Solid Blue Sister - My Turn to Talk

Should a spouse adopt or raise children born from significant others infidelity?

When to set boundaries.

Do you have the strength to fight back?

Does integrity mean anything anymore?

When is compromise too much.

Are they considering the consequences and the child’s future?

When people try to make up for past mistakes or transgressions or actions.

People are greedy. This is a fact. However, can greed harm us to the point of destruction? Or, can greed be a positive thing?

What do you do? And, does it matter who it is?

Is it better to be an outcast instead of being part of the ‘in’ crowd? (This was a great panel conversation.)

People who sit next to you when there are plenty of empty seats. (Let’s talk about personal space.)

Are we full of ourselves if we want to be successful? Is it too much to want the moon and the stars? Is it too much to want to achieve certain goals?

Should you only do the minimum required at a job if you’re not getting paid enough?

Who do you trust most?

Do you have time for yourself?

Prove I’m Not.

Does it catch up to us when we least expect it?

Is not always fun.

How do you know an adult is a bully? Be it a neighbor, boss, teacher, parent, spouse or even a friend. What are the signs?

Are you one of those people?

Why do some people NOT know how to be a friend?

And what should we do with them?

If their parents purposely put them in the public eye?

Ever wish you had do-overs?

Ever wish you had do-overs?

Do you know when your kid isn’t cute or are you blinded by being their parent?  How should you respond when they push their kid on you fishing for a compliment when this kid is neither cute nor well behaved?

Do some people court trouble and blame it on others? ie: Is the writing on the wall but we refuse to see it? Do we blame others when things don’t go right in our lives?

Is there ALWAYS a favorite?

Why are single mothers judged so harshly by society? Why not judge fathers the same?

Every life has a story; When should we mind our own business?

Should surrogates be legal? Do surrogates have the right to change their mind? Should laws require children be told who their biological parents are in case of an emergency?

What is a customers responsibility?

Is there a difference with children growing up? Does discipline drive respect.

Did the media purposely make Hip Hop something negative or did the artist have a hand in the narrative?

Do you ever wish people the drama queens or kings would just go away?  Why are some people insistent on creating drama and yes, chaos?

When do you call someone a hypocrite? Are you a hypocrite in hiding? Is hypocrisy throwing stones in a glass house?

The justice system is not fair and at times downright corrupt. Why should I be REQUIRED to serve?

Can it creep up on you or was it already there?

Is gullible and sucker the same thing?

Is it really necessary to cuss to make a point? Does cussing make a joke funnier? Are you considered a wuss if you don’t cuss?

If people get upset over someone else’s views, they should stay out of conversations.

Sigh...

Do we have a right to look down on someone’s employment choice just because we wouldn’t do it?

Do you enjoy other people?

What is loyalty? Is loyalty trust? How important is it in a relationship?

Is it puppy love? How much are the girls at ‘fault’?

Learn to talk to people. Rudeness is at an all time high.

..And don’t get pissed if your car is towed.

When you say things about others, be prepared for push back. Especially if it isn’t true.

Let’s have the stupid show.

Should they be criminalized for bad advice?

Should defendants have ‘victim’ statements?

Why don’t eating establishments pay minimum wage?

What is one thing in life that is consistent…for everyone.

Is it the word that’s hateful or are the people, places, things and/or ACTIONS hateful?

Is there really good in everyone?

How do we stop this from happening?

Could this be a deterrent for crime?

Can men benefit on a maturity level dating an older woman?

Do killers deserve empathy?

Should children introduce people they’re in a relationship with to their parents? Should men ask girls father or parents for their hand in marriage? Should men open doors for women?

Should you bring your child to work or an interview?

Or is retribution a better way of saying it?

What do you do when ‘life’ happens?

The year 2023.

Should it be extinct?

Is there a difference? (Technically yes, but…)

Can and will law enforcement protect women even if women do not press charges? Why do abusive police officers get a pass?

Is catfishing about low self esteem or are some people just trying to take advantage of others?

Who’s responsible for protection?

Are parents doing a disservice by not correcting the behavior but encouraging it by posting to social media?

What happens when a child becomes pregnant? Is sex education the responsibility of the school, parents or both? At what point is responsibility placed on the boy?

Is self defense ‘subjective’?

Is it okay to steal if it’s for a good cause?

When public opinion should be silenced. (Let’s talk about the Terri Schiavo case.)

If you continue to associate with foolishness, will you end up looking like a fool?

Just a tiny bit??

Is it really all in fun or the person or people saying it matter?

Does good really triumph over evil? If so, why is there so much evil in the world?

When it’s wise to pay your own way.

Which would you choose?

Should non violent drug offenders be released and violent criminal remain? Will this help the horrible prison system? Discussion turned to DUI offenders.

Do you have someone to call if… (WE totally went off topic.)

Why do some parents NOT support their children? How much does parental support affect ADULT children?

Why are some people so gullible they’ll jump on the first train headed out of the station? Better yet, listen to people who make them look completely foolish. Are they gullible or should the ’s’ word be used?

Are tenant laws too lenient?

Why do people feel you should/must explain everything?

Yes, we all get criticized.

When is it time to face…reality?

If you don’t agree, move on.

What do you do when someone drops the ball on financial situations that involve YOU?

Let’s get into the weeds.

How did you choose?

When tragedy happens, everyone grieves in a different way? Can a family members grieving process make it difficult for others to heal?

When are polite questions necessary and when are they a waste of time?

”If I only...”

Don’t let it become your reality.

Is it fair or delicious payback? And…has social media made our children less smart?

Do you lie to make yourself more interesting?