Kinda Sorta Dating

There's nothing quite as painful as heartbreak, so how do you dig yourself out of the pits of misery? Jana spoke to three singletons who shared what helped them mend after a breakup. 

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Are you completely sick of the apps? We are too! This week psychologist Christina O'Connell takes us through her wild new project, Dating With Purpose. It's all about using tests and algorithms to find your perfect personality match. 

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Author, podcaster and all-round legend in  Cath Mahoney joins us today to share the unique experience of breaking up with one of Australia's highest-profile sport stars and how she feels about getting back into the dating world.

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If you've ever been curious about how it works when women hire men for company or sex, then this episode for you. Jana sits down with male escort and porn star Ryan James who tells us exactly what goes into his work.

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Forget the apps, our guests this week say if you want to find the one, try the traffic lights, a cattle station, or even a flatmate finder. 

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Cheaters, what's going on? Why are you like this? We spoke to women from all different walks of life about how they discovered their partner was cheating and how they recovered from the betrayal. 

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Join us as we delve into the world of psychics and romance. Jana interviews three people with different stories about how a psychic impacted their love life. Plus, Jana has her own reading done with some enlightening results. 

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Sophie was living what everyone thought was the 'perfect' married life. She had a loving husband and two beautiful kids. But a chance encounter with a stranger opened her eyes to the possibility that she might have an interest in women. Now, Sophie is engaged to her beautiful fiance Maddie and she's written a book about her experience. 

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Parenthood is not a given for everyone, Jana sits down with a guest who is childfree by choice, and another who is childfree by circumstance and talks about the highs and lows of life without kids. 

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Want to know what goes through the mind of a cheater? Look no further. Jana sat down with a man who has cheated in every relationship he's been in. The fabulous Cat Lynch also stopped by to tell us the wildest cheating story we've ever heard. 

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Oooh grab a glass of wine before jumping into this one, because it is spicy! Jana did a call out for people who were in an open relationship and three of them join us today to share their experiences, the good the bad and the ugly. 

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While casual, nondescript “situationships” certainly have a time and a place, it’s OK to admit when you’re officially tired of “talking” or “hanging out” with someone and want to turn your situationship into a relationship instead. You know, something with a little more commitment, consistency, and that all-important label.

Well, it is entirely possible to push it to become the real thing, and Relationship expert Megan Luscombe teaches us how. 

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Who doesn't love a bit of reality show escapism? This week Jana is joined by Gary King from the hit reality show Below Deck to talk about what really goes on behind the scenes at sea, including how many fans have slid into his DMs...

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Are you stuck in a perpetual cycle of FOMO and ghosting? Helen Chik, author of Sex, Swipes & Other Stories stopped by to share her swipe secrets and the two questions you should ask on a first date. 

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Everyone is talking about the Netflix reality show, Bryon Baes. Jana sat down with Nathan Favro from the show and talked about broken bro codes, being vulnerable and how reality shows can create a false sense of romance. 

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You know things are dire when even the winner of a National beauty contest can't find love. April Banbury chats to Jana about what's wrong with the current dating scenes and why we all need to put down our phones and take more risks.

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We all love to watch love blossom on screen, and we love it even more when things get spicy or dramatic. But what's real and what's not? Megan Pustetto, host of the So Dramatic podcast stops by to share what it's like behind the scenes and share what it's like to spend her days collecting the juiciest gossip. 

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Do you use alcohol as a bit of a social lubricant? You're not alone, but how do you know when your boozing has crossed into unhealthy territory?

Olivia Rogers is an author, a mental health advocate and former miss universe Australia. In May last year, she ditched alcohol completely after noticing the effect it was having on her relationship and her life. 

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Jules Robinson and Cam Merchant are undoubtedly MAFS' biggest success story. They sat down to talk through the surprising MAFS trick that actually did help their bond as well as how they managed to grow their love beyond the show. 

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Can't figure out if they're into you? Don't worry, we got you. 

We're joined in this episode by Viral TikTok star and dating coach Jacob Lucas who reveals the body language that will tell you everything you need to know. 

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Ugh, do we really have to talk about money? Unfortunately, the experts say: yes we definitely do. Former Bachelorette contestant and genius financial planner James Trethewie joins us in today's ep to talk about how to broach awkward money chats and the conversations you really shouldn't avoid. 

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Radio legend Laura Bouchet fell in love with her husband Bruno almost instantly, but six months into their relationship she started noticing some concerning symptoms. Bruno was later diagnosed with Bipolar disorder and Laura shares the impact this has had on their relationship and how she supports him through the worst days.

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We're all guilty of the occasional filtered pic (Paris filter is Jana's fave). But are we setting ourselves up for disappointment and awkward conversations? Body image advocate writer and film director Taryn Brumfitt says it's time we all embrace our natural appearance and stop hiding it on dating apps.

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It's time to talk about the most 'romantic' of all the red flags during dating - love bombing. It all starts well with gifts and grand gestures but things can go downhill fast and turn into coercive control. 

The amazing Daisy Turnbull joins us to talk about how you identify love bombing, how to help friends in coercive relationships and why we should teach kids about healthy relationships. 

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Skirt Club is an underground community for girls who occasionally like to play with girls. It was set up in 2014 by Geneviève LeJeune, who had attended "play parties" with a male ex. She soon realised she was doing things for his pleasure, not her own. So she decided to make Skirt Club for ladies only.

It hosts a private members network for the curious kind; both in mind and sexuality. Skirt Club promotes glamour; free-flowing champagne, burlesque performers and…much more. Genevieve joins Jana on the podcast today to explain why so many women want to get involved!

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You're in for a treat this week! We've collated the best dating stories, and words of wisdom from some of Jana's fabulous podcast guests in 2021.  From threesomes, to ghostings, and plenty of expert advice on vulnerability and dating anxiety - this episode will ensure you go into the dating world in 2022 fully prepared! 

Thank you for a wonderful year, and stay tuned because we've got a lot more in store for you in 2022! 

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Let’s be honest, 2021 brought with it a whole bag of surprises when it came to our love lives! Some of us met the loves of our lives, some of us went on a million lockdown walking dates, and others went through heart shattering break ups. So looking ahead, what can we expect in our love lives in 2022?

Well a self-confessed astrology nerd by the name of Natasha Weber, joins me on the podcast today to spill the tea! Natasha’s horoscopes and researched astrological articles have been published in popular Australian and international publications – so it’s safe to say she knows a thing or two!

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There's a new dating trend, which upon first glance, could be seen as quite aggressive! It's called ‘hard balling’. It means someone is being clear about their expectations of a relationship, whether you want a serious long-term partnership or a casual fling. In fact, dating experts are actively encouraging it, and Hinge has seen an absolute turn around in how people now interact on the apps because of it. So to give us all the details, and explain how we can use this new trend to our benefit in the dating world - dating expert Logan Ury joins Jana on the podcast to spill the tea. 

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So apparently December 11th is the day that you're statistically most likely to get dumped. Scary right? Well, don't panic, relationship expert and author Simone Milasas is here to help you dump-proof your dating life. 

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When it comes to dating, do men prefer women under the age of 35? MAFS Dating expert, Mel Schilling, once again brings some hard truths to this week's podcast and reminds us that dating isn't just reserved for your 20's! She teaches us how to put ourselves out there, and why age should never get in the way.

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From explainers and breaking news topics to interviews with newsmakers and trendsetters, I’ve Got News For You is the serious news podcast’s rogue second cousin.....bringing you the news with colour. Every day, join host Andrew Bucklow and news.com.au journalists for a dive into one of the day’s biggest stories.

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Engaged three times, a mad love affair with a French man in Paris, the occasional dalliance with women, and a runaway groom. It's safe to say Kyla Kirkpatrick, aka the 'Champagne Dame' from Real Housewives of Melbourne, love life has been far from dull. She opens up about everything and the lessons she's learnt along the way. A refreshingly honest chat about dating, relationships and love in the modern era.

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Former race car driver Renee Gracie made headlines when she announced her career switch to the adult entertainment industry. She became one of the highest paid members of ‘Only Fans’, before boldly making the switch to 'AussieFans'. So, what made her make such a dramatic career move? What kind of content does she film? How much is she paid? What are some of the weirdest requests she had from a paying fan, and is it actually such a crazy thing to consider doing ourselves…? She joins Jana on the podcast to answer ALL! 

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A recent study has found there is a rise in 'cautious daters' - those who feel some form of anxiety around dating. It's a trend felt by many at some stage of their dating life and Chantelle Otten, a psycho-sexologist, has made it her life mission to empower people to feel great about dating and relationships. She joins Jana on the podcast to shares some really helpful tips on how to combat anxious dating and shares some new dating trends that have emerged post-lockdown. 

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Jordanna Levin is a bestselling author and manifestation guru! She believes many of us have been doing dating wrong — basing our romances around the other person and placing ourselves in the supporting roles. In an attempt to rewrite this narrative, Levin has come up with some amazing manifestation techniques that will allow us to call in an ideal partnership simply by being ourselves – and she joins Jana on the podcast today to tell us all about it.

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Coco Stedman sure made an impact when she took part in the popular reality TV show ‘Married at First Sight’. But - it turns out going on the show was a decision she would later regret… A LOT! Coco joins Jana on the podcast this week to spill all the tea on what it’s REALLY like to go on a reality dating show - and she doesn't hold back!

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With divorces sky rocketing thanks to the recent lockdown, many are putting their armour on and getting ready to battle it out in the divorce courts. But what if you could separate peacefully and amicably? Anne-Marie is known as “The Peaceful Divorce Lawyer” and is the founder and CEO of Divorce Right, an online mediation and divorce coaching platform that aims to empower couples to reach a peaceful, amicable separation outside the family court. ... and she joins Jana on the podcast to share her tips and tricks on divorcing the right way! 

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Lockdown has been hard in many ways, and for many of us, it has given our confidence a proper beating! According to a recent survey more than half of us are worried that our confidence just isn’t what it used to be pre-lockdown. So now that lockdown is coming to an end, how do we get past this and still put ourselves out there to find the one? Mel Schilling, Confidence Coach and ‘Married At First Sight’ relationship expert joins Jana to provide tips and advice on finding confidence during these crazy times and giving us the best chances out there in the dating world. 

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Former Block winner and Triple M radio star Jess Eva joins Jana on the podcast this week, to share her own experiences in the dating world - why she's been engaged for 7 years with no intention of actually getting married. How she escaped a very toxic relationship, and possibly the best advice you'll ever hear - how to successfully maintain a relationship with the RIGHT person. Jess shares all...

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Last week I spoke to a single father, who is in the prime of his dating life, so this week I thought I would see if single mothers were having a similar experience in the dating world. Former Miss Universe Australia, Laura Csortan, had a modelling career that spanned over two decades, and travelled the globe for Channel 7’s hit travel show, The Great Outdoors, before finding herself pregnant and single. Now in her early 40’s, and Mum to gorgeous Layla Rose, she’s back on the dating scene and what a ride it has been. She tells me all about it, along with a discussion on the rules of dating friends' exes and why we both want to marry Farmers! 

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What happens when you've only ever been in serious long-term relationships your entire adult life and suddenly find yourself single? How do you even begin to navigate this new world of dating with all it's apps, multiple options and DM messages? Stevie brings a fascinating perspective on dating - and it's safe to say he is living his best life!  

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It’s safe to say Jana knows a thing or two about being ‘the last one on the shelf’ you know the feeling - when all your friends have coupled up and you’re left spending a quiet Friday night on your own, when all you want is to go out and have fun. On this week's episode Jana is joined by Tully Smyth who you may know from her days gallivanting around the Big Brother house who after being single for 8 years has tackled how to combat the singleton blues!   

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Fabulously outspoken Abbie Chatfield joins me on the podcast this week for a mixed bag of treats! We discuss dating during lockdown fatigue, threesomes, navigating the dating world as a bisexual, her own dealings with STD’s and why it’s so important we feel comfortable to openly chat about it. Just a word of warning, we are VERY open during this chat, so please expect a few explicit words. Might be worth popping the headphones on for this one.

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At the end of last year's lockdown there was a HUGE surge in STD rates because everyone was going out and getting some lovin’. So what can we expect this year?! It is about time we all get a little refresher on how to look after our sexual health. Dr Ginni Mansberg joins Jana on the podcast this week to help debunk the stigma around STD's and explain the common symptoms we should be looking out for. 

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What happens when you trap 20+ strangers in a giant mansion with one person they're all competing to date? Drama, drama, drama! The entire concept of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette is TV gold, but what REALLY happens on set? Do Producers make contestants cry, do fights ever get physical? Is there any ‘action between the sheets?’ Jana invited one of the Bachelors most controversial and outspoken contestants, Juliette Herrara, onto the podcast this week to spill all the secrets… and that she did!

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It's 2021 and thanks to dating apps, and busy lifestyles, many people are now finding themselves in 'situationships' instead of proper relationships. A situationship is basically an undefined romantic relationship. Unlike a friends with benefits situation, there can be feelings involved in a situationship, but the terms of the relationship and the end goal of the relationship are not defined. So what do we do if we want to move from a situationship to a real relationship? Dating and relationship specialist Dr Lurve joins Jana on the podcast to tell us how!

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When Former Cosmopolitan writer, Felicity Harley, was asked to interview some scantily clad footballers for a 'hottest men' feature in the Magazine, little did she know she would be meeting her future husband, AFL player, Tom Harley that day. It led to a third date in ITALY and a hop, skip and a jump down the aisle a little while later. Now, Felicity is an Author, Editor and successful podcast host. Her husband went from playing on-field to off-field as the Sydney Swans CEO. So how do you successfully manage to maintain a thriving career AND a loving relationship at the same time? Felicity shares all... 

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After a marriage, a long-term boyfriend and some experimenting, Sex columnist, Nadia Bokody, made an announcement earlier this year that she was gay. So how did she come to this epiphany, and what has life been like since? She joins Jana Hockings on the podcast to discuss all. 

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When writer Thomas Mitchell met his now wife’s farm grandparents for the very first time, the “city slicker” had a very bad day. In what can only be described as the most hilarious and worst chain of events possible, Mitchell managed to basically destroy an entire farm.  You have to listen to this story to believe it!

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This week, Behavioural Scientist and Dating Coach, Logan Ury, gives Jana all the tips and tricks for creating a dating app profile that guarantees plenty of swipe rights! Plus she shares the big mistakes we’re all making on the apps. Turns out… there are a lot! 

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Jana talks to Dr Kate Adams, from popular TV show Bondi Vet, who opens up about her struggles with love and why so many men find successful women intimidating. So can you have it all? A fulfilling career and a flourishing love life? The girls discuss everything! 

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Tanya Hennessy joins Jana this week as they take a deep dive into the Netflix series that has all women hot under the collar, Sex/Life. They address the obivous elephant (trunk) in the room - Is it real? Is the storyline outdated? Why did it have us scratching our heads far too often! What were the plotline holes? Is it even physically possible to have that much naughty time? All will be addressed! 

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This week Jana speaks to former MKR winner, and English stud - Steve Flood about what it's like out there for a 30-something single bloke. He really opens up about heartbreak, dating apps, red flags and playing the field. It's a brilliant insight into how a guy thinks, and trust me, it will surprise you!

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Colin Fassnidge has had a front row seat to thousands of first dates after years of working the kitchens in many fine establishments. From bad break ups, to proposals gone wrong, there isn't much when it comes to dating and relationships that he hasn't witnessed. He shares some very funny stories in this week's episode. 

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Jana is joined by Kanika Batra, who has been diagnosed as a sociopathic narcissist. Kanika explains her condition and tells us EXACTLY what it’s like to date someone like her. Strap yourselves in for a fascinating chat! And remember, if you need to talk to someone you can always call lifeline on 13 11 14. For more stories on dating relationships and content like this head to https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships   

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If anyone knows a thing or two about flakey dates it’s Alisha Aitken-Radburn. Having appeared on The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise… TWICE! Girl has learnt a thing or two about not putting up with rubbish dates. She shares some horrifying stories from her own dating experience, and Jana and Alisha look at what it’s like to work on the Bachelor series from both on and behind the camera.   For more stories on dating relationships and content like this head to https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships   

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This week Jana is joined by the incredible Candice Warner. Whether she’s beating the boys on SAS or fighting off paps chasing a pic of her and her very famous husband, Dave Warner, she’s always got it covered. Candice shares many a fascinating dating story on this week's episode, including the juicy way she captured the heart of one of Australia’s best cricketers. Plus, we don’t hold back when tackling callers dating dilemmas.   For more stories on dating relationships and content like this head to https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships 

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Jana chats to international jewellery designer Samantha Wills about whether it’s possible to forge ahead with a career whilst trying to maintain a love life. Samantha is best known for the business she started at just 22 years old, which went on to be a global success worn on the red carpet by stars like Drew Barrymore, Pink, Rihanna and Beyonce. During that time she also tried to maintain a long-term relationship and with that came that heartbreaking realisation that her partner had been cheating on her throughout their relationship.   For more stories on dating relationships and content like this head to https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships 

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Jana talks to former ‘Bachelor’ Stu Laundy to pick his brain on dating divorcees - who better to ask than an eligible divorcee himself who has also dated Jana! In this episode of Kinda Sorta Dating we talk about what are the red flags to look out for when dating a divorcee, and Stu opens up about his own heartbreaking breakup along with his regrets about going on the Bachelorette in the midst of a divorce.   For more stories on dating relationships and content like this head to https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships 

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The dating world can be pretty tough, and keeping a relationship even tougher! Each week news.com.au’s dating columnist, Jana Hocking, attempts to navigate her way through the maze of modern dating and relationships. Is it now socially acceptable to ghost someone? Do you still need to wait three days before texting? How soon is too soon to have ‘the talk’? The rules have changed. With the help of some famous friends and some knowledgeable experts, Jana explores topics that have everyone scratching their heads. And, of course, her guests will share their own dating and relationship horror stories. It’s 2021 and let’s be honest, thanks to dating apps, social media, a major hook up culture and fast paced living, aren’t we all just.. kinda… sorta… dating?!

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