My Name Is Toby

Merry Christmas fam! Let's talk, laugh and play music 😁

Have you ever imagined what a perfect birthday would be like? Well, Toby has, and in this episode she takes us on a ride through her perfect Tobyversary 2.4 fantasy... Listen and laugh as much as you want 😁

Life is an entire school and relationship is its own department. Everyday I learn new things from this adventure. In this episode, I share the ultimate lesson I've learned from my relationship.

You've never seen a person's life so chaotic in a week as you'll hear in this story. After listening reach out, ask for my account number and send me dollarzzzzzz because I'm really going through it.

I guess I'm late to the COVID party but hey, better late than never. In this episode, I talk about my near-death experience with the coronavirus in 2022.

Ever wondered what will happen if you created a Google Form, asking questions about yourself and send to your friends to answer? Well I tried it and their opinions of me where surprising and hilarious... Listen to this episode for the chaotic responses. P.S: you should try it with your friends too

Being a young adult in Nigeria is tough enough, and the last thing Toby wants is to bring a child into this world, at this stage of her life, therefore as she enters the dating scene, contraceptives are inevitable but it's doesn't come without it's own wahala and side effects.

In this episode, Toby talks about all she's been up to since the ASUU strike. From ghosting on her internship to getting a remote job. Sharing her thoughts on the scam of remote jobs and salary negotiations.

You never know how beautiful love is until you experience it yourself. It's this very powerful force that consumes your whole being. You neither explain or control it but you enjoy it anyway and you never wish it to disappear... It is pure bliss! I found sweet love and I excitingly tell the story in this episode... Enjoy!

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When the Academic Staff Union of Universities in Nigeria went on strike in protest against the federal government for unfavourable working conditions, I knew I had to take advantage of the situation and gain industry experience. Fortunately, I got an internship with Lagos Waste Management Authority (LAWMA) Academy. In this episode, I talk about my first day experience as an intern at LAWMA academy. If you're considering applying for an internship too or just wondering what it felt like to work there, this episode and subsequent ones I'll put out as I advance in the internship program will really be useful. As always, please send feedback, comments opinions and suggestions.

From the events of my life in the past weeks, I've come to realize that the universe doesn't care about our emotions. In fact, it's almost as if it's deliberately working against us. Like it's testing your limits... Trying to get you to breaking point... Just for fun... Because there's no reason why In this episode of my podcast, I narrate everything that has been going on with me since Valentine's Day.

I'm 23 years old and I've never had a boyfriend, reason being that I simply didn't want to be in a relationship. But now, I think I ready to date. What changed? and why now? Listen to this episode to find out more.

The podcast has been on a break now for more than a month. And this was because in the month of December, I embarked on a challenge where I released podcast episodes daily.for 25 days. I wasn't on this journey alone, my 5 podcast sisters were also in it. 6 of us braving it through challenges and obstacles and persevering till the end. In this episode, We talk to Queen Raffy about our podmas experiences.

The 25th and final episode of podmas is just me chilling and chit-chatting with my people

In this episode, I'll be answering questions on and about Christmas.

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Tis the season to give back... Lol. Here are ways to give back this season.

Here are tips on how to have a great Christmas without breaking the bank or going bankrupt.

Since the beginning of podmas, I've been giving tips on how the Christmas can be better enjoyed. Today, I'm taking a break from that to tell you exactly hoe I'll be spending my Holidays

The Christmas season can be very overwhelming and one thing we must protect at all times is our mental health. Here's how...

Episode title is self explanatory 😉

Have you ever been a situation where you are given gifts that you do not need? Here's what to do with them.

It's my grandma's 10 years memorial today and this episode is a tribute to her.

Thinking of gifts to give your loved ones this season

Lots of people can't imagine Christmas without Snow, Santa and christmas trees... Well, that's our reality here. So how then do we celebrate Christmas? In the most epic way LOL. Listen to get the gist in details.

What sets the mood for Christmas better than Christmas movies? Here are 5 amazing ones

To help you get into the spirit of Christmas... This first Podmas episode is a list of my favourite Christmas Songs. Enjoy!

Why am I so hyped for birthdays? Find out in this episode.

My watch word for next year is intentionality. With that, I made plan and set goals for the new year/age.

It's been one hell of a year and it's only perfect to sit back and count my blessings at the year draws to an end.

Growth brings about change. With a new age, we discover different versions of ourselves that we didn't even know existed. This episode explores ways that I have changed since my last birthday.

In this episode, I mention people and things that have influenced me the most and how

One thing I did this year was listen to music!!!!!!!!! And now I'm sharing this list of favourite songs with you. Trust me, you'll love them.

Du du dudu duudu... Dudududu dudu duudu... Dudududu dudud duudu... Memories bring back memories bring back you!

This is the birthday gifts corner. If you're thinking of what to get me, please to this and pick the one you can afford 😉

Life teaches us lessons as we grow. In this episode, I share the lessons I've learnt in my 23 years of existence.

These are moments that I easily recall when I flashback. Moments that stood out for me. Moments when I lived in the moment.

To be Honest, 2021 went by so fast. I tried to recall the year in month. That is what was happening with me in life and on my podcast each month of the year.

It's officially Tobyversary season!!!! In this episode, I share 23 Things About Me At 23. You're probably wondering "what else is there to know about Toby?" Well, listen to find out.

After leaving podcasting announced for two months, Toby makes a comeback with this episode, explaining why she had to leave before.

This episode comes with stories and lessons that mandates people not to think for others but to think with them. When everyone that is going to be affected by the outcome is included decision-making processes, we reach better conclusions that benefits all.

In this episode, Dayo Moyo took over the podcast as host to interview Toby. Hopefully, he asks all the questions Toby has not asked herself yet.

In this episode, Dayo Moyo took over the podcast as host to interview Toby. Hopefully, he asks all the questions Toby has not asked herself yet.

New Podcast Episode Alert ⚠️ 🚨 Ifeanyi, one of my favourite people in the world, said he wanted to come on the podcast and talk about "anything good"... I think we did justice to that. We got to know him better— his thoughts, opinions, personality and a good cause he is willing to fight for. Follow Ifeanyi on Facebook @ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100029446651128 Please sign up to my newsletter https://tobyudeakpeh.substack.com

3 years after my BSc., I'm finally going for a Masters degree and this time I have to get it right... which involves asking myself the hard questions that will help me decide what to do and the opportunities to take advantage of after my studies.

After a phone conversation with a friend, I felt I should come and rant about the discussion.

In this episode, my guest talks about his mean parent, dating as a teenager and his journey to self discovery. Connect with Shedrack on Facebook 👇🏽 https://www.facebook.com/akpoke.shedrack Please sign up to my newsletter https://tobyudeakpeh.substack.com

My first week in Lagos was really excitng

In Nigeria, 1 in every 3 young people are unemployed and the search for jobs are outright draining and sometimes frustrating. Listen to Stella tell her own (un)employment story Listen to Stella's podcast @ http://bit.ly/MillennialProfessionals Please sign up to my newsletter https://tobyudeakpeh.substack.com

After saying so many not-so-nice things about Lagos, I've moved there myself... LOL. Listen to this episode to find out why

People speak of pretty privilege. But being pretty comes with its own troubles- a certain amount of craziness that no one ever bargains for. On this episode of My name is Toby Podcast, listen to Angela tell her story about how being beautiful may have caused her to not believe in love.

After two months break, I'm back with a few changes and stories for days.

Women cannot multitask more than men and Multitasking doesn't work.

Chineze is back on the show to talk about her favourite things and happy moments. We had a good laugh 😄

Fear keeps us from implementing a plan, achieving a dream and living to our full potential. But fear also helps in a way. For example, the fear of losing people you love will make you love them more, the fear we have for our parents enabled that we stayed disciplined. The question is where do you draw the balance between good fear and bad fear??

Where I see myself in the next five years? I don't know man... I can't see that far.

This episode is soooo special because someone other than Toby sits on the show to tell her own story. Chineze's story will fill you with every emotion.

I've experienced the power of music- uplifting music- and how it can change our mood, emotions and perception of ourselves and life in general. In this episode, I mention some of these musics that have helped me.

I feel like a fraud!

Still on death (I promise, this is the last episode on death... For now), In this episode, I talk about the loss of parents.

An Extra Special Episode: I have my first ever guest on this podcast, my sister, Uzo. And it's her birthday today!!!! May 10, World Uzo Day 🥳🥳🥳

If people can fall in love the first time they see someone, can love also happen the first time hearing a person's voice?

Still on the topic of death, here I talk about how the death of loved ones affect me.

When you say "I miss you", what does it mean?

Death is such a taboo topic to talk about. But the truth is that it's inevitable and we might as well that talk about it. In this episode I talk about my own death.

Are you busy and stressed with work all day or do you carve out time to relax and have fun?

Life is so many things, and there are so many things to life. But one thing is certain... Nobody has life all figured out. We are all Winging Life!

This episode is me sending all my love to Sia ❤

I went from not being on Twitter to signing up but abandoning the app to eventually loving and obsessing over it. Songs: Gobe by Davido; Beer Parlour Discussion by Flavour.

Can you cook? How did you learn? What is the best way to learn how to cook?

So, I got into UNICAF's MBA program lasr year and told about my experience so far in this episode. Songs: Putu Putu by Dontom; Maserati by Olakira

What does it mean to be self-obsessed? Definitely not total self-love.

After being rejected for a job and rejecting a job myself, I finally got a Job.... No, make that two. Songs: Ogadimma by KCEE; Away by Oxlade

A discussion about whether or not to script podcast content and this is what I have to say... Listen

My dad got me a job, but I rejected it. Listen to this episode as I discuss the circumstances surrounding this Job and why I didn't take it. Songs: Ara by Brymo; Feel Good by DJ Cuppy ft Fireboy

An little observation from a listener made me realize how dynamic we all are as individuals and as humans.

A funny story about how I applied for a job and got rejected. Very typical yeah? The strange thing is that I felt happy being rejected... Listen to the episode and find out why. Songs: Gaga Crazy by Chuddy K; Sere by DJ Spinall ft Fireboy.

I can't cancel any food until I've tried it. That was the case of the food I tried in today's story. My mom said it's inedible but my coconut head still went ahead to eat it. Listen to find out what happened later.

I'm 3 months into podcasting... Yayyy!!! Listen to me talk about what the experience has been for me. S/O to Naija Pod Hub, Pod Magic Creators, The Esoteric Entrepreneur and other amazing podcasts. Songs: Ihe neme by 2face and Okay by Adekunle Gold

During her break, Toby recorded mini-pods to keep busy. These prerecorded audios will be uploaded every Friday.

A new season, few changes but same vibe. Enjoy! Music: Overkilling by Djinee; Flex by Kizz Daniel.

As we wrap up the season and all the stories about my love life. This episode is all vibes with Toby playing her favourite love songs, singing along and telling stories in between. Hope you discover new favourite love songs too. NOTE: I DO NOT OWN RIGHTS TO ANY OF THE SONGS.

Still on love and romance, Toby talks about more boys she has loved and still love. Songs: Angel of my Life by Paul Play and Perfect × Can't Help Falling In Love With You.. Medley by Joey Stamper

What qualities would you consider before choosing a life partner? Toby does an amazing job of introspection and lists her own qualities needed to be intimate with a person. Songs: African Queen by 2face and Lucky by Jason Mraz ft Colbie Caillat.