The Mizzy Bender Show - An Adult Podcast

Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and conversate with other community members. Some of the topics include: Penis Size, Expectations and other kink related questions. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com  Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Meet Alex, known as 2fresh_Pineapples on Instagram. She is a 27 year old young swinger who is passionate about spreading the good word of swinging and individuality. Her ideas and thoughts are strong! We discuss her journey, age differences, travel, being 420 friendly and so much more. You're going to want to keep your eye on this one!  Follow the link below: https://www.instagram.com/2fresh_pineapples?igsh=a3ZjaHB0Y294YTZt

Do you have trouble communicating your wants, needs and desires to your partner or your swingers lifestyle partner? Tune in for tips and thought starters on how to effectively follow your journey to living your most authentic self.  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty, and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female who isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life, from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast, putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive are all about creating an environment that is all-inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like-minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop-up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

The community thoughts and questions have been thriving lately. Today's listen includes pointers on the following three submitted thoughts: 1. I'm a married man who wants to swing, but my wife wants no part of it. What do I do? 2. What do you do if you see a co-worker at an event? 3. What kind of information would you share with someone attending an event for the first time. For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty, and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female who isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life, from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast, putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive are all about creating an environment that is all-inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like-minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop-up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Do you and your partner have different play styles and aren't sure how to navigate it? Tune in as a behind the scenes listener to my LIVE session on SDC back in December of 2023. You'll pickup on pointers and though starters to navigate this conversation with your partner.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

In this episode, Gina, the beautiful mind behind Little Miss Nasty shares the journey into building this global, iconic brand. A snip it from their website:  Little Miss Nasty delivers an overwhelmingly powerful experience that inspires and defies genre because Little Miss Nasty IS the genre. You have permission to be your Nasty, authentic self! To attend a New York Show, use coupon code LMNMIZZY for 20% off tickes.  https://www.littlemissnastyofficial.com For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Spencer and I spend the morning in the hot tub recapping the activities for July. We share our thoughts on hosting our first swingers party 4th of July weekend on Long Island. We talk about my birthday bash in Rhode Island and some other fun adventures and parties.  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Coming out of my birthday bash, it was really important for us to share the unacceptable behavior that transpired at the event. This is a triggering episode so please be aware.  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Are you looking into the swingers lifestyle but not sure the kinds of conversations to have? Listen to this podcast episode. It will help guide you. It will provide topics and ideas on how to navigate the beginning stages of an exiting journey of self discovery. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

In this episode, Jim and I talk through so much when it comes to group play in the swingers world. There are so many possibilities and the things to be aware of. I think this conversation is a good starter for those interested in exploring this play style. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

We're going international with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. I really enjoyed learning about Cate's background that lead to opening her events company. It keeps her busy by traveling and hosting all over the world. She shares the difficulties of launching right as the COVID-19 pandemic hit and all of her successes following.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Another sassy hot tub conversation between myself and Spencer after returning from an amazing New Hampshire trip that took an unexpected turn. Tune for all the laughter then head over to my blog to see some of the photos and additional thoughts. RSVP to Mizzy's Birthday Bash : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Jim and I really have no boundaries. In this episode we talk morning routines, travel discrepancies, work and overall life since seeing each other at Naughty in Neon in June. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email MizzyBender@outlook.com or if you'd like more clarify, reach out!  For behind the scenes event photos and thoughts, visit my blog  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:   Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

We begin this episode learning about how Sara navigating the bold question of becoming exclusive and pregnant. Sara explains her point of view about the show entirely and the potential after math that it could impact her day to day life.  patreon.com/Mizzybender   RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

In part one Sara shares her journey around her sexuality which ultimately lead her to exploring the swingers lifestyle. An opportunity presented itself to be part of the reality tv show Seeking Sister Wives on TLC. Let's dive into the fascinating journey of the lifestyle on reality tv! Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Spencer and I start the morning bantering in the hot tub. We share all the shenanigans that have been going on throughout the month of June. I dive into wanting to explore hot wife scenarios and more.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Shop www.mizzysboutique.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

In this fly on the wall type of recording, join us for breakfast as we have normal, casual conversation. This was recorded during one of our amazing summer weekends as we hang under the gazebo as the sun shines and the birds chirp. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

I hosted a LIVE Q&A on SDC.com, the largest international swingers community. Listen in as I answer questions and thoughts of the participants. No question is off limits.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

I love summer shenanigans which happen to be naked shenanigans in the sun! What an incredible weekend full of laughs, sexiness, good friends and a whole lot of memories. I share my thoughts around our two single men, the communication between them both and the sexy play time we had.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie.  In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email MizzyBender@outlook.com    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907   RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:   Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Sometimes you just need to shoot the ish with your bestie.  In this two part episode, Jim and I talk all sorts of swinger topics from a personal standpoint. We focus alot on communication and the benefits it has when establishing rules and boundaries. We also discuss our growth, wants and desires within the Lifestyle overall. If there's a topic you'd like us to cover in more depth, email MizzyBender@outlook.com  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Are you having trouble getting noticed in the swingers lifestyle? Are you looking for some tips on how to stand out? Listen to this episode that was built by community discussion. Most of it sounds like a no brainer, but sometimes we need the basic how to guide to get us to where we want to be. Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Part 2 of our travel disaster with extra bonus footage of Spencer's phone calls while in the tow truck trying to figure out how to get us home. It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

It's never a dull moment in our world, that's for sure. Getting stuck on the side of the road in a state we're not familiar with makes for very stressful situation. AAA couldn't help us which made things even worse! Listen as Spencer and I tell you all about it.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Part 2: The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.sexyswingerchic.net   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

The one and only Sexyswingerchic host of The Pineapple Express Podcast. She is a powerful mind sharing her influence within the Ethical Non Monogamy world. In this two part episode, we dive into Kiley's journey, sharing the ups and downs and all the growth that came with it. She is one educator you absolutely want to follow. Check her out at www.sexyswingerchic.net   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Welcome to part two of Jim's journey navigating the lifestyle as a married man. This episode starts out discussing his birthday threesome proposition and how it lead to where they are within the swingers world today. As mentioned, he will be a permanent co-host throughout this season, so If you have any questions, let us know. MizzyBender@outlook.com   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Part 1 of 2: I am so excited to bring my bestie Jim on as a permanent co host throughout the next season of The Mizzy Bender Show.  You may remember him from some of the early episodes of the podcast. At this time, I think it is really important to start sharing the male perspective within the Swingers - Ethical Non Monogamy world and he is just the person to do it.  I wanted to start by sharing his journey so you can relate and understand his thoughts going forward. Make sure you tune in next week as we finalize his introduction.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Trigger Podcast: I wasn't expecting this to be so emotional, but you always receive the true me, so here we are. I discuss the journey of my hysterectomy, my anxiety and where I am today. I hope you find comfort in my words if you are managing through difficult times. Please know, you are not alone.  Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP to our Events : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Are you trying to figure out how to navigate swinger - adult lifestyle dates? This is the episode for you! Listen is as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community while engaging back with the listeners.  There are some great starter tips that we should all keep in our swinging toolbox.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com Background:Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Kathy is a bad ass female who interviews alternative lifestyle humans who share their stories anonymously. I had the privilege of being a guest on Strictly Anonymous in 2023 as my true self and it was such an amazing experience. Now its Kathy's turn to share her journey on how her podcast began leading us all the way to current times.  She is such a captivating woman who is so open minded. When she speaks, you can't help but to listen.    To learn more: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Last year I was thrilled to be a guest on Two Wolves in the Woods Podcast. Joey and Brenda are an amazing example of how to navigate, build and learn through various avenues of the alternative lifestyle. They are captivating, knowledgeable and fun to listen to due to their relationship chemistry.  They take us on their journey, sharing who introduced the conversation and where they are today.  To Learn More follow their social accounts: https://discord.gg/U82MvyZE https://www.instagram.com/twowolvesinthewoods?utm_source=qr   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Listen to this ridiculous episode recorded with Spencer as we recap Winterland, our Swingers Lifestyle event from this past weekend. We laugh and get sassy, like we usually do as we wait to board the ferry. I also tried something new with this episode so I hope you like the way it all came together.   Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Shamrocks & Shenanigans : www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Running a club comes with it's ups and downs, just like anything in life. When we have to say goodbye to something so close to our hearts, it hurts. But, there's always a reason and perspective. In this episode, we are going to talk through some of the thoughts and feelings that lead to the closing of the Paradise Club. This did get emotional at the end, so be gentle with your thoughts.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

A previously posted podcast: The tale of two single men coming out of a recent event.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Winterland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Are you trying to figure out how to introduce a new play partner or partner into the swingers lifestyle but not sure where to start? Listen in as Mizzy Bender shares her thoughts with the SDC community through this live educational piece.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Listen to Mizzy Bender in the raw as she talks through a community submitted question in regards to body insecurities. We all have them, now lets hear the thoughts and perspectives on how to navigate them.    Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Womderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Happy Holiday thoughts from Mizzy Bender.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Mizzy Bender goes LIVE on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question:   "My wife and I are very new to LS. We’ve been discussing it for years. We had a G/G experience about 5/6y ago. This years Halloween party we had a single male experience. Both went amazing. What would you do or say to help my wife not be in her head about doing what I asked her to do? Also how did you know you were ready to try swing club? I want to attend even if it’s just to check out environment but wife has reserves. How can I help reassure her that she doesn’t have to play while there and be ok with going?"   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Coming out of an event weekend, Mizzy Bender has many thoughts that need to be heard.  Most of them are directed towards single men, but applies to everyone. Listen in to learn about the tale of the 2 single men and a community submitted question that all ties together.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Wonderland: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Listen to Mizzy Benders LIVE SDC/Facebook session, gaining a new perspective on "the couples we think are out of our league."  We zig zag all through the lifestyle sharing so many great points of view. Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Mizzy Bender shares her personal experience in regards to boundaries and really understanding the right time to communicate them.  Through this Facebook live show, Mizzy spills all the details!   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Happy Thanksgiving thoughts from Mizzy Bender.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Mizzy Bender goes live on Facebook to discuss the following community submitted question:   "I am interested in finding out how one navigates themselves in the lifestyle, when the dynamic of their relationships changes but they still want to be in the lifestyle. I am a  "single bi cis gender female." When going to LS parties/events, there are times when I am accompanied by a straight, cis gender male, and there are times when I am solo. He accompanies me and is familiar with the lifestyle. He has the same interests and passions as I do. So my question is, What should I do when I am meeting others in the LS?  Do people have concerns or are they uncomfortable about individuals like myself that have a male partner who isn't always with me? Do you see there being an issue for people to enjoy me solo, and maybe sometimes having my partner join us?    Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Kandace and Gregory's extraordinary journey began when they crossed paths as children in Sunday school. Little did they know that their innocent encounter would blossom into a lifelong partnership filled with love, creativity, and exploration. Their unique bond would stand the test of time, enduring for over four and a half decades.  Listen in as Mizzy Bender gains insight to their journey of swinging, plant based medicine and so much more!   To learn more about Kandance and Gregory Website: www.evolutionarysex.org Insta: evolutionarysex  (note no ‘e’) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evolutionarysex

Welcome to Octobers recap with Mr. Mindbender. Its always a fun episode full of giggles when talking with him! I love hearing his thoughts on life and our adventures overall. This episode is all of that and more. Listen in as we travel back from Boo, A Mindbender Production, recording in the car.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Mizzy Bender interviews Ash, an amazing female entrepreneur in the swingers world. The first part of this episode is learning all about Ash and her journey. The second half is discussing what kind of information you should include within your swingers profiles. Its a fun and sassy listen!    To learn more about Ash: Instagram: Ash_lovespineapples TIKTOK: @sharedpineapple and @bannedandcancelled   VIPineappleCO IG: @vipineapple_co   Onlyfans: www.Onlyfans.com/cuntsuela   Follow More Mizzy: Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Today's episode was recorded live in The Paradise Club's Facebook group. You'll hear Mizzy Bender discussing the things you should know and be aware of when entering the swingers/alternative lifestyle.  These are general rules that may seem obvious, but unfortunately they are not. The discussion is based off community submitted entries, so that means this list was created by other swingers/alternative humans.  Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

On this weeks episode, Mizzy Bender interviews Melissa who is married and poly. The big discussion point is that Melissa's husband is not a participant in her alternative lifestyle. Listen in to understand the composition of the relationship and how Melissa and her husband navigate their lifestyle. We discuss the challenges and mindsets of potential playmates and so much more.   Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Listen in with Mizzy Bender as her swingers journey continues. In this solo episode Mizzy shares the latest and greatest in her swinging world. There's been the ups and downs of traveling, weekend adventures, a new playmate and so much more.  Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Today Mizzy Bender provides her swingers point of view on a community submitted question on approaching couples. "My question is how do you talk to couples when the other couple is maybe consider better looking then the other couple but you all share a similar interests?" This was a live Facebook show broadcasted in The Paradise Club group for one of the bi-weekly educational sessions.  Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Its been almost a whole year since Mizzy and Jack, from Triple X Playground, chatted. Listen in as he shares what's been going on lately.  Between Exxxotica, ASN Awards, Podcasting, Branding and so much more.  The journey is always a bumpy one, so as always, you get the raw insight to our lives and thoughts.    Jack Polo, Owner of Triple X Playground, The Best Adult Communication Tool Ever! O.K. So what is TRIPLE X PLAYGROUND? We provide a platform for adults who have something in common- their love for venturing into new heights when it comes to their sexual intimacy. TXP is a fun-filled game that can be played amongst couples, with a third person, or in a group. It will provide an opportunity to explore different sexual realms and suggestively take you to a sexual height you might have needed help discovering. Need to add some spice and not sure how? Come to the playground; www.TRIPLEXPLAYGROUND.com Mach-Media, INC. 2020 All rights reserved.™   Follow Triple X Playground on social media: https://twitter.com/triplexplaygrnd https://www.instagram.com/triple_x_playground/   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US. Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Listen in as Mizzy Bender and the SDC.com community chat all things swingers lifestyle. This is a behind the scenes listen, to give you an idea of the flow of the live shows. Even though today's topic is on "Questions to Ask New Play Partners" there's a lot of engaging conversation incorporating so much information for new swingers. Be part of the live sessions, that air on the second and last Thursday of the month by joining SDC: https:/.sdc.com/?ref=35907/www My private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Swingers, protect your unicorn! Listen in as Mizzy chats with Luna, who has first hand knowledge as a unicorn in the swingers lifestyle. We share a unique perspective from the things we've experienced over the last month through various swingers parties, adding in general life stories to back up our thoughts. As a fun addition, Spencer chimes in along the way. Its a captivating listen with a lot of laughs.    Join my private website group: http://wix.to/zEDcB4w?ref=cl Join SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=35907 RSVP for Boo: www.mindbenderparties.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

It's been a swingers overload! We've had a swinger party every single weekend in August. Between personally partying, setting up Mizzy’s Boutique as a vendor and of course our own, Mindbender Parties, Wild'N Out in White party, theres so much goodness to share. This episode does just that! I tried a new format, and of course it didn't go exactly as I envisioned, but I think you will still enjoy the flow, conversation and surprises! The mizzadventures continue, so stay tuned, follow along and comment along the way!    Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Join my journey as I talk about the recent swingers lifestyle events we've attended, my thoughts on my current lifestyle as I turn 40 and so much more.  New episodes the first Thursday of every month.   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 40 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

This weeks topic is community submitted: We seem to have run into certain couples recently who at first, seem to be experienced swingers (or at least say they are) but then turn out to be less than they say or not on the same page. Are there good questions to ask new swinging couples to get a good gauge at to their experience in the lifestyle and maybe verify that they are both on the same page? We want to avoid the dreaded awkward situation when a couple fights in front of you or one gets mad about what happened.  Vote Mizzy's Boutique as Best Retail Outlet: https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/vote-4-16-6-1   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Today, Spencer and I recap our our latest swingers party adventure, Candyland, which was an amazing success. Through the conversation we share what's been going on the last few weeks, including our silly banter that you can't get enough of.   Catch me LIVE May 17th, 5pm EST on Instagram @sdclifestylersclub as we chat all things swingers lifestyle.   Vote Mizzy's Boutique as Best Retail Outlet: https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/vote-4-16-6-1   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Were you raised with a specific mindset or culture, making you feel like exploring your sexuality was forbidden? Listen in as Elba explains her thoughts through life living in Puerto Rico at a young age, to now being able to be her free swinger self in the United States.    To Learn more about Elba: www.gynisarts.com https://open.spotify.com/episode/2SskJoYTwAXseVZMogdAJ8?si=SERFp10fSB6wn1g_oXIg8A https://youtube.com/@hablaclaromano   STD Testing: https://www.cdc.gov/std/prevention/screeningreccs.htm   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Stephanie was a unicorn who turned married swinger. Listen in as she tells her journey, sharing the ups and downs of exploring such an open lifestyle.  We were lucky enough to also have Jim jump on, her husband, to share his perspective of joining a lifestyle he was adamant against.    Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Are you curious on what kind of etiquette you should follow when becoming a swinger? Elliott and I talk through so many thoughts from a married mans perspective to his early days as a single gentleman. Listen in as we lay down the law.  lol. But seriously, its all up for discussion.    About Elliott: https://linktr.ee/elliottpness elliottpness.com / @elliottpness across all social media platforms After being picked up by a couple on NYE 11 years ago, Elliott P. Ness has been active in the alternative lifestyle. He started as a single male and interacted in the swinger and BDSM spaces which quickly opened up doors in the adult industry. Now married, Elliott works with a number of Onlyfans creators and cam models, as well as swinger clubs and groups up and down the East Coast as he does everything he can to make the two industries he loves most a little bit better each day.

Through all the laughing and giggling, listen to Spencer and I banter on everyday life things as we talk through what's been happening lately. Spencer shares his thoughts on Winters Kiss, our first swinger event of the year and so much more.    Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

This weeks guest is Jon a/k/a HiThereCatsuit the host of What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast. After being a guest on his show last year, I absolutely had to invite him on to mine    His perspective on kindness as it relates to the kink world is something I really wanted to highlight. It's simple yet so powerful!   Social Links - Linktr.ee/whatwomenwantpodcast Jon a/k/a HiThereCatsuit has been hosting the What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast since October of 2020 with over 150 episodes. The show was just named the “Official Podcast of FetishCon” An avid writer and contributor on FetLife, Jon wrote a column about men and their unsolicited dick pics. The response led him to brainstorm with NookieNotes of Dating Kinky to create the podcast.    As Jon, the host has an award winning background in broadcasting going back more than 35 years and has appeared as a talent on national networks as well as regional and local stations. He has 7 Emmy Awards for his work behind the scenes, and also designs all the graphic elements for the show’s social media. In addition, he has been a public speaker and has even presented a TEDx talk about how people treat each other.  In the scene, HiThereCatsuit is a bottom who is known for their trademark spandex suits which led to his name, as so many people just said “HiThereCatsuit” when they would walk into a party. They are also known for his notebooks which they share with people they connect with to keep inventory of small victories. They are active in the Cincinnati area and have taught at Kinky Kollege Spring Break 2022, Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair 2022 and for TES-NYC in their TESTuesday online series, and the Owl’s Nest Online Education Fundraiser. They are a regular host and presenter with Dating Kinky as well and appears on all of their big weekend events.   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Yahoooooooooooo! Its time for season 4. The Mizzy Bender show is back with all sorts of swingers education, stories, interviews and so much more.    Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

As we wait at the ferry dock after our last travel of the season, I record the season finally with Spencer. A little tired, a little silly, but a whole lot thankful. Happy Holidays and spectacular New Year. I'll be back February 2, 2023.   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Last year I was so excited to be one of the four invited guest speakers to celebrate the one year anniversary of Mating Season written by Lexi Sylver. During the anniversary event I had the pleasure and honor to read part of "Trick Shot" one her erotic stories which was so sexy and an amazing experience. Although completely out of my comfort zone reading out loud in front of others, I was able to absorb and feel the energy of the other guests as well. Since then, I've formed such amazing relationships that I absolutely cherish.   After the book anniversary I invited Lexi Sylver to be a guest on The Mizzy Bender Show, my audible podcast. Time and hectic schedules put a bit of a delay on the broadcast of the episode... BUT its time to release the beast!   To learn more: www.LexiSylver.com   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Listen as Jack Polo has some questions when it comes to the Swingers Lifestyle. My thoughts on the topic with insight he has gathered through the years on part two of this conversation. Missed something? Be sure to go back and listen to the previous conversation.   Meet Jack Polo, Owner of Triple X Playground, The Best Adult Communication Tool Ever! O.K. So what is TRIPLE X PLAYGROUND? We provide a platform for adults who have something in common- their love for venturing into new heights when it comes to their sexual intimacy. TXP is a fun-filled game that can be played amongst couples, with a third person, or in a group. It will provide an opportunity to explore different sexual realms and suggestively take you to a sexual height you might have needed help discovering.Need to add some spice and not sure how? Come to the playground; www.TRIPLEXPLAYGROUND.comMach-Media, INC. 2020 All rights reserved.™

Last year I was so excited to be one of the four invited guest speakers to celebrate the one year anniversary of Mating Season written by Lexi Sylver. During the anniversary event I had the pleasure and honor to read part of "Trick Shot" one her erotic stories which was so sexy and an amazing experience. Although completely out of my comfort zone reading out loud in front of others, I was able to absorb and feel the energy of the other guests as well. Since then, I've formed such amazing relationships that I absolutely cherish.   After the book anniversary I invited Lexi Sylver to be a guest on The Mizzy Bender Show, my audible podcast. Time and hectic schedules put a bit of a delay on the broadcast of the episode... BUT its time to release the beast!   To learn more: www.LexiSylver.com Interview launching Tuesday, 10/29/2022   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Listen as Jack Polo has some questions when it comes to the Swingers Lifestyle. My thoughts on the topic with insight he has gathered through the years.    Meet Jack Polo, Owner of Triple X Playground, The Best Adult Communication Tool Ever! O.K. So what is TRIPLE X PLAYGROUND? We provide a platform for adults who have something in common- their love for venturing into new heights when it comes to their sexual intimacy. TXP is a fun-filled game that can be played amongst couples, with a third person, or in a group.   It will provide an opportunity to explore different sexual realms and suggestively take you to a sexual height you might have needed help discovering. Need to add some spice and not sure how?   Come to the playground; www.TRIPLEXPLAYGROUND.com Mach-Media, INC. 2020 All rights reserved.™

Meet Jack Polo, Owner of Triple X Playground, The Best Adult Communication Tool Ever! O.K. So what is TRIPLE X PLAYGROUND? We provide a platform for adults who have something in common- their love for venturing into new heights when it comes to their sexual intimacy. TXP is a fun-filled game that can be played amongst couples, with a third person, or in a group. It will provide an opportunity to explore different sexual realms and suggestively take you to a sexual height you might have needed help discovering. Need to add some spice and not sure how? Come to the playground; www.TRIPLEXPLAYGROUND.com Mach-Media, INC. 2020 All rights reserved.™   Follow Triple X Playground on social media: https://twitter.com/triplexplaygrnd https://www.instagram.com/triple_x_playground/   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US. Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

As you may know, we collaborate a ton with Fusion Parties, New Hampshire. Either attending their events as party goers, vending the boutique or creating a dungeon space we truly value our relationship with them. Kris and Tasia are really fun humans who always keep us laughing. Although Tasia was under the weather for recording, you hear a few pop in thoughts from the side lines. On this episode Kris will tell us about their journey and how Fusion Parties began. To follow Fusion Parties on Social Media:https://www.instagram.com/fusion.parties/  To contact Fusion Parties:FusionParties1@gmail.com    Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Did you listen to last weeks episode? If not go back and catch up! Meet Jack Polo, Owner of Triple X Playground, The Best Adult Communication Tool Ever! O.K. So what is TRIPLE X PLAYGROUND? We provide a platform for adults who have something in common- their love for venturing into new heights when it comes to their sexual intimacy. TXP is a fun-filled game that can be played amongst couples, with a third person, or in a group. It will provide an opportunity to explore different sexual realms and suggestively take you to a sexual height you might have needed help discovering. Need to add some spice and not sure how? Come to the playground; www.TRIPLEXPLAYGROUND.com Mach-Media, INC. 2020 All rights reserved.™   Follow Triple X Playground on social media: https://twitter.com/triplexplaygrnd https://www.instagram.com/triple_x_playground/   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US. Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

In all aspects of life, having a mentor is a wonderful thing. Lorenzo has been a such an amazing supporter of mine, but most importantly has guided me and kept me on my path. Sometimes things can be confusing and messy, but he always has the right answers.    To Follow Lorenzo: https://twitter.com/Lorenzo4016 https://www.instagram.com/lorenzog2920/     Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Earlier this year while scrolling TikTok, I came across GParty696 as he was on a live video sharing his thoughts on the swingers lifestyle. I really appreciated seeing a man front and center talking the ins and outs of the swingers world, really connecting with audience having great conversation. Shortly there after I was introduced to his lovely wife Tnswingwife1. Since then, we've established a wonderful friendship that continues to grow. Finding like minded individuals who share the same passions and interests if the best part of the alternative lifestyle.   To Follow: https://www.tiktok.com/@gparty696 https://www.tiktok.com/@tnswingwife https://www.instagram.com/gparty69/   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Let's welcome Mr. Mindbender to the show.....  Together we recap our weekend, share current events and talk about Boo 5, A Mindbender Production this coming weekend. It's been a while since he has joined us and this won't be the last time.  Get ready for some wild conversations because we are just getting started.    Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Sponsored by SDC.com Finding a Unicorn without the Engagement of Men - Newbies Seeking Advice Today's topis is a community submitted one from two newbies trying to find their way.   Q: We are married and new to the lifestyle. Me and my husband want to fulfill some fantasy's and learning a lot about the lifestyle and communicating. We are not full swingers we are looking for another single woman that is bi-sexual that would want to join us. How do we just connect with them and not all these other men commenting and making him feel that's what I am trying to do. I would love to be sexy and walk around and smile and attract other women, but I don't know how flirt with women. I need more confidence in that area. lol I am shy that's why pictures and visuals help. Please help us in any advise.   Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Whether it be a swingers / alternative lifestyle or not, you must always follow your gut. When things seem a bit out of place, take a step back and reevaluate. Through personal experience, I share my thoughts on the topic.     Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Is it ok to talk about your swingers lifestyle at work? Through a community submitted question, hear my overall thoughts.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Together as a community we came up with some rules and boundaries that should be known within the alternative lifestyle.  After listening to the episode, let me know what you think!   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Community submitted topic: HI Mizzy,   I've just come across your page and my husband and I are just a few years in to the lifestyle. How do you deal with drama in the lifestyle?   We are all adults obviously, but there is a couple specifically that we have had issues with since we were exclusive/poly with them and we've stopped and they know a lot of people and are trying to make our life hell now. We've tried talking about things and nothing works. I'd love to hear about this on your show. Your advice is greatly appreciated!!   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US. Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Its been a long week, that's for sure.  I have so much empathy for those that got it worse. I couldn't even imagine what you went through. As I try and regroup getting back to regular business, I tell my tale.   About Mizzy Bender www.mizzybender.com Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

It Was Our First Swingers Party in 10 Years and I Have Feedback for the Hosts on Mornings with Mizzy: Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle Morning Show. *RSVP to Boo a Mindbender Productions 10.29 www.mindbenderparties.com To hear about specific subjects email MizzyBender@outlook.com About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success. Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another. Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Do you have a topic? Email me MizzyBender@outlook.com   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Community Submitted Topic: I've been a life-long diabetic and over the last dozen or so years, it has caused occasional erectile dysfunction which was manageable with little blue pills. However, as of late, erections have been non-existent - the pills are no longer effective. My partner and I have been together nearly 10 years, and this new problem is suddenly changing the dynamic of our play lifestyle, as well as our own personal banging (or lack there of). I'd love to hear your thoughts and suggestions on how a relationship which has always been full-swap can comfortably change to just her swapping while I either simply watch, or do manual/oral only on a woman. But in all honesty, that's not usually what is expected when at a club or hotel event... How does one still play when they physically cannot, and not be embarrassed by it in the lifestyle?   Do you have a topic? Email me MizzyBender@outlook.com   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

A community submitted request is regards to Cuckolding. What is it all about?    Do you have a topic? Email me MizzyBender@outlook.com   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Listen as I recap our swingers white party from the beginning of travel to today. Stayed tuned for an upcoming blog with additional commentary attached to some photos. I just have to wait to receive the goods from our photographer, Chris Addams.   RSVP to Boo a Mindbender Production www.mindbenderparties.com

Gosh, it feels like forever! Welcome back after our summer break.  During my time off, I came across a scenario with someone that is learning about the swingers lifestyle. Very new outlook with some red flags. Give a listen, see what you think.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Its been a couple days since I've hosted a #morningswithmizzy. It's been way too hectic with travel to The Paradise Club vending #mizzysboutique and continuous house guests for Mizzy's Birthday Camping Bash and The Hamptons White Party.   Mr. Mindbender and I share some of the journey with you in this special edition of Mornings with Mizzy, recorded Monday, July 25, 2022. I'll be posting my blog full of photos and videos soon, so be sure to check back! Until then, listen to the ridiculousness we bring the the table.

Setting healthy boundaries when entering the swingers lifestyle will be something I always advocate for.  Over the last few episodes, we've been discussing the reasons why one wants to be a swinger. Thinking about out our desires and turn-ons and how to communicate them to our partners.  The flow of conversation will help you build the basic foundation to a healthy relationship in the alternative lifestyle world.    75 Day Challenge: http://wix.to/qb5hwJ1?ref=2_cl   *Referencing page 71-73 in the Ethical Slut, Edition 2.   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Today we discuss turn ons that lead to fulfilling our desires after lasts weeks discussion on what brought us to the alternative lifestyle.  Our conversations are going to be a continuous look into our mind, body and soul, allowing us to live our best healthy selves and relationships.    75 Day Challenge: http://wix.to/qb5hwJ1?ref=2_cl   *Referencing page 175-177 in the Ethical Slut, Edition 2.   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

This is a deep dive look inside as to why we participate within the alternative lifestyle.  Hear my thoughts, as they've developed and changed over time, making me who I am in the lifestyle today.    75 Day Challenge: http://wix.to/qb5hwJ1?ref=2_cl   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

But She Promised! Then backed out! Community submitted segment. Has your partner promised to participate in swinging and then ultimately change their mind? Do you hold resentment because of it?   Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valued at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.   75 Day Challenge: http://wix.to/qb5hwJ1?ref=2_cl   About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.   Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

It's okay to take a break from the swingers / alternative lifestyle when you and or your relationship need it.  Listening to our gut and communicating our needs is critical.   Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!   External Links: Mizzy Bender Mindbender Parties Mizzy's Boutique Join us SDC

Today we discuss a community submitted vent on ghosting.  How frustrating is it to invest so much time into a new human, plan a date and then BAM! No show!    Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!   External Links: Mizzy Bender Mindbender Parties Mizzy's Boutique Join us SDC

Community Submitted Topic: I was wondering if you did a podcast or video that talks about how to stop being jealous in the lifestyle or if you could do one!?! My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and we love this lifestyle but as our feelings have really grown stronger for one another I find myself starting to get really jealous of the other girls he plays with and I know in my heart that my goal is for both of us to be freely ourselves and do whatever we want without having any negative feelings. Would you be able to point me in the right direction if you've done that topic or I'd greatly appreciate it if you could do a podcast/video on it!!!   Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!   External Links: Mizzy Bender Mindbender Parties Mizzy's Boutique Join us SDC

OMGOSH - what an episode! I had so much to share after returning from an event weekend. I shared from beginning to end, from dinner to sexy play scenes with Ms. Lady and everything in between.  Which is how I came to todays topic of ... That is so sexy....but OUCH.    Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!   External Links: Mizzy Bender Mindbender Parties Mizzy's Boutique Join us SDC

Today we have fun with community submitted questions with engaging conversation on body image, confidence and so much more.   Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway valuesd at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!   External Links: Mizzy Bender Mindbender Parties Mizzy's Boutique Join us SDC

How do you feel about sexting? Is it different with your primary partner over a play partner? Write in with your thoughts. Until then, Listen to engaging thoughts from myself and the community.   Enter this months raffle by subscribing to www.mizzybender.com to be entered into the Mizzy Madness Swag Bag Giveaway values at $50. Winner will be announced live on June 30th.    About Mizzy Bender Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.   Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.   Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US. ​ Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!   External Links: Mizzy Bender Mindbender Parties Mizzy's Boutique Join us SDC