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Just The Way You Are

Just The Way You Are

Mira Rao, Rose Rivera

What if at the end of your life, you were able to look back and have NO regrets? A life in which, despite all the challenges, you felt satisfied and content with how you showed up and who you were. In a world where anxiety, depression, and generational trauma abound, this podcast strives to make navigating these and living with yourself as easy (meaningful and enjoyable) as possible. Join co-hosts Rose Rivera and Mira Rao as we guide you to explore the depths of who you are and how to create a life that’s authentic, unique, and actually worth living. Drawing inspiration from everywhere including ancient wisdom traditions, somatic practices, spiritual teachings, and cutting-edge psychological research, we’re offering you the opportunity to explore and find your own Truth, adopt what works for you, and toss out the rest. Because it’s not about what you “should do” but what you feel most called to do, what you want to do, and learning to live in a way that’s aligned with your deepest values. Turns out crafting a life that allows you to be Just The Way You Are is both the goal and the path that gets you there. (As far as we can tell, that’s the real secret to having the “no regrets” part at the end.) *** Why listen to us at all? Here are some details so you can decide. Mira Rao Creds: - Master of Counselling - Master of Business Administration - Coach & Therapist, Yoga & Applied PolyVagal Instructor, Entrepreneur - Areas of expertise include resilience, trauma recovery, embodiment Rose Rivera Creds: - Master of Business Administration specializing in Global Business - Master of Medicine, Family & Sexuality Studies - Coach, Educator, Entrepreneur, Futurist for over 15 years - Areas of expertise include emerging technologies, business, human dynamics, personal psychology

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  • 18 - Power of SURRENDER

    Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the need to control everything around you?   What would happen if you just let go...?   There is incredible liberation in surrender when done right. Being able to release control of things that aren't within your personal agency is a powerful form of self-empowerment that is almost always overlooked.   In this episode we’re linking surrender to radical responsibility, living according to your values, and setting healthy boundaries. You'll start to understand why yielding is a strength, not a weakness, and how it can open up new pathways to success.   By nurturing self-trust, you can learn to release the grip of fear under your need for control and embrace life's unpredictability with confidence.    Episode at a Glance:   01:23 - The Illusion of Control 02:21 - Shifting the Conversation: Letting Go of Control 03:58 - The Power of Surrender 05:17 - Embodiment and the Cycle of Empowerment 06:57 - Surrender as a Path to Inner Peace 08:16 - Trusting Yourself and the Universe 09:33 - Relational Dynamics and Sovereignty 11:11 - The Metaphor of the Stream: Flow and Surrender 13:03 - Radical Responsibility and Surrender 14:40 - The Duality of Action and Letting Go 16:00 - Rituals of Resilience: Practical Applications 17:02 - Living with Peace and Fulfillment     ***   Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/        Curious about leaning into surrender as a path of empowerment? Visit Secrets of Sacred Surrender to work with Rose and learn more about this unique journey.   

    Next Up in Episode 7:  

    What do you do when you take authentic action and receive pushback from your friends, work, partner? To ensure sustained change, you need a plan of how to deal with your own elevated nervous system. This is where Rituals of Manifestation come in! Next episode we’re walking you step-by-step through how to create a series of “Rituals” that you can rely on to get you through the most challenging criticisms. See you then! 

    Mon, 11 Nov 2024 - 33min
  • 17 - The ANATOMY of a Boundary

    Are you ready to transform your relationships by mastering the art of boundary-setting?  

    In this episode, we’re taking you step-by-step through the essential process of establishing and maintaining personal boundaries - a crucial skill for emotional and relational well-being.  

    We start with learning how to recognize your emotional triggers and understand the messages your emotions are sending you.  

    Then guide you through the steps of preparing for boundary conversations, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self-compassion. Discover how to communicate your needs with love and vulnerability, and prepare for potential challenges like boundary backlash.  

    Join us on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment, as you learn to navigate the complexities of maintaining your authentic self in relationships. 

     

    Episode at a Glance: 

    01:50 - Introduction to Boundaries  03:02 - Identifying Boundary Violations  04:14 – Setting and Reinforcing Boundaries  04:49 - Practical Tools for Boundary Setting  06:11 – Understanding Emotions Linked to Boundaries  07:48 – The Role of Anger in Boundary Setting  11:11 – Cultural Perspectives on Emotions  12:28 – Emotional Literacy and Self-Validation  17:17 - The Process of Internal Reflection  18:39 - Taking Action on Boundaries  20:32 – Finding Courage to Set Boundaries  21:36 – Rehearsing Boundary Conversations  22:60 - Leading with Love and Need  29:07 – Communicating Needs Effectively  34:43 – Negotiating Boundaries in Relationships  41:43 - Dealing with Boundary Backlash  45:49 – Self-Regulation and Emotional Management  51:18 - The Cycle of Self-Trust and Authenticity  54:54 - The Importance of Self-Compassion 

     

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    Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/     

    Learn more about Rose: Coaching & Free Lessons

     

    Next Up in Episode 6:  

    What does surrender have to do with living your most empowered life? Turns out – a lot! Next episode we’re exploring the counterintuitive links between self-confidence, trust, and your ability let go of what’s not in your control. See you then!  

    Mon, 04 Nov 2024 - 39min
  • 16 - Loving BOUNDARIES

    Have you ever thought of boundaries as more than just barriers?  

    What if boundaries could be collaborative spaces that foster more respect, empathy...even love?  

    There’s SO much more beauty to boundaries than just saying “no”. 

    In this episode, you’ll learn how to set boundaries that enhance your personal agency and create meaningful connections with others that are aligned with your values.  

    We dive into the difference between boundaries and ultimatums, emphasizing the nuanced importance of expressing boundaries without demanding things. 

    Join us as we talk about the role vulnerability and internal boundaries play in nurturing healthy relationships – hopefully inspiring you to reflect on your own boundaries and equip you with insights that hold the power to transform the way you relate to your friends, co-workers, children, and beloveds. 

     

    Episode at a Glance: 

    01:48 - Introduction to Boundaries   02:37 - The Power of Aligned Boundaries   03:10 - Boundaries as Collaborative Spaces   03:54 - Boundaries in Different Aspects of Life   06:16 - Boundaries and Regulation   06:43 - The Wall Concept of Boundaries   07:15 - Defining Good Boundaries   09:11 - Boundaries in Close Relationships   10:11 - Personal Rules and Sovereignty   11:10 - Ultimatums vs. Boundaries   13:14 - Negotiation and Internal Boundaries   18:17 - Strength in Softness   25:48 - Practical Strategies for Navigating Boundaries   29:09 - Internal Boundaries in Romantic Relationships   32:13 - Anger and Boundary Setting   34:40 - Vulnerability and Boundaries 

     

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    Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/     

    For Private Coaching and Media Inquiries Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com     

     

    Next Up in Episode 5:  

    With this shift in perspective, it’s time to walk you through the step-by-step process of boundary setting. In our next episode, The ANATOMY of a Boundary, we’re detailing it from beginning to end: knowing when a boundary is needed, how to approach boundary-setting with vulnerability, setting the boundary with love, and how to handle the consequences of your boundary. It’s a BIG episode with the potential to shift how you relate to every single person in your life – especially you. Get ready!  

    Mon, 28 Oct 2024 - 56min
  • 15 - Making CONFIDENT Decisions

    What does the game of pool have to do with taking charge of your life and making decisions with confidence?  

    In this episode, we explore the concept of agency and how it influences personal confidence and decision-making. We discuss the importance of recognizing your power to shape your life and the choices available to you, even when faced with uncertainty.  

    Confidence is the self-trust that empowers action, and while you can’t control the outcome, you can control how you respond to it. 

    We also share practical strategies for cultivating self-confidence, such as grounding and breathwork, which help you stay connected to your body and navigate chaotic or uncertain situations.  

    Touching on emotional regulation, self-awareness, and the difference between influence and control in decision-making, we share personal stories that illustrate how aligning your actions with your values leads to greater integrity and self-acceptance.  

    Get ready to start making decisions with genuine confidence! 

     

    Episode at a Glance: 

    01:29 - Introduction to Agency and Confidence 

    01:56 - Defining Self-Confidence 

    02:45 - The Role of Consequences in Confidence 

    06:40 - Embodiment Practices for Confidence 

    08:29 - Handling Emotional Reactions 

    16:30 - Influence vs. Control 

    26:48 - Aligning Actions with Values 

    25:18 - Managing Fear and Emotions 

    28:44 - Building a Confident Relationship with Feelings 

    32:58 - Preview of Next Episode on Boundaries 

     

     

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    Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/     

    For Private Coaching and Media Inquiries Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com    

     

    Next Up in Episode 4: We often hear about the importance of having “good boundaries” and “saying no” - but how? And is saying “no” the only type of boundary we should be enforcing? In our next episode, we’re shifting the perception of a boundary from something that keeps others out, to something that allows others in with more love and vulnerability than ever before.  

    Mon, 21 Oct 2024 - 36min
  • 14 - Finding FREEDOM in Responsibility

    How can taking radical responsibility transform your sense of personal freedom? 

    You might have heard the phrase, "With great freedom comes great responsibility," and today we're unpacking the very real, practical wisdom in it.  

    We're exploring how taking responsibility can lead to a profoundly meaningful life, even if it feels a bit daunting at first.  

    We'll chat about the tricky balance between feeling like a victim and reclaiming your personal agency, including insights on how traditional coaching often misses the mark for those of us with trauma backgrounds.  

    Get ready to hear inspiring stories of individuals who found inner strength and agency in the most challenging circumstances. By the end of this episode, you'll have a better grasp of how to take ownership of your life and decisions, and hopefully, feel a lot more empowered.  

    So, grab a cup of coffee, get comfy, and let's see what Spiderman’s uncle was talking about all along.  

    Episode at a Glance: 

    01:24 - Introduction to Radical Responsibility 

    02:16 - The Path to Freedom Through Responsibility 

    03:26 - Moving from Victimhood to Empowerment 

    06:50 - Childhood Experiences and Adult Agency 

    10:27 - Understanding Radical Responsibility 

    14:51 - Realms of Agency and Control 

    18:26 - Inner Freedom in Extreme Circumstances 

    26:14 - The Power of Personal Agency 

    31:42 - Expanding Your Sphere of Control 

    33:45 - Conclusion and Next Episode Preview 

     

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    Learn more about Mira: https://www.mirarao.com.au/     

    For Private Coaching and Media Inquiries Contact Rose directly: rose@roserivera.com  

     

    Next Up in Episode 3:  Now that you're convinced Radical Responsibility is the way to go...how do you muster the courage necessary to take radical action? The answer: Self-confidence. In our next episode we're taking this lofty concept and grounding it into something you can actually use. You'll walk away being able to quickly answer yes or no to - "Am I making a confident decision right now?" - and adjust your actions accordingly. Powerful stuff. See you then! 

     

    Mon, 14 Oct 2024 - 35min
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