Anything But Traditional

From surviving the horrors of 9/11 to the heartbreak of losing a spouse at a young age, Elia Weixelbaum’s journey has been quite the definition of anything but traditional.

Hear as we dive deep into his experiences as a single father, the challenges and triumphs of blending two families, and the profound role his faith has played throughout his life.

Now living in Rechovot, Israel, with his wife (my mom) — he is living his dream life.

Listen to this story and be inspired by Elia's faith, resilience, determination, and positive attitude.

It's truly an episode not to be missed!

00:00 - Meet Elia Weixelbaum

01:28 - Elia's Early Life and Family Dynamics

06:54 - Education and Career Beginnings

13:27 - Life in Greenwich Village and First Wife

21:18 - Family Life, Moving to East Brunswick, Career Switch

30:45 - 9/11 Experience and Aftermath

47:36 - Stephanie's Passing and Its Aftermath

58:48 - The Challenges of Single Parenthood

01:02:04 - Dating and Blending Families

01:12:41 - Facing More Losses and Life Challenges

01:17:02 - Making Aliyah and Starting Anew

01:24:17 - Reflections on Life's Journey and Future Expectations

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David Beiss is an attorney and partner at Hunter Herman PLLC. His practice areas include complex commercial litigation and post-judgment enforcement.

David was born with an extremely rare and painful skin disease called Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB).

As a child and young adult, David mainly used a wheelchair for mobility but never let EB define his life or ambitions.

As an advocate, David is dedicated to raising awareness and fundraising for rare diseases and helping those with disabilities achieve their goals.

Thank you for listening!

00:00 - Introduction to David Beiss

02:00 - David's Early Life and Family Background

05:14 - Understanding Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB)

31:37 - Yachad, Camp Simcha, and Kids of Courage

43:14 - Navigating Yeshiva with a Disability

47:40 - Impact of EB on Relationships

55:14 - Fundraising and Advocacy Efforts

57:52 - Career Path and Legal Profession

01:07:03 - Involvement in Disability and Israel Advocacy

01:10:47 - Final Thoughts and Messages

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Originally from Rockville, Maryland, Giddy Ben Tzvi, is a lot more than Anything But Traditional's host, Tamar Ben Tzvi's husband.

He currently lives in Neve Shamir in Ramat Bet Shemesh, is an avid lover of Torah, a massive religious Zionist, dedicated member of his shul Avnei Shamir, runner, and pick up ball player.

Over the past 9 years, Giddy has held various positions in hi-tech and hi-tech adjacent companies.

In this episode, we explore Giddy's life, various challenges, his relationship with God especially in dealing with infertility, the importance of living a more nuanced Jewish life and so much more.

This is an episode you don't want to miss!

Thank you for listening!

00:00 - Introduction

02:35 - Giddy's Early Life

14:50 - Yeshiva and Israel Experience

33:18 - Post-Yeshiva Reflections

37:07 - Aliyah

39:31 - Meeting Tamar and Early Marriage

41:56 - Navigating Life's Challenges

43:13 - Coping with Anxiety

56:06 - Fertility Journey and Faith

01:08:22 - Tamar and Giddy Fun

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Dr, David Leitner, better known as Dr. D., is a strategy and leadership consultant and a university lecturer. He specializes in using strategy to create team alignment and engaged followership. He is married and has three amazing kids. He is a disabled IDF veteran who suffers from CRPS. And is the only IPSC wheelchair competitor in Israel.

In this episode of Anything But Traditional, Dr. David Leitner reflects on his upbringing as the son of a conservative rabbi, his life-changing experience in Israel, and his severe injury during military service that led to his struggle with CRPS.

Dr. D discusses making aliyah on his own, building Bar Ilan into a more accessible university, and building a family and career despite chronic pain.

Thank you for listening!

00:00 Introduction

01:22 Growing Up as a Rabbi's Kid

05:06 Journey to Israel and Religious Transformation

08:39 College Life and Struggles with Identity

16:16 Military Service and Injury

26:48 Living with CRPS

31:26 Adapting to a New Reality

41:44 Expanding Accessibility Efforts

42:47 Handing Over the Role and Creating a Board

43:43 Pursuing a PhD and Major Life Events

46:00 Challenges and Triumphs in the Army

51:11 Building A Family

01:01:26 Daily Life and Assistance

01:10:12 Leadership and Followership

01:14:57 Final Thoughts and Advice

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Shabbos Kestenbaum graduated from Harvard’s divinity school this past May, and is now suing Harvard University for failing to protect Jewish students from antisemitism.

This past Wednesday night, Shabbos addressed the Republican National Convention.

Today, we hear the story of his past, present, and future.

From Yeshivat Noam to Harvard Divinity School, he shares his evolving political ideologies, and emphasizes the importance of fighting for Jewish and American values, both domestically and abroad with his goal of greater unity and support for Jewish causes.

Listen now.

00:00 - Introduction

01:57 - Early Life and Family

04:26 - Educational Journey and Harvard Experience

07:36 - Political Views and Ideologies

08:16 - Experiences in Poland and Jewish Education

19:30 - Reflections on American and Israeli Jewish Communities

24:11 - Future Plans and Final Thoughts

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Chari Pere, creator of Miscarried: An Unspoken Cartoonmentary, worked as a creative director and illustrator/storyboard artist on projects for Red Bull, Jockey, Disney, Comedy Central, and Bud Light.

She has created content for The Washington Post's The Lily and Mad Magazine and has collaborated with NYT bestselling author Gretchen Rubin and actress Mayim Bialik.

Chari launched the "Unspoken" Cartoon series as part of the 2024 Jewish Writers' Initiative Digital Storytellers Lab Fellowship.

Breaking Stigmas through Cartoons: An Interview with Shari Pair

In this episode of Anything But Traditional, Chari shares her journey from childhood aspirations to her experiences working with major brands like Red Bull and Disney, and her profound personal journey through miscarriage and postpartum depression.

The conversation delves into her efforts to break the silence around very important, yet often untalked about topics, through her comics and animated shorts, and is a powerful testament to using art to foster empathy and support others facing similar challenges.

Website: https://www.charipere.com/

Miscarried: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xI7kEAYkUJI

Michael's Miscarriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_E-9Nc66L2k&t=2s

Subscribe to the "Unspoken" YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UnspokenCartoonmentary

Instagram/Facebook: @charipereart

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00:00 Introduction

01:29 Chari's Journey into Cartooning

02:32 The Impact of Miscarriage on Chari's Work

03:48 Creating Comics for Social Change

08:58 Chari's Background and Early Influences

16:24 Navigating Career and Motherhood

20:16 Challenges and Resilience in Chari's Career

27:26 Struggles and Miscarriages

31:48 Postpartum Depression and Health Challenges

34:19 Balancing Career and Family

38:31 Finding Support and Breaking Stigmas

49:50 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Kylie Ora Lobell is the president of KOL Digital Marketing, a marketing, PR, and ghostwriting firm for Jewish organizations, authors, and business owners. She is also an award-winning writer who has been published in the Jewish Journal of LA, Washington Post, LA Times, New York Magazine, Aish, Chabad, and Tablet. You can follow her on X, LinkedIn, or Instagram.

In this episode, Kylie shares her extraordinary journey from a secular Christian upbringing to converting to Orthodox Judaism. She discusses her tumultuous childhood, questioning faith, and eventual embrace of Jewish practices after experiencing the warmth of the Jewish community.

Kylie delves into her struggles with depression, postpartum depression, the challenges she faced in her conversion process, and how Judaism is misrepresented in the media.

This episode is packed with inspiring anecdotes, offering a deep dive into the complexities and rewards of Kylie's faith and personal growth.

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00:00 Introducing Kylie Ora Lobel

01:55 Kylie's Childhood and Family Background

03:42 Questioning Faith and Early Doubts

14:52 Meeting Daniel and Exploring Judaism

17:29 Discovering Chabad and Connecting with Faith

21:41 Conversion Journey and Challenges

33:28 Challenges and Reflections on Jewish Practices

46:51 Postpartum Depression and Community Support

01:01:09 Final Thoughts and Inspirational Messages

Today, Raphy Sassieni works at UserWay and plays a pivotal role in the vibrant Neve Shamir community of Ramat Beit Shemesh, loves mountain biking and has three beautiful children.

However, his journey to this fulfilling life wasn't always smooth.

At the young age of four, Raphy was diagnosed with cancer.

Now, in remission for many years, the journey undoubtedly shaped both him and the course of his life.

In this episode, we explore Raphy's transformative journey, his diverse upbringing, his dedication to the nonprofit sector, his love for Israel & Judaism, and his commitment to his community.

Furthermore, Raphy imparts invaluable insights on parenting, emphasizing the importance of fostering each child's distinct individuality, a principle instilled in him by his parents multiple times during his own upbringing.

So whether you're seeking inspiration, practical wisdom, or simply a heartwarming tale, tune in to this episode. It's certainly worth a listen!

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From public school kid to chossid, Sean (Zeesha) Littman shares his story of determination and perseverance in this week's episode of Anything But Traditional.

Hear as he shares his religious journey, the epic story of how he met his wife Ilana, their journey to aliyah, having 5 daughters, his path to Ramat Beit Shemesh, and his awesome career in nonprofit marketing.

Lastly, make sure to listen until the end as he shares more about his incredible new business, GiveSuite.com, a marketing solution for the nonprofit sector.

To be in touch with Zeesha, you can email him at sean@catch22nonprofit.com.

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Rabbi David Schlusselberg received his Bachelor's degree in psychology and Rabbinic ordination from Yeshiva University.

He has a master's degree in Jewish education from the Azrieli School of Jewish Education and currently works at the Rae Kushner Yeshiva High School, and serves as the Mashgiach Ruchani.

Last summer, he started his Instagram page, which now has over 12,000 followers, where he provides Jewish inspiration and education about Israel and antisemitism.

He has lectured at Columbia, Princeton, NYU, Maryland, Rutgers, and a few other colleges.

While his career is certainly fascinating, in this episode, we talk more about who Rabbi Schlusselberg is, his family, upbringing, dating experience, and immense struggle with anxiety.

There's a lot in this episode - so listen and be inspired!

Also, make sure to follow him on Instagram, check out his series Lessons From A Decade of Dating on YU Torah, and feel free to be in touch with him if you have any questions via email or phone 201-543-9308

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Originally from Wilmington, Delaware, Marna Becker is a natural networker, a social media enthusiast, an SDR leader, an activist, an educator, and a ball of energy. She was the youngest member of the board of the Jerusalem Business Networking Forum (JBNF), the predecessor of Made in Jerusalem, where she served for 5 years. In addition, she has worked successfully in both the B2B and B2C marketing and sales universe, where her passion for making processes more efficient and effective has shined through. She has worked with numerous startups, both here in Israel and abroad. She currently is the SDR Team Lead at UserWay.org

Marna is the founder of the Anglo Israel Job Network Facebook group that has over 15K members. The group helps more than 100 people find jobs in Israel each year.

She has spoken on the topics of networking effectively and the power of networking in Raanana at N4ES (Networking for English Speakers), in Gush Etzion at Hub Etzion, in Bet Shemesh at SUBS, and has taught a class on social media for the Temech Hub. She most recently spoke at an event sponsored by SDRs of Israel in Tel Aviv and virtually for the Innovate Summit.

In this episode, we delve into the many opportunities she tapped into over the years and how she created magic wherever she went, always learning from everyone she met.

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Please make your donations to:

Yad Yehuda to help students afford their gap year in Israel and make sure to include in the special instruction box that you heard of this cause from Anything But Traditional!

Thank you and Tizku L'Mitzvot!

While today Jordana Lobell is a mother to a precious son, her journey to him was not without pain.

In this episode, she shares her lengthy, devastating, and resilient journey through infertility, miscarriages, and stillbirth.

Let this episode inspire you.

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Please make your donations to:

Yad Yehuda to help students afford their gap year in Israel

And Puah to help couples struggling with infertility.

Thank you and Tizku L'Mitzvot!

Reena Bloom is an audiologist and mom of 3, who is lives in New Jersey with her husband Jason. Reena is a cancer survivor and survived a rare type of sarcoma in the uterus. Unfortunately, to survive, Reena had to have a hysterectomy. This led to Reena and Jason finding a new way to bring their children into the world.

Today, Reena is very passionate about spreading awareness about her experience with surrogacy.

In this episode, Reena dives deep into this subject and shares how they found her surrogates, how they navigated the halachic challenges, the emotional toll of it all, and more.

If you've ever wanted to know more about surrogacy, especially in the Orthodox Jewish world, this episode is for you.

Enjoy the episode!

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Donate now to Yad Yehuda of Greater Washington.

Tizku L'Mitzvot!

In today's episode, we hear from Dov Carpe.

Today, Dov works in hi-tech and lives in Ramat Beit Shemesh, Israel with his five children, but Dov never thought life would be this way.

Growing up, all Dov wanted to do was be a rockstar.

But one fateful day, his life was forever changed as he had a near-death giving him a new chance at life.

Hear his story, his insights, and how his life was forever changed in this episode.

Thank you for tuning in!

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In today's episode, we hear from Shlomo Lipman AKA the 'singing chayal,' a name that has been coined for him since October 2023 when videos of him singing in uniform went viral.

Here, Shlomo opens up about his experiences, from making aliyah to Israel with his family, to having his father become a member of the Israeli Knesset.

He shares his many passions of Torah, baseball, and learning, and how he balances it all while also being a husband and father.

A special shout-out goes to our generous sponsors this week—Kayla Haber Goldstein, LEV, and ORA. If you're a Rabbi, make sure to register here. If not, make sure to tell your Rabbi to do so.

Thank you for tuning in!

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The agunah crisis poses a significant challenge within Orthodox Judaism, and Adina Sash, also known as FlatbushGirl, has taken it upon herself to combat it with unwavering determination.

In this episode of Anything But Traditional, we delve into Adina's relentless advocacy against the agunah crisis, her broader efforts to secure representation for women within Orthodox Judaism, her upbringing, her fertility journey, and the development of her influential personality and Instagram persona.

Tune in to this impactful episode and consider how you can stand in solidarity with your fellow Jewish sisters today.

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In this enlightening episode of Anything But Traditional, Hollywood Producer and Animator Saul Blinkoff invites us into the intricacies of his and his family's lives, shedding light on the harmonious integration of religious practices within the bustling entertainment industry.

Listen as Saul recounts his journey, working with prestigious clients such as DISNEY, DREAMWORKS, and NETFLIX, offering a unique perspective on navigating the entertainment industry while staying true to his Jewish values.

To hear more from Saul, listen to his podcast Life of Awesome, check out his website, or even invite him to speak in your community!

Thank you Saul for coming on to this week's episode.

Enjoy the show!

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Zahava Grodman (formerly Moskowitz) recently moved to Israel with her husband, whom she met at the age of 27 after 7 years in the dating-world.

She is a graduate of the Master's program at Azrieli and the Matan Bellows Eshkolot Institute for Tanakh and Jewish Studies in Israel.

Before making aliyah, Zahava taught Tanach for six years in New York. Today, she is currently teaching English at an Israeli girls' high school.

Alongside her passion for teaching, she is the founder of the Singled Out Podcast, where she engages in open discussions about the challenges of being single within the Jewish community and explores ways to make the most of this period.

Here, we delve into some of these various dating challenges, exploring the blessings found in the waiting game while yearning for a deep connection.

Our conversation touches on dating stigmas, the notion of being selective, and the valuable lessons Zahava gained from her dating experiences.

Tune in to this episode for insightful discussions. I'm confident you'll gain some valuable insights—I certainly did!

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As Israel's elections unfold this Tuesday, we are honored to feature Shoshanna Keats Jaskoll, the esteemed Director and Founder of Chochmat Nashim, on this episode of Anything But Traditional.

During our conversation, Shoshanna graciously shares profound insights on the future of Beit Shemesh, home for both her and our host, Tamar Ben Tzvi, and offers thoughts on the broader landscape of Israel.

Throughout the episode, Shoshanna openly addresses the formidable challenges of erasure and marginalization faced by women in Orthodox Judaism, her passionate advocacy for justice and equality in representation, and why she dedicates herself to this important cause.

Learn more about Shoshanna's impactful work and the mission of Chochmat Nashim by visiting her website, exploring the dedicated platform of Chochmat Nashim, or tuning in to the Chochmat Nashim podcast.

Arky Staiman has become a real celebrity over the past four months as he vlogs his journey of being in the IDF reserves during this extremely trying time.

But who exactly is Arky Staiman?!

Where did he come from? Where does he live now? What does he do when he's not in the army? What is his family like? And what has his life's journey been like thus far?

That's what we sit down to discuss in this episode, but for now, here are just a few fun facts about Arky:

Arky is a tour guide in Israel. He lives in Tekoa with his three kids and awesome boss of a wife, Avigail, and grew up in Baltimore, Maryland.

Learn more about Arky in this episode!

And be sure to check out Arky's website & Instagram page for more information.

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Shmuel Katz, Beit Shemesh's beloved car mechanic, shares his story on this episode of Anything But Traditional.

From the loss of his mother at the young age of eight to his rebellious teenage years, relocation to Israel, navigating his wife's cancer battle, and ultimately taking the reins as the general manager and owner of AutoKing, Shmuel opens up about the defining moments that shaped his identity.

Throughout our discussion, Shmuel shares how he faces life's challenges with a unique blend of humor and an unwavering optimism for tomorrow.

He provides insights into his views on religion, the importance of adaptability in life and career, and his significant role as a teacher in his community.

Join us as we uncover the layers of Shmuel's life beyond the grease and gears, revealing a story of resilience, faith, and community impact.

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In this episode, my neighbor, Avi Dzik, unfolds the chapters of his life – a journey from an awkward little boy to an outgoing adult, culminating in marriage at the age of 38.

Along this transformative path, he grappled with career choices, deciding where to live, maintaining religious observance, and the challenge of creating a home for himself.

Today, Avi resides in Ramat Beit Shemesh with his wife and four children, thriving in his role as a physical trainer and masseuse.

You can hear more of his story in a documentary made about single men in their thirties and forties here.

To reach out to Avi, email him at avi.dzik@gmail.com

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This week's episode features my good friend, Kayla Haber Goldstein.

Kayla and her husband Rabbi Shmuel Goldstein, currently serve as the Associate Rabbi and Rebbetzin in Congregation Beth Tefillah in Paramus NJ. Together with their two children, they run an open home at which anyone who needs a Shabbat, a dinner, or a listening ear is welcome. Besides for speaking engagements and events that Questioning The Answers put on, Kayla has recently become involved in the Agunah crisis. Always open for conversation, to offer a helping hand, or to answer any questions.

Hear as we delve into her story in this episode of Anything But Traditional.

To reach out to Kayla you can email her at kaylahaber@gmail.com or reach out on Instagram @questioningtheanswers.

You can also check out her website here.

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Aliza Abrams Konig is the Director of Student Leadership, at Yeshiva University. Throughout Aliza’s career she has worked within areas of student life, team building, creating curricula, and enriching the experiences of thousands of students through Experiential Education. Aliza also serves as a Surrogacy Consultant to families and individuals pursuing surrogacy.

Earlier in Aliza's career she served as the YU Director of Alumni Engagement, Assistant Principal at Central, Yeshiva University High School for Girls, Director of Student Life at Stern College and as the Director of Jewish Service Learning for the University, where she built the service-learning curriculum and established chessed missions around the world.

Aliza is a member of the inaugural Wexner Field Fellows program through the Wexner Foundation. She has spoken worldwide in synagogues, community centers, and schools about leadership, education, faith, prayer, and issues related to the contemporary Jewish family, dating, infertility, surrogacy, and family.

Aliza holds a BA in Judaic Studies from Stern College, a master's in social work from Wurzweiler School of Social Work, and is currently a doctoral candidate at Wurzweiler. Aliza, her husband Samuel, and their children live in Riverdale, New York, where they are very involved with their community, synagogue, and other local organizations.

In this episode, we sit down to discuss all of this and more.

Some important mentions:

Surrogate Solutions

I Was Supposed To Have A Baby

Keep The Vision Alive Campaign In Memory of Jeffrey Berger

Aliza and My Instagram Live

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To commemorate my father's yahrzeit, observed last Thursday night and Friday, I've decided to feature my mother on this week's podcast.

Here, she shares her story, encompassing my father's life, his premature passing, her experiences as a single parent raising three children, her subsequent remarriage, the blending of our family with her new husband's family, her spiritual journey, parenting tips, and her perspectives on the current situation in Israel.

This podcast not only provides insight into my mother's life but also sheds light on my upbringing and our family dynamics. Thank you for tuning in!

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Mindy Levine had a pretty conventional beginning to life, she went to Yeshiva day schools, began a rewarding career as a chemistry professor, got married, and life was smooth sailing.

Then, the unthinkable happened when she was pregnant with her youngest and his twin and unfortunately delivered the twin as a stillborn.

With determination and perseverance, Mindy continued with life, and eventually came to Israel and made aliyah, which came with its unique struggles as she got divorced from her husband and quickly after her 3.5-year-old daughter came out as trans.

While Mindy, her son, and the municipality tried to issue a 'don't ask don't tell' policy, this policy broke as some parents found out and exposed Mindy's son.

This caused intense legal battles and a PR war.

Mindy was put on the air byYNet, Kan, The Pink News, The Times of Israel, World Israel News, and more.

Today, Mindy shares her story with us. What an honor it is to have her on.

As shared in the podcast, Mindy gives special thanks to Havruta, an organization for LGBTQ+ people who are on the religious spectrum.

Thank you for listening!

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Originally from South Africa, Ronel has been living with her family in the scenic Judean Mountains for the past twelve years.

This transformative journey of self-discovery, leading to the recognition of her family's spiritual and physical home in Israel, was anything but brief.

In fact, it spanned eighteen years of intense exploration of Judaism before culminating in their ultimate conversion.

Despite the challenges, Ronel deems the lengthy journey worthwhile, as she is now living her dream of a more fulfilling life, culminating in the establishment of Cafe Ronel: a delectable Kosher Mehadrin cafe situated on her home's premises, inspired by local customs, cultures, flavors, tastes, and history.

This not only serves as a space for everyone to come together, celebrate, and unite but also as a place that continues to serve chayalim since the beginning of the current war.

You can donate to this initiative through Paypal internationally: ronel.barak@gmail.com

Or if you're in Israel, through bank transfer:

שם: קפה רונאל

בנק: הבינלאומי

סניף: 013רחביה

חשבון: 309729

At the cafe, there is also an incredible and unique gift shop where one can browse quality tablecloths, challahs, serviettes, and more.

You truly have to see it to believe it, and I was fortunate to do so with my husband last year!

As this is a two-episode story, make sure to listen in to the first part as Ronel shares her journey away from Christianity.

Then, tune into this episode as she shares about her transition to Judaism, her unique experiences becoming Jewish, and where she is in life today.

Thank you Ronel for coming on and sharing your story.

Originally from South Africa, Ronel has been living with her family in the scenic Judean Mountains for the past twelve years.

This transformative journey of self-discovery, leading to the recognition of her family's spiritual and physical home in Israel, was anything but brief.

In fact, it spanned eighteen years of intense exploration of Judaism before culminating in their ultimate conversion.

Despite the challenges, Ronel deems the lengthy journey worthwhile, as she is now living her dream of a more fulfilling life, culminating in the establishment of Cafe Ronel: a delectable Kosher Mehadrin cafe situated on her home's premises, inspired by local customs, cultures, flavors, tastes, and history.

This not only serves as a space for everyone to come together, celebrate, and unite but also as a place that continues to serve chayalim since the beginning of the current war, which you will hear more about in the second part of this episode, airing next week.

At the cafe, there is also an incredible and unique gift shop where one can browse quality tablecloths, challahs, serviettes, and more.

You truly have to see it to believe it, and I was fortunate to do so with my husband last year!

As this is a two-episode story, this part focuses on the first part of Ronel's journey, including her questions and delving into the Biblical texts.

Next week, we will hear more about her transition to Judaism and learn what she is up to in life today.

Thank you Ronel for coming on and sharing your story.

Canadian author Gila Green is an Israel-based writer, editor, and EFL teacher with a unique perspective on the unfolding events of Israeli history. 

Growing up, her house was intensely Zionistic, as her father grew up in British-mandated Palestine and lived through three wars during his early years of life. 

Then while traveling in Israel, Gila met her husband, who grew up in South Africa under apartheid. Together, they decided that Israel was the best place for them to live. 

Today, Gila has been living in Israel for the past few decades in Ramat Beit Shemesh, and currently, her son-in-law is in reserves, and previously her son served as well. 

With this amount of personal experience and unique understanding of Israel, Gila has put her knowledge and experience to good use as she writes fervently about Israel and has written several fictional novels and shorts on the topic. 

Here are just some of her novels:

Passport Control (S&H Publishing, Virginia, 2018)

White Zion, a novel-in-stories (Cervena Barva Press, Massachusetts, 2019)

No Entry (Stormbird Press, Australia, 2019)

King of the Class (NON Publishing, Vancouver, 2013)

Gila is excited to publish her 5th book, a suspense thriller entitled: With A Good Eye, (AOS Publishing, Montreal this coming August). You can pre-order the Novel here. 

Lastly, Gila has been in several articles and podcasts, including her most recent interview with Distinctions, a piece brought up several times throughout our episode. 

To get in touch with Gila, feel free to check out her website, and make sure to check out her new TikTok and Instagram where she makes fun cooking videos with her kids!

As always, I would love to delve into it with you. So please feel free to visit @talesoftamar on Instagram to expand the conversation and hear updates about future episodes.

Thank you for listening!

On June 11, 2003, Sarri Singer was on Bus 14 in Jerusalem when an 18-year-old Palestinian terrorist dressed as a religious Jew boarded and blew himself up.

17 people were killed, including all those seated and standing around her, and over 100 people were injured. Sarri was hospitalized for two weeks and then returned to New Jersey to be with family.

Her story became high profile. She appeared on television stations such as CBS, FoxNews, CNN, and radio interviews. She spoke before Congressmen and Senators in Washington, D.C., and politicians in New York and New Jersey.

In September 2003 she returned to work and volunteering in Israel. In June 2004, she returned to the United States to take care of ongoing medical issues associated with her attack.

Sarri is the Founder and Director of Strength to Strength (www.stosglobal.org), which focuses on bringing together victims of terrorism together from around the world and assisting with long-term psychological needs.

Sarri has addressed audiences throughout the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, and Israel and continues to share her unique insight into the ongoing struggle for victims of terror in Israel and around the world.

Now, in this episode, she addresses the Anything But Traditional community.

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Thank you for listening!

Today, Roxanne Weinberger joins Tamar for a pivotal and transparent conversation regarding Roxanne's life to date.

To say that no stone was left unturned would be an understatement as they addressed serious topics such as becoming religious as a teen/young adult, joining the IDF, aliyah, fertility, NICU babies, motherhood, and more.

While Roxanne shares her story of where she was on October 7th and its effect on her life, this story is much more than just about the ongoing current events.

It's about true resilience despite immense hardship.

It's about finding the helpers and becoming the helper.

It's about the land, the Torah, and the beauty of Israel.

Listen to Roxanne's story, feel her words, and connect.

This is truly an episode worth listening to.

Thank you for listening!

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*** Please consider making a donation to help the evacuees from Yishuv Shlomit, the evacuees that Roxanne is personally working with, via Israel At War here.

Thank you for donating!

On October 7th, Israel was changed forever.

On October 8th, the world was changed forever as the somewhat more quiet and festering Antisemitism spread fiercely and rapidly all across the world.

Today, Tamar sits down with a student from The Ohio State University (who wishes to remain anonymous) for an in-depth and intense conversation about Antisemitism in the United States, and particularly on College Campuses.

In this episode, hear the real and raw experiences of being a student and the encounters this student and her friends have had to face, due to merely living their life as Jews.

Remember, this war is truly not just in Israel but worldwide.

How will you fight this war today?

Thank you for listening.

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Looking forward to continuing the conversation!

Today, Tamar welcomes Adena Mark Kapon to the conversation.

Adina, the brilliant mind behind A to Z Events Israel, is the mother and wife of Chayalim, as well as the daughter of a victim of terror.

In this episode, Adena opens up about her family's journey, from growing up in New York to making Aliyah in 2004 with her 5 children; later bringing her sabra into the midst.

Although they never lived in Israel together, Adena shares how her passion for living in Israel stems from her mother's passion, earlier immigration, and the overwhelming support her family received from their community in Efrat during these dark hours.

Hear Adena's resilient spirit as she reflects on the phrase "Am Yisrael Chai," symbolizing the enduring strength of the Jewish people, their profound acts of kindness, and the unity she has witnessed, leaving us with a powerful message and hope for a brighter future.

Thank you for listening!

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In this episode of "Anything But Traditional," we delve into the lives of three extraordinary individuals with unwavering dedication to the Israeli Defense Forces (IDF).

Host Tamar Ben Tzvi brings you an intimate and eye-opening look at their experiences during challenging times.

First up is Tom Eisenman, who recounts the moment he was called up during Simchat Torah and the profound sense of honor and Jewish pride that compelled him to serve. Tom emphasizes the importance of defending Israel, reminding us that the IDF plays a crucial role in safeguarding the nation.

Next, we hear from Sam Cohen, an officer in the Home Front Command. Sam was in the United States when the conflict escalated and had to make the challenging journey back to Israel. He shares his experiences supporting the civilian sector during these tumultuous times and the heart-wrenching struggle of being separated from his family.

Finally, we meet Ariav Schlesinger, a commander and teacher specializing in the handling of bodies from war and disasters. Ariav's unique role in the IDF places him at the heart of some of the most difficult moments during times of conflict. He sheds light on the vital work he and his fellow soldiers do to honor and identify the fallen.

Join us for this episode that offers a window into the personal experiences, unwavering commitment, and deep-rooted dedication of these remarkable individuals who serve their country during challenging times. "Defending Israel: Stories from the IDF Frontlines" is a testament to the resilience and unity of the Israeli people.

Thank you for listening!

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In this episode of "Anything But Traditional," we showcase the stories of five extraordinary military wives, the unsung heroes who stand strong as their husbands serve on the front lines.

These women face a multitude of challenges, from daily responsibilities to emotional strength, far beyond mere companionship.

Bazy Rubin, a mother of four, shares her journey of protecting her family from the media storm and the emotional impact of her husband's deployment.

Esther Krinkin, tells her journey of finding herself in an unexpected situation when her husband was called up as a reservist and highlights the significance of Israel as a safe haven for the Jewish people.

Nechama Eisenman, humorously reflects on her life before and during the war, managing increased responsibilities and anxiety in the absence of her husband (and best friend).

Talya Adler candidly discusses the impact of the war on her family and the importance of unity and hope during these trying times.

Adina Kestenbaum shares her experiences without her husband Netanel by her side, having to be adamant about putting her family first, and the experiences she's had during this time with her children.

Join us for a powerful episode to gain profound insight into the lives of these remarkable women, embodying resilience and unity, proving that even in adversity, love and support prevail.

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In this episode, you'll hear heartfelt stories from parents with children serving in the Israeli army, individuals directly affected by the ongoing war, and educators dedicated to instilling the values of pride in being Jewish and Israeli.

They share their personal experiences, offering a poignant glimpse into the impact of this challenging period and the necessity of unity and making principled choices, even when comfort seems out of reach.

Join us for a moving and inspiring journey through the resilience and unwavering spirit of these remarkable individuals including:

Perry Smith from Ma'ale Adummim

Felicia Newman Azut from Ashdod

Rav Binyamin Kwalwasser, Executive Director of Lev L'Chayal

Rav Michael Olshin, Executive Director of Yeshivat Torat Shraga

Thank you for listening!

**For updates and conversations about these episodes follow me at @talesoftamar

Life is a journey filled with twists and turns, and family dynamics are no exception. In the Orthodox Jewish community, there's a common perception of what a traditional family should look like. But the truth is, families are as diverse as life itself, and it's time to create a more open and accepting space within our community.

If your family doesn't fit the mold, you're not alone.

Our mission is to initiate a conversation about Jewish families, fostering a sense of belonging and understanding for all. We want to inspire young families to rethink and reimagine what a thriving Orthodox Jewish family can be, even when facing adversity.

Join us as we explore the myriad paths that families have taken, both by choice and circumstance, to reach their unique destinations.

This is an original podcast by Tales Of.