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- 74 - Breathe In Breathe OutMon, 15 Jul 2019 - 08min
- 73 - Is "somebody" looking out for me?
Is there someone (or something) looking out for us when we need them? I say it in the intro, I don’t believe in guardian angels or old men with white beards in the sky, but when I was really despairing, I asked the air for help, and dammit if it doesn’t seem to me that something answered the call. Was this just coincidence? A story I’m making up? What if I’ve noticed it happen a bunch of times in my life? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mon, 19 Mar 2018 - 33min - 72 - What if we treated our heroes and villains the same?
What would life look like if we treated the people in our lives who we perceive as bad people - the villains, and those who we place on pedestals (our heroes) the same. What if we were able to even-out our approach - giving the villains the benefit of the doubt and some empathy, and the heroes a sense of appreciation but without fawning or pressure - would the world shift in some way? Would it make a difference? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 16 Dec 2017 - 23min - 71 - Is there any hope for humanity?
Humanity, our species, is facing severe threats - climate change and ever intensifying weather, antibiotic resistant diseases, political instability and disconnection, the list goes on and on, and all the while, our own population is expected to grow to 8 billion by 2024. Is there any hope that we’ll be able to align and confront our problems before they overcome us? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 02 Dec 2017 - 23min - 70 - Am I the person I used to be?
As we grow older, do we remain the same person, or are we somehow someone else? Certainly we change - our looks, opinions, personalities - sometimes these things change drastically...but that doesn’t make us different people? If we're the same, then what is the thing that remains the same? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 26 Nov 2017 - 24min - 69 - How much does the media control the outcome?
How would life be different if we didn’t have news at all? How much of what happens in the world is created or influenced by how events preceding it are reported? To some extent, we know from the media, that mass shooters are encouraged by the coverage of previous mass shooters. What role does the media play in uncovering topics that people need to learn about, and how much do they exploit events, for ratings and advertising, that are better left uncovered? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 19 Nov 2017 - 19min - 68 - Must I choose between the present and the future?
This week, we explore if it is better to live life with a strong aspiration towards the future - trying to build something, achieve something, or leave a lasting legacy, or if it is enough to simply be deeply connected to the present moment. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 11 Nov 2017 - 20min - 67 - Is it OK for guys to cry?
We find, in our culture, that men can freely engage in any emotion, as long as it doesn’t involve crying. Why is this? When did we learn that we have to give up crying as a way we express ourselves? Are we cool with it? Are we missing out on something if we hold it back? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Thu, 02 Nov 2017 - 21min - 66 - What's my purpose?
So often on our show, we’re asking questions that are really just circling the one big question that we all have - “What is it all about?”, or “Why am I here?” This week, we get closer to that big question by asking about our purpose - over and above everything else, is there something that we’re meant to do? If so, what is it? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 28 Oct 2017 - 23min - 65 - How do you teach a kid to be themself?
How do you teach a kid to be OK with who they are - to feel good, to be confident, to do what they want to do? All too often, kids are driven into certain activities, behaviors, or even career paths based on what adults think is best, but may not be what the kid wants. How do you guide a kid into a life that they would say, “I’m happy with this.”? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Fri, 20 Oct 2017 - 15min - 64 - Why can't I just stay in bed?
Somedays, you wake up, take one bleary-eyed look at the day, and say, “No thanks. I’m going back to bed.” Can you do this? What if you can’t - is there something I can do to turn this feeling around? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 15 Oct 2017 - 20min - 63 - What makes us think we're so special?
Why do we, as humans, think we’re so special? It may be easy to look at our place among other species on earth and pat ourselves on the back for being so great, but a simple glance upward at night reminds us how very small we are compared to the vastness and wonder of what is out there. Furthermore, we adapted to our environment in the exact same way as everything else did - we all evolved to fit our environment, so why do we think that places us above everything else? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Thu, 05 Oct 2017 - 21min - 62 - Why don't we talk about death?
This week we talk about death, and specifically, why don’t we talk about it, or why do we put it off until we are at the very end and have no other choice? What keeps us from talking about the one thing that we all share? Surely fear plays a part of it, but wouldn’t it do us some wonderful good to share those fears instead of burying them? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 01 Oct 2017 - 23min - 61 - How do you confront your neighbor?
How do you handle conflict with your neighbors - or anyone who you’re not super close to. After all, you have to live with them - maybe for a long time. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Thu, 21 Sep 2017 - 22min - 60 - How do we keep our children safe?
Given the vast differences in the kinds of pitfalls and threats that kids (teens)face today versus even what they were just 10 or 15 years ago, what can we do now to help them to be safe. Even the way kids use social media is much different than the way parents use it (as my cousin told me, “We stopped using Facebook as soon as we realized you guys started), so our toolset for how to help our children navigate life is uncharted and unfamiliar. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 16 Sep 2017 - 20min - 59 - At what point is artificial intelligence real?
When does artificial intelligence become real? Inspired by a recent news story about an artificially intelligent system that can paint like some of the great masters, at what point does AI cross the threshold to real intelligence - what would define that? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 10 Sep 2017 - 21min - 58 - What do you want to be remembered for?
When you’re gone, when you’ve shuffled off this mortal coil, how do you want to be remembered? What is the legacy that you’d like to leave in the hearts and minds of the people who remain? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 27 Aug 2017 - 16min - 57 - Can you study for life's pop quizes?
We are all familiar with how life can test us - family members (or ourselves) get really sick or a big change in life that we have to manage, and to get through them, we rely on our support systems, our beliefs, our spirituality, etc, but sometimes, life comes out of nowhere and forces you to act “in the moment” - there is no time to plan or examine options. It is like a ‘pop quiz’ - you don’t know it’s coming, you have to act, and depending on what you do, you can fail it. Is there a way to prepare for these? Is there something we can rely on so that we pass with flying colors? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 20 Aug 2017 - 21min - 56 - How much stuff is enough?
How much stuff do we need? What things matter the most to us, and at what point do they become a burden? It feels timely to ask ourselves about the things we own, because we all know that we’re going to have to give it up someday, so are we OK leaving our friends and family members to deal with it? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 13 Aug 2017 - 20min - 55 - Can winners go with the flow?
Many of us grow up with the notion that you can accomplish anything if you put your mind to it, that, through perseverance, grit, and hard work, you can achieve whatever you want. In parallel, many of us learned (and feel) that life has a flow to it all of its own, and your ability to align yourself with this flow can directly relate to how happy and at peace you are, and we wonder this week, are these two at odds with each other? Can you do both - can you achieve objectives and be one the current of life? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 05 Aug 2017 - 21min - 54 - Do you ever really know someone?
How well do you really know someone? We think we really know the people in our lives, but sometimes, someone will do something that turns that on its ear and makes us wonder if we really ever knew that person at all. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Fri, 28 Jul 2017 - 22min - 53 - What is true?
What can we rely on as true? Are there facts that we can use - without leaning on a belief, that help us to live our lives? Conversely, do we find ourselves in a position of ever-present uncertainty about the world, the universe (and our place in it), and how does this impact the way we function and relate to others? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Thu, 20 Jul 2017 - 24min - 52 - When did I become an adult?
When do we make the transition from the carefree life of a kid to the responsible life of an adult? We all know it happens at some point, but when? Does something happen that forces us into it? Do we have to do it? At some point, do we (or will we) get to be carefree again? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Thu, 13 Jul 2017 - 21min - 51 - Do I have to choose between belief and non-belief?
In the great debate between "There's a God" and "Nope...no God", what if I don't like either choice? Inspired by some lectures by the late great philosopher, Alan Watts, this week we talk about the two predominant models of the universe: one where we/it are the product of some type of creator or intelligence, and one where we/it are part of a natural scientific mechanical process with our question being, do I have to choose between the two? Is there another way to think of it? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Fri, 07 Jul 2017 - 21min - 50 - Why do we get along?
What is the magic that connects you with the people you're closest with? Think of the people closest to you in your life: your best friends, your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend, good buddies... what connects you with them? Is it because you have something in common? If so, then what does that say about the whole “opposites attract” thing? It seems that neither idea captures it completely, so there must be something else - some grand unified theory of what connects us with the people we love to be with - what is it? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Fri, 30 Jun 2017 - 21min - 49 - How much should I worry?
This week, we wonder about worry. To some degree, everybody worries. Some people worry constantly and need medication to help them find some peace, but is there some amount that is useful? Should we try to rid ourselves of worry altogether? Does worry help us to accomplish things in our lives, or does it just get in the way? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Wed, 21 Jun 2017 - 17min - 48 - What one thing do you need to know?
We’re supposed to teach our children well, but teach them what? What one thing do they need to know, above all else? What do I need to know? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 17 Jun 2017 - 23min - 47 - Am I a good dad?
Joe asks Bob and I this week, “what does it mean to be a good dad?”, and the question is not academic, the question is really, ‘Am I a good dad?” The three of us all have children - I have a son, Bob has two sons and two daughters, and Joe has two sons and a one daughter, and we’re wondering, how do we know if we’re making the cut for what is, inarguably, the most important job we have. It is my opinion, and I’m sure Joe and Bob agree, that the moment we had children, everything else dropped away - everything we previously thought was so critical and important is now fighting for a very distant second place - so how do we know if we’re doing by them? I hope you like our conversation - I can’t think of any other that touched such a sensitive nerve so quickly. We’d love to hear your thoughts on it, whether you’re a mom or a dad or not - maybe you can help us all to be better. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Fri, 09 Jun 2017 - 27min - 46 - Would you want to know your expiration date?
Do you want to know when (and how) you'll pass from this world? Death fascinates us, scares us, and depending on what you believe, could be exciting - maybe it is big adventure. Maybe it is absolutely nothing; a nothing that we can’t even imagine (like trying to draw up a memory from before you were born). We wonder why we don’t talk about it. After all...it’s coming. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Thu, 01 Jun 2017 - 21min - 45 - Why do we complain?
Why do we complain? Does it do us any good? Joining us this week we’re very happy to have with us a special guest host. Dr. Tanie Miller Kabala. In addition to her private clinical psychology practice at the West Chester Wellness Center in West Chester, PA, Tanie is the author of the very successful and well-regarded Weight Loss Surgery Coping Companion. Additionally, Tanie recently released an album of meditations and relaxations entitled, Rest and Restore, which is available on iTunes, Amazon, the App Store, and Google Play. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Wed, 24 May 2017 - 22min - 44 - Should I seek happiness or meaning?
What is life all about? I think we could say that life is about being happy. Well, one way to be happy is to do things that you enjoy, right? So this said, if given the time and money, would a life of pleasure for the sake of it make you happy? Or would that get tiresome? Is there a better way that would ultimately lead to a fuller and richer existence? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Wed, 17 May 2017 - 19min - 43 - When should I butt in?
Imagine a situation where someone you're close to is getting a raw deal. How do you know when you should step in to help, or when to let them fight their own battle? If you step in, are you sure you won't cause more harm than good? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Wed, 10 May 2017 - 21min - 42 - Do you support me?
Picture a friend or a family member who is participating in an activity (a sporting event or maybe they’re in a band) and you want to support them. What does that mean? What if you think they’re terrible at that sport or that their music is horrendous, do you still support them? Is your support somehow different now? Flipped around, when you do something, and you’re looking for the support of your friends and family, what are you looking for? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 02 May 2017 - 18min - 41 - Do you trust me?
Of all of the qualities that humans possess, being able to trust someone else may be at the very top. It is the cornerstone of many of our relationships and the reason why we’re able to function together as families, friends, coworkers, and total strangers - we, generally speaking, trust that total strangers won’t harm us, as they can trust us to do the same. So what is trust and how do we build it? What if it is taken from us, can we get it back? What can I do, personally, to make myself trustworthy to others? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Wed, 26 Apr 2017 - 24min - 40 - Can you give feedback to a stranger?
If you noticed something bad or offensive about a stranger - could you tell them about it in an effective way... in a way that would be helpful and well-received? There are loads of books about giving feedback to people who we’re close to, whether they’re family members, friends, or coworkers, but what about people we don’t know? Is there anyway to do this without sounding like a total jerk? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 18 Apr 2017 - 21min - 39 - Are technological conveniences taking over my life?
For many of us, we’re fortunate to live in a time of unprecedented convenience where cars park themselves, home utilities can be managed through your phone, and turning out the lights can be accomplished by simply uttering aloud, “OK Google, ask Alexa to tell Siri to turn the lights off.” But what price do we pay for this convenience? Are we losing something important when we give these seemingly simple or mundane human activities over to technological solutions? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Thu, 13 Apr 2017 - 19min - 38 - Do the clothes make the man?
Do the clothes make the man, or in this case, ‘the Bob.’ This episode starts out with Bob asking a very different question, being “why do we make fun of people”, but what we really find ourselves talking about is clothes - what they say about ourselves and what they make us say about others. We try to figure out how what we wear impacts how we feel, how we treat other people, how we want to feel and be treated, and in the end, are we OK with it all. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 01 Apr 2017 - 20min - 37 - What does it mean to live a balanced life?
Most of us lead incredibly hectic and busy lives, but are we spending our precious and finite time wisely? Are we spending enough time on things that we would say are important and truly worthwhile? Certainly, there are things that we have to do - commitments that we can’t or shouldn’t get around, but do we do a good job of balancing these with things that make our lives meaningful? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here, iTunes, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sat, 25 Mar 2017 - 20min - 36 - Why do people steal?
When a cashier at a store gives you back a little too much change, do you always give it back? This week, we try to understand for ourselves what motivates petty theft. As you’ll hear, some jerks stole from Joe (he tells the story), and we try to understand what could be going on in the head of someone who is taking from someone else (when it isn’t a life or death situation). We usually try to stay away from questions that have been well-researched and already have answers, but with this one we’re trying to come at it from a more personal perspective than an academic or psychological one - what does it mean to us for someone to steal like this and how does it shape our thinking about people who do it? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mon, 20 Mar 2017 - 20min - 35 - Can we agree to disagree?
“Let’s just agree to disagree” is an expression that is commonly heard, but is this ever even possible? Lately, many people here in the US are noticeably divided on a number of very important issues that no one seems to be able to budge on. This said, how can we begin to communicate effectively and find common ground, recognizing that our opinions are coming from very different perspectives? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 14 Mar 2017 - 21min - 34 - Are kids' sports ruining their childhoods?
Are the demands of organized sports today are ruining kids’ childhoods? Far from the informal pick-up games that we were used to as kids, today’s sports are taking up many hours in a kid’s week and can seem to be anything but “just for fun”. Are we wrong to make them do it? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 05 Mar 2017 - 24min - 33 - Are you talking behind my back?
Nobody feels great about being talked about when they're not present (especially when it isn’t good), but we all seem to do it anyway. What keeps us from being direct with the people around us? We see this all the time at work with meetings that rarely take place IN the actual meeting (the real conversation always seems to happen in the halls, cubes, and offices outside the meeting). So what is going on here, and what can we do to make things better? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 28 Feb 2017 - 19min - 32 - Can a bad decision turn good?
This week we try to answer a question from one of our listeners, Joel, who asks, “What if a person makes what is perceived to be a bad decision but it works out. Does that make it a good decision in the end?” He gives the example of a hockey player who makes a super risky pass that almost results in a turnover, but it winds up going to the intended recipient and the team scores…does the coach rip him a new one for the risky pass or is it OK because they scored? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 21 Feb 2017 - 26min - 31 - Am I a sore loser?
There is a lot of losing in life - everything from business deals to relationships to elections, but to many people (especially those who live in Bob’s neck of the woods, Atlanta, GA) the Falcons’ loss to the New England Patriots was truly devastating. Why is this? Why do we seem to need and accept the emotional toll that comes with losing something that we’re not even playing? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 14 Feb 2017 - 20min - 30 - What do you stand for?
What do you stand for in your day-to-day life. What principal do you put yourself at risk for? What stance do you take that could cost you your job? What position do you take that could cost you your life? We recorded this in October of 2016, when San Francisco 49ers QB Colin Kaepernick chose to sit during the playing of the National Anthem at football games in order to protest the treatment of black people and people of color in the United States. This question, though, is even more alive as very recently millions of people protested the inauguration of Donald Trump, and continue to participate in protests on a myriad of issues. As you’ll hear in our discussion, we try to draw a distinct (and tough) line between principals that we quietly and safely support to like-minded individuals, and those that might place us at risk - the ones where we’re really challenging ourselves...what do we stand for? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mon, 30 Jan 2017 - 21min - 29 - What stops me from doing things by myself?
Picture yourself watching a movie in a theater all alone or having dinner in a restaurant by yourself - just you. Does that sound awesome... or like a nightmare? This week’s question is about how free we feel to do exactly what we want to do when we want to do it, and not because some law is stopping us, but because we stop ourselves. If you have a free afternoon - just you...no one else...do you feel free to do exactly what you want to do, or do you stop yourself? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 24 Jan 2017 - 23min - 28 - What's wrong with me?
Often along with the new year come resolutions for self-improvement - a time to take a look at ourselves and commit to improving things in our lives, but do we really focus on the things that matter? Are there areas in our lives that we really should be improving, but we’re blind to them and don’t even know to make resolutions to change them? How can we find out what these things are? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 17 Jan 2017 - 24min - 27 - Why do we ruin a good thing?
Why do we have the propensity to take for granted the good things in our lives to such an extent that we ruin them? Why do we have a tendency to sometimes not cherish the goodness that already exists and instead throw it away for something that may or may not be better? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mon, 09 Jan 2017 - 23min - 26 - What should our lives on Mars look like?
A 2013 story on CNN.com reported that over 100,000 people want to be part of the Mars One project to colonize the red planet beginning in 2022. So you might be really into this...you can never return to Earth, but you’ll be part of a very special society - the first of its kind, so….what should that society look like? What laws do you bring? What rights? Who runs what, and what happens if it starts to fall apart? Presuming it is and international community, which governing philosophy should win out? What language? There is a lot to think about, and 2022 is right around the corner, so what do you think? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 27 Dec 2016 - 17min - 25 - If you could tinker with the genetics of your child, would you?
This episode’s question comes word-for-word from a recent tweet from Peter Diamondis. Peter Diamondis is the Chairmen of the Space X Foundation and generally accepted super forward thinker (along with guys like Elon Musk and Ray Kurzweil). Peter’s tweet points back to his blog, (http://www.diamandis.com/blog/designer-babies). In his blog entry, he points to the absolutely incredible advances in genetics that are here today and some that are only a heartbeat away - things like reproduction without sex, genetically modifying a fetus in the womb, and freezing eggs and sperm in donors’ twenties for use when they’re in their forties. But for all the incredible science that this represents, it comes with huge ethical questions - in some cases, they are the ultimate example of, “just because you can do something, does that mean that you should?”, and where do you draw the line? As you’ll hear, we wrestle with this question - we wonder if there is a slippery slope to things that are absolutely a good idea, to those that are way out of line and doomed to come back and bite us. So what do you think? What else do we need to think of that we’re missing? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 20 Dec 2016 - 26min - 24 - How do I catch the holiday spirit?
So here it is... mid December - the most wonderful time of the year, but we see more people frazzled and stressed and anything but jolly - anything but excited about the holidays. If you go online and search for ways to get into the spirit, you’ll find lots of tips like “bake cookies” or “organize an ugly sweater party”, but man, we need a lot more than that, so how can we get into the holiday spirit? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mon, 12 Dec 2016 - 18min - 23 - Do you want to know what people think about you?
If we could know what people really think about us, would we want to know? A knee-jerk response might be, “absolutely I want to know!”, but if the feedback isn’t good, then it may mean that I have to change something about myself. Joining us this week is a very special guest host, Dr. Tanie Miller Kabala. Dr Kabala is a speaker, author and practicing clinical psychologist. In addition to her private practice at the West Chester Wellness Center in West Chester, PA, Tanie is the author of The Weight Loss Surgery Coping Companion as well as an album of meditations and relaxations entitled, Rest and Restore, which is available on iTunes, Amazon, the App Store, and Google Play. Check her out! She is awesome! Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 29 Nov 2016 - 24min - 22 - What is love?
What is love? We’ve talked a lot about love on this show - we’ve referenced it, said things depend on it, and had whole shows about it (last season's Can you love everyone?), but we never talked before about what it is. Should be an easy answer, right? Hmm. Maybe not. Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Tue, 22 Nov 2016 - 21min - 21 - What am I afraid of?
What are you afraid of? Maybe you're afraid of being fired, or of not being good enough or that maybe you'll be forced to change something. Maybe you're afraid to die. How much does fear in your life drive your decisions? If you wanted to, could you stop it? Check out the conversation and then let us know what you think at obviousquestion.wordpress.com or on our FaceBook page @obviousquestion Subscribe to The Obvious Question podcast here or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sun, 13 Nov 2016 - 30min - 20 - What if you had three wishes?
What if you came across a magic lamp and were granted three wishes? What would you wish for? Would you wish for a million dollars? (maybe a little selfish?) Would you wish to cure cancer? Well if you do, then what about all of the other diseases (there are a lot more of them out there than 3 wishes can cover). What would you wish for?
Sun, 10 Apr 2016 - 27min - 19 - Am I in control of my life?
Do we control our lives, or does life control us? Work or school is insanely busy, our kids gets sick, traffic is bad so we run late, and all the while, our email inboxes grow and grow. If we could just get ahead of it all, then everything might seem OK - we could finally find some peace….so how can we do it?
Sat, 02 Apr 2016 - 30min - 18 - What does it mean to be a good friend?
What makes a true friend? How does it happen, and what does it mean? How can we be better friends to the people in our own lives?
Sat, 19 Mar 2016 - 27min - 17 - Why do Mondays suck?
Mondays are the worst, but Fridays are awesome. Saturday is even better. Why? What is so different about Monday that it becomes almost a universally dreaded day. In fact, Monday is so horrible, that for many of us, we start hating it while it is still Sunday - we call it the Sunday Blues. Now, your mind is probably conjuring up very real and obvious answers to this obvious question, but the thing is ..we’re not OK with it, so we’re going to dive in and figure out how to make it stop. We want to love Mondays just as much as any other day, regardless of our jobs.
Sat, 12 Mar 2016 - 22min - 16 - How do I talk to my teen?
How we can keep connected with our teenage children during a period when they may not want to be connected anymore?
Sun, 06 Mar 2016 - 25min - 15 - What's a risk everyone should take?
In this life, nothing ventured is nothing gained, right? If you’re going to really live a life, then you have to ante-up - you have to put something at stake, so what’s something that everyone should risk?
Sun, 28 Feb 2016 - 18min - 14 - Do you want to know?
Is it better to live a life full of awareness (awareness of ourselves, the world around us and how we fit) or to just do our thing...enjoy what we enjoy...do what we want to do. Awareness might seem to be the right path, but with awareness comes responsibility - I may have to do something with it once I have it.
Sun, 21 Feb 2016 - 22min - 13 - Where does talent come from?
What is talent? Where does it come from? Is hard work and dedication enough, or is talent innate - you got it or you don't? And if we can zero in on where talent comes from, can we foster it in the people around us?... can we foster it in our children? (And here is where it can get sticky...) Should we foster it in our kids, even if they hate the thing that we’ve discovered them to be talented in?
Sun, 14 Feb 2016 - 31min - 12 - I'm sorry?
How do you say “I’m sorry?” How do you apologize? So often, we run into situations where we have to own up to something hurtful that we’ve done to someone else, and the words “I’m sorry” just don’t cut it. Going the other way, there are times when we feel wronged, and making it right will take a lot more than just some lame “sorry”. So what should you say? How can you make it right?
Sun, 07 Feb 2016 - 30min - 11 - Is the sky falling?
Can a stupid internet joke point to something much worse about our society? Are we if already witnessing signs that the best days of our culture are behind us?
Sun, 31 Jan 2016 - 32min - 10 - What does it mean to be you?
What does it mean to be yourself...to be real...to be authentic. Ever since we’re little, we’re told that a foolproof strategy for feeling good about ourselves in just about any situation is to “just be yourself”, but what does that mean? It seems simple, but is it?
Sun, 24 Jan 2016 - 26min - 9 - Where do jerks come from?
Where does the road rage driver or the rude guy at the store come from? Who are they, and what role do we play when we're the ones who are being jerks?
Sun, 17 Jan 2016 - 27min - 8 - What would you do if you had enough?
If given more of whatever we think we’d need (money, time, anything at all) would we change how we live, or would we keep on doing exactly what we’re doing.
Sun, 10 Jan 2016 - 21min - 7 - Is it just business, or is it personal?
Are we different people at work than we are at home? When we power-up our company laptops or scan our badges to enter the office, do we leave a part of ourselves on the outside? Should we leave a part of ourselves on the outside? The corporate world uses an all-too-familiar term of “work/life balance”, so….what’s the right balance?
Sun, 03 Jan 2016 - 28min - 6 - Is it ever OK to lie?
Is there ever a time - big or small, important or not, when it is ok to look someone straight in the eye and lie to them? What if the truth is harmful? A special note about this episode if you’re listening to it with kids around...we don’t swear (or if we do, we edit it out), but (SPOILER ALERT) we talk about a major holiday tradition that is, essentially, steeped in a big fat rosy cheeked jolly lie. So...you know...maybe get headphones.
Fri, 18 Dec 2015 - 30min - 5 - So...What do you do?
How do you answer the question, “What do you do?” Or better yet...how should you answer it? What's your elevator speech about yourself? How do you define yourself in a way that feels right and accurate?
Sun, 13 Dec 2015 - 29min - 4 - Can we love everyone?
Does our ability to love have limits, and what does it mean to love unconditionally? In other words, are there some people who just plain don’t deserve to be loved?
Sun, 06 Dec 2015 - 27min - 3 - If you have nothing to live for, do you die?Sun, 29 Nov 2015 - 18min
- 2 - How do you listen to someone you can't stand?
How do you interact with someone who you fundamentally disagree with. How do you move forward, especially when you have to (maybe you work with them or live with them), when what you think is polar opposite to what they think.
Sun, 22 Nov 2015 - 25min - 1 - Are digital communications killing face-to-face communications?
Are today's communications tools (like social media) killing our ability to connect with each other in a real way?
Sat, 14 Nov 2015 - 22min
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