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Better Sex

Jessa Zimmerman

Better Sex is focused on helping all couples create and enjoy their best possible sex life. Better Sex is hosted by Jessa Zimmerman who is a couples’ counselor and nationally certified sex therapist. Each episode will dive into one topic related to sex. Some will be devoted to addressing sexual concerns like sexual dysfunction, differences in sexual desire, and intimacy problems. Some will help you develop realistic and helpful expectations. And some will offer information and approaches that can just make your sex life better.The information and discussion on the podcast should not be taken as medical advice or as therapy. Please seek out qualified professionals for medical and therapeutic advice.

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  • 630 - 250: Fascia for Better Sex with Anna Rahe

    In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman engages in a detailed discussion with Anna Rahe about fascia, a system of connective tissues in the body. They explore how fascia impacts sexual health, pain, pleasure, flexibility, and overall bodily function. Rae shares insights from her personal journey of overcoming severe health issues through understanding and working with her fascia. Listeners learn about the relationship between fascia and various body systems, the importance of movement and hydration for fascia health, and practical strategies to improve fascia function. The episode also includes a demonstration of exercises beneficial for pelvic floor health and enhancing sexual pleasure.


    00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast

    00:47 Understanding Fascia with Anna Rahe

    01:38 Anna Rahe's Personal Journey with Fascia

    04:55 What is Fascia?

    07:51 The Importance of Fascia in Overall Health

    09:49 Maintaining Healthy Fascia

    16:02 Fascia and Movement Practices

    20:47 Fascia's Role in Sexual Health

    23:28 The Pelvic Floor and Diaphragm Connection

    24:45 Understanding Pain and Fascia

    25:42 The Insula and Fascia's Role in Sensory Processing

    27:24 Fascia's Impact on Sexual Health

    34:50 Practical Exercises for Fascia Health

    39:07 Integrating Fascia Health into Daily Life

    41:14 Resources and Closing Remarks


    Interested in resources on desire discrepancy? https://www.desirediscrepancy.com


    Bio:

    For the past 25+ years, Anna Rahe has delved deep into a liberating and empowering relationship with fascia so that as many people as possible can invest in their health, restore their vitality, and heal themselves with the proprietary tools she has created. As the founder, CEO and educator of GST Body, Anna has spoken about holistic body care through fascia around the world, partnered with top athletes, surgeons, physicians and celebrities, and been featured in various publications, from Shape to Elle, Net-a-Porter to The Wall Street Journal.


    Link for exercise demo video


    https://gstvitalifestudio.com/checkout/new?o=194964

    More info and resources:


    Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

    Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast


    Special Collections of the podcast:


    Increasing Desire Episodes

    Eroticism and Excitement Episodes

    My Favorite Authors



    How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

    The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

    Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

    Mon, 18 Nov 2024 - 43min
  • 629 - 249: Healing from Sex-Negative Religion with Beverly Dale

    In this episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman talks with Reverend Beverly Dale, who discusses her journey in helping people heal from sex-negative teachings in religion. They explore how sexuality and spirituality intersect, the sexual wounds caused by rigid religious structures, and the path towards embracing one's authentic sexual self.


    00:00 Introduction

    00:45 Guest Introduction and Topic Overview

    02:24 Reverend Beverly Dale's Background

    02:49 The Church's Role in Sexual Shame

    03:17 Understanding Sexual Wounding

    03:24 Intersection of Faith and Healing

    03:43 Analyzing Structural Issues

    10:25 Sexual Wounds in Society

    11:47 Strategies for Healing

    23:02 Reverend Dale's Book and Resources

    29:45 Finding Support and Community

    30:26 Conclusion and Contact Information


    Would you like to share your personal story of sexual healing or empowerment on the show? Email me at info@intimacywithease.com


    Rev. Dr. Beverly Dale has made a career of teaching a pleasure-centered, justice-focused and sex-positive Christianity as an ecumenical campus minister at the University of Pennsylvania and by writing, producing, and performing in a one-woman show titled, An Irreverent Journey from Eggbeaters to Vibrators. In 2013 she founded the Incarnation Institute for Sex & Faith that provides training for clergy and sexual health professionals on how to help people rethink harmful religious teaching that creates intimacy issues for couples and problems for individuals self-esteem. Believing in an inclusive, science-friendly, and sex-positive Christianity she developed the curriculum for this cutting edge and unique educational opportunity as well as co-wrote the text in her first book, Advancing Sexual Health for the Christian Client, Data and Dogma (2019). In addition, she has taught seminarians sexuality and faith classes at Lancaster Theological Seminary and is now touring for her second book, “Who Told You That You Were Naked? Meditations on the Sexual Body.” She has a passion for those in the pews and those who have left them because of the rigid or judgmental views about the body that, from her view, is too-often proclaimed in the church and is totally contrary to the Christian faith.


    www.beverlydale.org

    More info and resources:


    Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

    Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast


    Special Collections of the podcast:


    Increasing Desire Episodes

    Eroticism and Excitement Episodes

    My Favorite Authors



    How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

    The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

    Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

    Mon, 11 Nov 2024 - 34min
  • 628 - 248: Using ART to heal sexual trauma with Brooke Bralove

    More info and resources:


    Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

    Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast


    Special Collections of the podcast:


    Increasing Desire Episodes

    Eroticism and Excitement Episodes

    My Favorite Authors



    How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

    The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

    Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

    Mon, 04 Nov 2024 - 28min
  • 627 - 247: How Stress Blocks Desire with Danielle Savory

    In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman engages with mindfulness and pleasure coach Danielle Savory to explore the intertwined roles of mindfulness, self-compassion, and stress management in enhancing sexual desire and intimacy. The discussion delves into the physiological and psychological impacts of stress on sexual connection, emphasizing the different ways men and women handle stress and the resulting challenges. Practical techniques to improve mindfulness and awareness during sexual interactions are provided, alongside strategies for managing stress individually and within relationships. The episode also outlines personal experiences and transformations, underscoring the importance of self-regulation, creating personal safety, and fostering deeper connections using self-compassionate practices.


    00:00 Welcome to Better Sex

    00:50 Introducing Danielle Savory: Mindfulness and Pleasure Coach

    01:36 Danielle's Journey to Mindfulness and Pleasure

    06:07 The Connection Between Mindfulness and Sexual Pleasure

    09:03 Understanding Stress and Its Impact on Pleasure

    14:35 Gender Differences in Handling Stress and Sexual Pleasure

    17:25 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

    17:45 Creating Personal Safety

    18:34 Bridging the Gap with Partners

    19:53 Managing Stress and Self-Regulation

    21:08 Practical Stress-Relief Techniques

    25:00 Mindfulness and Self-Compassion

    30:05 Resources and Final Thoughts


    Take the quiz athttps://www.sexlifequiz.com


    Bio


    Danielle Savory is a master-certified coach, public speaker, and passionate advocate for women’s pleasure, bringing science-backed data into the life-altering power of pleasure. With a deep, personal understanding of the challenges women face, Danielle is devoted to helping them reclaim their sexuality and reconnect with their bodies. She has successfully guided hundreds of women to overcome body shame, break free from societal expectations, and embrace the passionate lives they deserve. Danielle believes that pleasure isn’t a luxury—it’s essential to a woman’s overall health and happiness.


    Rooted in neurology, Danielle’s approach emphasizes that every woman is inherently wired for pleasure, and tapping into that pleasure is crucial for optimal well-being—enhancing immunity, focus, creativity, and vitality. Having overcome her own struggles with body image, mixed messages about sex and past traumas, she now shares her wisdom and experience with others, helping them step into their power and fully embrace their pleasure. Whether through her coaching, speaking engagements, podcast, or courses, Danielle is on a mission to help women live lives they are truly in love with—where they are deeply satisfied, fully alive, and boldly standing up for what they believe.

    More info and resources:


    Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

    Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast


    Special Collections of the podcast:


    Increasing Desire Episodes

    Eroticism and Excitement Episodes

    My Favorite Authors



    How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

    The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

    Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

    Mon, 28 Oct 2024 - 32min
  • 626 - 246: Elevating Sexual Pleasure with Aaron Michael

    In this enlightening episode of Better Sex, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman converses with sex and relationship coach Aaron Michael. The discussion unpacks Aaron's journey into sexual health, beginning with his experiences in massage therapy and addressing his personal challenges. Key topics include 'suction sex,' 'embodied consent,' and 'embodied love,' offering a fresh approach to sexual pleasure, intimacy, and mutual satisfaction. Practical insights about overcoming numbness, understanding psychological and physical barriers, and the role of self-pleasuring in building confidence are explored. Additionally, the episode highlights the disparity within the sexual wellness industry, advocating for better education and higher standards for practitioners. Aaron also introduces 'Embodied Love University,' a platform designed to elevate sexual education and integrate wellness practices into broader medical and educational frameworks.


    00:00 Welcome to Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman

    00:48 Meet Aaron Michael: A Journey into Sex and Relationship Coaching

    03:39 Understanding Suction Sex: A New Approach to Shared Pleasure

    07:59 Embodied Consent: Tuning into Your Body's Yes, No, and Maybe

    09:46 Embodied Love: Building Intimacy Through Truth, Trust, and Celebration

    11:19 Overcoming Numbness and Secondary Pleasure in Sexual Relationships

    15:54 Awakening the Sensual Woman: A Six-Week Program

    17:04 Masterclass Break: Making Sex Fun and Easy

    17:49 Understanding the Pleasure System

    19:37 Challenges for the Giver

    21:47 Alleviating Performance Anxiety

    24:58 Exploring Fantasies and Communication

    28:09 The Future of Sexual Wellness

    32:26 Introducing Embodied Love University

    33:37 Programs and Resources

    37:38 Conclusion and Contact Information


    Interested in my webinars that talk about desire discrepancy? You can sign up athttps://www.intimacywithease.com/masterclass


    Bio

    Aaron Michael, author of Optimal Sex life, creator of Bedroom Masterclass, and a Relationship, Intimacy and Sex Coach. He is your Coach’s coach and has dedicated himself to helping others discover, explore and integrate their sexual sovereignty by providing a no bs, adult, sex positive sex education.


    With over +5000 hours of sexological body work, his work has influenced over 100,000 people, two venture funded startups, and he is the founder of Embodied Love™, Embodied Consent™ and Suction Sex™—a new method for the embodiment of penetrative sex.


    He has created multiple online courses, from “9 Naughty Nights” to “YEAHFAP” to “Awakening The Sensual Woman”, which support individuals to be able to give and receive ecstatic pleasure as well as enhance their mental and physical arousal. Aaron is sought out for his innovative approach to resolving issues such as genital pain, anaorgasmia, premature ejaculation, penetration anxiety, mis-matched arousal, and mental arousal. His method is at the core of the Kama sex app practices and tools, as well as the Adamo Bioscience medical protocol for transforming sexual dysfunction.


    He has an Elite MA in Cognitive Semiotics and an BA with Honors in Linguistics where he specialized in adult romantic attachment, courtship and how the brain interprets love. With over 20 years of experience as an embodiment coach in the field of dating, relationship and sex he crafts bespoke embodiment programs for you and your loved ones.


    He and Dr. Saida are concentrating all of this work and expertise by co-founding the comprehensive, sexual wellness, learning platform at embodiedloveuniversity.com, which is a university like education and community, for sexual fluency and free education for all.

    More info and resources:


    Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

    Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast


    Special Collections of the podcast:


    Increasing Desire Episodes

    Eroticism and Excitement Episodes

    My Favorite Authors



    How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

    The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

    Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

    Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

    Mon, 21 Oct 2024 - 39min
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