life Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 24 Jul 2024 - 12min - 459 - Transforming Resentment into Resilience: Mastering OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 410! As we dive into the summer season, we hope you're staying comfortable, whether you love the heat or prefer cooler days. For those struggling with OCD or anxiety, Robert James Coaching offers a free session to help you navigate these challenges. Visit robertjamescoaching.com to book your session or reach out with your concerns. In today's podcast, we explore a deeply personal and significant topic: learning to let go of the anger and resentment associated with OCD. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, we discuss the importance of transforming these negative emotions into resilience. Discover how acknowledging and addressing your feelings can lead to a more positive and proactive approach to managing OCD. Join us as we delve into strategies for recognizing and releasing resentment, building resilience, and focusing on the positive aspects of life despite the challenges of OCD. This episode aims to provide valuable insights and support for anyone dealing with these struggles. Don't forget to subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes. We appreciate your support and hope you find this discussion helpful. For any questions or further discussion, feel free to reach out. Enjoy the episode and take care Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 20 Jul 2024 - 13min - 458 - Simplifying OCD: Three Easy Steps to Peace of Mind
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 409 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we dive deep into the art of simplifying the process of dealing with OCD. Host Robert James shares insightful strategies to help you streamline your approach, making it easier to manage your symptoms and regain control over your life. Starting with an inspiring quote by Gilbert K. Chesterton, Robert emphasizes the importance of not overcomplicating things. He discusses how OCD sufferers often multiply their anxieties by overthinking and shares three clear goals to focus on: setting specific, manageable goals, practicing self-compassion, and understanding the role of rumination. With practical tips and mindfulness techniques, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to simplify their journey with OCD and move towards a more positive and controlled life Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 17 Jul 2024 - 19min - 457 - Overcoming the Pressure to Get Better from OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we dive into the often overlooked pressure we place on ourselves to heal from OCD and anxiety. Host Robert James discusses the pitfalls of wanting to eliminate OCD quickly and how this urgency can actually hinder our progress. We explore the importance of adopting a mindset that embraces uncertainty and discomfort, rather than trying to annihilate them. By learning to accept and manage our emotional states, we can move towards genuine healing. Tune in to understand how to shift your perspective on OCD and anxiety for more effective and lasting relief Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 13 Jul 2024 - 11min - 456 - Visualize Your Victory: A Guided Exercise to Support Your OCD Journey
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 407 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, hosted by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we explore a powerful visualization technique designed to help you overcome OCD by focusing on success rather than struggles. Discover how to transform your daydreams into purposeful visualizations that can guide you towards a more positive relationship with anxiety. Learn the benefits of preparing your mind for challenging situations and how this practice can aid in your journey to manage OCD effectively. Join us as we walk through a simple yet impactful visualization activity, helping you to refocus your energy and attention towards achieving your goals and living a life driven by your values, not your fears. Tune in for practical advice, inspiration, and a guided exercise that you can practice safely at home Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 10 Jul 2024 - 16min - 455 - Navigating the Fog: Strategies for Managing OCD Confusion
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 406 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the perplexing world of OCD, focusing on how to navigate the confusion it creates. Discover strategies to remain still and avoid compulsive behaviors that perpetuate the cycle of OCD. Robert emphasizes the importance of recognizing the fruitlessness of trying to achieve certainty and the value of letting go. Learn how to refocus your attention on meaningful activities and find stillness within, even amidst the chaos of OCD. If you find this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and follow Robert on Instagram at @robertjamescoachinguk. For personalized support, visit robertjamescoaching.com to book a free session Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 06 Jul 2024 - 14min - 454 - The Perfection Trap: Why Seeking the Perfect Cure for OCD is Part of the Problem
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 405 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the intricate relationship between perfectionism and OCD. Robert discusses how perfectionism, often linked to our inner critic, can hinder progress in managing OCD and anxiety. Perfectionism can be a double-edged sword, sometimes motivating us but often holding us back. Robert explores how to recognize maladaptive perfectionism and adopt a healthier mindset. Drawing on insights from Dr. Robert Leahy and psychologist Carol Dweck, he highlights the importance of developing a growth mindset to overcome OCD-related challenges. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own limiting beliefs and inner critic, and to use practical strategies to create separation between themselves and these negative thoughts. By doing so, they can make meaningful progress in their journey to manage OCD and anxiety more effectively. Don't forget to subscribe, follow, and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. For personalized help, visit Robert's website at robertjamescoaching.com to book a free session or send a message about your struggles Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 03 Jul 2024 - 18min - 453 - Path to Peace: Understanding Acceptance Levels in OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 404 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, hosted by Robert James. In this insightful episode, we delve into the complexities of acceptance when dealing with OCD. Acceptance isn't merely a black-and-white concept; it involves multiple levels that can help us manage OCD more effectively. Robert explores the initial stages of acknowledging OCD triggers and the importance of tolerating discomfort as a stepping stone towards true acceptance. He emphasizes the significance of mindfulness and curiosity in experiencing and processing difficult emotions. By breaking down the acceptance process, this episode provides practical steps to help listeners build a more positive relationship with their anxiety. If you find this episode helpful, please consider subscribing and leaving a review. For those struggling with OCD or anxiety, Robert offers a free session, which you can book through his website. Tune in to learn how to navigate your fears and take control of your life Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 29 Jun 2024 - 16min - 452 - Finding Calm: An Awareness Meditation for OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 401 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching. In this episode, Robert shares a powerful awareness meditation designed to help individuals with OCD reconnect with their bodies. By moving focus from persistent thoughts to physical sensations, this practice aims to alleviate the mental exhaustion caused by rumination. Robert guides you through a meditation that emphasizes breathing and body awareness, helping you to ground yourself and find calm amidst the chaos of OCD. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to build a more positive relationship with their anxiety and gain a sense of control over their mental well-being. If you find this episode helpful, please consider subscribing to the podcast. For personalized support, visit robertjamescoaching.com to book a free session with Robert Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Fri, 28 Jun 2024 - 13min - 451 - Resilient Minds: Conquering OCD from Within
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 403 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching! In today's episode, we delve into the crucial topic of finding the inner strength to stand up to OCD. OCD has a way of manipulating us into performing compulsions that keep us trapped. To break free, we need to tap into our inner resilience. Discover how surrendering to events outside our control and embracing uncertainty can be a game-changer in managing OCD. Through powerful insights and practical advice, this episode will guide you on how to recognize and harness the strength you already possess. Learn how to focus your attention on what you can control and navigate the challenges of OCD with hope and determination. If you find this episode helpful, please consider subscribing and leaving a review. Your support helps the podcast reach more people who might benefit from these discussions. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 26 Jun 2024 - 13min - 450 - Letting Go: Overcoming OCD Without Beating Yourself Up
Welcome to Episode 402 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the importance of letting go of self-criticism when dealing with OCD. Robert discusses how self-frustration and the relentless inner critic can perpetuate OCD, making it even harder to manage. We explore the concept of redirecting energy from OCD-induced ruminations to more meaningful activities and how creativity can play a significant role in this process. Robert shares insights on recognizing and addressing the inner critic, offering practical tips on how to cultivate self-compassion and patience during challenging times. Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of self-judgment, embrace kindness towards yourself, and find freedom from the grip of OCD. If you find this episode helpful, please subscribe to the podcast for more valuable content Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sun, 23 Jun 2024 - 16min - 448 - Episode 400 - Finding Balance: Managing OCD Without Always Being Busy
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 400 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching! In this milestone episode, we delve into the misconception that perpetual busyness is necessary to manage OCD effectively. Host Robert James explores the importance of finding balance and the potential pitfalls of staying constantly busy to avoid OCD symptoms. Through insightful discussions, Robert highlights how busyness can sometimes be a coping mechanism to evade difficult emotions and intrusive thoughts. He emphasizes the significance of incorporating mindfulness and relaxation practices, like meditation, to achieve a more balanced approach to managing OCD. Robert also shares practical tips on how to use Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT) techniques, such as refocusing attention on valued activities and anchoring oneself in the present moment. Learn how to integrate calm, gentle activities into your routine and practice being still, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. If you're looking for support in managing OCD and anxiety, Robert offers a free coaching session. Visit robertjamescoaching.com to book your session and start your journey towards a more balanced life. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for more episodes filled with valuable insights and tips on managing OCD and anxiety. Thank you for being part of our community, and here's to the next 100 episodes! Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 15 Jun 2024 - 18min - 447 - Shifting Shadows: The Evolution Of OCD Themes
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 399 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the ever-changing nature of obsessions in OCD and how they can swiftly shift from one theme to another. This intriguing aspect of OCD can actually offer hope for change and improvement. Robert shares insightful quotes from OCD therapists Lisa Kaufman and Stacey Quick, with the latter highlighting how OCD seeks certainty and uses our morals and creativity against us. He explains how resisting the urge to engage with new obsessions can help prevent us from getting caught in the cycle of overthinking and anxiety. Discover practical strategies for managing OCD, including the importance of accepting a small degree of uncertainty and changing long-term habits to foster healthier neural pathways. By understanding the irrelevance of specific themes and focusing on our response to discomfort and uncertainty, we can learn to manage and potentially overcome OCD. If you find this episode helpful, please follow and like on Instagram at RobertJamesCoachingUK, and don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for more valuable insights. References Quick, S. (2022, October 3). Why does my OCD keep switching themes? NOCD. Retrieved from https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/why-does-my-ocd-keep-switching-themes Kaufman, I. (2020, May 7). You need to know this about OCD. Psychology Today. Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-beginning-the-end/202005/you-need-know-about-ocd Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 12 Jun 2024 - 16min - 446 - Finding Stability in OCD: Strength Amid Chaos
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 398 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we explore how to find strength amidst the chaos that OCD often creates. If you're struggling with OCD or anxiety, Robert offers a free session to help you take back control of your life. Discover strategies for managing intrusive thoughts and emotions, and learn how to focus your mind on positive actions. Reflect on inspiring quotes from Helen Keller and Marcus Aurelius, and understand the importance of acceptance commitment therapy in living a more present and fulfilling life. Join us as we delve into practical steps for overcoming OCD, from small daily challenges to building a supportive network. Learn how resilience and positive thinking can transform your relationship with OCD, helping you to reclaim your life from the grip of anxiety. Don't miss out on this empowering episode that offers hope and actionable advice for anyone facing the trials of OCD Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 08 Jun 2024 - 19min - 445 - Overcoming OCD: The Power of Making Decisions
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 397 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where host Robert James delves into the intricacies of OCD and the critical role of decision-making. In this episode, Robert explores how overcomplicating decisions can exacerbate OCD symptoms and why simplifying the decision-making process can be a game-changer. Robert starts with an inspiring quote from Nelson Mandela: "May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears." He discusses how often our choices are dictated by fears, leading to avoidance and stagnation. Robert emphasizes that while making decisions can be challenging, it is essential for overcoming OCD. Throughout the episode, Robert offers practical advice on how to avoid the trap of overthinking and perfectionism, which can lead to compulsive behaviors. He also shares personal anecdotes and strategies for making decisions despite uncertainty, helping listeners to move forward and live a more fulfilling life. If you struggle with OCD and find decision-making particularly challenging, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable tips. Tune in to learn how to take control and make decisions that align with your hopes rather than your fears. Don't forget to follow Robert on Instagram at @RobertJamesCoachingUK and subscribe to the podcast on YouTube for more helpful content Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 05 Jun 2024 - 16min - 444 - The Alter Ego of Self-Compassion: Self-Judgement
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 396 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. As summer begins, Robert offers insights into managing OCD and anxiety, especially during this season. If you're struggling, you can book a free session via his website. In this episode, Robert delves into the concept of self-judgment, which he identifies as the alter ego of self-compassion. He explains how self-judgment can derail our efforts to manage OCD and anxiety, emphasizing the importance of addressing this habit. Drawing inspiration from a quote by meditation teacher and psychologist Tara Brach, Robert discusses how recognizing and not feeding into self-judgment can help us stop feeling unworthy and make progress in overcoming OCD. Robert provides practical advice on how to deal with self-judgment, such as being aware of imperative statements like "should" and "must," and adopting a playful attitude towards the inner critic. He also suggests techniques for observing negative thoughts without getting lost in them, fostering a habit of self-compassion that is crucial for managing OCD effectively. For more insights and tips, follow Robert on Instagram at @robertjamescoachinguk and listen to the podcast on YouTube. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 01 Jun 2024 - 12min - 443 - The Conviction To Be Uncertain & Not Taking The OCD Bait
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 395 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, hosted by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the crucial concept of embracing uncertainty as a way to combat OCD. Robert discusses how OCD often lures us into a trap by making us crave absolute certainty, which in turn keeps us stuck in a cycle of compulsions and anxiety. Drawing from personal experiences and professional insights, Robert explains the importance of accepting the inherent uncertainties of life. He offers practical advice on how to develop conviction in uncertainty, allowing us to break free from the grip of OCD. By learning to live with a bit of uncertainty, we can open ourselves up to a more meaningful and fulfilling life. If you find this episode helpful, don't forget to follow and like on Instagram, check out the podcast on YouTube, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Enjoy the episode Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 29 May 2024 - 14min - 442 - A Chat With Researcher Dr. Maitre About The Impact Of The Environment On Mental Health
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 394 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! Today, we're taking you to the beautiful Montseny Mountains near Barcelona for a fascinating discussion with Dr. Metra, a researcher at IS Global. In this episode, we delve into the profound effects of the environment on mental health, particularly focusing on the impact of urban living and the importance of green spaces. We explore how early life conditions, even those experienced in utero, can have lasting effects on brain development and mental health. Dr. Metra shares insights into pollutants like lead and their links to conditions such as ADHD, and provides practical advice for those living in cities to improve their mental well-being. The conversation also touches on the critical role of the gut biome in mental health, emphasizing the benefits of a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and nuts. Join us for this enlightening episode and learn how both nature and nutrition can play a vital role in managing anxiety and improving overall mental health Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 25 May 2024 - 20min - 441 - Mindlock: What To Do When Obsessive Thoughts Take Over
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 393 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into effective strategies for managing obsessive thoughts when your mind feels trapped. Drawing inspiration from Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz's book "Brain Lock," we explore how repeated compulsions create unhelpful neural pathways and how to reclaim your mental freedom. Learn to recognize your choices, accept difficult emotions, and refocus your attention on valued activities, all while building resilience and fostering positive neuroplasticity. Subscribe for more insights and practical advice on overcoming OCD and anxiety, and don't miss the opportunity for a free coaching session by visiting robertjamescoaching.com Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 22 May 2024 - 16min - 440 - An In-depth Exploration of OCD's Causes
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 392 of "The OCD and Anxiety Podcast", where we delve deep into understanding the causes of OCD. By knowing the root causes, we can be more optimistic about potential strategies we can adapt to manage, and perhaps overcome, this disorder. In this comprehensive discussion, we navigate through biological factors, genetics, chemical imbalances, psychological factors, social triggers, and even work environments. Our journey to understanding begins with a look at brain structures and how the brains of people with OCD show measurable differences compared to those without. These differences can be traced back to a higher flow of oxygenated blood to certain areas, indicating high levels of worrying characteristic of OCD. As we try to determine the hereditary nature of these differences, we move onto our second stop: genetic factors. Despite the emphasis on locating specific risk genes, the complex interplay between learned behaviours and the environment could also contribute to the development of OCD. The role of chemical imbalances, specifically serotonin, comes next. It might not be the root cause, but serotonin appears instrumental in maintaining OCD signs, highlighting potential treatment ways. Our understanding is further sharpened as we dive into psychological aspects, where behavioral theories, cognitive theories, mindfulness & acceptance commitment therapy each play their crucial part. The role of depression and personality traits in exacerbating OCD also warrants mention here. Lastly, we explore social factors. How everyday stress or major life events can trigger OCD in the predisposed, how OCD can strain relationships, causing more stress and feelings of isolation, and even how it can affect work productivity. If you're grappling with OCD or anxiety and interested in a free session, head over to my website robertjamescoaching.com to book one. Join me in this insightful episode and remember, with the right support and help, it is possible to manage OCD more effectively. Change your experience of OCD today! References •Beyond OCD. (2013). Clinical Definition of OCD. https://beyondocd.org/information-for-individuals/clinical-definition-of-ocd •Caleb, W.L., Challis, C., Pelling, N. (January 2008). The biopsychosocial aspects of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder: A primer for practitioners. Australian Counselling Association Journal. 8(1). 3-13. •Center for Disease Control. (July 2023). Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder in Children. United States Government. https://www.cdc.gov/childrensmentalhealth/ocd.html •National Institute of Mental Health. (2024). Obsessive-compulsive disorder. United States Government. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-ocd •OCD UK. (2024). What Causes OCD. https://www.ocduk.org/ocd/what-causes-ocd/ Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 18 May 2024 - 16min - 439 - A Chat About Trauma, OCD & Anxiety With Hypnotherapist Jenni Bell
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In episode 391 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the powerful realm of hypnotherapy with our guest, Jenni Bell. As an experienced hypnotherapist who specializes in addiction recovery and reshaping relationships with food, Jenni shares her personal journey of struggling with anxiety and PTSD and how it led her to a fulfilling career in hypnotherapy. Drawing from thought leaders in the field like Gabor Maté and Joe Dispenza, she offers unique insights into the beneficial aspects of hypnotherapy for anxiety and OCD. Listeners gain a comprehensive understanding of techniques used in hypnotherapy, such as regression, that can help address underlying traumas often associated with anxiety disorders. Jenni brings light to the harsh realities of childhood trauma, emphasizing how the human mind can often exaggerate threats perceived during our formative years. Hear about the shortcomings of traditional responses to trauma and her exploration into alternative therapies like NLP and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT). This episode covers Jenni's extraordinary journey full of insights on managing anxiety, the workings of hypnotherapy, and its potential in reshaping your relationship with anxiety. This high impact discussion is packed with practical advice and encouragement for anyone on a path to better mental health, be they a patient, a professional, or a loved one of someone battling anxiety disorders. For those keen on exploring hypnotherapy as part of their healing journey, Jenni Bell welcomes interactive conversations. Reach out via her website: https://www.jennibell.co.uk Via Social: https://www.facebook.com/JenniBellHypnotherapyRTT/ https://www.instagram.com/jennibell.hypno Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. -In this episode the guest speaks about her personal opinions on medication. If you are thinking about changing your medication or stopping, always speak with your doctor first before doing anything.
Wed, 15 May 2024 - 48min - 438 - OCD & Making Up For Lost Time
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 390 of 'The OCD and Anxiety Podcast' by Robert James Coaching. In today's episode, we explore the impactful role of time in our lives, particularly when trying to manage and overcome disorders such as OCD and anxiety. Together, we look at how to make up for 'lost time', focusing on the resentment and frustration that may arise from believing that these disorders have stolen key moments from our lives. However, it's vital to remember that focusing on the past too much can prevent us from enjoying the present and blight our future. This podcast emphasizes the importance of managing our perspective, especially when dealing with mental health issues such as OCD and anxiety. It emphasizes resilience, positivity, and a growth mindset, along with practical techniques such as postponement and exposure. Remember, being present in our lives, even when anxiety and uncertainty are present, can open the door to beautiful, unforgettable memories. In this episode, we learn how to do just that. We learn to acknowledge our past struggles without allowing them to dictate our future experiences. We also consider the damaging effects of perfectionism and how we can temper it for a healthier, more balanced life. It’s about appreciating life’s moments as they come, letting go of the need for 'perfect' experiences. Join us for an engaging and insightful examination of time, living in the present, and learning to navigate anxiety and OCD in a healthy and positive manner Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 11 May 2024 - 17min - 437 - Why Waiting To Feel Better Before Taking Action Can Keep You Stuck In OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 389 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, your reliable source shedding light on how to positively cope with anxiety disorders. Guided by our experienced host, it offers invaluable insights on reclaiming your life from the clutches of fear. This episode underscores the need for action against OCD and Anxiety, pointing out the trap many fall into as they wait for perfect circumstances before pushing ahead. Drawing from Pablo Picasso's wisdom, we illustrate how action dismantles OCD's dominion over us, using Tony Robbins' endorsement of "massive determined actions". We also caution against compulsions that provide temporary relief but reinforce OCD's hold. The call to action is for you to delve into your fears and start leading a life controlled by your choices, not anxiety. We emphasize the urgency of tackling OCD, not delaying due to discomfort, but instead learning to accept anxiety as a normal, manageable facet of life. We delve deeper into Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), an effective cognitive-behavioral approach that empowers individuals to live with uncomfortable thoughts and feelings. The essence of ACT lies in freeing oneself from the necessity to eradicate distress before taking action. We further explore the effectiveness of exposure work, another cognitive-behavioral technique aimed at building the capacity to confront challenging emotions intentionally. This episode presents insightful perspectives on how ACT and exposure work can help OCD sufferers not merely cope but thrive despite distressing situations. Leveraging insights from Steven Pressfield's 'The War of Art,' we elucidate the concept of resistance in the context of OCD, emphasizing the importance of altering our view of resistance from barrier to catalyst. We extend advice and encouragement to those yearning to escape the OCD-induced cycle of rumination and progress towards an anxiety-managed life. Whether you are grappling with OCD or keen on understanding it, this episode equips you with practical tips and techniques that can foster personal development and resilience Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 08 May 2024 - 18min - 436 - Brain Shift - A Conversation About Chronic Stress & Wellness With Dr. Romie Mushtaq
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 388 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. Learn from expert, Dr. Romie, a board-certified physician with over two decades of experience in integrative medicine, mindfulness, and neurology. Discover her award-winning program, 'Brain Shift', aimed at improving mental health and developing a culture of wellness. In this episode, we explore maintaining stress, navigating life's challenges, battling burnout, defining success, cultivating optimism, and more. Dr. Romie Mushtaq is a board-certified physician who brings together more than two decades of leadership in neurology, integrative medicine, and mindfulness. She is an award-winning speaker working with Fortune 500 companies, professional athletes, & global associations. Her brainSHIFT programs improve mental well-being and help to build a culture of wellness. Dr. Romie serves as Chief Wellness Officer for Great Wolf Resorts. Her expertise is featured in the national media, such as NPR, NBC, TED talks, and Forbes. Her first book, "The Busy Brain Cure" is being published by Harper Collins in January 2024. You can learn more at drromie.com or join the brainSHIFT movement @drromie on social media. Unveil the concept of the 'busy brain', a state of hyperactivity due to chronic neuroinflammation leading to adult-onset ADHD, anxiety, and insomnia. Learn about the importance of balanced hormone levels, markers of inflammation, role of sleep, and 'Brain Shift Protocol'. Gain insights into understanding your body's cry for help and steps to regain control over mental and physical well-being. Find out about the power of self-compassion and its effect on calming an overactive mind and nurturing mental health. Dr. Romi provides tips on how to replace anxiety and fear with hope for compassionate interactions towards self and others. Also, glance into the spiritual element in the journey towards mental wellness and its role in healing. For individuals battling with anxiety, OCD, or a busy brain, this episode presents a comforting reminder that you're not alone. Listen to gain reassurance, hope, and practical advice. Take the first step into your journey of transformation – from a busy brain to a calm, focused mind Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 04 May 2024 - 46min - 435 - Having Patience About The Impatience To Improve From OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 387 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast! As we near our 400th episode, we're taking a look at patience and our relationship to it, especially when dealing with complex challenges like obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Inspired by our coach Robert James, we are going to explore various ways we can cultivate patience and turn frustrating setbacks into opportunities for growth. This episode delves deep into the often turbulent journey of dealing with OCD. We'll talk about the highs and lows that come with the disorder, how to manage impatience during recovery, and the importance of acknowledging setbacks as a normal part of progress. We'll also touch on vital strategies, such as exercising self-compassion and understanding the unpredictability of life. Often, when we're making progress with OCD, it seems like triggers increase rather than decrease. This could be our brain trying to lead us back to old, familiar habits. Recognizing and resisting this can be crucial in smoothly navigating the path to recovery. The episode also explores this phenomenon, drawing insights from acceptance commitment therapy, exposure work, and the teachings of Carl Jung. As we journey through this discussion, you'll learn how to cultivate patience effectively. By accepting the challenging emotions that come with setbacks and resisting the urge to feed our frustrations, we can actually come out stronger and more determined to fight OCD. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion that aims to empower you with practical tools and the mindset you need to combat impatience and setbacks in your journey with OCD. Start living the life you choose, not the one chosen by your fears. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 01 May 2024 - 16min - 434 - How Judgment Can Make OCD Worse
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 386 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, the show that provides insight, positivity, and empowerment for dealing with anxiety disorders, brought to you by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the powerful role that judgment plays in intensifying the symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). We shine a light on the destructive impact of our inner critic, revealing how it feeds on our self-esteem and propels us into a cycle of negative self-judgments. We uncover the nature of the inner critic as a part of our psyche, one that does not reason or empathize but instead instigates attacks and criticism. Take a journey with us into the realm of the inner critic and its relationship with self-esteem. Embrace the realization that while the inner critic might make us feel vulnerable, we can learn to release judgment and permit acceptance to evolve. Get clarity on the illusion of control associated with OCD and dispel a few common misconceptions about self-esteem and OCD. With insightful advice and pragmatic strategies at your fingertips, this episode is a valuable guide for anyone dealing with OCD or trying to comprehend their internal dialogue better. By the end of this episode, you will understand that the journey isn't about eliminating the inner critic but fostering a healthier relationship with it. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle. Boosting Self-Esteem Amidst Social Media Pressure and Judgment In today's episode, we also explore the unsettling influence of social media on self-esteem. Given our age of constant online sharing, we live in an era where people frequently showcase their best moments or traits, painting an artificial portrait of continuous happiness and success. This portrayal inevitably leads to comparisons and self-judgment, skewing our self-perception in a negative light. Compounded by a consumerist culture that ties fulfillment and happiness to material possessions, we dissect how these projected expectations and social comparisons give rise to anxiety disorders like OCD. We underscore the importance of self-compassion and awareness amid these superficial societal expectations, and how journaling can prove to be a useful tool for introspection. Useful resources and free sessions are available on our website to assist you in navigating through these emotional challenges. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 27 Apr 2024 - 19min - 433 - Holding Your Head Up High: Navigating OCD With Confidence
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. The aim of this podcast is to encourage individuals who are battling with anxiety disorders, specifically Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), and equip them with tools to have a more positive approach towards their conditions and the confidence to start living the life they choose. In today's podcast, we discuss a rather challenging topic - navigating OCD with confidence. Many times, people struggling with OCD and anxiety fail to maintain their confidence, hence, making it harder for them to manage their disorders.Regardless, it is crucial to build and maintain a positive outlook and inner strength to overcome adversity just as Helen Keller and many others did. We understand that taking on the challenge of OCD requires resolve, resilience, and inner strength. Therefore, this episode stresses the importance of practicing different therapy techniques such as exposure work, acceptance commitment therapy, and building confidence in oneself. Included are inspirational quotes, personal experiences, and plausible solutions to keep you motivated and hopeful. We assure you that no matter what stage of life you are in, maintaining balance in all areas of life is crucial. When life is interesting, you are less likely to get caught up in anxious thoughts. Also, being compassionate to oneself goes hand-in-hand with the quest to gain more confidence while navigating OCD. Whether or not you are successful in initially building this confidence, it is okay. What's important is that you do not stop trying. Eventually, with time, it will get easier and hopefully tell positively on managing the OCD. Remember, you can always reach out for a free session. Just head to the website www.robertjamescoaching.com and leave a message. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 24 Apr 2024 - 16min - 432 - Understanding OCD: Why Some People Are More Prone and The Hope For Change
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 384 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast. Today, I'll be discussing the topic of why some individuals seem to be more inclined towards developing OCD and obsessive behaviour. In this episode, I delve into the concept of 'nature versus nurture,' explaining how both genetics and environmental influences play crucial roles in predisposing us to OCD and anxiety disorders. I shed light on the complexities of OCD, emphasising how our daily lifestyle, surrounding environment, and level of childhood trauma can contribute to our nervous systems becoming more sensitive and anxious. I also explore the fascinating subject of epigenetics. This emerging field of science studies how our behaviours and environment can trigger changes that affect the way our genes work, which can sometimes be passed on to future generations. It offers a hopeful outlook for those of us wrestling with OCD, as it suggests the power of our environment to switch on or off certain genetic tendencies. And while it's crucial to acknowledge our inherited dispositions towards anxious thinking, it's equally essential to remember that our destiny is not fixed. A key focus of the podcast is the message of hope. I believe that, regardless of how long you've been struggling with OCD or how deeply rooted your fears may seem, you can change the narrative. OCD may feel like a trap, but through acknowledgement, acceptance, informed strategies, and sustained practice, you can shift behaviour patterns, attain emotional resilience, and alter your nervous system responses. Join me in this episode for an enlightening discussion on OCD, its underlying causes, and the hope for transformation despite its challenges Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 20 Apr 2024 - 12min - 431 - Try This When OCD Strikes
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 383 of The OCD & Anxiety Podcast where we dive into the complexities of living with OCD and anxiety. In this episode, we begin by recognizing the daily struggles one faces when dealing with these disorders, and provide an easy way to access free support through robertjamescoaching.com. Diving into our main topic, we discuss how difficult it can be when your OCD catches you off guard. In those moments, it feels more natural to give in to obsessions, performing rituals or compulsions, and ultimately gets stuck in an unproductive cycle. Throughout this episode, we take a closer look at resisting these impulses and rather focusing on accepting discomfort rather than pushing it away. We also delve into the idea that OCD is often a way to suppress difficult emotions such as fear, anxiety, anger, guilt, and shame. People with OCD tend to push these feelings away, but we suggest a new approach of allowing these feelings to rise, acknowledging them and learning from the experience. We also discuss the concept of viewing OCD triggers more as challenges instead of threats and focusing more on overcoming them. In this episode, we introduce the concept of a 10 to 30 second rule to slowdown when experiencing a trigger. This means paying direct attention to the feeling of anxiety, not judging or pushing it away, but instead curiously observing the experience. Through this method, we encourage listeners to change their relationship with these difficult emotions to navigate these unexpected triggers better. As always, we wrap the episode with a reminder of our offer of a free session from robertjamescoaching.com and ensure listeners that the information in the podcast is for informational purposes only, and is not intended to be a substitute for actual medical or mental health advice. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 17 Apr 2024 - 13min - 430 - Should You TryTo Eliminate Or Master Anxiety?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 382 of "The OCD and Anxiety Podcast" where we offer insights into having a healthy relationship with anxiety disorders. We delve into whether the goal should be to completely eliminate anxiety or master it, with the emphasis leaning towards mastering anxiety as a more beneficial long-term approach. Anxiety is a natural, human sensation that has been with us since birth. It's challenging to truly eliminate it, but learning to manage or 'master' this emotion can lead to a more fulfilling life. Anxiety shouldn't always be interpreted as negative. Sometimes, it can be a trigger, signalling us to step out from our comfort zones and challenge ourselves, aiding personal growth. The episode discusses the importance of exposure work that allows us to practice and become familiar with experiencing discomfort. This understanding provides a positive light to anxiety, showing that it isn't necessarily a sign that things are going wrong, but rather, an invitation to explore our limits and learn more about ourselves. Whether it be public speaking, relationships or other fear-inducing situations, managing anxiety demands patience, acceptance and compassion towards the discomfort we experience. The idea isn’t to eliminate anxiety but to co-exist with it, acknowledging its presence without letting it dominate our lives. Particular stress is laid on the fact that while it's great to relax sometimes, we shouldn't always aim for constant calmness. Instead, the emphasis should be on how to manage those anxious feelings effectively, navigate through them and become stronger for it. Please remember to consult with a mental health professional when you're dealing with issues related to OCD or anxiety. A professional can guide you better through the process and ensure you handle these emotions safely. Tune in to the podcast to broaden your perspective on anxiety and OCD and begin the journey to reclaim control over your fears Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 13 Apr 2024 - 16min - 429 - Sustainable Growth For A Life With Less OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 381 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching, a platform geared towards establishing a healthier relationship with anxiety disorders. This episode is designed to help you reclaim control over your life and veer away from the course charted by your fears. Our topic for today's discussion is the key to rendering patient and sustainable growth from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Together, we will unpack successful strategies to maintain progress, manage setbacks, and preserve any gains achieved throughout your journey. The goal is to foster an increasingly peaceful future and a lifestyle free of the reins of OCD. I understand that dealing with OCD is an uphill battle that demands incessant pushing against your comfort zone, the persistence to stay on track with foundational therapies such as Exposure and Acceptance Commitment Therapy, keeping up with new routines, and warding off the perilous claws of burnout. These tasks are challenging, but with the right mindset and approach, you can turn these challenges into stepping stones towards a healthier mental state. By recognizing, accepting, and responding appropriately to life's inevitable upsets—such as relationship tumults, professional disputes, or other life events—we can navigate our path to recovery effectively. Patience, self-awareness, and understanding that setbacks are part of the process can fortify our resolve in the face of adversity. This podcast episode also lays emphasis on the importance of habit formation and the pitfalls of setting too many goals simultaneously. Using the concept of sustainable atomic habits, I explain how focusing on a few small but consistent actions or routines can lead to lasting growth over time. This way, you mitigate undue stress and overwhelm, and ensure continuous personal development despite the torrents of anxiety or OCD distracting you. Finally, remember that setbacks are not fail-ends but opportunities for self-reflection, evaluation, and change in strategy. The key is not to strive for a perfect journey but for a successful one. Join me on this episode to gather more insights on overcoming OCD and living a more peaceful and joy-filled life. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 10 Apr 2024 - 15min - 428 - How To Be Able To Do Nothing & Still Not Ruminate
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In episode 379, we delve into the often overlooked importance of embracing stillness and 'doing nothing'. Often our fast-paced lives neglect the importance of these silent moments. However, learning to be at peace in stillness, without ruminating, is a crucial skill to help manage OCD and anxiety. As we further engage with this concept, an interesting correlation is drawn between OCD and boredom. The idea that the obsessive thinking tied to OCD can serve as a distraction from monotony is explored, hinting towards the possibility that OCD might be a mechanism developed to counteract boredom—a form of undisguised anxiety. The challenge of idle states for those struggling with OCD is acknowledged, but a constructive solution is offered—embracing mindfulness. By directing focus onto the present moment and grounding oneself, it can offer relaxation and relief from the cycle of thoughts. Practical tips on bringing mindfulness into these idle periods are provided, such as paying keen attention to your immediate surroundings and tuning into the senses. By focusing on what you can see, hear, smell, or touch, it keeps the attention grounded in the present moment, providing a refreshing rest from intrusive thoughts. In conclusion, the power of doing nothing is recognized as a positive coping strategy for those dealing with OCD and anxiety. However, it must be approached mindfully, ensuring that in moments of 'doing nothing', we stay connected to the present moment and grant ourselves much-needed peace from ruminating thoughts Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 10 Apr 2024 - 14min - 427 - Understanding the Link Between Procrastination and Anxiety
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In the 380th episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, your host explores the often overlooked but deeply impactful link between procrastination and anxiety. This episode delves into how the struggle of putting things off and waiting for the 'perfect time' to act can exacerbate anxiety and OCD, further disrupting daily living. Discussion points include understanding anxiety-induced procrastination, identifying both obvious and non-obvious areas of procrastination in your life, and how the idea of perfectionism can often lead to avoidance and further anxiety. The conversation also spotlights the importance of acceptance and the powerful role it plays in the process of managing anxiety. The episode winds up with a valuable insight into how deflecting difficult emotions can lead to unhealthy behaviors like obsessive-compulsive tendencies and procrastination. Moreover, it highlights the benefits of getting in touch with our emotions and body sensations for a healthier approach towards dealing with anxiety. Whether you are a long-time sufferer of anxiety or OCD, or you are just beginning to explore the world of mental health, this episode offers helpful perspectives and practical steps towards understanding and dealing with procrastination linked to anxiety Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 06 Apr 2024 - 14min - 425 - Build Self-Compassion for OCD With This Body Focused Meditation
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 378 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. We're here to help you build a more positive outlook on anxiety disorders and reclaim control to live the life you choose. This episode is devoted to sharing a self-compassion body focus meditation, a powerful tool that has played a significant role in my own journey with OCD. While everyone wants to live an authentic life, we often get trapped in our fears and obsessions dictated by OCD. We all yearn to let go and feel liberated from these persistent patterns. But the issue with OCD is finding ourselves stuck in our thoughts, going in circles with compulsions. The solution to this problem lies not in thinking, but in feeling—leaning into the discomfort and inviting self-compassion into our lives. Self-compassion is more than a buzzword in mental health, it's about accepting ourselves as we are, including our struggles, anxiety, and mistakes. It's a journey towards letting go of perfectionism and embracing acceptance. With this episode comes a guide to a meditation exercise that brings you into your body, focusing on the heart and breathing in a 'white light' of kindness and compassion. As you focus on this meditation, you'll feel a sense of peace and freedom from OCD, anxiety, and other thought patterns that keep you stuck. It's all about building self-compassion and acceptance, two powerful allies that can transform the way you manage your mental health. If you have any questions or need further guidance, feel free to reach out. Your journey to a healthier, happier life is just a few breaths away Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 30 Mar 2024 - 14min - 424 - Letting Go Of OCD: The Resolve & Resilience To Make The Change
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 377 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast. This episode tackles the challenges of OCD, the persistence to break free from the entangling mindset, and the move towards a healthier mental state. Emphasizing that letting go of OCD, albeit arduous, is not impossible and adversaries could turn into accomplishments. This episode provides encouragement and supportive words to those trying to overcome limits posed by OCD and anxiety. Drawing on personal experiences and observations, the podcast sheds light on the misconceptions about OCD and the undue judgment subjected to those suffering from it. It underscores the importance of concentrating on maintaining an inner peace, regardless of external or internal criticisms and prejudices. By tackling the often overlooked aspect of OCD- the relentless mental labor that goes behind maintaining a semblance of normality, this episode offers a profound understanding of the disorder. It underlines the extraordinary grit, determination, and tireless work individuals with OCD put in daily. As the episode evolves, it navigates the difficult road to replacing old, harmful habits with healthier coping mechanisms. It emphasizes learning to accept setbacks and mistakes as part of the recovery process rather than signs of weakness. Ultimately, this episode reassures that while hurdles exist, progress may come with detours, and life may not always be beautiful, it is still worth fighting for and living to the fullest. It encourages reorienting your focus away from perfection and towards small, consistent actions that lead to self-improvement and living in harmony with one's values. Combining understanding and empathy with real-world experience, this episode offers valuable insights and strategies to those grappling with OCD and anxiety. Join us on this journey to better mental health, a gradual but invaluable process, bringing you one step closer to living the life you want. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 27 Mar 2024 - 15min - 423 - Breaking Down Limiting Beliefs
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 376 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching, where we discuss strategies to foster a healthier relationship with anxiety disorders and push past the boundaries that fear has imposed on us. In today's episode, we delve into overcoming limiting beliefs, specifically those revolving around OCD. We explore not only directly confronting these beliefs but also an indirect approach of tackling them. This involves embarking on journeys we previously thought were impossible, thereby proving our self-imposed limitations wrong. Discussing the theories of renown psychologist Carl Jung, we probe the harmful impacts of black and white thinking, emphasizing that the embrace of "grey" areas is pivotal to fighting OCD. We touch on practical techniques such as the Wim Hof method of cold exposure, encouraging you to challenge your fears in a safe and responsible way. Also recounted is a personal journey of learning to juggle as an example of a challenging but achievable task that helps break disabling beliefs about one's abilities. This episode is peppered with insights aiming to inspire listeners to question their own limiting beliefs and consider activities or skills they have always found daunting. The main message is to break down problems into manageable tasks and relish the empowering sense of accomplishment once achieved. Remember, we are not victims of OCD but have the ability to overcome it with a dash of discomfort, determination, and dedication. References https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10392899/ Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 23 Mar 2024 - 17min - 422 - Three Tips For Finding Peace From OCD Rumination
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 375 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, hosted by Robert James Coaching. This episode provides actionable strategies on managing OCD and anxiety, with a particular emphasis on developing a healthier relationship with these disorders. Learn three effective strategies designed to diminish obsessive ruminations and make choices not guided by fear but by personal values. If you’re grappling with OCD or anxiety, seize the opportunity of a free session with Robert to start regaining control. Taking a cue from Virginia Woolf's profound quote, “You cannot find peace by avoiding life", this episode motivates listeners to face discomfort and uncertainty head-on, rather than shying away from them. Outstanding progress against anxiety disorders is often achieved by allowing tough emotions to surface while simultaneously contributing to regular life activities. The podcast delves into the significance of mindful living as a vehicle towards peace. To aid understanding, Robert presents an approach that involves engaging in ordinary activities with utmost focus and spending time connected to nature. By sharing personal experiences and tips on integrating mindfulness into daily activities, this episode arms you with the tools to break free from the exhausting cycle of rumination. The episode concludes with a strong endorsement of spending quality time in nature and its proven benefits for mental health. Alongside mindfulness practice, appreciating the simplicity and beauty of nature can significantly bolster mental well-being. The strategies outlined in this episode aim to help listeners manage daily anxieties and obsessive thoughts by promoting mindfulness and present-moment focus. By engaging in valued activities, practicing 'postponement' of thoughts, and retraining our focus, the episode provides practical methods to manage obsessive thoughts and compulsions more effectively. For additional support and further discussion on these strategies, make use of the available resources, including the Patreon community. Remember, this guidance is not meant to replace professional mental health advice, so stay tuned in for more practical strategies and tips targeting OCD and anxiety Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 20 Mar 2024 - 19min - 421 - OCD- A Journey Of Struggles, Complexities & Victories
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In episode 374 of the The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the intricate realities of living with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), busting common misconceptions, and exploring monumental challenges faced by those dealing with this disorder daily. This deep-dive discussion aims not only to foster understanding amongst OCD sufferers but also to enlighten those who desire to genuinely comprehend this widely misunderstood condition. We begin by exploring a powerful quotable insight from author David Adam that perfectly encapsulates the inhibiting effect of OCD on an individual’s life. We then dissect the everyday struggles faced by those living with OCD, focusing on the quest for a 'just right' sensation as opposed to a superficial need for neatness and order. We also touch on the enlightening journey of self-discovery, self-compassion, acceptance and spiritual introspection – an often overlooked outcome of living with the disorder. The episode further explores the role of anxiety in our lives against the popular belief that it should be completely eradicated. We argue that anxiety is an important signal to our areas of concern and a tool to enhance our focus. In our segment 'Victories', we highlight the importance of recognizing and celebrating small wins on the journey of overcoming OCD. The episode also features my personal story and how incorporating small changes in my daily routine led to substantial improvements in managing OCD. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 16 Mar 2024 - 20min - 420 - The Importance of Fun Despite Anxiety and OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 373 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the significance of finding enjoyment in life, especially while dealing with OCD and anxiety. Emphasizing the power of planned fun activities, we explore how integrating amusement and joy into your daily life can be instrumental in promoting mental health. We look at various research indicating the benefits of fun and leisure, not only for mitigating the intensity of obsessions and compulsions but also for strengthening bonds with people in your social circles. We also discuss concepts like 'flow' state, teasing out its significance in overcoming OCD and anxiety. Amid anxiety-inducing thoughts and repetitive compulsions, having structured fun can bring about relief, helping you refocus your attention onto more helpful and joy-inducing aspects of life. Despite the presence of OCD, fostering a habit of indulging in activities you love and engaging in good-hearted fun can potentially enable you to reconnect with your authentic self. Whether it's listening to a comedy podcast, going for a run, or engaging in intellectual conversations, finding ways to incorporate more fun in your day-to-day life can reap immense benefits. A reminder for those struggling with anxiety and OCD: Robert James Coaching offers free sessions which can be availed through their website. Also, you can become a supporter of this podcast through Patreon or subscribe to the Instagram handle @robertjamescoachinguk and Youtube channel. This podcast episode serves as an encouraging call to action for individuals struggling with OCD and anxiety: to not wait for the anxiety to subside but to take action today, to live life amidst the struggle, allowing all positive emotions to unfold naturally. References https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5597001/ https://www.nytimes.com/2021/12/23/well/mind/having-fun-suceeding-coronavirus-pandemic.html#:~:text=When%20people%20are%20having%20actual,and%20it%27s%20good%20for%20us. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 13 Mar 2024 - 14min - 419 - Breathe Through It: OCD & The Power of The Breath
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 In episode 372 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, Robert James shares his v insights on how breath work can serve as a powerful tool to manage obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and anxiety. Drawing from his personal journey and professional wisdom, he explores the transformative potential of breath control in disrupting cycles of anxiety and obsessive rumination. Robert broaches the subject from a unique perspective, asserting that optimal breathing routines can remarkably ameliorate life quality. He expounds on the pivotal role of proper breathing in helping us concentrate on our goals, values, and passions, rather than dodging fears and worries. A centerpiece of the episode is Robert's explanation of how to shift focus from trying to eradicate discomforting thoughts to anchoring ourselves in the present using our breath. He provides expert tips on various mindfulness techniques and meditation disciplines, urging listeners to make breathwork a part of their daily routines to boost their overall well-being. Notably, the episode enriches listeners with helpful resources, practical breathing exercises, and motivational quotes to help them integrate breathwork seamlessly into their schedules. This leads towards fostering a healthier, less anxious life. This episode also delves into the potential benefits of famed breathwork methods like the Wim Hof Method. While shedding light on its calming effects and anti-inflammatory properties, Robert graciously reminds the audience to always follow safety guidelines to prevent adverse side-effects like dizziness or fainting. In conclusion, listeners are treated to the exciting prospect of reclaiming their lives from anxiety and OCD through these simple, yet ground-breaking breathing techniques. Still, listeners are reminded to approach the information as supplementary resources and not as replacements for professional medical or mental health advice. References https://www.wimhofmethod.com/science https://www.verywellmind.com/abdominal-breathing-2584115 https://www.mindful.org/everyday-mindfulness-with-jon-kabat-zinn/ Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 09 Mar 2024 - 19min - 418 - New Study Suggests Exercise Could Be More Beneficial For Mental Health Than Medicines
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to episode 371 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast – the treasure trove of striking insights, and empowering knowledge on dealing with OCD and Anxiety. Today, we embark on an exploration journey, aiming to comprehend the positive implications of exercising on our mental health. We delve into a recently published research study undertaken by Australia’s leading university. The promising study lends credibility to the fact that physical activities have profound effects on tackling disorders like anxiety and depression. We decode the findings of this research, expounding on how the inclusion of physical activities in treatment plans can lead to remarkable improvements. Focusing on my personal experiences, I elucidate the advantages of regular exercising when dealing with OCD. Physical exercise, while it may not be a complete solution, plays a crucial role in altering our hormonal responses, changing our mindset, and, most importantly, making us embrace life with a lighter perspective. These beneficial impacts of regular exercising help us to effectively deal with the whirls of OCD. Moreover, we highlight the results of an extensive meta-analysis undertaken by the University of South Australia that included over 100,000 participants. The study underscores the potency of physical activities in alleviating the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and distress. More importantly, it advocates for the adoption of exercising as a primary treatment for these disorders. The research establishes that even short-term workouts can bring about significant changes. It points out that high-intensity workouts generate better improvements in depression and anxiety, while medium-length exercises tend to have more effective results compared to long-duration ones. The research emphasizes that variations of exercising - incorporating activities like walking, resistance training, pilates, or yoga - can all contribute to enhancing mental health. As we arrive at the end of this exploration journey, the realization dawns upon us that while exercises may not be the ultimate panacea, they indeed make the symptoms of OCD easier to manage. They bring positivity, elevate confidence, and subdue anxiety levels, thus equipping us better to confront and overcome the challenges thrust upon us by OCD. In conclusion, I would like to reiterate that any decision to incorporate exercises should be preceded by a discussion with your doctor or healthcare expert. It’s pivotal to combine exercising with the ongoing medical treatments, rather than considering it as an alternative. Always remember, every step towards regular exercising is a step towards better mental health. REFERENCES https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/57/18/1203 https://www.unisa.edu.au/media-centre/Releases/2023/exercise-more-effective-than-medicines-to-manage-mental-health/ https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2023/02/230223193417.htm Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 06 Mar 2024 - 15min - 417 - Barriers To Overcoming OCD: Negative Comparisons
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Stand tall against the 'Comparisons' thief that steals your joy. In episode 370 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the world of OCD and how comparisons might aggravate the condition. Discover the negative influence of your inner critic's constant nagging and judgment, often centered around comparison, and learn to lessen its controlling grip. From the host's personal experiences and observations to Theodore Roosevelt's wise words, "Comparison is the thief of joy," we embark on a journey, understanding how comparison can mar self-esteem and escalate anxiety disorders or OCD. Furthermore, we spotlight the divisive role social media often plays, exploiting your vulnerabilities, and triggering exacerbating comparison habits. As we traverse through each aspect, we also focus on nurturing self-compassion as a positive counterweight to comparison. Value and learn from self-assessments without succumbing to negative self-judgment. Practice recognizing your involvement in undesirable comparisons and choose better alternatives, focusing on present moments, and spurring healthier habits. This episode aims to provide the tools to change the narrative about OCD and your life, strengthening your capacity for self-compassion, and finding joy in your unique journey. Join us to break free from the chains of comparisons and live life on your terms. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 02 Mar 2024 - 16min - 416 - Unlocking Motivation to Overcome OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 369 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, a platform that inspires a more positive relationship with anxiety disorders and provides insights on overcoming the control of fear in one's life. In this episode, we unpack the crucial aspect of motivation in overcoming Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Discover how easy it is to misplace motivation into unhelpful thoughts and actions, resulting in a cyclic battle with OCD that people often fight silently. Yet, it is essential to realize that you're diverting your energy resources into the wrong path. Explore anecdotes from different people who have confronted and overcome OCD, provided as directional signposts to keep you moving forward. You'll also hear about practical suggestions such as reading inspirational autobiographies and real-life stories of victory over adversity. Delve into the underlying principle of forming sustainable habits to conserve motivation resources. By transforming vital OCD management techniques and exposure activities into regular practices, coping with OCD becomes less tiresome and more automated. Learn how to ensure your focus remains on the proper path. Remember that recovery involves acknowledging fear while continuing to live out personal values and ambitions. Enjoy this guided exploration on leveraging motivation to free yourself from OCD's grip. And should you have any questions or need further clarification, please feel free to get in touch. The podcast is available on Instagram, YouTube, and Patreon, where you can drop your questions or comments. Also, visit the official website, robertjamescoaching.com, to book a free session and commence your journey towards freedom from OCD and anxiety Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 28 Feb 2024 - 18min - 415 - Is Distraction A Viable Strategy for Managing OCD?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Check out my Patreon tiers, any help is much appreciated :) www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Welcome to Episode 368 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast where we delve into the question - Is distraction always bad for OCD? Tune in as host, anxiety coach Robert James, takes an enlightening look at the power of positive distraction, mindful attention, and the concept of the 'flow state'. Robert reflects on these themes by quoting renowned psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and sharing his own insights on the benefits of engaging in activities that challenge us just enough to completely absorb our attention - a state known as flow. Here we not only gain relief from fear and rumination, but also experience the fullness of our lives, bringing us closer to our values and interests inside of our obsessions and compulsions. However, while positive, healthy distraction can be a potent tool against OCD, it's equally crucial to be wary of unhealthy forms that involve incessantly keeping busy or forcefully suppressing fears which, in turn, often exacerbates anxiety and exhaustion. Join us to understand how to wield 'mindful distractions' that are aligned with what’s truly important to us, how to bring more compassion to your process and turn your struggles with OCD around. Inspiring, informative, and eye-opening, this episode reminds us about the strength in positive distraction and the potential it holds in helping you reclaim your life from OCD Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 24 Feb 2024 - 15min - 414 - Demystifying Reassurance Seeking: A Deep Dive into OCD Compulsions
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to Episode 367 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we delve into the intricacies of reassurance seeking, a common compulsion in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). In this episode, we discuss how reassurance seeking can manifest in various forms, making it imperative to recognize and understand it to eliminate this prevalent compulsion. We share strategies to spot compulsions, including journaling and mindfulness, which can counter the draining cycle of reassurance seeking. Learning to tolerate uncertainty and discomfort, subsequently fostering self-compassion and assurance, are key steps to breaking this cycle. A better understanding of how reassurance seeking perpetuates and sometimes exacerbates OCD symptoms, straining personal relationships and reducing self-confidence, will often lead to healthier coping mechanisms. Demonstrating how reassurance seeking can be a trap, we explore both its obvious and subtle manifestations. Tackling techniques to identify and transform reassurance seeking behaviour, we delve into the practice of tuning into emotional states to better arm oneself against the relentless storm of OCD. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 21 Feb 2024 - 19min - 413 - Compassionate Courage: Understanding and Embracing the Challenge of OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to Episode 366 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the often-critical role of compassionate courage in managing and overcoming OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) and anxiety. We unravel the concept of self-compassion in facing the often-debilitating effects of OCD and anxiety. Many of us tend to fall into the trap of self-judgment and negativity, especially under the grip of OCD. Striking a balance between acceptance and compassion for ourselves can turn this around. Self-compassion is a verb, an active pursuit that can significantly alter our perspective, shaping it to be more positive and forgiving. This episode also highlights quotes from profound thinkers like Thich Nhat Hanh, who emphasizes that compassion is an action. We also discuss Jack Cornfield's words of wisdom about the non-judgmental 'heart of compassion.' We explore how practicing self-compassion is akin to stepping into a hero's journey, where we acknowledge the challenges, face them head-on, and grow from our experiences in dealing with OCD. Moreover, it is completely okay to have setbacks and mistakes along the way. These can actually be learning opportunities when viewed through the lens of compassion. The 'ancient heart of compassion’, as Cornfield phrases it, is the gateway to freedom which involves allowing ourselves to feel and process our difficult emotions and thoughts. This podcast endorses patience in this journey to wellness, shedding light on how adopting self-compassion can lead you towards a better, fulfilling life despite OCD and anxiety. Through the course of this episode, we look at dealing with OCD from varied angles and explore different approaches like exposure work, acceptance and commitment therapy, and mindfulness techniques. In essence, this podcast underscores the importance of self-compassion and courage in acknowledging, facing, managing, and learning from our struggles with OCD. It illustrates how transforming this compassion into action can lead to authentic happiness and personal growth Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 17 Feb 2024 - 17min - 412 - Overcoming OCD is Like Unravelling a Knot Without Actually Loosening it’s Twists
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to the 365th episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we explore how to develop a healthier relationship with anxiety disorders. In this episode, your host - Robert James engages in a friendly chat about OCD and anxiety while sitting comfortably with his feet-warming friend, Bruno the dog. This episode focuses on how to tackle Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and anxiety without 'physically' undoing it. Often, getting over OCD involves a level of acceptance and a willingness to embrace uncertainty as we let go of constantly trying to 'fix' it thereby unraveling the 'knot' of OCD. Robert provides insights on how to improve mental health by implementing techniques such as acceptance and commitment therapy. Robert uses the metaphor of the 'monkey knot' to illustrate OCD, detailing how trying to problem solve our way out of it can inadvertently result in a complex knot that ties us down. Self-compassion, acceptance, and understanding that we determine our own mental states are important tools to navigate these challenging emotions. Further in the episode, Robert discusses the importance of finding your own serenity even in tumultuous emotional seas. This involves going deeper within yourself using tools such as the breath, meditation, and mindfulness to find that space of calm. He also emphasizes the importance of focusing on your values, embracing difficult emotions, and reorienting your attention away from the anxieties that dominate your thoughts. In conclusion, Robert encourages compassion for oneself and the cultivation of emotional flexibility through the process of letting difficult emotions ebb and flow without attempting to immediately resolve them. He underscores the significance of refocusing our energies on aspects of life that contribute to our holistic well-being and emotional health. The episode ends with a reminder that any material viewed or information listened to on any platform is for informational purposes only, and should not replace professional medical or mental health advice. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. .
Wed, 14 Feb 2024 - 16min - 411 - Parents at the Helm: Guiding Children Through Anxiety and OCD with Dr. Stephen Whiteside
Join Robert in the 364th episode of 'The OCD and Anxiety Podcast' featuring an engaging conversations with Dr. Stephen Whiteside, a distinguished clinical psychologist and director of the Pediatric Anxiety Disorders Program at Mayo Clinic. The focus of this episode is the vital, yet often overlooked area of OCD and anxiety in children. Dr. Whiteside and Robert delve into prevalent OCD themes in children such as contamination fears and how treatments differ between adults and children. The conversation illuminates on the essential role of exposure therapy and the challenges of managing mental health in the young population, especially in the current era of pervasive social media and global pandemic. Also, Dr. Whiteside discusses his invaluable book, 'Anxiety Coach: A Parent's Guide to Treating Childhood Anxiety and OCD', offering profound insights to parents on understanding and maneuvering through the complexities of their child's anxiety or OCD. The discussion advocates the power of children and parents working together as a team to combat OCD and anxiety conclusively. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or educator, this enlightening episode will provide you with practical solutions and hope for a healthier, anxiety-free future for the children in your life. Explore show notes for more details about Dr. Whiteside and his insightful book, starting the journey to liberate your child from the clutches of fear. You can find Dr Stepens book here: https://www.amazon.com/Mayo-Clinic-Anxiety-Coach-Groundbreaking/dp/B0BQMJNXR3/ref=sr_1_2?qid=1707566336&refinements=p_27%3AStephen+P.+Whiteside&s=books&sr=1-2 Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 10 Feb 2024 - 38min - 410 - What Happens in the OCD Brain When We Get Caught Up in Overthinking?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Immerse yourself in the intricate complexities of the human brain with this insight-packed episode. Journey deep into the cerebral labyrinth and unravel the often misunderstood construct of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). In episode 363, our host provides a comprehensive analysis on the detrimental effects of overthinking and rumination. We explore the critical roles of the prefrontal cortex and the amygdala in triggering heightened levels of stress and anxiety. Understand how constant overthinking can lead to cognitive impairments, thereby making it difficult for OCD patients to adopt new perspectives or manage daily tasks efficiently. We also examine the profound impact of mental exhaustion on our energy levels, attention span, and working memory. Using research-based facts, delve into the significant effects of rumination on the brain's delicate balance of neurotransmitters, chiefly dopamine and serotonin. Despite the gravity of this complex phenomenon, the episode segues into positive news about the remarkable potential of the human brain for neuroplasticity. Overcome your intrusive thoughts and obsessive worry by steering your attention towards more productive areas. This encouraging message highlights the power of mindfulness, elucidating the efficacy of choosing our thoughts and reactions to bring about behavioral and psychological changes. Explore various strategies such as the Wim Hof method, breathwork, and body regulation through exercise, along with mindfulness, to promote holistic well-being. End on a powerful note as we engage an empowering discussion about resilience, determination, and the will to reclaim control from OCD. Remember, this episode is for informational purposes, and does not replace consultations with medical or mental health professionals. Whether you're grappling with OCD, providing support to a loved one, or simply interested in understanding the intimate relationship between OCD and brain function, this episode promises a learning journey towards improving overall well-being. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 07 Feb 2024 - 19min - 409 - Break the Cycle: 3 Powerful Approaches to Defeat OCD Delusions.
http://www.robertjamescoaching.com/contact Welcome to the 362nd episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, your supportive platform for discussing and navigating anxiety disorders. This episode zeroes in on effective strategies for breaking the relentless cycle of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). We explore how OCD, a relentless intruder, disrupts daily routines and creates a perpetual cycle of thought, anxiety, and compulsion, leading to temporary relief. However, we emphasize the integral truth: you are not a prisoner to OCD. We delve into the concept of choice. An essential starting point to regain control of our lives is consciously choosing helpful actions that align with our values, swapping old habits for healthier ones that guide us in facing our anxieties rather than letting OCD lead. Our discussions highlight the significance of allowing ourselves to accept and fully experience all our emotions, rather than selectively numbing the difficult ones. We lean on the words of Brene Brown in "The Gifts of Imperfection", underlining that numbing the painful emotions invariably results in the numbing of positive ones as well. Dealing with OCD begins with understanding that it's healthy to not incessantly pursue happiness. On this journey, acceptance plays a paradoxical role. Acknowledging and facing our struggle is what ultimately leads to genuine progress. By loosening the grip OCD has on our lives, we open ourselves to new possibilities and a better quality of life. Do join us to gain a deeper understanding of dealing with OCD and improve your life. Remember, we're here for you, and we would love to hear your thoughts. We also have a growing YouTube channel full of helpful content. Please note, however, that our podcast and services should never substitute professional medical or mental health advice Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 03 Feb 2024 - 21min - 408 - You Love & You Learn: A JourneyThrough Relationship OCD and Anxiety with Sarah Yudkin
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 361 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, a cutting-edge conversation on anxiety disorders and their intricacies. We delve deeply into the realities of Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (ROCD) and relationship anxiety with Sarah Yudkin, a relationship anxiety coach and the founder of You Love You Learn. Through personal experiences and her journey from relationship anxiety to fulfilment and self-understanding, Sarah enhances our understanding of common relationship challenges arising from personality differences. We discuss the counterproductive ideal of the perfect "Disney" relationship, and how its pursuit often leads to anxiety. In this in-depth dialogue, we traverse the benefits of meditation and breath work in managing anxiety, the role of self-awareness, and the importance of accepting feelings rather than seeking external validation. Learn from Sarah's insights as she reveals the transformational power of new information and changed perspectives on relationships. Sharing intimate experiences of personal growth through anxiety, we cover the importance of a growth mindset, and how understanding and managing feelings is key in dealing with ROCD or relationship anxiety. Join us as we explore the profound influence of self-compassion, debunk self-critical thought patterns, and highlight the pivotal role flexibility plays in successful relationships. Whether you are battling relationship OCD, relationship anxiety, or simply seeking insight into relationship dynamics, this episode promises a wealth of wisdom and tangible advice. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 31 Jan 2024 - 45min - 407 - Episode 360 - Perceived Fears vs. Reality: Unraveling OCD's Illusions
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode, we dive into the common phenomenon in OCD where fears and anxieties are often magnified beyond reality. We explore why our brains amplify these fears, the difference between perceived threats and actual risks, and share strategies to manage and bridge this gap. I really hope you enjoy and of course, if you have any questions, then please let me know. Key Points Discussed: The nature of fear in OCD and its impact on perception. How OCD exaggerates risks and threats, creating a gap between fear and reality. Real-world examples illustrating this disparity in OCD fears. Practical strategies, including Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), mindfulness, and cognitive-behavioral techniques. Encouragement and support for those dealing with OCD Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 27 Jan 2024 - 19min - 406 - Episode 359 - If I Stop Performing Compulsions Will OCD Leave Me Alone?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In today's episode, we take a look at compulsions and ask about what happens when we stop performing them. I hope you enjoy and find it helpful. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 24 Jan 2024 - 12min - 405 - Episode 358 - Mastering OCD: Embracing Choice For Greater Empowerment
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In today's episode, we focus on the transformative power of choice and how it can lead to greater personal empowerment for those challenged by OCD. What You'll Learn Today: The role choice plays in managing OCD symptoms. Practical techniques for making empowered decisions despite OCD's influence. The psychological impact of making choices and how it can shift the narrative of OCD. As always I hope you enjoy and find it helpful. If you have any questions, then please feel free to let me know. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sun, 21 Jan 2024 - 15min - 404 - Episode 357 - Tech Tools For OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Today we dive into the world of digital solutions designed to support individuals living with mental health struggles and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). This episode unpacks a variety of innovative apps and tech tools that are making managing OCD a much more interactive and engaging experience. What's in This Episode: Introduction about tech & OCD and a caveat - Although tech can be helpful, we should also use it in a careful way and not forget to get the basics right. App Spotlight: nOCD — Delve into an in-depth analysis of nOCD, an app specifically designed around ERP therapy, and hear how users are personalizing it to their needs. Anxiety Tracker: Worry Watch — Uncover the features of Worry Watch and learn how logging worries can lead to greater insights and management of anxiety patterns. Cognitive Flexibility with MindShift CBT — Explore the groundbreaking ways MindShift CBT integrates cognitive-behavioral therapy and mindfulness into a portable format, offering you strategies to manage anxiety. AI Companions: Chatbots for OCD — Look into the future with AI-driven chatbots that offer therapeutic support anytime, anywhere, and help bridge the gap between therapy sessions. Immersive Therapy: VR and AR — Experience a new reality with VR and AR in exposure therapy. We investigate how simulation environments can be used to safely confront OCD triggers. Wearable Tech: Stress and Health Monitoring — Discover how the latest wearable technology can monitor physiological responses to stress and what this means for OCD management. Playing it Through: Gamification of Therapy — Gaming meets therapy. Listen to how gamified apps make sticking to therapeutic exercises more rewarding and less intimidating. Featured Technology Discussed: nOCD App Worry Watch App MindShift CBT App AI Chatbots for Mental Health Virtual Reality (VR) & Augmented Reality (AR) Wearable Stress Monitors Gamification in Mental Health Apps I hope you enjoy and find it helpful. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 17 Jan 2024 - 20min - 403 - Episode 356 - From Intrusive Thoughts To Inner Peace: Coping Mechanisms For OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to latest episode of the OCD & Anxiety Podcast where each week we explore how to take back control from OCD. In this episode, "From Intrusive Thoughts to Inner Peace," we delve deep into advanced coping mechanisms that go beyond the basics. Whether you're a mental health enthusiast, someone living with OCD, or a supportive friend or family member, there’s something here for everyone in our inclusive community. In This Episode, You Will Learn: The nuances of familiar strategies like CBT and ERP, and how to make them work even harder for you How habit reversal training can become your secret weapon against compulsions Ingenious ways to transform intrusive thoughts using advanced mindfulness tactics Personalized stress management techniques that don’t follow the ‘one-size-fits-all’ dogma The vital role of self-compassion in the narrative of your mental health journey How to fine-tune daily routines to empower and bring tranquility to your life I hope you enjoy and find it helpful. If you have any questions, do please let me know. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 13 Jan 2024 - 18min - 402 - Episode 355 - Relationship OCD & Wanting That Just Right Feeling
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Relationship OCD is an often misunderstood form of OCD. People can sometimes even question if it's actually a thing at all. ´Doesn't everyone worry abut their relationships?´is a common remark. But when normal concerns and worries turn into obsessions that consume your days, when anxiety about whether to end a relationship or remain, is crushing your spirit and making git feel impossible to enjoy your relationship, then you may well be struggling with ROCD. Characterised by it's incessant main compulsion, reassurance seeking, ROCD is a subtype of OCD where people feel unable to enjoy their relationships because they are always obsessing about them and if they are the right relationship for them. Today I discuss ROCD and letting go of the search for the 'just right feeling' that tends to keep people stuck in the ROCD mire. If you have any questions about anything I speak about today, then please feel free to let me know and I hope you enjoy. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 10 Jan 2024 - 18min - 401 - Episode 354 - OCD Essential Skills - How To Practice Feeling Your Emotions
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Perhaps one of the most important things in overcoming OCD is learning how to feel our emotions. We may come up with all sorts of reasons for why we shouldn't do this. Or we might know that we need to do it, but simply convince ourselves that we don't have the time. When we do find the time to feel our emotions on a regular basis it's amazing what can happen with OCD. Again it isn't going to be the perfect 'cure all' that many people are looking for, but rather a way to truly start accepting and feeling the difficult emotions that are are underpinning the OCD. As always I hope you enjoy and find it helpful, if you have any questions at all, do please let me know. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 06 Jan 2024 - 19min - 400 - Episode 353 - Why People Don’t Understand OCD
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Many people just do not understand OCD. Some might have empathy and really try to get it, but others simply do not understand just how difficult OCD is to manage. The image of OCD in popular culture is people who like to keep things orderly or who simply like to clean their hands a little more than the average person. These vague and simplified understandings of OCD serve to undermine people who are struggling with it. This is not to say that we shouldn't share our struggles with those close to us, of course some people are amazing and really try to understand and show empathy. It's important in my experience that we do at least attempt to try and share, but we also have to be aware that many people will not get it. If this is something that you are struggling with then I hope today's episode will be of use to you. Please do feel to get win touch if you have any questions. Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 03 Jan 2024 - 16min - 399 - 2024 - The Year You Get OCD Under Control?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com It doesn't matter how long OCD might having been controlling your life, at any moment you can start to turn things around. Today's episode is all about making the most of 2024 by deterring how you are going to get OCD under control this year. Thank you so much for listening throughout the year and I very much look forward to making many more OCD and anxiety podcasts in 2024. Perhaps 2024 is the year you get OCD under control.- Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 30 Dec 2023 - 13min - 398 - Episode 351 - Fear & Loathing In OCD Land
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com It's a bit of a funny title for today's podcast, but what I'm really trying to get at is the importance of determining where your attention goes when it comes to OCD. Do we allow it to wander? Or do we get it fully under our control, so that we can keep it where we need it. Remember OCD is not the boss and we can do so much more than we think. Taking control of attention and focus is a big part of this. Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Checkout my Patreon tiers. www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 27 Dec 2023 - 15min - 397 - Episode350 - The Christmas OCD Story - Make It One Of Strength & Resilience
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Christmas is an incredibly important time of year, but as we know, OCD likes to attack those important things. Whether Christmas is difficult or not this year for you, try to keep in mind that it's just a passing moment, more often than not it's over before it's started and the new year is here. At Christmas I like to focus on what I have achieved over the year, the achievements I've made, large or small and the improvements I've made with OCD, if I don't do this, then nobody else will. I find it to be a very helpful exercise as it helps to draw my attention away from the negative story that OCD tries to spin for us and brings my attention back to all the things that are actually going well in my life. I hope you enjoy this episode and of course I wish you all a very merry Christmas. Thanks for listening :) Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Checkout my Patreon tiers. www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 23 Dec 2023 - 17min - 396 - Episode 349 - Does ERP Always Work For OCD?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Does ERP always work for OCD is a question that I often hear. The research shows that ERP really does work well for OCD, so why do some people find that it doesn't work for them? Today we take a look at some of the problems people can encounter with ERP to help you find find ways to overcome those problems. In my personal experience exposure work is an important part of the puzzle with overcoming OCD and if it isn't working, that doesn't mean that it won't, but rather it might need to be applied in different ways in order for you to find success with it. A big part of this process if communication. Opening up lines of communication with your ERP therapist/specialist is essential to overcoming any potential problems that might come up. As always I hope you enjoy and if you have any questions, please do let me know. Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Checkout my Patreon tiers. www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences. #ocd #obsessivecompulsivedisorder #anxiety
Wed, 20 Dec 2023 - 17min - 395 - Episode 348 - Getting In The Face Of OCD With Compassionate Determination
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In today's episode I talk about the concept of compassionate determination and how it has helped me to overcome OCD. It's a process that evolves getting in the face of OCD and refusing to let it rule our lives. I hope you enjoy and if you have any questions then please feel free to let me know. Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Checkout my Patreon tiers. www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Sat, 16 Dec 2023 - 15min - 394 - Episode 347 - Is Accepting OCD Giving In To It?
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Today's episode is all about the importance of acceptance and why accepting OCD does not mean that you are simply giving in to it. In my experience acceptance is more about learning how to allow the difficult sensations, thoughts and demands for certainty that OCD so often creates. By bring acceptance to these challenges we can actually learn how to transcend them. I hope you enjoy and find it helpful. Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Checkout my Patreon tiers. www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wed, 13 Dec 2023 - 13min - 393 - Episode 346 - A Chat With Stroke Survivor, Author & Speaker Angie Read
Book your free session directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Want to support the podcast in return for exclusive content and more access to me? Checkout my Patreon tiers. www.patreon.com/user?u=88044382 Today I chat with Angie Read about overcoming adversity and dealing with anxiety and change. Angie Read is a driven and devoted mother of three who had a massive stroke at age 46. She had a career she loved and thrived in, one she never expected to be ripped away without warning. Following more than 25 successful years as a public relations professional, she took a career detour and co-authored a book about marketing to Gen Z. She had plans of traveling the world to speak about this topic. But the Universe had other plans. After her stroke, she was plagued by post-stroke anxiety (PSA) and post-stroke depression (PSD), and had to use every resource available to survive the lies her brain was telling her. Today, Angie is back in fighting form. She has returned to the communications career she so thoroughly enjoys. Now, Angie is sharing her story-and the tips and tools that helped her survive-to help as many fellow stroke survivors as possible. Because nobody has to struggle alone. There is hope! There are lots of things that we talk about today that are very applicable to OCD and I hope you enjoy and find it helpful. You can find out more about Angie and her books here: www.angiereadbooks.online facebook.com/angiereadbooks 816-305-0289 twitter/angiereadbooks Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
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