Fire Love Podcast

We are just 8 weeks away from meeting our baby girl. EIGHT! As y’all can imagine we are filled with every emotion you can imagine. And our time has been consumed with preparation for parenthood. Tune in as we give you updates on how life has been going, and give you tips on how to transition into parenthood.

"Your issue is our issue" Episode 72 by Dot & Nate

WE. ARE. PREGNANT!!! We are so so excited to share the news that we are starting a family. It’s already been quite the journey, so we can’t imagine what else is in store. Tune in as we give you exclusive details on how we found out, how we’re preparing and specific advice to those trying to conceive. Aaaaahhhhhh, we’re having a baby!!!!

Personality vs Character Episode: 70 by Dot & Nate

In this episode, Dot is kicked off the podcast and replaced by Nate’s good friends Jeredon and Raeshon. They provide the male perspective on topics like the Nia Long cheating scandal, engagement ring shopping and maintaining a marriage. Through their candid conversations they explore the defining components that transform the Boys to Men. Brace yourself, as you enter the minds of good hearted and upstanding black men.

In this episode, Dot is joined by two guests! Breanna Hogan and Giselle Johnson sit with Dot to have a candid conversation surrounding all things about wedding planning. The trio goes into intricate detail about venues, budget, bridal party, dress selection and guest list.

Are you dating, and running into people who are good on paper… but there’s NO CHEMISTRY?! Well this episode is for you! Tune is as we go head to head on whether chemistry is organic or if it can be built.

Wow, the podcast has been our venting place since we moved in together. And it has served as an aid in us getting engaged, and later— married. So it’s wild to think that’s it’s been one full year since our wedding ceremony. In this episode, we keep it all the way real with what, “year one” has felt like for us. We also share advice and our brutal truth about what we think we could have done better, in our first year of marriage.

“Costa Rica” Episode: 65 by Dot & Nate

There is nothing like Chicago during the summer time! We took a quick trip out of the Midwest to celebrate our friends union. We thought we were just attending a wedding but, there are always… surprises. Listen in as we tell you all about our weekend getaway.

Feelings are fleeing, and they are ruining your life! Please get out yo feelings, so that you can communicate your needs and desires to your partner. In this episode we will intentionally hurt your feelings, so that you can understand how to move past them.

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes…the BABY WAITING! Everyone talks about the baby making, and life once you have the baby, but we’ve decided to discuss the time in between! The wait for a baby or a mate can be agonizing, when it really should be a time of preparation. Tune in for tips on what you should do when you’re waiting to start a family or find a spouse.

Why is it so hard to not only FIND the person, but to STAY with the person? Join as we dive in, head first on the question… “What’s the issue with relationships today.” Being aware of these problems can and will set you up for success on your quest to find love, or on your journey to maintain in.

“More Than Friends” Episode: 60 by Dot & Nate

"Mind Your Business" Episode: 59 by Dot & Nate

Love Yourself Episode: 58 by Dot & Nate

It’s Valentines Day! & how fitting that it falls on the day we release a new episode?! Because we love all things LOVE, we have special guests! Our good friends Elle and Buddy Reed join us, as we have an open conversation about the hype surrounding Valentines Day. In this episode, we hear the sides of men and women on exceptions and experiences on vday.

The Most Random Episode: 56 by Dot & Nate

How do you continue on the path of your personal goals, when so much energy & effort goes into your relationship? “Goal Diggers,” is an episode that gives practical tips to staying motivated and focused in your relationship. We keep it candid on all the tasks required to manage your aspirations and your love life.

Every season we talk about SEX! It’s just that good. Sex Part 4 we discuss the magic of sex after marriage. The freedom of enjoying one another without any guilt, makes for the most magical experience in the bedroom. The security of marriage has intensified our sex life, by making us much more willing to explore. Tap in, let’s talk about sex baby!

Meagan Good and Devon Franklin’s divorce left us SHOOK. How could such an unproblematic Christian couple call it quits after 9 years of marriage? In this episode, we share how this news affected us and triggered tough conversations about the doubts of marriage.

Everything we wish we would’ve known before getting married.

After a year long hiatus, WE'RE BACK! We got married, we moved, and even bought brand new podcast equipment. Tune in as we ease on into season four of the Fire Love Podcast by catching you up on what we've been up to. This introductory episode is the perfect warm up for the heat to come!

Whoa, our 50th episode! Celebrate this milestone with us as we give you our top five most memorable moments of podcast and share our secrets on how to level up in your relationship. From our first "fake fan moment," all the way to Lil Durk. This is a fun, high energy episode with great tips to make you feel ready to boss up!

Consistency in a relationship is so hard to master. But it's important to remember... that who you presented in the beginning of your relationship, is who your partner fell in love with. How can consistency strengthen or weaken your relationship? Tune in to find out our thoughts!

Are you familiar with the 7 love languages? Do you know how you receive love? Do you know how your partner receives love? There's nothing more important than assuring that your partner feels LOVED by you. Just like language, you have to understand it to communicate it.You have to know how your partner receives love in order to give it to them. This episode we focus on strengthening the connection between you and your partner so that all day long, you won't have to say I love you... you both will feel it.

Let's get married. We've done an excellent job of getting you all mentally prepared to find someone to marry. But what does it ACTUALLY mean to get married. Like all the legal stuff. We give a detailed breakdown, of all the things you agree to when you sign up for marriage. And all the necessary steps you should be taking to get yourself prepared.

In 2021, it's time to LET IT GO. 2020 taught us how precious life is. And to fully embrace its beauty there will come a time where we have to let people and things go. It isn't always easy to move on from relationships. In fact, it can be down right SCARY. Tune in as we give some practical steps on how to allow yourself to gracefully move on from things that no longer serve you. Let us guide you, on giving yourself permission to grow.

Lost My Engagement Ring Episode: 45 by Dot & Nate

We weigh in with our thoughts on Meg Thee Stallion and Tory lanes. It gets intense as we stand our ground with our conflicting perspectives. We also give the details on our Labor Day Trip to Palm Springs, where we spent the weekend with two other couples! Hear why it was so amazing and why we recommend everyone to take a couples trip!

Are you down for an open relationship? Open relationships have always been something we thought we were against. However, in a recent explantation for the first time ever... one of us embraced the concept One of the thought provoking questions we ask is, which is more selfish-an open relationship? Or a closed one?

Nobody Cares Episode: 42 by Dot & Nate

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes BABY FEVER. What happens when a baby is integrated into a relationship TOO SOON. Since no one is ever, "ready" is there even a such thing as too soon for a baby? This is such a loaded episode with great advice. We have learned so much from our own experiences and from our friends. Tap in, and hear what we have to say about the cute little babies!

Everyone is talking about it, Jada Pinkett-Smith and August Alsina. Join in as we give our insight on the "entanglement," and still proclaim for Will and Jada to still be RELATIONSHIP GOALS. Don't call us crazy until you listen in!! FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM, WE FOLLOW BACK // @Fire Love Podcast //@dotmcdonald //@golden3ar

When looking for the right person, sometimes it calls for you look everywhere... including outside your race. We dive in with an unfiltered conversation about our thoughts and experiences with interracial dating. We have some pretty strong views. If you're ready for a raw outlook, tune in now.

To often we glorify boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife titles and we forget that the most important title of all is FRIENDS. This episode we talk all about the importance of putting friendship at the forefront of your relation. We also discuss the recent murder of the unarmed black man, George Floyd. It's a controversial topic that Nate and Dot completely disagree on. Tune in to hear our thoughts!

The Vent Session Episode: 37 by Dot & Nate

We had the pleasure of having Dot & Nate from FireLovePod join us on episode 10 for a relationship conversation! We debated how long is TOO long to be in the talking phase, should you be a RIDE OR DIE, how to keep things SPICY in a relationship and so much more! in this week's Tips & Tricks segment, we also talk about Karreuche and Victor Cruz spending 20 hours a day on the phone, Gabrielle Unions "thot comments" to Ayesha Curry & if you should ever go back to an ex after "they've got it together".You don't want to miss this episode! Let us know if you agree or disagree with any of the topics on our socials @Samesispodcast !

Every season we talk about... SEX. Season one we talked on the importance of waiting until you and the other person are on the same page. Season 2 we dove right in on knowing each others status before engaging in the act. This go round, it gets a little hotter. That's right. We're talking about hot to keep it fun, how to spice it up and how to assure your sex life is the BEST life! Let's be real, sex is a crucial part of a romantic relationship. Join us in a conversation on how to always lay with fire! *New Episodes Every Sunday Evening* FOLLOW US Instagram| @firelovepod Instagram| @dotmcdonald Instagram| @golden3ar

Guess what... WE'RE ENGAGED! That's right, we're getting married. Tune in to hear all about how the most amazing night went down, how we got to the engagement point and what our next steps are. This is such a special moment for us and we are so excited to share all the inside scoop with you.

Hey Flames! Have you ever dated someone who wasn't the same religion as you? Do you believe it can work out? This episode Dot and Nate completely disagree about dating with different religions. Dot doesn't think it can work because the couples will grow apart. And Nate thinks if you love someone, you will accept everything about them. It's a healthy debate that brings up some interesting points. Tune in so you can hear details on the disagreement. //Fire Love Podcast iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fire-love-podcast/id1446202434 SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/user-145301649 FOLLOW US Instagram| @firelovepod Instagram| @dotmcdonald Instagram| @golden3ar

Hey Flames! When it comes to relationships, do you think there should be gender roles? Should a women cook and clean, while the man pays all the bills? We talk about it all. We give insight on how we think gender roles should be divided or if they should even exist. Different things work for different people, but how is worked for us? Tune in. We play a fun game of "Flames, Flicker, Smoke" with Meek Mill and Milan. Don't forget to like and subscribe.

First episode of Season 3 is here! WTF. We're quarantined in Los Angeles together. We would have never guessed in a million years that THIS would be our reality, and still... here we are. As scary, crazy and stressful as this time has been, it has truly been a defining moment in our relationship. Tune in as we share how the moment we're living through right now has been one of the best things to happen to us. Song feature: Kordoroy Floyd "Rich Two"

The decade is ending and we are speaking affirmations over our single listeners and our listeners in relationships. Every year we say, "this is our year," but we believe that if you say these affirmations and believe them with your heart... 2020 could really be a life changing year for you! We'd like to thank everyone who listened all year long. We are so excited for what 2020 will bring ALL OF US.

It's over, but is it? Have you ever had to face the decision of moving on or giving it another chance? How do you know which one is the right decision? It's such a tug of war with your heart and your mind. Join in on the conversation as we discuss when it makes sense to, the steps to take to move forward and the risks you're up against.

In Sex Part 1 we talked about the importance of holding off from sex before having clarification on where you and the other person stood. Sex Part 2 we detail what you should do when you're ready to have sex. We sit down with Dr. Natasha Crooks and go through all the important information you should ask/consider before being intimate.

Truth Talks interviews the Fire Love Podcast! Our good friend Ron Duece from the podcast Truth Talks picked our brains while we sipped on mimosas. We talk about finding balance in a relationship, the power of using a white board, our perspectives on couples therapy and so so much more. This is a very special episode and one we hold close to heart. It's a must listen!

Whether you're in new in a relationship or have been in a relationship for years, temptation is something that will always present itself. But how do you deal with it? Should you tell your partner? Is it normal? We discuss it all in this episode.

We went LIVE on Instagram and Facebook, and because many missed it... here's the recap! We're talking T.I. and his daughter, boyfriends giving single women flowers and Instagram ditching likes. We had so much fun interacting with you all. We will definitely will be doing this again!

We've all been there, and we've all done it... Friends with Benefits! Have you found yourself in this situation more than once? Or have you found yourself in this situation, when it was never in your plans? Click this episode NOW. We let it all out as we discuss how people often get in this situation and the pro's & con's of it. We're blunt about our experiences and the lessons we've learned. *Music by Kamilah Chevel*

Dot and Nate take a break from the deep conversations and analytical topics to have some fun. The two let lose and get really honest about the craziest stories from their past. They share the craziest things they've done and the craziest things they've endured. You won't believe some of the things these two share, but everything is absolutely the truth. You're gonna laugh and gasp, hold on tight... it's a crazy one!

Are you the only one in your friend group that's single? Does it seem like everyone around you is in love? Dot's best friend, Sabrie Ritcherson, sits down with us and tells us all the positive and negative of being in this situation. It's a quick one cause were SO LIT. lol The most fun episode yet!

Have you ever taken the time to think about how your relationship with your parents has affected your romantic relationships? Well we take it there through a very deep, vulnerable and therapeutic conversation. We bravely speak our truths. Please listen as we have our own personal breakthroughs.

Relationships end so quickly nowadays. So how did this couple manage to make it to 12years? Join us as we sit down with celebrity hair stylist Nakia Rashon & rapper Ron Deuce, a couple who knows all about longevity. They share tips, advice and experience on how to make sure your love is everlasting.

Did you know that money and cheating are the number one reasons couples break up? Why is money so hard to talk about? Dot and Nate give their perspective on the challenges and benefits on tackling this beast. They ask the taboo questions when it comes to finances and relationships. Tune in NOW!

Let's be honest, sometimes you just have to switch to the other side! Dive in with us as we have our very first guests! We sit down with our good friends Mo & Soraya and find out all about lesbian love. From transitioning from men to women, to their extensive text message arguments... this couple really brought the fun! They give off amazing energy that you can feel all through out the episode. You don't not want to skip this!

Step Daddy Episode: 17 by Dot & Nate

Why is it that women who have it all together have the hardest time finding a partner? Is their independence intimidating? Or are women who need help more appealing? Listen in on conversation as we dissect this issue and try to understand the root of the issue.

Exes Episode: 15 by Dot & Nate

Family is so important when it comes to relationships and understanding your partner. How they were raised and their first encounters with love help you unravel all of your partners complications. Join us we dive into the family aspect and how it relates to your relationship.

It's Dot and Nate's birthday weekend! So what better way to celebrate the two then by highlighting a fun crazy moment in their relationship. Buckle up and get ready for this wild ride. Press play!

It's so easy to fall into a routine of things which can result in boredom in your relationship. Tune in as we try to give you some tips on how to not get too comfortable in your dating standards, life goals or your romantic relationship.

Communication is one of the most important elements of a relationship. Join Dot and Nate as they break down what communication is, what gets in the way of communication, and the best practices for communication.

Not Married Episode: 10 by Dot & Nate

Sex Episode: 9 by Dot & Nate

Are you single? Dot and Nate dive head first into the importance of embracing the single life. They discuss how it influences your dating choices and your future relationships.

Can social media break-up relationships? Dot wakes up to a comment on social media from someone from Nate's past. And it almost stops the release of the podcast. They tell the story in a honest and hilarious way, and work through other disagreements in terms of social media.

When is the appropriate time to introduce your partner to your friends? And why in the world did Nate's friends not like Dot?! Listen in as we break it all the way down and give insight on the dynamic of sharing relationship issues with friends. Also, hear about our shoot with Black Love Doc which shows on OWN Network.

All relationships have ups and downs. Somebody cheated. Find out if it was Dot or Nate, and the two got through it. Also find out if Dot secretly has a tattoo of Nate's name!

Do we all go through a ho phase? Is it detrimental or beneficial? And what in the world is going on with R.Kelly?! Help. Is age just a preference or is it a problem. We about to go there with it ALL.

Kick it with us as we let yall in on the challenges and advantages of moving in together. We'll let you know what lead us to the decision and how it works for us, all while adding in Kourtney Kardashian into the conversation.

Hang out with Dot & Nate as they share the difficulties of the beginning stages in a relationship. They dive right into what makes a strong foundation and we even find out about the one time these two love birds almost broke up!

Get to know Dot and Nate as they share what lead them to starting a relationship podcast. Find out what you can expect on their first season, and learn the initial reactions from friends when they announced a podcast was coming.

Postpartum is hard on relationships. Making it through this season takes intentional work. Giving grace, taking breaks, getting sleep and supporting each other is crucial during this time. But just what is it that makes this period of time so difficult? Tap in, as we share how bringing home our baby has shifted things in our relationship.

For the first time EVER… Dot’s mom, hops in the podcast! This is such a special podcast episode as the two discuss the challenges, reward and reality of motherhood. The two get emotional as they remember Dot’s Granny who passed away just 9 weeks shy of meeting Naelle. It also gets hilarious as they reminisce on some of Dot’s childhood. This episode is dedicated to Annie Dewitt McDonald. May her soul forever rest in peace. ❤️❤️

“Birth Story” Episode 75 by Dot & Nate