Spanko! Podcast

Miss Chris is back, and she answers some of your most burning… questions, and tells us of some of her more unique spanking styles:

Miss Chris uses her expertise to deliver some amazing and unique experiences. She tells of some of these types of sessions (while, of course, maintaining professional boundaries) and she shares some of her own personal experiences as well.

And, as always, her unique words go beautifully with these unique experiences.  

We go into some of the history of our community, discuss her Spank University local group, some magic details of her spanko bed & breakfast, discuss her diversified professionalism, Female-Led Relationships, and much more!

And we also dive into an important topic for our community: censorship!

This conversation is a must-listen for everyone in the community.

It’s always wonderful to get to chat with Miss Chris, we hope you get to have a “chat” with her someday as well. *wink*

Thanks to our good friend, Shaylah Bloomed, for some of the amazing questions for Miss Chris in this episode.

Trigger Warning: Religious upbringing, childhood spanking, non-consensual spanking 

As you see the list of Trigger Warnings we would like to provide the disclaimer that this episode does include discussions of an adult recalling their childhood spanking experience as well as their experience of being raised in a religious household which practiced child corporal punishment and a result - non-consensual spanking. These actions are not condoned by SpankoPodcast or any of its hosts.

Without further ado: 

Some of us can recall the exact moment we realized we were a spanko. Join us as Daisy Grace shares with us her experience of discovering her spanko identity. 

If you can identify as a spanko, it’s possible  you may have also experienced some self-disdain… however… do not despair, there is self-love and growth in one’s Spanko journey; and even success as a published age-player author. 

Author and age-player DaisyGrace (pen name: Delia Grace) joined us at GASP 2024 to tell us about her life, her interests, her books, and her adventures in spanking! 

If you love Delia’s stories - you won’t want to miss out on this episode!!

An evening of Glitter and Glam, or an evening at a creepy carnival? Why not have both, and so much more! These are the themes for this year’s Lone Star Spanking Party

November 7-11, 2024

Join Sarah Gregory and Paul “Tubaman” Rogers as they tell us all about everything we can expect at Lonestar 2024. Brats, Littles, Breakfasts, Brunches, Male Events, Female Events, and so much more!

We hope to see you there!

But you’d better hurry, tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

And BE SURE TO USE THE LINK IN YOUR EMAIL (from ShowPass) TO REGISTER!! 

There is NO at-the-door Registration this year. So if you want to come to the party, don’t procrastinate!

We had a great time at GASP 2024 and finally got to meet and interview Princess Kelley May - whom you might also know as Miss Kelley May. 

“We are all grown ass adults.” Find out how Princess Kelley May went through her spanko journey and discovered she did not need to break herself in order to keep being rescued or saved. 

Enjoy listening as this Princess shares her first spanking experience. She continues to share some of her experiences in the scene, and what led her to become a professional in the spanking world. 

Learn about the struggles of thinking a sound spanking will set you on the straight and narrow and magically have you do what you’re supposed to be doing. Did you also think you’d be responsible if you could just get a spanking? Sorry to burst your fantasy bubble… although fantasies do have their place in our community!

We encourage you to have fun with spanking! Yes, spanking might help rectify one’s behavior but one might need to figure out strategies that might actually be beneficial in making change and progress. 

We are all strong and capable adults here, whether we identify as a miss, a princess, or anything else!

At the Lone Star Spanking party 2023 we met with Aria Lennox. She’s a performer, a model, a switch, and a wonderfully bubbly personality. She shares her experience with self-care as she returns from a spanking party hiatus. Join us as we discuss some of our favorite things about spanking parties and the importance of building spanking friendships. 

Learn about Aria’s favorite spanking scenes regardless if she is topping, bottoming, or making videos. She shares with us the power of self advocacy, staying positive, being kind, and setting boundaries to avoid negativity. 

She encourages us to focus our time on the people who are good for us, taking care of yourself to stay healthy in the scene as well as physically, and how to empower yourself to advocate for yourself.

Education is so important in Kink. Both SpankoPodcast and Princess Kelley May both feel strongly about promoting education in the spanking scene. 

Possibly the busiest woman we know, Princess Kelley May was able to sit down with us at GASP and was generous enough to share a few minutes of her time.

Join us as we discuss Spanking University, her YouTube Channel, her passion for education, and many other related topics that are important to us as spankos including: 

Consent 

Limits

Boundaries

Safewords

Self-Advocacy

Technical Proficiency

And More

*We apologize for the audio quality, there was a computer issue that occurred during recording which was not noticeable until editing. (It gets better as you listen.)

We were lucky enough to sit down with model and professional switch Isabella Dollish at Lone Star, and wow, does she have a story to share! You won’t see some of these twists and turns coming, but Isabella shares it all with a calm demeanor and a beautiful smile!

Not only that, but her poise comes through with all of her wisdom and advice she shares while discussing some of the classes she offers, among other things she does to contribute to the community.

She has some wonderful advice about a whole host of topics: from staying safe in the scene, to negotiating at parties, to what to eat during aftercare and lots more!

Definitely check out the BoundTop to Bottom Podcast. They have an interesting episode on spanking, and you may just recognize a few voices ;)

Swish… Crack… Do you love the sound of a cane? Our guest, Matilda Caesar, does. Get to know this professional spankee from London, England and some of her very favorite spanking things!

She regails us with tales of her adventures in the London spanking scene, some mansion roleplays, her origins as a professional, and how a photoshoot changed her life! 

This beautiful, life-long spanko opens up with us about some of her innermost thoughts, desires, and even some of the spanking fantasies she enjoys personally… and the importance of keeping some things just for yourself!

Did we mention she does some video modeling as well?  You can find her working with Miss Iceni, and soon from some other studios as well. If you don’t know Matilda Caesar yet, you will soon!

Join us on our road trip to GASP 2024! Recorded in the car on our way, we discuss everything we hope to experience at this brand new national spanking party! What are we most excited for? Is it better to go with a plan or to be spontaneous? 

Then, in the 2nd half, we’re back in the car reminiscing about our experiences on our way home. What were our favorite parts? Did our plans work out? And what are we most looking forward to happening again?

We had a blast and can’t wait for you to hear about all of our expectations and whether or not the party lived up to them (they did, and then some!). And you never know who may get spanked in the car on our travels!

You’ll be hearing a lot more about GASP in some upcoming episodes, so stay tuned!

If you’re curious about GASP, or interested in tickets for their 2025 party, check out their website at SpankingInAtlanta.com for more information!

Meet Ehlane and Sir T, an adorable couple from Scandinavia. They join us to discuss their first American spanking party at Lone Star 2023. 

Listen as they recall some of their favorite activities at the party including British Discipline, the Workshops, the Female/female event, and judicial spankings. But more importantly, they recall how kind everyone was! The Lone Star Spanking Party made such an impact they will definitely be back next year! 

What is the spanking scene in Sweden like? We have some exclusive inside information to share! Just kidding, but they do tell us about it.

How did this adorable couple meet? This story is even cuter than they are!

How does one approach their vanilla partner about their interest in spanking? Submitted by our listener @Ffhheather, join the Spanko crew and our guest WoodLover (on twitter as @WL3271) as they share their vanilla-spanking-relationship experiences. 

#TabithaIsReal

This week the spankoholics explore the pros and cons of different spanking implements. We take a deep dive into the art of hand spanking, offer some helpful tips for beginners learning new implements and reminisce over some fun stories about unusual “pervertables” we’ve experienced. Our resident implement hoarder, BigGirlSpanker, has some tips on where to find the best implements. This is just the tip of the tawse on the subject of implement choices.

You’ve likely seen Brie at a party having a blast or being, like, totally diligent at ‪@cheekyspankos. You may follow her on twitter @aregeebrie or ‬you may even have read her blog https://redbottomedharlot.home.blog/ However, you should absolutely get to know Are Gee Brie!! Her Heart is big, caring, and, like, totally full of love. She’s fun, respectful, and, like, totally wants nothing but the best for Spankos in the scene.

You have left comments, asked questions, sent tweets, and now you'll have a chance to hear them discussed on our first SpankoMail episode!

To send us more SpankoMail, visit us at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/

If you’re a Spanko and you’ve been in the scene for any amount of time, you’ve probably bratted someone or have been bratted by someone. Be aware we are not referring to the dictionary definition of being a brat. We are talking about the art of being a brat in order to get the spanking you so richly crave. The SpankoPodcast Brats have come up with the 3 “C’s” of bratting to get themselves spanked.

Bringing in some more top perspective for our newest episode featuring PharaohSpanks.

You’ve probably seen @pharaohSpanks tweets on Twitter, have him as a friend on Fetlife, or have watched his videos on Clips for Sale, maybe you even read his blog from his early days in the scene, but do you know his spanking secrets?

Are you looking to mingle with other spankos? Have you done your homework and been networking in order to have a blast at a spanking party? 

Get ready to play out your spanking fantasies, bring your enthusiastic spankoholic-self, and leave drama at home for your first Spanking Party! We'll tell you about different types of parties, some pointers to find a play partner, and some tips on keeping yourself safe. 

This is it's own world to explore:

Hear some advice from our SpankoPodcast hosts, regarding meeting a potential spanking partner for the first time in person. Listen to them share their experiences regarding meeting people from the internet. Be wise and learn from their mistakes, don’t be another warning! We all just want to have fun and enjoy our spanking interest safely. 

Have you thought about spanking ever since you can remember? Did you ever find yourself looking up "spanking” in the dictionary? Join us on this episode to learn about the terms the spanking community uses to identify themselves as well as other commonly used words in the scene.

Get to know the hosts from the SpankoPodcast. They share their experiences exploring the spanking world, as well as a few fun brave stories from the origins of their interest.

Listen, learn, and share a few laughs with us.

Find out what your podcast hosts have been up to during this Quarantine. Have the brats decided to obey the social distancing order?  Has Eric decided some punishments just can’t wait? Listen and laugh along with these spankaholics.

Just as your bottom gets worn out from a spanking, so can your implements.

We sat down with returning guest MotownCouple to discuss how we clean and care for our implements. 

Wood can expand and contract with the temperature and humidity, leather gets dried out with use. There are ways to keep your implements in good shape so they last. We discuss some basics, as well as some additional products to use to keep your implements in shape to play.

If you have additional tips, please let us know in the comments.

Like your skin, and your friends, if you treat your implements well, they’ll be around for many years of spankings to come.

WOW can you believe it’s been 4 years?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Come celebrate with us!! 100 episodes and our 4-year anniversary!

Reminisce with us on some of our favorite episodes and interviews. Shout outs to some of the people who helped us on this journey. We’ve had so many adventures, and learned so much along the way! Never did we imagine we’d get to this milestone, and it’s all thanks to you! We had no idea the impact we would have on people in the community and your stories and encouragement keep us going. 

Want to know what are the most listened to episodes? We list our top ten most listened to episodes! Let us know what your favorite episode is and what you want to hear from us in the future. 

We have lots more to come! More interviews, more education, more topics, more guests from around the globe, and plenty more of your requests.

It’s been quite the journey so far, and there’s still much to look forward to! And we couldn’t do  it without you, our friends and listeners!

“And all this science, I don’t understand, It’s just my job, Five days a week…”

Rocket Man, Elton John & Bernie Taupin (1972)

What’s going on inside your head when it comes to spanking?

Like, on a scientific level.

Who would we even begin to ask about such a thing?

Well, we met someone in the community who happens to study neuroscience (among other sciences), and she was willing to let us pick her brain (pun intended) on this topic. 

You’ll be fascinated by everything going on inside your head, how your body reacts, what chemicals your internal systems are releasing and why, and so much more as we scratch the surface on some of the science behind spanking!

The Texas All-State Spanking Party is Back is in Dallas, Texas coming up on June 6-9, 2024

Join Princess Kelley May, TASSP Host and YouTuber extraordinaire, as she tells us about everything we can expect at TASSP this year!

Brats

Littles

Multiple Male Events

GNC (gender non-conforming) and BIPOC (black, indigenous, and people of color) events

a Dark Party

an elven princess

and much, much more!

We hope to see you there!

How do you go from doing make-up, to three months later being a professional dominatrix attending a spanking party?

The thought blew our minds as well!! 

But when Miss Katherine stopped by our hotel room at Lone Star and said “boy, do I have a story for you,” we just had to hear about it!

Join us as Miss Katherine and her protege, Miss Layla, share this fascinating journey with us!

How does Miss Layla like the BDSM community? Is it too much for her? What kind of activities has she gotten into? How does she feel about spanking and spanking parties?

And how do you handle a seemingly vanilla client opening doors and inviting you into an entirely new world?

Once you’re down this rabbit hole, you may never want to leave!

While she may be firm, it’s for your own good!

Join us as we sit down with Miss Iceni, London’s Premier Disciplinarian! *gulp* Actually, she was sweeter with us than she may be with you. But that’s the point!

Get to know a bit of Miss Iceni’s background, how she got into the spanking scene, how the COVID lockdown sparked her desire to take a new path in life, and so much more!

We’re honored to sit down for a casual conversation to share a side of her that her clients may not get to see. Once you’ve seen her videos, which you absolutely should, you’ll be amazed this amazingly strict disciplinarian is the same sweet woman talking with us!

Sky and Eric were traveling home from a small house party and decided to record a discussion about the necessity of communicating while at parties. And yes, of course this all stemmed from Karina and some of her antics.

It can be difficult to ask for what you want, but it’s important to be able to use your words. And since people communicate differently at parties than they may at home, we’ll give you some personal examples as to why good communication is important.

Warning:

This episode contains important safety information, but also references to physical assault, sexual assault, kidnapping, human trafficking, and the trafficking of children. 

If these topics are triggering for you, please join us in another episode.

A very special episode of SpankoPodcast: How to identify Red Flags in the community and what to watch for.

This is a heavier episode of SpankoPodcast than our usual fare. As you know we put an emphasis on safety, and in discussing Red Flags and what to watch for, we couldn’t shy away from the harsh realities of the real world. We did our best to keep the conversation going and not scare our listeners too much. 

We invited our friend D, an expert on these subjects, to help make us all aware of the dangers in our community and to help teach us all what to watch for, how to identify and mitigate Red Flags from potential partners, and how to stay safe and vigilant against the predators out there.

Join us as we talk to the Lovely Lady Luxe: a woman of multiple outfits, and personas to match! Her personality sparkles like a diamond, and like a diamond she has many facets to explore.

She’s a Top: a gorgeous, sexy goddess who commands a space. She’s a Bottom: a playful, bratty babygirl who enjoys a warm bottom. She’s a sadist, a masochist, a middle, a little, a big, and a puppy-cat all in one.

Lady Luxe tells us of some of her adventures, the importance of self-advocacy, and a terrible acronym to remember what to negotiate in a scene.

Listen as the ladies swoon over the sexiness of a good belt spanking, have serious discussions about red flags from predators, setting boundaries in the scene, and so much more.

You never know what you may hear on this podcast!

You self-spanked with what???? I know we often say “don’t try this at home,” but like, really, DON’T!!

Miss Shaylah, Sarah (from Canada), and Mr. Ben are back! This time we’re talk about communication: how to, when to, why to, and how to be sure you are staying within your bubble?…whatever that means. 

We dive into important topics like practicing your bratting skills, bratting within limits, knowing and enforcing your limits, the importance of knowing your Top’s limits and methods to communicate those subtly. This helps keep bratting fun for everyone, just as it should be!

Hmmmm I don’t think Mr. Ben ever dealt with that language from Sky… but there’s still time ;)     

Additionally we discuss Mr. Ben’s uniform, Brat Spice, and Occupational Hazards for Tops….. THAT discussion our Bottom listeners won’t want to miss!!

Shaylah, sorry, MISS Shaylah, is back and she brought some friends along to discuss Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service. 

Miss Shaylah briefly touched on offering this service on a previous episode, but we wanted to know more. Mr. Ben and Sarah (from Canada) have partaken in this special service, and they wanted to share their thoughts as well. 

Not only is this a very special and unique service offered by a wonderfully skilled member of our community, her patrons speak about the glowing results! We hear from both a Top (Mr. Ben) and a Bottom (Sarah) about what this service was like for them. It’s not just corner time, it’s so much more! It’s a whole experience, especially tailored just for you!

Parties can be overwhelming, sometimes you just need a time out. Come hear how Miss Shaylah offers this service to provide the headspace you need to relax and respect yourself! If this sounds like something you need, reach out and inquire about Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service. 

We had a great time hanging out with these wonderful people, and we hope you do too! Come and listen to Sarah squirm with embarrassment… even before her next session!

If you’ve never heard of Miss Bernadette, where have you been?

The world-renowned professional disciplinarian joins the Spanko! Podcast and she shares with us her spanko journey. 

Karina asks some privy questions, which Miss Bernadette gladly shares some personal answers just for you! 

Happy new year 2024! May your year be filled with as much fun as Miss Bernadette has! 

And, of course, thank you for all your support as we continue with our spanking adventures.

Imagine hanging around the botanical garden, drinking, 

and meeting not one, 

not two, 

but three Krampuses! 

Though we hear there are at least ten of them in our area!

The Spanko!Podcast women (and Eric) hung out with the vanillas and delighted in meeting Krampus at a local event.

Join us in this episode as we share our mischievous holiday adventure. 

…don’t worry, the vanillas cheer us on.

Are you an AASS munch?  *GASP*

No, not shock and awe, but the GeorgiA Spanking Party is early next year and it’s going to be a blast!

Join us as we sit down with organizers Listener and NotSoKnotty as they tell us everything they’ve been working on for the past 14 months to make this party happen!

They’ve put in a ton of work already, and they’re ready to share some EXCLUSIVE INFORMATION with our listeners! 

“You heard it here first, folks!” (I’ve always wanted to say that!) Come under the sea with us to Atlantis. 

Spanking fun for everyone in an inclusive environment! FUN school immersion role play event with Cheeky Spankos! Also fantastic panels about spanking! Classes about rope, spanking therapy (with Miss Chris) and other topics! Vendor fair, gender specific events, and a chance to hang out with all your spanko friends. 

Time is running out to get your tickets at a reasonable price. Hurry, this is an event you won’t want to miss!

Do you have a favorite kinky song? You’d be surprised how many are out there!

We take a listen to some of our favorite kink-adjascent tunes, and some new ones, and let you know our thoughts and how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered. 

Are there songs we haven’t covered? Let us know. Maybe we’ll check them out in a future episode.

What’s on your kinky playlist? We’ve barely scratched the surface on ours.

Karina and Sunny sit down with return guest, MotownCouple to discuss the fundamentals of balancing a vanilla relationship with being a Top in the spanking community. Hear some very personal details about a very functional relationship that strikes this unique balance. 

Find out what it takes to have the best of both worlds, and get some tips on how one might accomplish this with openness, honesty, and communication.

Happy Halloween! Pranks have been a Halloween tradition going back generations. When you think about Halloween and Pranks occurring in movies, obviously the first thing that comes to mind is… Meet Me in St. Louis. Right? No? Just us?

Well, there’s a scene in that movie that inspired us to make an adult spanking parody. Don’t worry, all the characters are of age in our version. 

We decided to do something a little different as a Halloween treat this year. So tune in your old-fashioned radio, fire up your imagination, and join the Spanko! Podcast Players in this episode entitled: Beat Me in St. Louis!  

If you like this format, or if you don’t, let us know! Your feedback helps us make the kind of episodes you want to hear!

No trolley cars or dresses were harmed in the making of this recording.

Whether you’ve been to a hotel party or not, we’ve got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It’s always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you’ve never been, welcome to the world of regional and national parties. 

When you arrive at a hotel party, remember to be nice to the vanillas that are around - don’t feel like you’re on a mission to convert people. The host would very much like to keep the space  they found for ALL OF US. 

Attend classes and participate in small events, Introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Meet lifelong friends from all over the nation, from across the ocean, maybe from up north or even down south. 

Regional or National Parties are still a private event. If you don’t follow the rules, you will be banned and may be banned from others’ as well. 

Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!

Whether you’ve been to a house party or not, we’ve got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It’s always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you’ve never been, welcome to the world of House Parties!

When you arrive at a house party, remember to greet your host, introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Attending a house party may be one of the most exclusive party invites; someone is inviting you over to their home or someone is taking responsibility to get the rental- treat it better than you would treat your own home. 

Remember, a house party is just that, a private event. Only the cool kids get invited! You could also host your own and invite your friends. 

Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!

When you began your spanko journey - did you reach out to people and were disappointed because it felt like everyone else was having all the fun and no one engaged with you? Do you still feel this way? 

Join the SpankoPodcast Podcasters and hear some tips about what doesn’t work for them and most importantly about what works for building life-long spanking relationships. 

If you have a clue, or if you have successful friendships, you know, kindness and politeness go a long way. Also, you know, respecting others’ boundaries.

Please tell Karina She’s not the only one who celebrated birthday spankings at summer camp with “Order of the Broom” 

Find out how close to your birthday is a good time to get a birthday spanking! We also discuss other birthday spanking traditions around the world!

These podcasters seem to celebrate their birthdays together quite often. Join in to listen about some intense feelings regarding a particular birthday or two. 

And as always, listen in on advice!

Bonnie is a bundle of energy! 

She’s a little, a passionate roleplayer, an enthusiastic spanko, and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US.

You’re going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this conclusion of our interview, Bonnie tells us about some of her adventures as a little, how she discovered a new community after retiring from Crimson Moon, and about starting over. Bonnie even breaks into song! A great song by one of her friends! Be sure to check it out on SoundCloud!

Don’t forget to listen to part one, also. Bonnie has so much energy, it couldn’t be contained in just one episode!

Bonnie is a bundle of energy! 

She’s a little, a passionate roleplayer, an enthusiastic spanko, and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US.

You’re going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this first part of our interview, you’ll hear about some of her first spanking adventures, receive some of her spanko wisdom, some great advice for newbies and spanko veterans alike, and hear about some history of the scene!

But wait, there’s lots more to come! Stay tuned for part two. Bonnie has so much energy it couldn’t be contained in just one episode!

What is Judicial Spanking? 

We sat down (gingerly) with a few participants from a Judicial Spanking event at Lone Star. Hear from Head Guard (Johnny Lake), some of the audience (us), and multiple prisoners (Naughty Naomi, Alaska John, b_butt_t, and Dave)!

Did they like it? Was it embarrassing? What was it like being a prisoner? They answer all these questions and much more as they walk us through all the details about this Judicial Spanking event! 

You won't want to miss this episode, or your next chance to receive a Judicial Spanking!

Shaylah elegantly gives us extremely articulate advice for tops who are disciplinarians; beyond the “funishment” mindset, punishments for real-life offenses. **Swoon** scold-y spankings with  controlled, loving, aggression - stern and firm. 

Definitely check out this episode if discipline is your thing. It doesn’t matter if you’re new or experienced with spanking, she provides great information! 

What was Shaylah’s first foray into spanking? What has she learned about consent since then?  We hope our listeners practice consent and if you need a reminder, here is a link to one of the many episodes where we discuss Consent.  

Shaylah is a girl, she is a brat, she is a writer, she is trans, and she identifies as a spanking facilitator - all the brats now have a new term of defense! 

Now, don’t feel bad if you’re not ready to be the spanker or spankee of trans women. However, please be respectful of their identities. Don’t be an asshole, or you’ll have allies to answer to! 

We wanted to discuss incorporating some other kinks with spanking, and bondage felt like a natural place to begin. And we couldn’t think of more fun people to discuss this topic with than Bondage expert Cinched and Spanking model MinxGrrl!

Together, this power couple is exploring combining some different kinks with spanking in their own video productions. We were lucky enough to catch up with them at Lone Star 2022 and spend some time discussing their interests and learning where to begin with bondage and how it can enhance a spanking scene.

Don’t worry, spanking purists, this isn’t a bondage-only episode! MinxGrrl shares some stories about what it’s like working with RealSpankings, how she’s able to convince a Rope Top to come to a Spanking Party in Texas, and much, much more.

We had a great time getting to know this adorable couple, and we hope you do, too!

Get to know AlaskaJohn… from Alaska!

He came all the way from north to south where we met in Texas! But this isn’t his shortest spanking travel adventure by far!

We discuss some of the challenges he’s faced in the scene. And if you think it’s hard to find partners, wait until you hear what it’s like to try to meet other spankos in Alaska when you’re gay! 

John openly discusses these challenges, but also the joys of the great state of Alaska, being a switch as you get older, the differences between the gay spanking scene and the hetero spanking scene, the growing societal interest in BDSM, soma spanking games, and a lot more! 

John has a great and unique perspective on the scene and we hope you enjoy getting to know him as much as we did.

Sarah is back for the 2nd part of our 3-year anniversary discussion!

What is it like to be a newbie at your first spanking party? We jumped at the chance to capture this unique moment with Sarah. She has some great observations, too!

We share some of our own beginning party stories as well, discuss the diversity of people in the scene, and answer some other newbie questions as well.

It can be scary being new in the scene. We’re happy to answer questions and share our experiences to help overcome that fear and enjoy your spanking adventure!

The Spanko!Podcast turns Three! 

And to celebrate this, we are joined by our biggest fan, Sarah, aka Birdie. (Seriously, she’s heard our podcast more than we have… and we edit.)

Sarah shares with us how she discovered us and her interest in spanking, how helpful it was to have listened to our Podcast before attending spanking events, and how fortunate she feels to have veteran spankos with which to discuss her spanking needs. 

We’re so glad to have become a part of her journey and helped her grow as a spanko. For example: it took us, Spanko Bottoms, years to realize, “I don’t need a punishment spanking; sometimes I just want attention and a stress relief spanking.” She learns so much faster than some of us!

Do you know how to communicate your needs as a bottom… without being an obnoxious brat? Have you learned to set boundaries as a Top in your spanking relationships? We’re happy to have an outlet to share some insights from our own developmental adventures and silly antics along the way. But, in our experience, we are still learning and growing ourselves! 

Thank you for joining us over the past 3 years! There’s lots more to come. We appreciate all your support along this journey!

Our friends, BetterOffKinky and WoodLover, who both identify as Switches within the scene join us to discuss Switching. You may remember WoodLover from our Long Distance Relationships episode, and BetterOffKinky from our Topping and Miss Chris episodes. They both discuss their history in the scene and how they each discovered why Switch was the right role for them.

Why pick just one side of spanking play when you can have both? What goes into defining yourself as a switch? Is it the same with every relationship or dynamic? How hard is it to switch in the same scene? Are there different challenges being a female switch than being a male switch? They answer these questions and many more!

If you’ve ever wanted to learn more about being a Switch, we couldn’t ask for better friends to help you out with this topic!

“How many straps do you get out of a cow?”

We sat down with Jeff from Kink Works, a vendor of quality straps and paddles at Lone Star 2022, to discuss his implements, his process, his wood fetish, and how he recognized us at last year’s party just by Eric’s voice! 

This maker shares some of the behind-the-scenes of what it takes to turn a passion for making implements into a full-time career. He discusses a bit about local lumber shops, the leather process, and a lot of his own personal passions and kinks. Shocking, we know!

What are some of the favorite woods to work with for a maker of these highly-polished, and vicious, beauties? The answers may not be what you’d expect.

Never fear, he sold us some of the highest quality implements we’ve played with, and we even came home with more this year!

The podcast crew at Lone Star 2022 got a chance to interview realistic erotica author JJ Rose. Today, March 31st the sequel to his book, Weekend Plans, releases: Switching Plans. If you ever read a choose-your-own-adventure book, a spanking story, or even simply enjoy reading, please support him and check out this exciting new release. 

Get to know JJ Rose as we interview him and he answers all the questions the podcasters throw at him.

If you’re in the Atlanta area you might have heard of GASP - he’s the party organizer. Hopefully we’ll all get a chance to attend the National spanking event that’s in the works.

What goes into a good role play spanking scene? Do you have to be a good actor to role play? What if you don’t have a bunch of costumes? We sat down with GoodApple before his Role Play class at the LoneStar Spanking Party to answer these questions and more.

This gregarious, southern gentleman, who identifies as a switch, has some of the most creative ideas for scenes we’ve come across. He’s an artist, an actor, a romantic, a spankophile, and his passion exudes in everything he does! 

We discuss the scene in Arkansas, the romance of Fifty Shades of Grey, different fantasies, communicating with your partner,  some of our own fantasies, and much more.

Meet Jack Crawford: a man of many fantasies! 

The prolific author from ‘LSF Publications’ shares his interests and inspirations with our podcast hosts at Lone Star 2022.

Together, we discuss the array of imaginative spanking situations his characters find themselves in: 

from Modern adults being spanked by relatives, to the American Civil War-period, to Old-Fashioned Westerns, to Science Fiction, to Pirates, to George Washington, to Spanking Pay-Per-View,  to stories for Littles… that involves the Mafia! 

With stories spanning all kinds of themes, eras, and aspects of the spanking interest, everyone can find a story of interest by this fun and imaginative author.

Bob -  he’s a DJ, a professional video producer AND husband of the amazing woman behind Kitty’s Paddles. You’ve heard him on the dance floor. You may have seen his videos on Uncle Bob’s Woodshed. 

Learn how he  started in video production-  spanking all the lucky girls! Listen in on his delightful scolding and a bit of him spanking one of the naughtiest SpankoPodcast spankees. 

Bob’s advice is sound. You’ll have to listen and find out.

What does it take to be in a successful long distance spanking relationship? Be intentional. Be intentional. Be INTENTIONAL but above all develop a friendship with your long distance partner. 

WoodLover shares her long distance relationship advice and her experience with her bottom. Hint - Communication is key. Find out what works and doesn’t work in your dynamic. Negotiate. Renegotiate. Respect each other and cherish your relationship. 

If you’re in a long distance relationship and would like to hear what has worked for some amazing spankos, this episode is for you! If you’re not in a long distance relationship, we’ve got  some wicked punishment ideas for you too *wink wink* This is a great episode with advice that even Eric said he needed to hear!

Also, WoodLover and Lizzy reminisce on the beginnings of some of the SpankoPodcast friendship developments. Hear some rare “before they were podcasters” stories.

A Proper Birching you say? 

How many times do you get to talk to a professional who has never attended a spanking party before? We were lucky enough to sit down with Miss Matthews, aka Melissa R Todd, author, model, actress, educator, and professional disciplinarian, before her first ever national spanking party!

In our first interview at Lone Star Spanking Party 2022, Miss Matthews gives us a sneak peak of her class on birching. And surprisingly, no, it has nothing to do with a certain type of tree! She tells us all about the excitement of being at her first party, some of the journey that led her into spanking, and some of the recent journey (and forthcoming book) about her spanking travels across America!

She claims to be as submissive a dominant as you will ever find, yet at the drop of a hat she turns on her scolding voice and makes our heads spin! This was a great way for us to kick off our time at Lone Star, and I hope you will enjoy it as much as we did! And if you’re not following this lovely lady on Twitter, you’re missing out on a whole lot of fun!

A vanilla paddle maker? Say what?? Hey. It’s where the money in woodworking seems to be. Can’t blame him. 

Yet, kinksters flock to him! Like that alone will make some spankos jealous. 

Join us as Sunny and Lizzy interview Richard from Serenity Theory or as the SpankoPodcast refers to him, the lightning paddle guy. He uses cool and dangerous tools to make custom made paddles. So unique and cool. Awesome quality work too! Hope to see him at a vendor fair in the future. Feel free to access his website for amazing paddles!

This episode was recorded LIVE in front of an OnlyFans audience.

Merry Spankmas!

If you’ve been nice, get into some comfy pjs, pour yourself some hot cocoa, decorate the spankmas tree with implements, and gather around the fire as we share a new holiday bedtime story.

If you’ve been naughty, you can listen while you stand in the corner with your naughty bottom on display.

Adapted by our own BigGirlSpanker, this fair use parody of one of your favorite holiday stories is sure to bring to mind lots of new spanking fantasies to enjoy for the holidays! 

Wishing you a warm and wonderful holiday season!

As if one episode on Consent wasn’t enough, here is part two! Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them...

... but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.

And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault! 

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.

Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.

Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes. 

Consent isn’t always sexy - negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary! 

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.

Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities. And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault! 

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used. Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits. Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes. 

Consent isn’t always sexy - negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary. We talk about some of the go-to questions before you negotiate a scene with someone new. Have others we don’t cover here? Let us know!

Some of the Spanko!Podcast spankees have had less than pleasant scenes this past year, and we want everyone to learn these important topics with spanking so everyone can have a good time!  

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.

We now continue our interview with the world-famous disciplinarian, Miss Chris!

Be sure to check out the first part of our interview here.

From her beginnings in the scene, to her earliest thoughts about spanking, to her international travels and so much more, Miss Chris regales us, and our returning guests from MDSS, with tales and experiences across a whole spectrum of spanking!

If you’ve ever wondered about the difference between the BDSM and Spanking scenes,  or the US and European scenes when it comes to Spanking (or CP as they may call it), the evolution of education in the spanking scene, or what makes a Texas Toy, or a pizzle, a unique spanking implement, Miss Chris has stories and information about all of this and so much more!

This is the conclusion of an epic interview you won’t want to miss!

Behold! The storytelling power of the world-famous disciplinarian, Miss Chris!

From her national television appearance on The Doctors (where she spanked all three doctors, BTW) Miss Chris now appears on Spanko! Podcast alongside a gaggle of other Spankoholics.

Join us, and our returning guests from MDSS, as Miss Chris regales us with an intense tale of her surprising beginnings as a bottom quickly turned professional dominant with the help of a miracle folding chair. Yeah, no kidding!

With her professionalism, her Bed & Breakfast, her Spankademy and her Disciplinarium, to her wisdom about tickling the senses, and a lot of other fun wordplay, we now know who really has the best words! 

And there’s a lot more to come from Miss Chris, too! This is part one of an epic interview you won’t want to miss!

From a FetLife Fan request: Can the Spankoholics differentiate the types of scene dynamics?

Yikes! What a question! Are we up to the challenge?

The Spankaholics return to have an open discussion on different types of spanking scenes and stumble on some self realizations.  

We discuss differences between Funishment scenes and  Role Play scenes THEN we stumble upon Consequential spankings which lead us to Punishment vs Discipline vs Motivational vs Accountability vs Consequential scenes again. Even dab a little in Judicial spanking. 

They continue to avoid discussing sexual and sensual spankings. This group of spankos tends to publicly avoid sharing sexaul aspects of spanking. So if you were hoping to have that be one of your spanking scenes discussions, we don’t apologize. Maybe one day we will come around. 

Anyways, what do you think is a good baseline spanking? Let us know down below in the comments, on Twitter, YouTube, or on FetLife.

The Spanko! Podcast hosts continue to interrogate Loren regarding his spanking lifestyle. Loren shares his stance on public spanking. They all share their preferences on counting swats. Everyone has a good time reminiscing on Lone Star 2021. We promise, Part 2 is not a repeat of part 1. You’ll delight listening to part two even more.

Listen to this titillating new episode as we interview Loren Punishments of Punishments Only spanking videos!

Learn how Loren got started on his spanking adventure.  Laugh with him and the Spanko! Podcast cast as they reminisce on their first  encounter at LoneStar.

Once again, everyone agrees on communication and respecting boundaries for fun and enjoyable spanking scenes.

Don’t be naughty or you might just get a punishment spanking, young lady!

Can film and theater actors make good spanking videos? The answer is a resounding “YES” if Peaches and Lola (also known as Madam Director) are involved! 

Peaches, male bottom, and a thespian in his vanilla life (and sometimes in his non-vanilla life as well) joins us to discuss some of his many projects that have the potential to bring a lot of excitement to the spanking world! 

Madam Director, Professional Disciplinarian, video producer, Peaches’ producing partner, and actress in her own right, has her hands full as well… and not just with Peaches! In addition to being a prolific video producer, she also has an amazing history and some fantastic projects in the works. 

Join this professional partnership as they share some of their adventures, some of their many upcoming projects, and inspire us to look outside the traditional dynamics we’re used to.

Our spanko hearts swoon as we read our cherished  word “Spanking”! 

Spanking in Books, the dictionary, on the radio, in a musical, on stage. 

OMG how many times did you read, reread, and reread your favorite spanking passages? All the dog-eared pages in the literature we own. The Dictionary opens by default on that one page! Our young spanko hearts; how were they not ready for the dream life we lead now!  

Join us and our Michigan friends for this episode and we continue our discussion of Spanking in media with literature and theater.

We the spankos in the United States have established spanking parties! Imagine living in the UK where their spanking activities must remain underground, lest, heaven forbid, the media finds out and reports our spanking kink as “salacious.” 

Get to know the world-famous Sarah Gregory (that’s Sarah with an ‘H’) and John Osborne (aka AAA, or Triple-A if you prefer). This spanking-power-couple shares some amazing details with us. Sarah shares with us her true calling, some history, and her passion for giving people a safe space to enjoy and practice their spanking kink. John, a British lad who grew up with robed school masters and was encouraged to take Latin (gag), shares the true terror of being disciplined the British way - disciplina scholastica.  

Have you come out to your parents as a spanko? Sarah and John have! How did these two famed spanko producers get into producing spanking content? And it's truly delightful when you hear Sarah’s entrepreneur story! These topics and so much more await!

Join us as we talk about our recent Spankation!

Including historic spankings, impromptu spankings in the woods, spankings overlooking the ocean, what kind of mischief we get into with period costumes and historic settings, and what happens when whale watching gets canceled. 

Enjoy us recounting tales of saloons, cudgels, old dictionaries, bedtime stories, mouth soapings, and oh so many spankings! This is a vacation you won’t want to miss!

A warrior. An artisan. 

Miss Rose Paddles are well-known throughout the spanking community. From her exotic woods to her expert craftsmanship, her implements are a real show-piece in any collection. 

Now, join the Spankoholics as we get to know the woman behind the world-renowned legend. How did she get her start? What gives her paddles their amazing reputation? What are her favorite paddles? What advice does she have for people in the scene? Advice for women and fellow warriors like herself?  

Listen as we get to know the amazing woman, warrior, and artisan as she shares about her craftsmanship, her battle with breast cancer, and her love for the Spanking and BDSM communities.

Do you have a favorite spanking scene in a movie? Maybe it’s an old classic, or maybe something more recent.

A favorite spanking scene in a tv series? Maybe a tv series you perhaps only watched because you were told there was a spanking scene it.

A favorite cartoon spanking scene? Perhaps something you watched over and over before you found your spanko community. 

Join the hosts and some of their friends, as we talk about some of our favorite spanking scenes in classics and current tv and movies! 

You may just find a new show or movie to watch ;)

Join us as we talk with dominurtix, Miss Katherine (aka Sweet Mistress Cyn, aka Governess Katherine Worthington), and one of her professional bottoms, Cowboy Bill, at Lone Star 2021. This Dallas/Fort Worth-based professional disciplinarian/adult nanny/Mommy domme and model and producer has a lot to share! 

Where is the most unusual place you have had a spanking scene? Come listen and hear all the fun locations she has recorded. Did she possibly just suggest a spanking at an airport…. 

Wonder if the podcast crew decided to follow up on that……  

Need suggestions for skin care after a spanking? This episode has lots of fun suggestions and tips!

Join us as we continue to interview the most delightful DDlg couple. Find out more about their evolution in their relationship, find out all the ways Monte spoils his little girl, what they enjoyed at Lone Star Spanking Party, and hear their advice on enjoying the kink scene and feeling fulfilled.

Are you a little wondering what it would be like to find her Daddy and live her dream life? Join us with Monte and Pam as they share their journey AND their happy life style with us. Their joy is infectious!

Pam is truly a lucky gal, and Monte is a true gentleman. It’s wonderful learning how their life progressed and it just keeps getting better and better! Totally endearing.

You’ve heard the saying, become friends with people who aren’t your age. This is how you grow. 

Queenie and her husband, Gary, give us a whole slew of life advice and help us navigate the ropes of staying safe at a spanking party or in a spanking session. We want everyone to have a safe and consensual scene, they reiterate what we have told you in the past, make friends with those on the same side as you!

Join the Spanko! Podcast crew as they continue with their interviews at Lone Star.

We met Queenie and her husband, Gary, at our booth and we just had to interview them! They are adorable, wise, and full of sarcasm! We hope you enjoy hearing from them as much as we enjoyed interviewing them. If you haven't met Queenie and Gary yet, you'll definitely want to after this!

There are just no words to entice you listen. Relax and enjoy!

BetterOffKinky, Bumism, and MotownCouple, our friends from MDSS, join us to talk about Dyngus Day, the Easter Monday holiday with pussywillow switches! You’re gonna want to hear this!

But we don’t stop there. We include all kinds of Spring holiday and festival spanking connections. We found a lot more than we were expecting. 

And, as usual, we get a little sidetracked talking about spanking. Enjoy!

May the spring blessings be upon you… and your bottom!

Join us as we finish our interview  Piper And -JC. 

We reiterate the importance of being an ethical brat, (please reference our Episode 0007 “The 3 “C’s” of Bratting”), respect yourself and respect others and the importance of implement hygiene, especially during these times of COVID. 

How does one define a spanking clique? 

Well, real friendship and connection is required to be part of a clique - a real click and bonding needs to happen. It’s not just the “cool kids,” the cool kids are actually nice ;) - they’re just people who enjoy each other’s company and have fun hanging out with each other. So feel free to approach us at a party and we might just become friends, we are not exclusive. 

So… Come to a spanking party! Make new friends! 

Believe it or not, Piper and -JC raise some points we haven’t covered before as to why you should attend a national spanking party. 

Universal health care and better wages for all!! Sunny kidnapped Piper’s pig but has she suffered the consequences?? Join us as we interview Piper and JC. A chaotically fun and engaging interview filled with advice for all Spankos. So. Much. Spanking. Fun. Oh. My. God. You won’t be able to contain your excitement.

Join us as we have Madame Samantha B share relationship AND life advice with the Spanko! Podcast spankoholics. 

Madame Samantha B helps us reiterate that communicating clearly is key to a wonderful scene; respect your boundaries, respect their boundaries. 

To Karina’s smug delight Eric and Madame Samantha B reiterate - the bottom is always in control, always, no matter what the top says. 

Stay tuned until the end for a delightful Surprise!

“Stick that bottom out!”

Join us as we get to know Madame Samantha B.

Find out why she is the hostess with the mostest (and she really is!). Discover when her spanking fantasies began, and when she was able to act on them.

When and why did she decide to make the leap into being a professional spanker of naughty girls?

Listen to part 1 of our conversation with Madame Samantha B.

It’s Ass-Bustin' Time! 

Your long awaited male bottoms’ interview is here!! The Spanko Podcast had a chance to meet some amazing male bottoms while at Texas Lone Star, and boy do you want to join us and listen! 

We have confident men who are not afraid to be submissive, men who are still learning to use their words, men who have modeled in spanking videos, men who have served in the military, and men who dove head-first in for the whole spanking ride!  

Join us as we interview CheechNChong1, tiemeup219, and thevbb in this amazing all-male-bottoms interview.

Join us as we explore holiday traditions with characters that actually involve spankings!!! 

How would you feel about sitting on Krampus' lap and confessing you’ve been a naughty girl or naughty boy and asking for your spanking? 

Are you Team Krampus or Team Belsnickel?

Maybe we just need to come up with a new Stress Relief Spanking Holiday to counteract the stress of the holidays.

Our Spankoholics recap their experience at the Lone Star Spanking Party 2021. This episode was recorded from a Live event on our OnlyFans page where we took some of their questions, told stories of our experiences, and demonstrated some of our new implements Live and On Camera!  

Listen as we regale you with stories of all the excitement, the fun, and of course the spankings of our first national party (as a podcast, and for a few of us)!

Right after our episode about Lone Star 2021, we spent a little time getting to know Paul “Tubaman” Rogers and Ava Nyx

Where does the name “Tubaman” come from?How did Paul and Ava get started in the scene?What are their favorite types of scenes?Paul does HOW MANY videos a week????

Get answers to these questions and many more and lots of laughs from our Spankoholics on this episode!

Hear the spankoholics tell stories of meeting up with spankos for the first time. We tell some stories from when we were new in the scene. Mistakes were made, pranks went wrong, lessons were learned in what not to do and negotiations to stay safe in the scene.

We hope that you can learn from our stories and keep yourselves safe when meeting with fellow spankos!

Are you scary or are you scared? Muah ha ha.

Make sure you listen to this terrifying episode where  our Podcaster, Lizzy makes her first appearance at a spanking party, MDSS Halloween Spanking Party!!! Yes, we love our Michigan people. Find out your podcasters’ costume fantasies; fun and sexy, scary and terrifying, or simply spanking practical? 

Find out what happens to naughty girls who hide implements, err put away implements where they belong. Can you imagine receiving hundreds of swats for an innocent trick? 

The Lonestar Spanking Party is Back!

Join Paul “Tubaman” Rogers and Ava Nyx as they tell us all abouteverything we can expect at Lonestar 2021. Brats, Littles, Male Events, Spanko Celebrities, and so much more!

And this year, some of these Spankoholics will be there!

We hope to see you there! And for those who can’t join us in person,we have many other treats in store!

Join the Spanko! Podcast for our first ever collaboration! 

Veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from the long-running kinky podcast, ‘Erotic Awakening,’ share their experiences with content creation and of course, spanking!

Make sure to check out eroticawakening.com/podcast and hear Dan & Dawn turn the tables and interview the Spanko Podcast crew.  It gets spicy!

Is crying during a spanking an unattainable fantasy? When the tears come do they flow endlessly? Does water rolling down your cheeks count as crying? Should producing tears always be the goal of a spanking? Is there any truth to the meme that says "a spanking only starts when the tears do?"

In this episode, find out what makes the Spanko! Podcast brats cry, and if Eric relishes in the tears of naughty girls.

Have you ever heard the term “munch” but never knew what it meant? That ends right this minute! 

What is a munch? 

Who goes to muches? 

Where are they? 

What do I wear? 

How do I act? 

What should I say? 

What should I expect? 

How do I even find one?

Don’t worry. We’ve got you. Take a deep breath. All those questions and more are answered in this episode.

Looking forward to seeing you at a munch!

The gauntlet continues! Join our guests from MDSS: BetterOFFKinky, MotownCouple, and Bumism, as we continue our discussion of Topping in Spanking.

Find out our Tops’ topping preferences (spoiler: it involves communication and trust). Find out our Tops’ dislikes (it may surprise a few brats). And discover how these sadists allow themselves to be comfortable with making a bottom cry, whimper, and whine.

The episode you’ve been asking for has finally arrived!

Join your favorite Spankoholics and some of their friends from the Metro Detroit Spanking Society (MDSS) as they discuss, [insert trumpet fanfare] Topping.

Is Topping something you can learn? Are the best Tops born that way? What do new Tops need to know? What do Tops get out of spanking anyway? 

Answers to these questions and a lot more happen as our brats plan to “gauntlet” the Tops with a barrage of your questions in this two-part episode.

Are you ready to party?!??

Join us at Midwest Spanktoberfest 2021 for a great spanking time! 

Coming to Chicago, IL, October 14-18

Featuring:

You’ll even have access to a hotel shuttle to get around town!

So, be sure to register to have a most wonderful spanking time!

Lizzy hosts this third installment of SpankoPodcast2Go.  

The recent conduct of her siblings toward Eric makes Sky wonder about the role of nurture in the development of spanking interests.  She and Eric discuss the possible origins of this “ornery” behavior,  the uses of the word "spank," and "discuss" Sky’s own bratting ;)

Do you identify as a Middle? Do you identify as a Little? How do you know? What does ABDL even stand for? How much crossover is there between ageplay and spanking?

Lizzy James joins us to answer all these questions and more.