To Have & To Hold

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the Feast Day of St. Dominic and discuss the topic of how to get and stay on the same page as a married couple. They talk about their own practice of an annual retreat to talk through goals and priorities in marriage, children, spirituality, relationships, personal, professional financial.

#marriagegoals #catholic #catholiclife

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to healing and continue the discussion on the effects of Adverse Child Experiences (ACEs) on us as people and in our marriage and family and some practical tips to deal with them.

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Video Credit: https://www.thersa.org/

Original YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/1Evwgu369Jw

Voice: Dr Brené Brown

Animation: Katy Davis (AKA Gobblynne) www.gobblynne.com

Production and Editing: Al Francis-Sears and Abi Stephenson

#adversechildexperiences #catholic #catholiclife

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the wisdom of the Church and discuss the effects of Adverse Child Experiences (ACEs) on us as people and in our marriage and family.

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Video of Nadine Burke-Harris speaking on ACE Study

https://www.ted.com/talks/nadine_burke_harris_how_childhood_trauma_affects_health_across_a_lifetime?language=en

#adversechildexperiences #catholic #catholiclife

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to faith filled friendships and discuss the challenge with having unrealistic and unhealthy expectations in marriage and family.

#comparisongame #catholic #catholiclife

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the pursuit of happiness and they discuss the issue of the comparison game in marriage and relationships.

#comparisongame #catholic #catholiclife

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to Nichole's success in passing her clinical counseling licensure exam. They also discuss the reality of doubt, trust and opening yourself up to God in times of stress, anxiety and uncertainty as well as growing spiritually and as a couple during this time.

#trustingod #catholic #catholiclife

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to a return to mass and discuss the concept of "offering it up" as it relates to our own offerings and sacrifices on behalf of our spouse and family.

#catholic #offeritup #howtochangeyourspouse

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to differences and discuss how to approach arguing as a couple and in relationships that is respectful, productive and life giving.

#catholic #howtofightfairinmarriage #resolvingconflict

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the temperaments God gave them and discuss how a good understanding of temperaments lead to improved relationships.

Book Recommended:

https://www.amazon.com/Temperament-God-Gave-You-Yourself/dp/1933184027/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1WFI8BS7DX5BV&dchild=1&keywords=the+temperament+god+gave+you&qid=1591196544&sprefix=temperaments+god+%2Caps%2C204&sr=8-1

https://www.amazon.com/Personality-Plus-Work-Successfully-Anyone/dp/0800730542/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1145UI23YAW63&dchild=1&keywords=personality+plus+at+work&qid=1591198783&sprefix=personality+plus+at%2Caps%2C209&sr=8-1

Temperament Quiz:

https://www.temperamentquiz.com/

#catholic #catholicmarriage #worldablazeinc

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the birthday of the Church and to the gifts that the Church has brought to their life, marriage, family and relationships.

#catholic #catholicmarriage #worldablazeinc

Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the small start of lifted restrictions and the things they discovered during this time of quarantine.

#catholic #catholicmarriage #worldablazeinc

Join John & Nichole Sablan as they toast to all mothers, discuss gifts of maternity and speak to the roles of husbands and wives in marriage and family.

Join John and Nichole as they kick off their first episode of To Have & To Hold and share some secrets to their 25 years of marriage and family life.