Sugar Pussy

What is somatic coaching? What does it involve? Rachel Overvoll uses a holistic, somatic approach to sexual healing and explains the benefits of involving your body rather than strictly your mind. In this episode Ellie and Rachel talk about religious trauma and how difficult and long the process can be, but also how important and worth it the process is. Learn about what Rachel does, offers, and how to connect with her below:

Connect with Rachel on IG: @rachelovervoll

Visit her website to find her book, view her courses, and work with her one-on-one: rachelovervoll.com

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Everyone knows what a happy ending massage is, why did I (Ellie) ALWAYS automatically picture and assume it is for cocks and penis owners? Massage is an awesome way to get things to turn sexual, sure, but how about treating yourself, as a vulva owner, to a full massage and orgasm with no other expectations? YUMMY. Listen to this episode to find out what the top seven (7) sexual fantasies are, something we can know thanks to Justin Lehmiller, the author of Tell Me What You Want who spent two years studying fantasies. You're not only healthy for having sexual fantasies, but normal! It is actually abnormal to NOT fantasize about all sorts of dirty, dirty things. Enjoy, blossoms!

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Holy bonkers, how did we get to episode FIFTY? Ellie and Andrew have an enlightening conversation all about first times and crazy experiences becoming sexual beings from religious and conservative upbringings. Sneaky woods sex, accidental anal, buying condoms, YouTube channels, and more!

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Ellie is back from...the dead? Not quite, but almost. This episode is spent discussing the beautiful act of aftercare with Andrew! What is aftercare? How do you do aftercare? Who SHOULD be doing it? All these things and more are talked about and discussed in episode 49 of Sugar Pussy.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

How do you finger? How do you eat a girl out? Should you use the alphabet method? So many questions. A woman's pleasure is a mystery, right? No! Ellie and Andrew both tell you tips and what you need to know about giving a woman pleasure in this episode of Sugar Pussy. Step by step, important considerations, why it is important to take seriously, and techniques to use on a clitoris or vagina to give the ultimate pleasure. 

*NOTE* in this episode both Ellie and Andrew use binary terms when discussing pleasure but we want to note that this is often incorrect. Vulva owners are not always she/her and penis owners are not always he/him. Please forgive these assumptions made as recording these it can often become easy to slip into habit. Sugar Pussy is inclusive to all and we hope that regardless of this, you are able to enjoy and learn from our content.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Vulva, clitoris, vagina: basically a wonderland of pleasure and treasure right? But what about for non vulva owners and people who haven't explored a woman's body before? Or, maybe you have but you just kinda yolo'd it? How to touch a woman can be intimidating! This episode covers all of the foundations. What are you looking at? Labia? Clit? Vagina? Isn't the whole thing a vagina? Who knows. It actually isn't rocket science! This episode answers questions about what everything is, the four different kinds of hymen (actually super important!) and more! Next week is all about pleasure. How to touch a vulva. How to lick a vulva. How to put your finger in. All the good stuff!

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Ghosted. Getting yelled at. Chlamydia. Cocaine. Blood...so much blood. And more. The stories Ellie hasn't told yet are here and I hope you're ready because you can't sugar date for 7 years and not get a little messy. Should she be shouting these into the abyss that is the internet? Probably not. But here they are for all your listening joy. 

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Pizza Delivery for Ellie? What could possibly go wrong? Listen to the 45th episode of Sugar Pussy to find out and learn all about the history of pornography. Ellie talks a lot in this episode. She goes all the way back to 28,000 years ago and looks at the timeline of porn all the way up to what the porn industry is like today. 

Read Sarah Chadwick's book The Sweetness of Venus: https://www.amazon.com/Sweetness-Venus-History-Clitoris/dp/1736298836

Listen to The Pros and Cons of Porn (Do We Know Things): https://www.doweknowthings.com/episodes/21-pros-and-cons-of-porn

Listen to The Butterfly Effect (Jon Ronson): https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Butterfly-Effect-Podcast/B08DDD6299

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Sources for this episode:

“The History of Pornography: From The Paleolithic to Pornhub”

https://medium.com/unusual-universe/the-history-of-pornography-from-the-paleolithic-to-pornhub-4123dbeef37e

“The Evolution of Pornography”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/202007/the-evolution-pornography

“A brief and incredible history of porn”

https://www.dailydot.com/irl/history-of-porn/

“How Has Pornography Changed In The Last 10 Years?”

https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-has-porn-changed-in-the-last-10-years/

“The history of OnlyFans: how the controversial platform found success and changed online sex work”

https://www.insider.com/what-is-onlyfans-banning-content-work-porn-ban-history-sex-2021-9

“Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find It”

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn

“THE UNETHICAL HISTORY OF 70’S PORN”

https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/the-unethical-history-of-70s-porn

“Ethical porn — does it exist and who makes it?”

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-12-21/ethical-porn-does-it-exist-and-where-do-you-find-it/8091266

“The definition of pornography”

https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/porn/etc/definition.html

“Making Sense of Modern Pornography”

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2016/09/26/making-sense-of-modern-pornography

And of course…

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_magazine

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_film

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography#History

Ellie and Paloma talk about the transition or influence that a lack of sex education and sexual openness growing up can have in creating sexuality professionals, discovering personal pleasure, what blocks many women from orgasming, and how Paloma balances working as a sex coach/sexologist and being herself and pursuing passions as a model.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Another look into the past to arm yourself against haters, understand the sex industry better, learn cool facts, and more! This week the history is all about seductive ways people have moved their bodies in dance throughout history. Ellie also tells about catching up with a Sugar Daddy she never thought she would see again and tells a story about going to Girls Night Out a few years ago.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Sources for this episode:

"The History of Stripping"

https://www.medicalbag.com/home/features/grey-matter/the-history-of-stripping/

"A Brief History Of The Cancan, France's Famously Raunchy Dance"

https://theculturetrip.com/europe/france/articles/a-brief-history-of-the-cancan-frances-famously-raunchy-dance/

"Origin of Stripping"

https://vocal.media/filthy/origin-of-stripping

"Stripped: A Look Inside the Life & History of Exotic Dancing"

https://www.metapsychosis.com/stripped-a-look-inside-the-life-history-of-exotic-dancing/

"Male vs. Female Strippers: What Is The Difference?"

https://www.exoticchicagostrippers.com/male-vs-female-strippers-whats-difference/

Ellie describes exactly what she means by "pleasure body map" and why it is helpful to us humans. She also digresses with the worlds longest penis, erotic museums, and sugar daddy sponsored travel...but back to the important stuff: listen to her map her OWN body for the first time in this episode as an example for how you can do it. Follow along or listen and take notes so you can light up some candles and try it out for yourself.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business.

Ellie goes back in time, all the way back to 3000BC to be specific and goes through the timeline of Prostitution and all its ups and downs. From cutting women's noses off to sex boxes, things get interesting! Also, Ellie did what on their road trip? Find out all this in the first episode of season three!

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Sources for the episode:

The History Of Prostitution in the World

https://www.amsterdamredlightdistricttour.com/history-of-amsterdam/history-of-prostitution/ 

Historical Timeline; History of Prostitution from 2400 BC to the Present

https://prostitution.procon.org/historical-timeline/

Beyond The Bedroom: The Surprising History Of Prostitution Around The World

https://allthatsinteresting.com/history-of-prostitution 

America's Forgotten Mass Imprisonment of Women Believed to Be Sexually Immoral

https://www.history.com/news/chamberlain-kahn-act-std-venereal-disease-imprisonment-women 

The Brutal History of Japan’s ‘Comfort Women'

https://www.history.com/news/comfort-women-japan-military-brothels-korea 

Wow, what a season! It is so exciting to reach another milestone and celebrate with all things anal sex *gasp*. Tim comes through and not only gives amazing tips for pleasuring our butts but also shares a story that will make you a little less worried about any mishaps you could have exploring anal play...

Season 3 is only a few weeks away and full of amazing content Ellie has planned, in the meantime, connect on IG: @its.ellie.rae and on Twitter: @its_ellierae and of course follow the show: @sugarpuspod!

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Ohhhhh HONEY. Ellie has a new bff and he is fabulous, for real. He was SO generous with his time not only did he talk for 60 minutes about coming out (his story, advice, and resources), entering the gay dating scene, sex and sexual expectations, AND his experience as an escort and sugar baby but he also gave Ellie a lesson in Anal...but that is for next week ;). This week: get to know him, fall in love with him, and probably shower him with money hoping he lets you be his new sugar daddy because his personality is as tight as his ass. OH YEAH. I WENT THERE. Please don't hate me, Tim, I couldn't help it.

Also, happy bisexual visibility day, lovelies! 

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Ropes turn me on; tie me up Daddy! Shibari, Western Rope Bondage, Cuckolding, and Ellie's sugaring life all make an appearance in this weeks episode of Sugar Pussy. What is Shibari and where did it come from? Can I be tied up and not have to have sex? Is bondage good for you? What are the benefits of bondage and rope play? What is a rope bunny? SO MANY QUESTIONS. Think of this episode as a little, BDSM bondage/shibari 101.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Older and wiser advice for the podcast? Ellie gets stories and advice and a great conversation from Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent. Why did they expand and create women's pleasure gels and products? Is male delay spray for men or women's pleasure? Has he ever been a Sugar Daddy (yep, she asks!) and his answer might surprise you! What does he think about the taboo around Sugar Dating? All this AND MORE in this episode of Sugar Pussy!

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

As promised, the obvious part 2 after episode 33! This one doesn't just explain how to work a cock, however, it also talks about how to survive having a gag reflex, something even Ellie deals with (so of course, it's personal). What is facefucking and how do you survive it? There are two ways to take and swallow cum-- what?! Tips and techniques for a blowjob are cumming for you in this episode so maybe be sure to wear headphones this week. 

P.S. Don't worry ladies and gentlemen, we will be discussing how to eat pussy VERY soon. Cock's don't get all the attention on this podcast ;)

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Only Fans is doing WHAT?! Wow, what dumbasses. Ellie theorizes where all the Only Fans creators are going to go with the announcement that no porn is allowed and sex workers and content creators are undercut so unfairly AGAIN. Also, what are some personality traits needed as a sugar baby? What are some tips to go into a Sugar Date with confidence for the first time? It can be super scary if you don't have the right mentality and thankfully Ellie has years of figuring out what that is.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Ellie and Andrew discuss sadism and masochism; what they are, how they are practiced, how to enjoy these desires safely, what to look out for in a BDSM partner, and tips to a fun and safe scene. Why do people like watching their partner experience pain? Is it wrong to be a sadist? Is it wrong to be a masochist? These subjects can be difficult to address when google only has articles about how it can be a mental health disorder. We promise you, we approach this very realistically. 

*TRIGGER WARNING* While this episode isn't super explicit, some practices that are violent are mentioned as examples of how far some people can take things and in talk of boundary setting. 

*DISCLAIMER* Neither of us are experts, just normal people living and learning and doing our best, ready and willing to share what we know and our experiences. If you have an issue with anything in this episode, please reach out to Ellie on IG at @elliesugarrae.

Okay, Blossoms, this is probably the most explicit episode yet cause how else do you explain how to give a handjob? Can you count how many times Ellie says "cock" in this one or do you get lost too? But this had to happen because Ellie wishes she had this guide a few years ago so why not create one? ALSO! You might have noticed that she got a sugar daddy trip to San Diego recently? Want all the details? It's all here on this episode of Sugar Pussy.

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Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to your door. And of course all the toys you could want to add to your play bag under your bed. Oh, you don't have a bag devoted to sex toys and pleasure under your bed? Now is the time to start one! Use the code SUGAR at checkout to support the podcast and a new small sex toy business. 

Oh YES YES YES! Dina, the founder of The Bigger O comes on to talk about her favorite sex toys, how to properly care for and store your sex toys (all sorts of advice!), and answers the question: do kegel balls actually work? Oh and...Ellie talks more butt stuff.

Go check out the shop! thebiggero.com and use the code SUGAR at check out!
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She is alive and back with episode 31! How do you start conversations? Take those first steps? Deciding to be a Sugar Baby is hard and the first time around is intimidating as hell. Ellie reads off a real conversation and gives insight into how to manage those early conversations as well as what NOT to put up with. 

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Ellie gets all the details about Angie's amazing Ear making business, Bubblegum Ears! These referenced, legendary ears have quickly become a staple in Ellie's life and in this episode hear about the business as well as how to add BDSM into a relationship, is 50 Shades of Grey a healthy representation of BDSM, and more Pet Play talk. 

Follow Bubblegum Ears on IG: @bubblegumears
Buy your own set <3: https://www.flowcode.com/page/bubblegumears

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How do you tell someone you like that you're a sex worker? When is it appropriate to tell them? What if they reject you afterward? Brianna tackles these concerns and discusses with Ellie how to approach and have these conversations with a new flame, or anyone, really. Finally, Brianna and Ellie talk about bad hookups and the female orgasm to really round this chat out. 

Brianna's podcast: Sexy Soulful Confidence
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Wait...what did Ellie do last weekend?! Ellie talks butt stuff, sugar dating, healthy relationships, monogamy, and safe submission this week with Brianna Endrina, a Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach. Here this part one of the interview and tune in next week for part two, where Ellie and Brianna talk about how to talk about a history of sex work with new partners, one-night stands, and more...

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Ellie committed a Sugar Dating Felony...but who knows what could happen still. Lex, who runs the IG page @sexisnotadirtyword is on to talk about sex education, working in a sex shop, sex work, and her poly relationship. Because every poly situation is different, hear how hers works, why it works, some of the challenges, and the benefits a good poly relationship can bring. 

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Ellie has some life updates for you! Where is she at, does she have a sugar daddy right now, and what is to come on the podcast? Then she deep-dives into pet play. What is it? How do people engage in it? What is Ellie's personal experience with it? Why do people like it? Pet play comes with a headspace at times; how is it different from sub space or little space? Find out everything Ellie has to say on the topic in episode 25 of Sugar Pussy!

Check out those custom ears Andrew got Ellie: @bubblegumears

Episode 11 with Andrew when he talks about headspace vulnerability: https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/1384945/6903125-ep-11-kink-fantasy-how-to-be-a-good-dom-and-healthy-bdsm-dynamics-with-guest-andrew.mp3?download=true

Episode Ellie talks about the psych surrounding humiliation kink: https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/1384945/6238093-ep-06-sugar-relationship-dynamics-and-consent.mp3?download=true

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Ellie goes through all her tips for masturbating since it should be celebrated in excess this month. With vibes, without vibes, with partner(s), or without. Oh my May, what a month for some serious self-love! 

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Ellie talks about different approaches to Sugar Dating: staying unattached or treating it like a traditional relationship. Emotional attachments can happen and are something to be prepared for no matter your approach to Sugar Dating. Through the years as a Sugar Baby Ellie has heard stories and talked to people who have fallen for a sugar daddy or sugar baby, no one is immune! Learn how to prepare! Also in this episode, Andrew joins to talk about choking-- why would you want to, what happens to the human body during, how to stay safe, and why it is enjoyable! 

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Ellie chats with the beautiful and amazing Sarah Chadwick, author of The Sweetness of Venus about everything from how understanding history gives people the power to change today's narrative, how sex work and feminism might merge, the influence of porn upon our sex lives, and more. This episode dives deep into the issues Sugar Pussy has engaged with since day one in a critical and thoughtful way and showcases how powerful the knowledge her book can make us for challenging taboos and changing the narrative around sex work and female sexuality. 

Get Sarah's book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3v9H19e
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Ellie has Lorraine BACK (Ep 4!) and this time we hear from her post-surgery. How has sex and her sexuality changed through her journey, is she happy with her decision, what is self-love, did the gastric sleeve surgery impact sex drive and so much more. Ellie talks about sex with her NEW vibrator and Andrew and updates Sugar Blossoms about what is to come! 

Want that vibrator? Copy and Paste this link: https://amzn.to/2OQAoci

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Ellie finally dives into the important topic of money as a sugar baby. From knowing how much is the right allowance to ask for to the worry about what to do with so much cash, Ellie covers questions any new sugar baby might have.

Do you keep a physical list of all the people you sleep with? Ellie has never cared to keep track, and now, she is past the point of no return and finds it impossible to remember everyone no matter how hard she tries. But it's okay because no number would be the "right" number, anyway. See how she feels about this, get an update on her Only Fans and Sugar Dating status, and find out what is in store for season 2 of Sugar Pussy.
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Long title, a short episode...but, so many fun topics. Ellie gets kinky this week-- who knew a hookup could serve so many purposes? Pleasure, satisfying a daddy dom, and content for an Only Fans. Ellie and Andrew have started using that Obedience app she mentioned last week, she found a new hard limit, and she cleaned the (not) cum stain in her van, but did it help? Last but definitely not least, Ellie tells about the cruise a Sugar Daddy took her on in college and has both encouragement and warnings about traveling with SD's.

Ellie gets personal in this episode updating on her ddlg relationship with Andrew, how finding a new Sugar Daddy has gone these past two weeks, not-so-fun stories about sex, how to address safe-sex with Sugar Daddies, and finally if it is possible to have a platonic sugar arrangement.

Ellie is joined by Jennee, a former cam girl, and current sugar baby. They chat about learning how to orgasm, becoming a sugar baby, getting into camming, the reality of sending nudes, and how uncomfy pants are. For real tho! Listen and hear about all this and more!

Ellie, the collard submissive, attempts to be a switch. How does it go? Well, the timing could have been better. Also, get her experiences with Sugar Daddies and the knowledge they have to offer. 

It's sex talk week!!! Ellie finally reveals her "adventure weekend" with her mom to learn how god teaches us to view and have sex. Ten years later, Ellie still has a passionate response to this stuff...so buckle up for a rant of an episode. But seriously, you don't want to miss out because the CRINGE is real. Just...have a listen to find out. 

She is a mom, an Only Fans badass, and a stripper. Hear about what her life is like and how she got here. 

Follow Aubrey on Instagram: @temptressaubrey4.0 

So Ellie tried to do what with Andrew's dick? Oh, and she gives you the rundown as far as getting your first sugar daddy plus she answers the all-time most elusive question: is female-ejaculate pee? Listen to find out and become comfier with yourself at Ellie's expense.

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Should I tell my friends I'm a sugar baby? Should I tell my family I'm a sugar baby? Ellie talks about these questions as they might have come up over the holiday season. Also, get tips on how to be a supportive person in the life of someone else who sugar dates and learn how positive the lifestyle can be.

Threesomes get awkward, Ellie's boyfriend did porn (WAIT, WHAT? YEAH, MY REACTION TOO),  how porn can impact men's self-image, how to be a good dom, and what healthy BDSM dynamics require. Also, get some great tips like how to master seduction and have better sex. Part two with Ellie's boyfriend goes deep and brings great topics to the table!

Ellie has her boyfriend, Andrew, on to discuss their non-monogamous relationship and sugar dating; how it is within their relationship, and his (surprising) past experience with it. Find out what the future of Sugar Pussy has to offer and what next week's episode will be all about!

Happy Thanksgiving Sugar Blossoms! This episode skips an intro getting straight to a conversation Ellie had with her friend's fascinating boyfriend, JT. She asks him about going from growing up in a conservative small town to dating a sugar baby and getting involved with a secret BDSM society. He tells what these mysterious gatherings are really like and what they can offer.

Find out what truly life-changing thing was introduced to Ellie recently. This episode is all about considering the less obvious elements of sugar dating and why people like it beyond expensive trips and money for fancy clothes. Are sugar relationships real relationships or is that just a way to pretend it isn't sex work? Hear Ellie's perspective and decide for yourself.

Wait, you can use "psychology" and "Tinder" in the same sentence? Yep, Ellie talks about Tinder and online dating in this episode as well as quenching that curiosity about what Seeking Arrangements looks like for users. How to sign up for Seeking Arrangements, create your profile, what to expect from sugar daddies, and how to manage your messages. Ellie also just might get a little religious from a traumatic experience in the shower...check it out now!

Ellie finally tells about her sexcapades with Bunny, some of the psychology behind why we like being called nasty things in bed (erotic humiliation), what the sexual side of sugar relationships is like, and consent in an arrangement. 

Ellie talks about sexual assault both inside of sugar dating and sexual trauma from past relationships. She discusses ways to avoid bad experiences and how she has coped with what has happened to her. This episode talks about details of sexual assault and could be triggering for some people, please listen with care.

National Sexual Assault Hotline: (800) 656-4673

National Sexual Assault Chat: https://hotline.rainn.org/online?_ga=2.191332911.406021833.1604011335-547954394.1604011335 

About Sexual Violence: https://www.rainn.org/about-sexual-assault 

After Sexual Violence: https://www.rainn.org/after-sexual-assault

Masturbation. Body image. Most insane sex location. Wierd orgasms. Ellie has her friend, Lorraine on the show to talk about how sex plays a role in how we view ourselves and where those opinions come from.

Ellie discusses the different types of scams you'll run into as a sugar baby and what to look out for. She also talks about basic safety to follow as you start sugar dating and what to avoid for the best experience. Oh, and she might reveal how an exchange with a random guy from craigslist went...

Ellie tells about her first sexual experiences that didn't go so well...then she talks about her favorite sugar daddy, how that arrangement started and worked, and one of the trips her took her on. 

Ellie introduces herself and her experience with sugar with some initial tips. She also answers what your first steps should be if you get interested in BDSM